last night I went to a broadway show and wore this super cool outfit and looked at myself in the mirror and felt so euphoric because I realized that I looked androgynous, I didn't just see a girl when I looked in the mirror, if I saw myself on the street I wouldn't have been sure what gender I was and it felt so good!

that’s awesome!! Thank you for sharing!!!!! ❤️

The first time I realised something was off was when I didn't like it when everyone was seperated into different groups depending on whether they're a boy or a girl.

I always felt weird being in the girl groups. Calling myself a girl felt weird. But I wasn't a boy either. I felt disconnected from the gender binary.

Then I found the label demigirl. It really does accurately describe me.

thanks for sharing!! ❤️

i think jessie of the channel jessiegender is a transfem demigirl? and i love their content and just wanted to recommend her on here! i think there’s a steriotype of demigirls just being “afabs” who are on a pipeline and transfem demigirls are often errassed, despite being what i perceive as pretty large portions of the demigirl community.

anyway! shoutout to transfem demigirls i love you guys <3

thank you for sharing this!! <3

its fine. it’s fine! we’re fine.

I’m not at all girl leaning or femme presenting but you keep up the good work here ok

THANK YOU!

Just a reminder to all the demigirls: you are valid and beautiful.

Not super feminine? Still valid.

AFAB and feel like you're "just faking it for attention"? Nope. That's bullshit. Still valid.

Only a demigirl sometimes (genderfluid, genderflux, or something similar)? Still valid.

A demigirl in addition to being something else (multigender or something similar)? Still valid.

Don't use she/her pronouns? Still valid.

You may not be 100% girl, but that's totally fine, because you're forgetting that ur part girl, part ✨GODDESS✨

Demigirls are valid and awesome, and I will throat punch anyone who says otherwise. -ur local chaotic genderflux

🩷🩶🤍🩶🩷‼️

I think with me, my experience is like:

- Rechecking my chest, making sure it doesn't increase in size

- Dysphoric enough for a binder, not dysphoric enough for hormones/surgery

- Wanting to look androgynous or genderless without looking masculine

- Feeling fake wearing a dress in public, but liking the sensory feeling of wearing dresses in private

- Okay with being called a woman/girl, but not lady

- Feeling part girl, part gender neutral

- Thought I was a tomboy until I found the language to describe myself

Thank you for sharing! <3

hey

So like i'm really masc but also okay with being called a girl

Idk what my point is

Anyone relate?

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Still trying to figure things out but so far:

Feminine clothing such as skirts and dresses are okay. I like them and wear them sometimes. I also like makeup. I'm ok with being feminine.

But female body functions such as periods/menstruation, pregnancy, and going through puberty disgusts me to no end. It feels wrong and I feel like it shouldn't be a part of me.

Does anyone else feel this way?

can anyone relate?

Hi my names Io and i have a couple of questions.

i have no idea if im nonbinary or a demigirl bc i dont like she/her pronouns but i soetimes feel like a girl? can i be a demigirl with they/them pronouns

thx smmmm <3

First, remember that you don't have to be one or the other. You can identify as however many genders you need to. There's no limit! And also, your gender has no relation to your pronouns. You can be a demigirl and use whatever pronouns you want!

i might be a demigirl? i feel somewhat connected to being a girl, but i’m not sure about the other bit. i would describe it as just having half a gender (maybe less than that). being a girl doesn’t feel quite right (as of right now it feels just okay/meh), but then again, neither does anything else. i feel like i’m not enough of a girl to be one completely, but i’m not more aligned to anything else (except maybe nonbinary but can i even consider myself that when i am still somewhat within the binary?).

Those kind of feelings are perfectly normal, a lot of people go through them. One thing that helps a lot of people find their label is testing out a bunch of different ones throughout time and seeing which one they liked best. Remember, it's a process and it is difficult, but once you find the right label for you, it feels so much better. Also remember, you don't have to have a label. It's really all up to you!

Anonymous M here again! So, my mom saw one of my coming out messages on Discord to a friend, and she has asked me nothing about it, and have done no researches on what is a demigril, how do I know? She tried explaining a family friend what a demigirl is (while talking about someone else in a Discord group she's in), and said "He tried with girls, he tried with boys, and now he doesn't really know" (referring to relationships I think). She at least apologized for outing me (although I am kinda out to that dude in a way), but still never asked me what it is, and the more I think about it, even though I have the perfect excuse this time, the more I'm scared she tells my dad, who doesn't accept any identities that's not man or women (although he accept trans people if they have a "valid" reason for transitioning). I know for sure my mom will call BS if I try to explain to her what a demigirl really is, but it's really annoying me that she just assume who I am, I'm so sorry for putting this on you, but what the hell do I do?

That sounds like a rough situation. First of all, it wasn't cool of your mom to look through your discord but either way, she should at least be respectful of your space and keep this a matter between you and her. And if you really want her to do more research about what a demigirl actually is, it never hurts to try and explain it for her. I hope this helps!

hey you!

yea you!!

your gender’s looking great today!!

whatever you identify as

however you prefer to present yourself

however you look

it looks great on you!!!!

Gender is a prison and I escaped by being mistaken as a cop

hii!! It's Nova again! I sent this to the genderfluid page as well but it might be helpful to someone here as well!

I just felt like this was something I had to say. I'm a genderfluid demigirl who has just recently come to terms my gender identity. It took some time to really think about it, and I'm still not completely sure about it which makes me nervous sometimes but I've realized THAT'S OKAY!! It's okay not to be sure, it's okay not to experience your gender the way everyone else does, it's what I feel that's most important! In my case, Im a gender fluid demi girl who experiences no dysphoria at all, besides the occasional wishing my chest was smaller sometimes(im afab). I also am comfortable with being called a girl, even though I don't completely identify with being one. My gender fluctuates for me, sometimes I'm feeling more masculine and that day I am a guy, and sometimes I'm non binary and sometimes I'm a demi girl. I'm usually aaáàà as a demi girl because that is usually next l what I identify as but it doesn't change the fact that I am genderfluid. So to anyone who may be struggling just know it's what you feel and no one can tell you otherwise!

thank you for sharing!! <3