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bpdamn · 1 month

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so y‘all are telling me that i went from not being able to leave my apartment without having a panic attack to working as a barista and content creator (for the café) - i‘d kms just thinking about putting myself out there a year ago what the fuckidyfuck happened

#i know working as a barista isn’t a big deal for most people #but it’s a huge deal for me as i wasn’t even able to go grocery shopping without dissociating or having a panic attack back then #there were days where i just accepted that i will not eat cause i literally didn’t have anything at home #and as i said i couldn’t get out of my apartment for the life of me #so ye it is a huge step for me lol #like i still very much can’t breathe omw to work cause PEOPLE #but apparently once i‘m there i‘m doing good cause i even got asked to be the manager 💀💀💀#and.. i got called extroverted #PEOPLE THINK IM EXTROVERTED??#personal

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wakanai · 24 days

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#i feel so isolated #i can talk to people #but it's hard for me to find someone i can genuinely connect with #hard for me to converse in interesting conversation with people i find interesting #i was in a group setting a while ago #talking w “friends” (not close friends; but still 'friends')#it was ok #the thing is #i don't particularly like my friends #like im not that invested. it's hard for me to find people i connect with enough to be invested in and vice versa #it's most likely a 'me' thing #i think its because of a lack of communication skills that its hard for me to find connection/make friends that i rlly like and etc #ironically the friends i do like are always extroverts and i always feel like i care more about them than they do #because they have sm friends whom they're close to and genuinely connected with meanwhile i struggle with even making 1 connection that #doesn't drain me/makes me happy/keeps me stimulated #so when i do find that 1 person i become attached and want to be closer to them #and when that happens idk i remind myself that they dont care for me as much #and i try not to be too clingy so as not to annoy them #i want to be closer to them though. we have our own friend groups but still #school for me is overall quite lonely. my 2 close friends are in another school #there's only a few people in class that i enjoy talking to #the only one (the 'main' one) that's my friend is the extrovert i mentioned a while ago #and for some reason im getting flashbacks or trauma from my past friendship #because as of now we're just classroom friends #and in my past friendship. i was also invested in that homegirl. but..we drifted apart T-T #its quite sad #i feel lonely #i want to be better at bond making and connections because #its miserable #vent

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playingplayer2 · 5 months

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Someday I want to just. Collect as many ENTPs as I can and stick us into a group chat on whatever platform and just watch the chaos unfold.

Unfortunately that would require actually talking to people online. Which I chronically Cannot Do

#entp #im also? very used to getting adopted by small groups of introverts and as wonderful as i am at socializing with people at the grovery store #or fabric/crafts store or wherever #the moment im behind a screen my brain exits the room #but also i think itd be fucking funny to see the chaos unfurl bc my bestie is an entp and im an entp #and we're chaotic as is- id like to the see the results multiplied.#i hardly ever have to resort to extrovert adoptions bc im typically the extrovert being adopted

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spearxwind · 11 months

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#sorry cringe post #i have to find out whether this guy has washboard abs or not asap bc if he does ill be taking the piss. taking home a double L #but other than that OH NO HES MEETING ALL MY STANDARDS #me; yeah i hate it when people mistreat their fish bc they dont look up their requirements #him; people killing their pet fish from negligence makes me so mad #me; i think i need to marry you #(i didnt actually say that)#on the other hand hes someone who loves loves going out a lot and im more of a chill person and im a little houhhhg about that bc its like.#damn what if im too boring 😔😔😔😔#do you think love can bloom on the battlefield meme but instead its #do you think love can bloom between a party monster extrovert and a weird little artist freak (me)#i guess we'll find out

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so2uv · 16 days

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my irl said i give off sun vibes and i couldn't help but think about how ive been told im similar to the moon but i think it's interesting to know how my person switches

#💭. mutters !#people think im an extrovert but im just suffering from a mix of 'is adopted' + 'only child' syndrome :skull:#it's easy for me to calm and my more natural voice is softer but people don't usually see that because im trying to keep with the crowd #it's easier faking more energy than it is to live a life of calmness at school #also bc if i suddenly switch to the default personality people will think something is wrong bc im never like that 💀#shot myself in the foot here

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crymeariveronceagain · 1 year

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it's LATE

#this is why i think im an extrovert sometimes #i go talk to people #and im like wow #i could do this all day #i could do this all night #i have so much energy #i could rule the world #wooo #personal #not fandom content

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k0kichiimagines · 1 year

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i hate writing cvs and teachers r useless at help i love them and i appreciate it but "i have no skills to put on my cv what should i put" - "aww no everyone has skills just think of something"

