idk how to flirt but i can make things awkward if you're into that

“It’s all right to love someone who doesn’t love you back, as long as they’re worth you loving them. As long as they deserve it.”

— Cassandra Clare; Clockwork Angel

sorry to bother but YOUR PFP AND BANNER AND NAME ARE ALL SO COOL!!!!!!!! I’m not calling it aesthetic BUT SERIOUSLY IT LOOKS SO COOL LIKE ITS PRETTY IVE BEEN STARING AT IT FOR TWO MINUTES NOW DELICIOUS

!!!!!!!!!

YO THANK YOU SO MUCH!! i actually took the photos myself so I'm glad someone likes them!

Transfem to Transmasc solitary must exist as much as any trans solidarity must exist.

Protect my boys.

I want to _____ you.

reblog and see what your followers say

Interesting..

some of my transguy friends got to be stupidly hot lesbians before their transitions.

i, on the other hand, looked like someone had turned a scrangly cat into a girl who was *not* supposed to have been a girl

blasting "gimme! gimme! gimme! a man after midnight" like the pathetic gay idiot i am

Like my big problem with the whole "NO CIS MEN" specific policy that's so socially enforced in queer spaces (not like you putting that under your nudes or whatever the fuck, but the specific fear and ostracization of cis men as threats in trans groups online and irl) is that that policy is necessarily and unavoidably going to target trans women.

Its going to target questioning and closeted girls who are looking for a space to crack their egg. It's going to target out and proud transfems and amab nb people who are looked at with suspicion as just "faking it" to get access to "resources" or in order to take advantage of and assault the "real queer people" who are always necessarily assumed to be afab, petite, and only ever capable of being victims instead of perpetrators of abuse. And it covers up and hides the actual abuse that takes place in these places because abusers in these spaces are going to be inherently looked at as innocent because they are not cis men.

You can bring along your cis girlfriend to the trans support group but if anyone dares to bring their cis boyfriend then they're ignoring others boundaries and endangering the group. This group is for "women and femmes" but if that femme has a penis or facial hair then their really just a rapist in disguise. Damn has anyone noticed that everyone here only knows about what testosterone does to your body but no one in the room can define what "anti-androgen" means.

I've seen this play out time and time again in my damn near decade of experience in this community, on and offline. And it's especially painful whenever I see another trans woman talking about how all cis men need to be kept away for everyone's safety because it just feels so "fuck you got mine." I was able to do the right make up and voice training and get on hormones early enough that I'm only viewed with a little bit of suspicion. But this is overwhelmingly enforced by afab trans and nonbinary people who think they're feminists cause they get mad when a man says "bitch" but will absolutely never question why they view people with vaginas as inherently safe and people with penises as inherently dangerous. I'm sick of it

kinda fucked up that you can be in physical pain from how you feel emotionally. like that shit's in my mind can it please stay there :/

POV: You realize that it's either you say how you feel and mess things up or you say nothing and let it mess you up instead.

I replied to your message in my head several days ago did you not get it

Geoffrey Mccullum

google search how long does it take to get over a crush

"4 months"

....well shit

it's been more than a year by my best count. i don't know what to do.

google search how to get over a crush

"confess :)"

... nope lol

"start dating again"

hah look. it's so fucking complicated. this guy, he's the only person I've had actual feelings for, and i don't even know if it's an actual crush. i don't date. i don't want to. hell i don't even know if i wanna date him.

i should just kms i guess lmao

exactly.

gotta love being far enough into my transition that people will make jokes like "what discrimination, white boy?" because on one hand in the context it was really funny and on the other hand. well. let's just say that slowly feeling more and more alienated from all my friends was actually not what i was looking for when i came out as trans.