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fienyx · 7 months
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I AM SO NORMAL ABOUT OFMD S2.
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edai-crplpnk · 20 days
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Me, a gay man writing stories for gay men on a website where there is incredibly few gay men : why aren't ppl reading my stories
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wild-at-mind · 6 months
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I think every early transition trans person who is into the same gender has to listen to a cis gay person of that gender explain how they are not attracted to you appropos of nothing! As a counterpoint to the gross idea that trans people are always going around trying to make cis gay people date them, my rebuttal is how much of this comes from annoyed trans people saying hey can you ease up on the monologues about how you don't find us attractive or want to date us please.
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zeynatura · 2 years
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List of LGBTQ+ characters in Granblue Fantasy the mobage
Finally got myself to create this list that is most likely incomplete because thanks to the gacha nature of the game and me being F2P i haven’t experience all the characters' stories so some characters may be missing and some others may be incomplete, if you know of any character and how they’re queer do let me know, much appreciated if you cite the event, quest or fate episode.
The list consists of the characters name in alphabetical order, how or why are they lgbtq+, personal comments about them and the story, special mentions, headcanons and the token hetero couples as the minority. Beware of spoilers.
Will edit this post so come back to check the original.
Masterlist
[Long post below]
Aglovale - feels attracted to MC regardless of gender as seen on his Valentine's unit, Valentine's and White Day's lines, fascinated by Tor, (this is exactly how I imagine it)
Albert - whatever he and Yurius have is def not straight, their whole story is being best friends, fighting to save each other sometimes fighting one another, defending and trusting the other, the iconic scene of Yurius pointing Albert’s neck with his own sword making an oath to him exudes homoeroticism, Albert having tons of fangirls whom he ignores in Valentine's Day specially for MC regardless of gender
Albion - in love with Ares (wlw), destined to die as result to the contract with Luminiera
Alliah - gets married to MC regardless of gender, albeit only political she states there is no better prospect for her to spend the rest of her life with other than MC
Anne - in love with Grea (wlw)
Ange - wants to be a prince to all the girls (wlw)
Anthuria - in love with MC regardless of gender
Aoidos - queer musician
Apollonia - in love with Orchis Queen of Erste Kingdom
Ares - in love with Albion (wlw), got married and had kids yet wished she could have had that life with her instead
Arthur - what he and Mordred have is not straight, gives Vane and Lancelot's vibes, even their fathers were into one another like wtf Misters "i only cry in front of you" 
Arulumaya - in love with MC regardless of gender even to the point of fighting other crewmates that have feelings for MC (example her and Magisa both seeing a future with MC doing their best to make it a reality)
Athena - something about all her character development being around females + MC isn't straight
Ayer - feels attracted to MC regardless of gender as seen on his Valentine's and White Day's lines
Azazel - feels attracted to MC regardless of gender, too tsundere to openly admit he cares for MC
Baal - the musical connection he has with Aoidos is so gay, i love it, HoMusicians (homo + musicians, i tried ok)
Baldr - torn about choosing between Freyr and Maldr in the Astral War as he holds dear both, i will forever hate cygames for making Maldr marry Kona when he has more chemistry and on screen interaction with Baldr than her!
Balurga - trans man, the only one so far, gets mistreated by cygames so much, in game his identity gets respected specially after he cuts his own arm to assert his manliness
Barawa - detective in love with the thief he can't catch (Chat Noir)
Benjamin - Aoidos' previous personality, was on a very intense bdsm relationship with his male bandmates Justin (bass), and Valentin (drums) 
Brigette and Cordelia are girlfriends
Cagliostro - trans woman, feels attracted to MC regardless of gender, flirts with MC yet blushes when flirted back, love her, my queen
Cain - in love with MC regardless of gender, one of the few characters having an actual date with MC on White Day
Catura - wants to marry MC regardless of gender
Chat Noir - enemies to lovers with Barawa, crossdresser, feels attracted to MC regardless of gender
Clarisse - in love with MC regardless of gender (tho she missgenders Cag and i dislike her for that, i don't care she's her great+ niece)
Cupitan - has a strong attachment to Tristette, female Naruto (update: Cupitan and Tristette are girlfriends! Is like if Naruto and Sasuke finally got their gay ending)
Claudia - loves sweet girls
Domon > Sho >< Tsubasa - something about their rivalry and friendship is the perfect teenage gay gang/deliquent trope
Elmott - feels attracted to MC regardless of gender as seen on his Valentine's and White Day's lines
Enyo - obsessed with Athena
Eustace - feels attracted to MC regardless of gender as seen on his Valentine's and White Day's lines, he offering his ears so that we pet them on White Day has me in the clouds!
