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vegasthehedgehog · 5 months

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Kiyoi

There is something about the way Kiyoi has always been independent, aggressive, and often following the "I don't need anyone" archetype . This shows that he doesn't know what healthy relationships look like or why they matter. He never had anyone he felt he could rely on. He did not even want his friends to know what his dream was or that he took the idol thing seriously. He did not have anyone he thought would be his support if he failed and most likely assumed he would lose the artificial friendships that he did have if he showed his real self to them. His whole demeaner screams lonely, hurt, and scared.

Kiyoi has always been so sure that nobody is around him for any reason other than to use him. He does not think anyone takes him seriously. He doesn't trust that anyone could ever be sincere. That is why when Hira comes into the picture, he doesn't trust him. He seems to see it as a way to go from being used to using someone. He never truly accepted that Hira truly just wanted to be around him because of him. This is most likely why they parted ways like they did.

This has been on my mind because of the development we see later on. It becomes even more clear that Kiyoi does not want to be aggressive or the one to make the choice. He has always wanted someone to prove they take him seriously, that they want him, that they love him unconditionally.

We see Kiyoi struggle to open up and communicate and how hard it is for him. We see his tendency to flee when he is scared or hurt. We see there communication suffer because of misunderstandings. But most of all we see them fight for each other even well fighting against each other.

This leads me into the bathtub scene. Kiyoi is no longer this mean aggressive man that we once saw but instead someone who is quietly asking Hira to give him more physical attention. This is a big deal because we start out with him physically throwing Hira to the ground but now we are here.

I am leaving so so so so much out but this show really took over my brain and I don't have anyone to talk to about it. Its been a while since I watched it and these scenes still live rent free in my head.

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xxtraspoiledfujoshi · 12 days

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Arghh!! I wanted to reach through my screen and wipe that smug look off of his face!! Then, Joe just casually mentioning how Ming must enjoy doing it from behind. Joe, please…if you only knew. Ugh!

Gahdamnit Joe, gahdamnit

#bl drama #thai bl #bl love #bl series #my stand in #up poompat #uppoom #poom phuripan #mingjoe #asianlgbtqdramas #thai drama #boy love #yaoi bl #boys love series #thai series #iqiyi #fujoshi #toxic bl

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gillianthecat · 3 months

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someone in the thaibl subreddit asked for recommendations for "toxic and disturbing" bl and some people are saying theory of love and others are saying the shortest distance is round. the range is hilarious.

#my newest addictions are the bl kdrama and figure skating subreddits #i like giving advice and answers to rec requests that mostly get ignored #gtc's reddit adventures #the world outside of tumblr #toxic bl

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0l-unreliable · 4 months

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After a falling out with his previous backers, Bro is quickly running out of money for his various schemes and projects. While looking for new sponsors he manages to catch the eye of Mr. Harley, a strange older man of mysterious wealth, and is given the funds he needs to continue his work. However, it seems Mr. Harley is more interested in the inventor than the inventions...

(this is a warm-up sketch that got out of hand)

#homestuck #bro strider #jake harley #grandpa harley #wtf is their ship name #brograndpa #dirkjake #for the hell of it #my bros said this counts as old man yaoi but only BARELY because only one is an old man #bl but with toxic annoying old guys like god intended #ORT

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heretherebedork · 5 months

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Pit Babe is one of my favorite types to trope that BL does not take enough advantage of and that is 'what happens when your only way out is hypermasculinity but you really aren't like naturally and so wear it like a shield again the softness so deeply inherent in your nature that your cannot risk it being exposed?' and the answer is... Babe. Babe happens.

A hypermasculine racer who tries to avoid any kind of sexual or romantic connection and pretends he doesn't care at all who melts the instant anyone shows him that they can treat him sweetly and loses himself entirely in even the tiniest amount of affection because he has never been able to safely allow himself that affection.

Babe wears masculinity like a second skin and he blocks people out and he snaps and he glares and he teases the friends he doesn't love because they are safe and they remind him that he will never love or be loved because he is not that kind of man and he scoffs and bets the first person who's given him what he wanted on a race because that's what men do. They don't care.

But the longer he spends with Charlie the less comfortable he gets in his second skin. Charlie peels him bare with a stroke of his hair, with a kiss to his forehead, with a sweet smile, with breakfast in the morning, by fighting for him, by protecting him, by waiting at home for him, by soothing him when he sulks and pouts. Charlie found all those soft parts that Babe has been protecting with his masculinity and exposed them so tenderly and so kindly and with nothing more than love.

And I love that. I want more of that. I want more toxic masculine characters realizing the persona they've crafted for themselves is not their true self but rather a mask, armor, a second skin for the world and to be able to expose the softness in the safety of the person they love.

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gunsatthaphan · 5 days

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🤓🚩🫶🏻

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becauseimanicequeen · 4 days

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Why in the world would you like toxic characters? Why are you so proud of that? What is it even to be proud of? What's wrong with you?

Well, my dear Anon. If you only knew how many times I've asked myself those very same questions…

And the answers always come down to: It’s fiction.

And even though fiction is a vital part of life (just like any other art form) and you can learn a lot from it (you have no idea how many toxic people I’ve been able to avoid, before they even found out my name, thanks to my love for toxic characters and seeing their red flags), fiction is also just fiction.