#SAME WITH REFERENCES #like i dont know people #it reminds me of when i tried to ask for another way to do a piece of homework because you needed to ask multiple people things #and my teacher refused to believe that i truly did not have a single friend to ask #and then finally went ok but said to ask other kids in my class #ma'am i had a panic attack after texting someone a simple message i truly cannot physically do that without passing out #i did not do the homework i couldnt be bothered to make up answers #so much of psychology was that though lol i just had to make up friends and answers #thats so humiliating to admit actually #see i used to be so sad that i didnt have friends but im not rlly anymore / srs #i havent had friends in years let alone close friends #i decided to stop trying it only ever results in stress for me lol #i dont even knkw what to talk about #like people dont rlly care about ur goals or interests or sharing theres or hobbies like what do we even do #its more lonely to have friends then not i think #and it does suck being alone but you get used to it even if ur extroverted and drained like me LMAO #its not like im anti social i just dont put myself out there #i want to live in a city apartment and fill it with pretty things #and learn an instrument #and get a pet #it's 2am im rambling im tired LMAO

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wingsandpetals · 3 months

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in a bizarre turn of events i actually realized recently i kind of do have a lot of friends, at least work friends

#our post comrade.#i was talking to my coworker and i was like but i dont think anyone here actualy thinks of me as a friend. nobody talks to me outside ofwor #and he said that it counts. granted hes also a big extrovert the kind that thinks of everybody as his friend i think #and my manager was asking me today who i wanted to invite bowling #and like a whole bunch of names just tumbled out of my mouth. maybe i do have friends. maybe im just too pessimistic to see it.#i don't know. i still wish i had people who want to see me outside of work. its not really the same #but they DO want to see me. they said theyd come bowling with me. for my birthday.#ive never had anyone celebrate my birthday like this. or act this excited for it. i dont really know how to react.#theyve been asking me all week if im excited. i think theyre excited. i dont know #i guess what im saying is im really touched

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trinitycove · 4 months

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Bf has been home for 2 weeks with a minor injury and I am the type of woman who needs major space so I have been frustrated.

Today he is back to work and I have the apartment to myself. Glorious alone time!

#me #ambivert #introvert things #i lean introverted but have extroverted traits too #most people do not believe i am an introvert #because i don't show exhaustion from socializing until im alone #and im like a chameleon #because once im in a social setting i have been told i am the life of the party #always shocks me because i have social anxiety and agoraphobia too #i think maybe this is my fear response #to fawn #to people please

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23meteorstreet · 1 year

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just wanna draw & watch movies but i feel guilty unless i leave the house & try to be around people

#so upsetting that moving didnt turn me into some extrovert who instantly makes friends with everyone & hates being at home #instead i just have a lot of anxiety & sensory overload 😭#i dont even wanna go to meetup groups or be around ppl but i feel like a pos for not having friends #somebody from bumble bff invited me to hang out tomorrow but im kinda nervous #but i know literally no one here & i feel like i need to be more open so idk!!#wish this stuff was easy for me #unfortunately i think all the people i could be good friends with probably also just wanna stay in their house all the time 🥲

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miscellaneous-folder · 7 months

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sometimes i swear yall forget extroverts can have social anxiety too

#like just cuz i can talk to a bunch of people doesn’t mean my hands aren’t shaking #if yall could feel my arms when im giving a presentation you would think there was an earthquake #seismic waves fr #do not mistake composure for ease #or whatever that quote is #believe me i’m sitting awake at 3am thinking about my every interaction too #and some of you introverts are so hypocritical when yall say that extroverts are loud and annoying #because you’ve been told your too quiet and shy #why do we feel the need to put down others to feel better about ourselves #it’s not relatable it’s mean #i’m sorry extroverts have been POS to yall but u don’t gotta be POS back #extrovert #extroversion #introvert #introversion

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sydmarch · 1 year

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I wouldn't say "intimidating" in like a traditional sense (to me)... But I think you're really cool and cool people make me nervous! Haha!

that's fair!