Farrah - has a crush on Katalina
Feather - gay but oblivious about it 
Ferdinand - perfect evil queer representation
Freesia - in love with the former queen of the Erste Kingdom, Orchis’ mother
Freyr - the most important people in his life are Baldr and Geo (mlm) subtext, context, stop trying to only consider explicit stuff representation text
Gabriel and Europa are girlfriends (and Europa will flirt with MC regardless of gender, for being a water primal beast she sure is thirsty)
Grimnir - has feelings for MC regardless of gender as seen on his Valentine's unit, Valentine's and White Day's lines 
Grea - in love with Anne (wlw)
Halluel - likes pretty girls (wlw)
Hekate - horny for, well, everyone really
Helel ben Shalem - her gender in the game is other as in she is a being above gender (love that)
Helel ben Sahar - which means he is as well (tho he already is in the list as Lucio)
Herja - feels attracted to MC regardless of gender as seen on her Valentine's and White Day's lines
Ilsa - flirts with MC regardless of gender
Jamil - devoted to MC regardless of gender, his feelings are too intense he thinks himself as unworthy of MC
Joel - in love with MC regardless of gender, the first character confessing their feelings directly to MC
Katalina - too oblivious to realize her feelings for Vira at first, but character development happens and with the help of Ares she promises to make Vira happy and be by her side as to not end up with the same regrets as Ares
Kou - flirts with MC regardless of gender
Ladiva - trans woman, adoptive mother of the crew, love is her power
Lancelot - practically married to Vane, never had a fight because they are so perfect for each other
Lamorak - he being nonbinary makes the three brothers of Wales officially all queer
Lich - something about their summon being male while their humanoid form is female is def not cis
Lobelia - another perfect evil queer representation
Lucio - got eaten by a shark because he was too busy flirting with Sandalphon, does the impossible for Sandalphon to notice him
Lunalu -  her Valentine’s Day lines originally could only be viewed if MC is a woman (gbf added an option to disregard MC’s gender when it came to most holiday lines). She often goes in complete rants about how pretty some women and men are while blushing, bicon.