The characters aren’t real, even though they can seem like it. Just because I love a character that's toxic as fuck doesn't mean I would condone real people who behave that way.

Also, I’m not hurting anyone with my obsession with toxic characters. It’s not like I'm forcing anyone to think like me (and for the love of all things holy, don't do that!).

Besides having a healthy obsession with the toxic characters I love, I’m not very emotional (for lack of a better word) about what I watch. I can be intrigued by toxic characters without either excusing their behavior and actions or hating them (because there’s enough hate in the world for me to do that shit). I can watch taboo topics and other shit that most people find triggering and not be triggered (even though I see the taboo topics for what they are). I can watch problematic stuff and see beyond it to what’s really being said (even though I see the problematic stuff for what it is).

But that’s just me. And I would never force my perspectives on anyone else because I know the majority isn’t like me (which is a good thing, btw).

So, if you don’t vibe with my shit, block me. I don’t mind.

Trust me. I’ll survive. You’ll survive. The world won’t fall apart. We’ll both be okay. Just block me.

Because I will keep loving my favorite toxic fatherfuckers. I won't excuse their behavior and actions. But I will love them.

And the only one who can stop me is ME. But I don’t want to because I love all the shades of toxic bitches and red flags.

Like Boston from Only Friends.

And Todd from Not Me.

And Chalothon from The Sign.

And Ray from Only Friends.

And So from House of Stars.

And Yai from Big Dragon.

And Way from Pit Babe.

And Boeing from Only Friends.

And let's not forget Vegas from KinnPorsche!

And Yoden Ryoji from Dangerous Drugs of Sex.

And Yong Jie from HIStory 4: Close to You.

And Rio from The Novelist.

And Ritsu from To the End of the World With You.

And definitely Ming from My Stand-In!

I love them all because I have issues. But so do all of them, which is precisely why I love them.

Thank you for your ask.

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pharawee · 8 months

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Seng Wichai and Best Vittawin in —KNOCK KNOCK, BOYS (2024)

#knock knock boys #knock knock boys the series #seng wichai #best vittawin #knockknockboysedit #thai bl #thai drama #bl drama #bl series #my edits.#a pairing i never knew i wanted but now i'm 120% on board #here's to hoping they're endgame 🤞#also i will single-handedly fight every seng hater out there with my teeth #fandom is insane and i hate how toxic fans are often the loudest

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nickyol · 6 months

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i want someone to treat me how this man treats his doc Dan

(with consent of course) I know he's a red flag and he's completely toxic but... Like… Yeah nvm I don't even have a good excuse

#joo jaekyung #jinx #manhwa #yaoi #rough kink #degredation kink #red flags #hot as fuck #doc dan #bl manhwa #joo jaekyung x reader #toxic traits #toxic relationship #toxic love #rough daddy #roughfuck

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fanfictionroxs · 1 year

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Embrace your love for fictional toxic romances 😌😏

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xxtraspoiledfujoshi · 12 days

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What kills me is the desperation Jo has when it comes to feeling loved and less alone. I understand it but he just set himself up for failure. Jo, baby, did you not hear that sly ass shit Ming said!?! “YOU cannot mess with anyone else.” Motherfucka whatttt!??? It’s “we” just like it was “our” earlier

All toxicity aside, gahdamn these men are something pretty to look at

#my stand in #iqiyi #thai bl #thai series #poom phuripan #up poompat #bl series #bl love #bl drama #asianlgbtqdramas #mingjoe #thai drama #boys love series #fujoshi #yaoi bl #yaoi love #toxic yaoi

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mooninagust · 9 months

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the key to enjoying shows is putting away your morals and just enjoying things, yea they're problematic, yea they're violent, yea they're sh!theads, but it's all fiction baby

#dangerous romance #only friends #thai drama #i saw people saying they wont be watching dangerous romance bc its too toxic #while i understand not watching due to triggers #saying characters are toxic and thats why you dont want to watch is just idk... sad kinda #only enjoying shows that are “morally” ok is funny #its fiction !!!#aint no one doing that irl and if they do im sure its not bc they saw it in a silly lil bl #an rambles #only friends the series #only friends series #dangerous romance the series

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heretherebedork · 14 days

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How aware of Ming’s feelings do you think Tong is? Unless he’s an actual brick, he must know Ming likes him. Does he indulge him for the attention?

I think a lot of people give too much weight to people knowing that someone who is hiding it likes them.

I don't think Tong knows. And even if he has the suspicion, I don't think he's sure of it. And he might not want to be sure of it. He might just want to believe Ming is his friend and that they can just be friends.

Just because we know we're watching a queer show and know that Ming has a crush on Tong doesn't mean Tong knows and the assumption that he knows and it using that for attention goes against a lot of what we saw of them in this episode which included Tong try to indulge and treat Ming in his excitement about his return.

I see no reason to assume that Tong knows and is using Ming when he's famous enough to have fans and already has a girlfriend. I think he's just friends with Ming and missed him and was happy to see him come back from abroad.

I dunno, I might be wrong, @respectthepetty might be better for this question.

But I tend to fall on the side of 'most people don't know that their friends have crushes on them randomly because it's just not on most people's radar.

#my stand in #thai bl #asked and answered #i feel like it's kind of mean to assume he's using ming #when ming seems to the toxic one in all of this #but who knows #i am often wrong

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gunsatthaphan · 8 months

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