#insane that people on tumblr think im cool. not that *i* dont think im cool im very cool. in real life where im an extrovert who #goes out in fun outfits and such. tumblr is where i come to let my uncool side oht LOL #anon #ask

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pepprs · 1 year

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having some time alone in the hotel this week (which is abt to end bc we’re moving back home tmrrw even though the renovation isn’t finished 🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪) and being able to have the bedroom to myself has made me think rebellious thoughts my family would be very offended over. like maybe i listened to less and less music these last few years due in part to the fact that ive spentmore time at home than i used to and i also lived on campus w roommates in a very uncomfortable arrangement and im unable to move freely about the cabin when im living w other ppl whose needs don’t align w mine and so ive just gotten used to not having all of my needs met and always being the person to take the short end of the stick…. but i actually need to be able to sing and dance and draw and do whatever and when im alone (which is almost never) im able to do that and that’s actually legit and as important as anyone else’s needs in a space i share w them. idk if i worded that well but yeah

#like yes it’s definitely that ive been depressed… but maybe that dynamic creates the depression. you know?#purrs #delete later #not to say this bc it’s BLASPHEMOUS but i was also thinking abt this in the context of my bday. i was happiest in the moments where i was ei #either alone (dancing / singing / whatever and doing karaoke w mtself at 2am LOLLLL and just enjoying having peace and quiet and being able #to do what i wanted) or at work (around ppl i choose to be with in a place i choose to be in). any time i was around my family i was #agitated and annoyed and maybe some of it has to do w the renovation and the fact that we were at home for like 4 hrs moving furniture bc of #the renovation but also… maybe it’s just i don’t enjoy spending ng time w them as much as i do other things. like passively spending time at #around them bc there’s ALWAYS noise or conversation or bickering or whatever. and also in part bc i share my bday w my twin sister so its #not actually *my* day it’s ours and we’re lumped together and treated as a unit and my parents have expectations abt that and whatever. idk.#i don’t want to be / sound selfish or ungrateful for my family or whatever bc being a twin has its perks and my family situation could be so #much worse and it’s not like i had a horrible birthday or it wasn’t acknowledged or whatever. but my point is… what if… there will come a #point in my life… where the majority of things i do / people im around / aspects of my environment are things i get to choose or at the very #least have a say in. what if someday my birthday can just be my birthday and not OUR birthday(which again is the evilest most horrible thing #i have ever said in my life i know i know i know but ummmmm being a twin has dealt some significant psychological damage to me and i am #still figuring out how to be an independent person and how to determine who i am outside of the context of that relationship which most ppl #at this age / stage in life have already had years to do). idk what i was saying i lost the thread but basically: i love having alone time #where i am truly alone and i get to sing and dance and make music and eat and whatever without being yelled at or having to be quiet or #getting overstimulated. and that is not to say that i do not appreciate company or would not want to live with other people. i think im #actually kind of an ambivert now where i used to be very extroverted. but i think my biggest thing is choice. i value choice so so so much.#which is ironic in some ways bc here i am not wanting to like mess up the original layout of my acnh island… idk. it’s situational but i thi #think w the big stuff choicemeans so much to me. and i wish that was more okay to my family than it is bc asserting myself and growing into #my independence has been and will continue to be an extremely painful and unpleasant process bc no one is happy w it lol. ok ive been talkin #talking A LOT more than i thought i would and i still have more thoughts but i need to stop and keep packing out the hotel lol. bye #‘being a twin has its perks’ sounds so terrible omg. i meant that like.. it is a gift to be a twin and i love my sister. AND there are parts #of it that fucking suck ass and hopefully those parts will recede once we are living separate lives and have gotten distance from dynamics

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genderwoods · 9 months

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this may be controversial but if someone asked me what the most autistic aa character is i wouldnt say apollo justice or miles edgeworth. i would say athena cykes. and i would be right.

#i think people disregard her autism coding bc she has a sunny personality and is extroverted and excited #and thats like. adhd steriotype but common #im not saying she cant be also adhd! i just dont think its right to ignore the obvious hint that she is also autistic #especially when theyre talking abt her childhood #aa

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sandinmybed · 1 year

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hmm

#i think i worked out why i dont love jancy #i cant be doing loner characters #i can relate to almost every character type EXCEPT the type of character that isnt really interested in having friends #jon n nancy both only really have like one friend at a time and honestly post s2 its each other.#im too extroverted for that shit i thrive best in a group of like four others minimum #text #probs why i like byler more (also i love Yearning and gay people) they both like having a bunch of friends

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bootlickerhawks · 2 years

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i dont understand people that call dabihawks a "sun and moon" ship

#i've seen that being said so many times on tumblr and twitter and it boggles my mind #the sun part i could see cuz hawks and dabi cuz of icarus and apollo symbolism #BUT MOON???#the meaning of the moon card in tarot fits both characters pretty well but i dont think thats what those people are thinking when they-#-call dbhkws a sun and moon ship #the only other explanation i could see is that they use it as a shorthand for extrovert/introvert ship #but thats a reductive (and inaccurate imo) way of looking at their characters #i know im bitching over nothing but it always bothers me to see people oversimplify complex and interesting characters (especially ones-#-that i really like)#also if i see someone call hawks a ''sunshine'' character one more time istg

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