Lyria - in love with MC regardless of gender
Magisa - in love with MC regardless of gender, thinks of MC as their fated person
Meg and Mari are girlfriends
Melissabelle - In the Popol Saga event Imagination Overdrive, when Lunalu loses her mind and the whole group of Harvin girls tries to bring her back to normal she specifically says "You're you, Lunalu. No matter what form you take, it doesn't change the fact you are the Lunalu i know and love." and this is enough to actually have Lunalu snap out of it. She could have easily said "we" but Melissabelle had to single her own feelings out. Also despite getting headaches from reading she decides to make an effort and read Lunalu’s favourite book and actively engages in her interests despite the fandom world being new to her!?!? that is love right there
Meteon - feels attracted to MC regardless of gender
Miach - either genderqueer or a poor fella forced to crossdress and live as the opposite sex, gotta have to wait for more of their story, tho i love that when Fediel, Jeanne and MC realized Miach was amab said nothing about it, only when Miach told Fediel about it she said that she doesn't find it weird 
Mireille and Risette are in love with each other (wlw)
Mordred - mister i won't cry because i have you (Arthur) to cry for me instead
Morgan - a Fairy with it/it's and they/them pronouns
Morilynn - the Accordant for the Horoscope "Thalassinus" but also the weapon themselves, official English pronouns are they/them, that paired with the fact they are not human but still want to learn about how to be a person seems very nonbinary coded to me
Necesaria - everything about him screams QUEER
Noa and Rackam are soulmates and i hate that cygames didn't let them share power yet they stablished they were the best option for it, instead had to go with the second best option who was Tiamat and i will forever grieve what could have been, thanks for making them gayer in the anime tho
Percival - feels attracted to MC regardless of gender as seen on his Valentine's and White Day's lines
Randall - in love with Feather to the point that he got dragged into the same figthing lifestyle as him, "i'll become the better fighter so that you finally look at me"
Repti - another perfect evil queer representation
Rosetta - likes attractive people regardless of gender
Seox - something about MC being the light of his life regardless of gender 
Shizel - she's a trans woman as stated in Erin's SSR fate episode
Silva - in love with Tweyen (wlw)
Societte - practically married to Yuel, adopted three traumatized teenagers with her
Sutera - feels attracted to MC regardless of gender as seen on her Valentine's and White Day's lines
Tor - homoeroticaly devoted to Aglovale
Tweyen - in love with Silva (wlw)
Vane - practically married to Lancelot, uses Lan-chan as a pet name, have been together since childhood
Vira - in love with Katalina, before she met Katalina her life was monotone and colorless, after meeting her she felt alive and happy for the first time
Yuel - promised to always be with Societte, taking care of Kou, You and Sui as their kids or little siblings
Yuisis - asked MC to have a family with her regardless of gender
Yurius - not only does he have Albert but also flirts with MC regardless of gender
Special mentions
The Kahua’s citizens because they’re all female, everyone born there are female as stated in the Paliuli Pararaiha’s event
Yggdrasil’s birthday message where it seems like she and MC are getting married regardless of MC’s gender, it is unknown if Yggy herself is conscious about it because she can’t talk, she communicates via mystical sounds
Dragons are genderless beings, meaning every dragon in the game is queer which includes: the Six Dragons (Wilnas, Wamdus, Galleon, Ewiyar, Lu Woh and Fediel), Orologia, Malinda, Deidre (but not Scathacha?), Vyrn, Ailill, Medb, Fafnir, Lindwurm, even papi Bahamut!
Basically the whole WMTSB main cast is LGBTQ+ and have multiple songs about it
Beelzebub - obsessed with Lucilius wanting both to stand beside him and surpass him (i wish i knew more about Bubz but i haven't reach the top of Tower of Babyl so idk his stance regarding MC in GBF, we know thx to GBFVS both MC and him are singularities, MC being born one and Bubz asking Lucifaa to make him one cause he was dying, and he agreeing to work with MC against Belial makes me think MC is the only person he sees on eye lvl, he looks up to Faa-san and looks down on everyone else), he was struck by Lucifer's power and beauty 🥲 (I cannot, so his murder was personal). He being a clone of Helel ben Shalem makes him pretty trans and his obsession of shaping his body as he desires.
