Yesterday was Mothers Day in Canada and given that I work at a restaurant, we got to see a lot of families "celebrating" the occasion. And Gyns, when I tell you men are fucking worthless!!

One family came in, mom, dad, grandma, and two young kids. Probably three and five, if I had to guess. As soon as they get in, Dad plops himself down at the table and immerses himself in the menu while Mom takes the kids to the bathroom. Ignoring the fact that Dad could have easily taken his little boy to the men's room to help use the toilet, or at least tried to help in any way. Nope. He just sat and looked at the menu. Then when their food came, it was mom and grandma feeding the kids, making sure they sat still, wiped their faces so they weren't sticky, and actually got the food into their mouths. Dad ate his burger in peace without lifting a finger.

Next family, grandparents, parents, three kids. Two preteens/early teenagers and one kid who was like, 8. Dad and grandpa busy themselves in conversation and don't even acknowledge their wives and children. At one point, grandma asked Grandpa is he wanted to share the fish and chips with her and he completely ignored her. I repeated the question "are we sharing the fish and chips" and he just laughed to Dad about how women always eat your food. I offered to have the cook prepare a 1 pc fish and chips portion for grandma, using a smaller cut of fish, because our portions are big.

Third family, mom and dad with two toddlers. The kids are crazy, they can't sit still at all. I offer that we have some play equipment outside and they can play out there while their food cooks and I'll wave them down when it's ready. So mom goes out to the playground with the kids while Dad sits and enjoys his beer. I bring the food to the table when it's ready and go to wave down Mom and the babies. By the time she manages to get them inside and seated, Dad's halfway done his meal, he couldn't be arsed to wait for them.

Fourth family, mom and dad with two kids, elementary school aged. Kids order their meal and run off to the playground to play with the other kids, so mom and dad have a chance to relax. Mom and I get talking about our beer menu while Dad scrolls on his phone. She orders her drink and he just adds that he'll have what she'd having. I bring the drinks and they're enjoying those when the food comes. Guess who gets up to get the kids. Is it dad? Nope!! Mom again! And once again, dad starts eating before she gets back.

We had tons of families in and it was rare to see the fathers actually take an active role in parenting their children or actually helping their wives. There were a few! And they were great! Like the dad that took his toddler daughters to the play equipment so his wife could enjoy her mimosa and cheesecake in peace. But they were few and far between. So my ladies out there thinking about partnering up with a man and having children, do so with the knowledge that even on a day meant to celebrate you, your husband likely won't step up to the plate. You'll still be the one in charge of tending to everything while your husband sits in his ass and reaps the benefits of your work.

Women are always whining about potentially painful biological functions and sexism but as a man role-playing I think it's really fun!

okay but this mila kunis/ashton kutcher bullshit is a great point towards something we should all be paying attention to... someone saying they're a feminist is not enough.

liberal feminism has created this culture where the worst, scummiest people can adopt woke language and use it to hide behind.

a man can accuse you of being exclusive and discriminatory for not wanting to fuck him.

the meanest mean girl can call being a good person "emotional labour" and claim that she just doesn't have the "spoons" to be kind to others.

an abuser can use every bdsm buzzword in the book to avoid admitting that the only thing that gets him off is the pain and humiliation of his partners.

mila kunis and ashton kutcher have spent years saying the right things, at the right times. they've declared themselves feminists. they've supported whatever rainbow capitalism hollywood liberal bullshit was trending.

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and they still wrote those letters supporting their rapist friend.

it doesn't matter what your fave celebrities say they support.

are they putting their money where their mouth is? are they going out on a limb to support victims of the industry, even when the perpetrators are hollywood legends? are they cancelling women who won't stay quiet? are they still working with abusers?

words don't mean shit anymore. actions are what matter.

The pathetic idea that women will stoop down to men’s same level of suicidal ideation or violence when we see someone who is considered conventionally attractive by the opposite sex. We do not care.

We are not killing ourselves when we see images on the internet of computer generated women😭

“OP is a TERF.”

Of course OP is a “terf”. Who else is actually going to meaningfully discuss women’s oppression? Libfems? Give me a fucking break. Y’all make good points sometimes, but panic and start frantically backpedaling every time a man objects or someone you dislike agrees with you.

we should start commenting "op is a TRA" under random posts

Hey Gyns. So, there are accounts making their rounds on Radblr about how us Radfems are just mad cause we don't look as good as TIMs, we can't get "girldick", whatever. Just ignore them. They want attention, they are like toddler throwing tantrums. Don't engage, don't play their game. Just leave them alone.

Don't try to reason with them, they don't care about logic. If you want to make fun of them, screenshot and make your own post, don't give them the notes they so desperately crave. Stay safe babes

“op is a terf btw” thank you for recommending me another gorgeous & correct womyn to follow

Scientists helping scientists on their gender journey.

i would pay good money for some TRAs to justify this as a legitimate identity. like if you can explain this in a way that proves this shit is not a fetish i will venmo you or some shit

Ladies who else starts giggling and feels their boobs swell and has a need to start scratching things when they’re aroused…..

the fat characters who blew up and flew away were child abusers….

also not every fat character in hp is a villain, yall will grasp at any straw to accuse jkr of being an evil fascist nazi who wants to genocide anyone who is different

trans people aren’t hurting you by existing, and you need to get over your disgust. trans women are women. trans women are not empowered by patriarchy. you should learn more about how patriarchy and imperialism both intersect and oppress gender nonconforming people across cultures. also, king lilith and king astarte have penises sometimes, grow up.

they do hurt me as a woman, gender identity does not exist and does not change the reality of their sex. women are opressed because of their SEX. even in the old, war times, trans women weren't opressed the same way as a woman, because they are not women. trans women still have the priviliges of a man growing up, and there is something called biology. the gender, sex someone is raised with completely changes their mindset, and trans women reinforce gender roles by trying to constantly feminize themselves. their whole gender identity depends on the way other people perceive them. society clearly thinks anything pink and cute is a woman thing and anything blue, harsh, wtv. is a man thing.

i CANNOT believe that i surprise people so much by saying the most normal stuff like, oh yeah a woman has a vagina and a man has a penis and their gender identity has got nothing to do with it because we socially constructed those things. trans women love to act as if women never get opressed bc he is a man and obviously won't understand but sure come and teach me what it means to be a woman because clearly you know better.

trans women are one of the most misogynistic ppl that i have ever met and nothing can change it. trans community opresses women and changes the definition of being a women constantly, what the fuck is a 'girl dick' or all those weird, sexualised kink terms. these ppl made it wrong and 'terfy' to say women have vaginas. that women are afab. wtf man.

also you tell me to grow up but you hide behind your little anon ask. if you got the balls, you would have sent this properly but ifc, little tras can never change lmao.

also Lady Lilith and Queen Astarte does not have dicks. stop trying to make everyone trans and all that shit. these are GODS. you are disrespectful and don't know what you are talking about. why do you care so much about a god having a penis or a vagina, they are a god, none of those matters. i wonder how you even worship demons with that mindset or if you even know what you're talking about. embarrassing.

TIFs claim to not understand sex-based oppression & still have an issue with “AMABS”:

TIMs claim to not understand sex-based oppression & still know exactly who to threaten with sexual violence: