This stuff reminds me of the fact that men are more likely to leave their wives/partners who developed a serious illness like cancer than women are to leave male partners who suffer the same misfortune.
It's because there's not an expectation for men to reciprocate women's labor whether it be emotional or domestic in a so-called partnership. so a lot of women end up married to men who are pretty much leeches and who do not like them very much.
I don't know if someone has already posted this but this is exactly why other women tell you not to quit everything to become a stay at home mother. Tradwife shit is absolute fantasy. You are dependent on your husband for everything. He can leave you with nothing if he wants and you will be left to struggle unless you get a prenup and most of them would be offended that you would even suggest a prenup.
The comments are telling. These women didn't "choose wrong", they were lied to and convinced that they could depend on their significant other.