women will literally accuse women and esp lesbian circles of "not unpacking ""man-hating""" alleged ""misandry" sweetie xo" getting offended ppl aren't appropriately uplifting how "men are amazing and awesome and attractive and i won't be shamed for thinking so" as if appreciating men is a real counter opinion than blame whatever gave women of every sexuality instance to be jaded weary cautious and tired and who'll complain every now and then and continue on with her life until she dies putting up with patriarchy. just welcome to the "woke" internet where misogyny's over and "man-hate" "shamed for not hating men" is worth springing to defences for
yeah i've only seen people talk like men's rights activists and think they're being unbelievably progressive on tumblr it's kind of fascinating. like i can see how seeing people hate on men could mess with people and stuff but you can't demand men appreciation posts that's literally the whole world outside of idk your tumblr dash (or even on your tumblr dash because fandom misogyny from people who think they're not misogynistic at all is really something). men get praised for "babysitting" their own kids like be serious? it's very let men be masculine
i don't think being like men are soooo gross and we hate them is actually constructive and it can definitely veer into transphobia (you'll always be a man/"a male" and thus a danger to women/why would you ever want to become a man they're the enemy and the bane of society etc) and homophobia relatively quickly?
but the way people ON TUMBLR ""combat that"" is often so off to me like if the most basic feminist principles offend you then i'm not really sure where to go from here. i remember seeing a post that was like "men aren't your enemy. they're your friend/brother/father/colleague/neighbor" with a lot of notes and like i don't know how to tell you this but that's literally who's most likely to harm a woman, the men she knows?😭 and obviously not every system of oppression is exactly the same but would you say the same thing to someone criticizing white people like...just very weird
i think women who are attracted to men and dating them making jokes about how they only tolerate being attracted to men because they have no choice and especially the whole i'm bi so i love every woman and only find 1 in a 1000 men attractive (very often said while in a relationship with a man) thing is obnoxious and annoying for like everyone who has to hear it lmao but also when women who date men make jokes about it (not about them being ugly or unattractive or whatever but about them being bad partners in general) it's like. what else are they going to do like you said they're gonna endure patriarchy for the rest of their lives and as girlfriends/wives/mothers they go through the most it's very bleak? idk. it's not like you can date a better man yourself out of patriarchy
of course men aren't a all as bad as the worst guy you can imagine and they're not all out to get you or whatever but saying things like "men don't all benefit from the patriarchy rich men benefit from the patriarchy but jake, 23, is not oppressing you" is like. kind of insane. jake, 14, was oppressing me like have you never interacted with boys in school😭 and it's not like it was entirely their fault we all have to outgrow misogyny it's just you know society etc but some of them never outgrow it lmao and just...the takes you see on feminism on tumblr are astounding i hate it here
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tagged by @forerussake, thank you!
Rules: Post the names of all the files in your WIP folder, regardless of how non-descriptive or ridiculous. Let people send you an ask with the title that most intrigues them, and then post a little snippet or tell them something about it! Then tag as many people as you have WIPs
It took me a bit because... my WIP list is too long RIP (assume it's Weilan-centric for Guardian unless otherwise specified)
Back In A Spell (Grimm TV)
Conviction (OT3 smut) (Grimm TV)
Daycare (Grimm TV)
Sweet Revenge (Guardian)
In Light Of Stolen Memories (Guardian)
Soulbond [redacted] (Guardian)
YOHE rescue Ye Zun (Guardian)
Meet Cute (Zhu Hong/Li Qian, Guardian)
In This As In All Things (Guardian) (currently being posted)
Shattered Sight (Vision MV fic)
