I want the likes of Ash Sarkar who aggressively fought to change a BBC headline about trans identifying men harassing lesbians on dating apps and in real life to stare every single one of these women in their face and tell them that the male who victimized them is "NoT RePrEsEnTaTiVe oF ThE CoMmUnItY".

when you tell people that not enabling homophobes is a hate crime then you are complicit in this. when you prevent people from trusting what they see because what they see is not what some mentally ill abuser "feels" that they are you are complicit in this.

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100% for real, this lil fash shithead has no idea, but this is such an absolutely perfect encapsulation of how the squalid institution of hetero marriage under capitalism is. Marx could not have phrased it better himself.

This is what they have in mind as the ideal, as the institution that the state is supposed to revolve around. All the means testing, tax shit, etc etc etc All the medieval fuckery that treats people who aren't married as different from people who aren't. This is what it comes down to.

Whoever invented "open in app" links that redirect you to the app store instead of actually opening the app even when you already have the app installed on your phone should be involuntarily turned into a beanbag chair

Gwen Stefani is 54 and Blake Shelton is 47. Waiting too long to have a kid together is not infertility.

Gwen Stefani and her husband Blake Shelton want to have a baby through surrogacy.

A source spilled to the National Enquirer, “Gwen and Blake have been wanting a baby of their own for years now.”

“They’ve had surrogates on board, but something always seems to fall through at the last minute. It’s been a struggle,” shared an insider.

Gwen , who has three children with her ex-husband Gavin Rossdale, revealed thet they had been trying to get pregnant before their 2021 wedding.

Another source revealed that the couple had “ no luck with conventional methods, the pair looked to surrogacy”.

“They’ve even talked to other celebrities who’ve used surrogates successfully, like Nick Jonas, whom they befriended on The Voice,” remarked an insider.

However, nothing has worked out as other source revealed, “It must be a complicated situation.”

“Maybe something just didn’t feel right for Gwen or Blake or both of them,” continued another source,

The source told the outlet, “In one instance, friends say Gwen wanted to use a surrogate in California and Blake wanted someone far removed from Hollywood.”

In another case, the surrogate “backed out because of the pressure. When it doesn’t work out, it’s wrenching for Gwen and Blake”.

“They both want to connect with the surrogate because there’s a lot at stake,” stated an insider.

The source added, “It’s a huge commitment and they just want to get it right.”

“While this whole process has been extremely difficult for them, it’s really brought them closer together,” mentioned an insider.

The source stated, “Blake just wants Gwen to be happy and she wants the same for him. She knows he desperately wants to be a dad.”

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“Our brains were two million years in the making. That long, slow accretion doubled our cranial capacity. And the first thing we did with it was say thank you. We drew the megafauna and the megafemales, sculpted and carved them. The oldest known figurative sculpture is the Goddess of Hohle Fels, and 40,000 years ago someone spent hundreds of hours carving Her. There is no mystery here, not to me: the animals and the women gave us life. Of course they were our first, endless art project. Awe and thanksgiving are built into us, body and brain. Once upon a time, we knew we were alive. And it was good. 

And now we leave the realm of miracles and enter hell. 

Patriarchy is the ruling religion of the planet. It comes in variations―some old, some new, some ecclesiastical, some secular. But at bottom, they are all necrophilic. Erich Fromm describes necrophilia as “the passion to transform that which is alive into something unalive; to destroy for the sake of destruction; the exclusive interest in all that is purely mechanical.” In this religion, the worst sin is being alive, and the carriers of that sin are female. Under patriarchy, the female body is loathsome; its life-giving fat-cells vilified; its generative organs despised. Its natural condition is always ridiculed: normal feet must be turned into four-inch stubs; rib cages must be crushed into collapse; breasts are varyingly too big or too small or excised entirely. That this inflicts pain―if not constant agony―is not peripheral to these practices. It’s central. When she suffers, she is made obedient.” 

― Lierre Keith, ‘The Girls and the Grasses’ 

all the young girls who think that mirroring men's pornsickness and LARPing as brainless & easygoing is freeing from expectations to have to constantly prove your value as a woman or whatever which are annoying and I agree with them on that -- are still fucking women as a sex over. It is not freeing to do beauty labor; It is not freeing to feel compelled to beauty labor because you feel like you lose value if you don't. none of this shit is freeing, It's another cage you can't just drop this shit and choose something with more dignity. you're trapped in that role

yes i hate girl dinner and i hate [blank] girl trends but for a reason.

women are not allowed to be complex. women are not allowed to be nuanced or dynamic like men are. like.. misogynists believe that women aren’t capable of the same level of thought as men. to misogynists, women are only as deep as whatever category they’ve sorted them in.like they think people can’t be anything else besides their Category of Woman. and that’s what i hate about EVERYTHING on the internet right now is people are just.. accepting it? and making their own categories with more and more extreme brainrotting behaviors??? like, even the most Average Male is assumed to have depth and intelligence but the most interesting women are just “rat girls” or “clean girls” like GUYS!!! THAT IS KEEPING YOU DUMB!

like, being a woman is so complex. you are never just one type of Girl. stop letting the world believe you are nothing more than one type of Girl. you are a woman who is capable of literally anything.

and i also hate it because it’s a trend and all trends are consumerist and i hate money and capitalism. so two reasons.

"No climate justice on occupied land"

A “trans girl” posted in the PCOS reddit page and is getting absolutely clowned in the comments.

Cute kitties

internalized homophobia is a mental illness... just like anxiety and depression are mental illnesses, both of which are probably involved in cases where women cannot envision being happy as women. It's why that stupid gender dysphoria diagnosis exists.

Really love this teen hangout by Rivercute @ the gallery.

Had some issues with inifinate loading screens after placing the lot, but that's finally sorted (it turned out to be my default supernatural eyes for some reason?!), so now I can finally use it in my nlc.

Imagine if I said: I’m black because I eat watermelon, do manual labor, and enjoy speaking w AAVE so that makes me an African American. I’m a black person 😁

Rather than saying: I’m black because I was born this way. Because my parents are. When I was born they looked at my skin and said hey that lines up 👍🏽 Doesn’t mean it’s my assigned race at birth. Doesn’t mean there should be any assumptions about my personality that come with that. And it definitely doesn’t mean that if I was born with a defect like say, albinism, I would no longer be a black person.

TRAs acting like the race analogy holds no truth is just a weird silencing tactic through their wrongly assumed superiority on social justice issues. You’re speaking right over black women who are sitting here telling you that sometimes identities CANNOT CHANGE. And attempting to do so into an oppressed class is incredibly offensive. Start treating trans identified males the way y’all treat Rachel dolezal; as a fucking joke.

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I love how he thinks that right-wing grifters who agree with feminists that gender cannot override sex in the law and that men cannot become women are who she allies with. 🙂 she's so tirelessly polite when she takes the time to explain to these disingenuous fuckheads what the reality is when I would just tell them to fuck off because you cannot have the same conversation hundreds of times a fucking year cuz you're dealing willfully ignorant assholes.