Belial - devoted completely to Lucilius refering him as Faa-san (in GBVS he refers to him as Daddy), jealous of Lucifer (may have some sort of sympathy for him cause he not killing him directly instead guiding Beelzebub to do it for him and feeling pity as he decapitates and steals his body dictates he wants to hate Lucifer more than what he actually does), into MC regardless of gender, implied he is also fond of Sariel (obscuring it, can't let anyone know he has feelings that don't revolve around Faa-san), he removed from Sariel the chaos matter and spared him in a way that didn't cause much actual damage despite looking like it did, he seemed to have an interest in him earlier on given the quests leading up to his raid battle (which may have occurred prior to their conversation in the flashbacks in 000) showing him having him transferred to his jurisdiction (Belial is insecure about being "imperfect" compared to Lucifer and has some deal of ambivalence towards his intended purpose it's probably very interesting and possibly comforting to him that despite the inherent flaws in Sariel's makeup (re:the limiter being set too high) he manages to diverge from his intended purpose entirely because of his personality and desires); very interested in Beelzebub trying to get any form of reaction from him tho getting ignored most of the time and the rest making him annoyed, his summer summon talks about Bubz' body and how he looks better naked, loves flirting and teasing pretty much everyone
Lucifer - in love with Sandalphon
Lucilius - the other person he cared about besides himself was Lucifer
Sandalphon - in love with Lucifer
Sariel - being obsessively devoted to Belial, protecting him ("Don't touch him!") and outright saying he doesn't care if he's using him, seeming relatively apathetic towards pretty much everyone else (besides animals), and currently being in the beginning of an arc revolving entirely around finding out how to get to him in the weird between-dimensions void he and Lucilius are in, never forget when Belial ripped out his wings and Sariel while in pain was like “if that’s what you will”, he didn’t have individuality until Belial told him to. Sariel’s CV Akira Ishida said in an interview about 000 sidestory that Belial is "someone he loves, despite them being apart". (LuciSan and Beriel parallels)
Modern AU from Sincerely, Your Dearest Friend event
Miku, Lyria and Aoto are either in a polyam or queerplatonic relationship and I LOVE IT
Oribe and Fuwa are boyfriends
Personal headcanons
Cassius - aroace
Lucilius - demiroace
Nehan - aroace
Siegfried - aroace
Token hetero couples
Aliza and Stan
Deliford and his nameless wife
Krelkulkil and Keralbarra ;n; RIP
Lady Grey and her dead husband
Leona and Abel
Nectar and Shinsha (tho Nectar is a being beyond gender constructs and Shinsha loves him regardless, they just present as an hetero couple)
Nicholas and Marie
Romeo and Juliet
Sarunan and Honey (Honey is a spirit, I know she is fem but does that make them hetero?)
Scathacha and Naoise (Scathacha is a dragon but she presents as a fem erune, the game does clasify her as a 'female' instead of 'other' like the other dragons so idk)
Sturm and Drang (tho Sturm does have a date with MC regardless of gender)
Tabina and Attiyah
Vermeil and Ludmilla
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wormtomothpipeline · 1 year
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My babies
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daculadaculadacula · 11 months
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damn we really got shafted by funnay long ass fight scenes and dead dad cop b (c?) plot............... i havent looked at the producers and what theyre all about etc but seeing the queer angles get shafted (like its all at once not heavy-handed enough but the next step would have been on-screen making out sloppy style like. tenderness? or something) due to whatever the fuck else that all was...... man
i appreciate that this is a new and fun interpretation and i do love receiving little lgbtq+ pellets but idk. some ingredients in this soup arent doin it for me
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sneasedtomeetyou · 1 year
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(@solosissupposes) wait your great great grandpappy was a famous hisuian historical figure AND was married a warden?? WHILE GAY?
Almost correct, wasn't a warden. The Sneasler was not the Lady Sneasler. Different one.
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roxannepolice · 2 years
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Welp, I have a new reason to hold an eternal grudge against JJerrio and Dumb&Dumber. I am absolutely incapable of enjoying production hype anymore. My brain is fully aware that DW's creative team have a much higher creative integrity level (yes, including CC) than these morons, yet my heart can't take it.
Like, remember when Rey's outfit leaked and it turned out that in the third part, where Anakin and Luke's nigredos/abysses/crises were symbolised by their black clothes, she got a vanish oxi action add solid white overall? And how I actually wasted my precious gray cells on speculating that maybe it has a black lining, to mirror Luke's white lining? Remember Emilia Clarke supposedly spotted with a baby bump? Remember Klaud (yes, you remember him)?
Yeah, thx people left in charge of major franchises like a drunk elephant left to run a porcelain shop, 2019 left invisible scars that haven't healed yet.