Amnesia Weilan (Guardian)
Professor Zhao smut (Guardian)
Arranged Marriage Weilan (Guardian)
GYADL canon AU (Granting You A Dreamlike Life)
Claudia time travel (Assassin's Creed)
Warlord Kunlun (Guardian)
Death's Twin (Harry Potter)
Bio lecture 101 (Weilanzun, Guardian)
Lin Jing roof scene (Guardian)
AC2 x Weilan crossover cont'd
VP torture, Porsche talk (KinnPorsche the Series)
omega!Kunlun (Guardian)
kidfic snippets (Guardian)
First Kiss reprise (Guardian)
4+1 scentmarked (Guardian)
YOHE slave au (Guardian)
sense 8 au draft (Dragon Age 2)
Dead Dove Weilan (Guardian)
Ye Zun's pillar trap (Guardian)
Early Meeting AU (Guardian)
kink negotiations (Guardian)
Weilan case fic (Guardian)
Chief Zhao roleplay (Guardian)
Imperial Murder Mystery (ChuGuo + Weilan, Guardian)
Gu Xiang PoV time travel (Word of Honor)
Mystery sequel (Guardian)
Deja Vu (Castlevania)
Ye Zun pregfic (Weilanzun, Guardian)
Special Assignment (Leia & Darth Vader, Star Wars)
Poison Ivy Weilan (Guardian)
Heipaoshi Roleplay (Guardian)
ChuGuo first time (ChuGuo, Guardian)
Yashou Arrival Festival (Guardian)
Da Qing raised ZYL (Guardian)
Historical Era retcon (Guardian)
Ye Zun - Breeze (no ships, Guardian)
Double Date: cagefight (ChuGuo + Weilan, Guardian)
Juma future fic (Disney's Descendants)
Dark Canon Divergence (Guardian)
Mob Boss!Shen Wei (Guardian)
Himbo in Love (XuanLi Untamed)
@itskaysno, @ganglylimbs, @sigmundite, @sailorbryant, @fornhaus, @elenothar, @lacommunarde, @mjsakurea, @flamingwell, @bumblewyn, @eirenical, @treemaidengeek, @sorcererinthestars, @kahnah23, @ishipallthings, @bird-armadda, @lienwyn, @sasamelons, @tehfanglyfish, @the-marron, @dobranocka, @justacoyote, @yilian0203, @minnichan, @micimicelle, @theworldisabrokenbonebutitishome, @mejomonster, @sef1029
and honestly anyone else who wants to share their WIP list! I have more than enough tags left over 😂
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little life update/rant below :)
i feel like i've been so inactive lately which makes me big sad, but when i say i have not had the time, i'm being so serious. yesterday i literally woke up, went into work an hour early, stayed after for almost 2 hours, went home, made dinner, and immediately sat down to work on a grad school assignment and then had to work for another hour before i went to bed. then i woke up this morning and did it all again. it just feels like that's how my days look more and more recently, and it's been really hard tbh. it's demoralizing and just sad to work all day and still wake up the next day wishing i had done more, still with a mile long to do list, and knowing that it's just going to keep being this way for at least the next couple weeks.
anyways all of this is to say that i'm just both really grateful for and sorry to all my mutuals who have continued to tag me in things and stuff in the past couple weeks :) it may sound weird or dumb, but if i'm being honest i have SERIOUS fandom fomo right now, and, even though i haven't really had time recently, it's been nice to not feel like lost in the shuffle or forgotten (i told u it was going to sound weird).
being on tumblr/in fandom has truly been the most incredible escape and been such a stress relief and source of happiness for me. i'm still very much here, just lurking and liking more because i'm conserving brain bandwidth as much as possible during the week!!!!
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Okay this kinda took a bit (like I started it this morning & struggled to get through it, and now I finished it hours later)
but I did this! (both image & context below the cut cus it's technically fnafsbr spoilers in a way)
I mermaid'ed Ruin Eclipse!!
Now the explanation behind this is that I saw someone (I forgot who sorry) said they wanted to see how long until someone mermaid'ed Ruin Eclipse, to which multiple people mermaid'ed em almost immediately
but I didn't want to mermaid him based on a fish, and he was giving me octopus vibes (idk why), so I drew him as an octopus mermaid!!
and im kinda too exhausted to put a whole explanation on why he has scars, so short summary: he's nice & peaceful, but has been attacked many times while trying not to attack back. he also only has 7/8 tentacles
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