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gender-euphowrya · 2 years
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got my first appointment for the hormone doc in november i am vibrating
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yyunko · 7 months
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Gay old men
(also I just noticed I've reached 600+ here on Tumblr! Thx my dudes <333)
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pinene · 1 month
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Idk maybe I've just interacted with true weirdos but I swear to god there's an unfortunately significant percentage of gayboys who regularly crank it to the most hairy bearded juiced up bear porn and lust after str8 men but have like "keep your 'masc' bullshit away from me thx" in their bios. I reckon that rightful criticisms/rejection of guys in the 20teens using "masc[4masc]" to mean "i am homophobic" got overcorrected into "gay men can't be genuinely masculine, it's either a costume or self-hatred"
Which is kind of a really effective way to get a str8 guy fetish if you're attracted to masculine men..? So that's unfortunate. And then subsequently it's become gauche to declare yourself as masc or butch. If you do so, these guys will absolutely look for and subsequently point out anything you do that's effeminate, which is in itself very homophobic and weird. presumably it's because they are assuming you operate on the toxic masc wavelength and so are trying to give you a taste of your own medicene, but if you aren't, they're just... being fucking rude
But then it gets very complicated by the fact that you have other gay guys saying shit like "Hey it's okay if you're just masc, you don't have to be fabulous to be gay" and that's just a crazy ass thing to say. I understand where they're coming from, but being picked on by insecure gay dudes is nowhere near being oppressed lol. There's also often the complaint about being stereotyped when you're just a "normal" dude, and I definitely resonate with it being impossible to be taken seriously when you're a gay guy-- but they make a grave error in assuming the pain comes from not fitting the stereotype. Rather, being stereotyped sucks whether you fit it or not, and honestly, probably sucks more when you DO!
It does seem like this era is ending though. I think we're all starting to finally realize that gender is silly, and fun, and sexy, not something you need to earn or be born with, and you can explore any and all axes of it as you please. I don't wear big boots cuz I think I'm better than fem queens. I wear them cuz they make me happy
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Hi, im a 16 year old female. I have always known that gay people exist, but at 12 I learned about bisexuality. I have only had 1 crush in my life (Male), but I do find myself thinking that women and non-binary in general are hot, the same way I do with men. I think im bi, but also worried it's just my brain faking it for attention. Does this mean im bi? Thx and I hope ur day/night goes amazing!
Hi!
So, I'm gonna tell you what I've told other people with similar feelings in the past: If you are anonymously writing to me, a stranger, on the internet about your feelings that you have probably not shared with a lot of people? Nah, you're not faking it.
I can't say for sure if you're bi, or pan, or what have you. That's for you to decide. But the feelings you're having are real and valid, and that's okay! Take a deep breath, and remember, there are people who have felt exactly like you are now. It's going to be okay <3 <3 <3
(Also I am using a random positive affirmation generator to name the lovely anons who ask me things, so I dub thee 'talented anon' in case you ever want to return. Enjoy your free tag!)
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mrs-monaghan · 10 months
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Hi just dropping by to say that jk is the gayest gay to have ever gayed and people who think he's straight are delulu thx bye
Gay JK. Let's talk about gay Jungkook during SEVEN. 😂 Josè Ochoa on YT is the one who pointed this out when he reacted to the MV but did u see JK twerking? On the official MV? 🤭
No, but listen. Wbk that this man looooooves to twerk. I mean....
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He's done it in another official MV before...
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I love this one sm but I really wish Jimin had noticed 🤭
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Straight Jungkook shamelessly twerking for his man. I wonder if he's done the same for Jimin in them Calvins 🤔
Moving on... this is definitely a favourite of mine. Mans proper vibrates on fucking stage like what!?!?! 👁👃🏽👁 That's hetero JK for ya 🤭
How many straight men do you know who twerk this much? C'mon now. 🤭🤭 And he's good at it too! 🔥
Anygays, that's exhibit one. He he hee... Okay for what I'm about to say next, I'd like to remind people of this post I made. I know it sounds like I'm joking but birch, I'm damn serious. 😒
Disclaimer: The following is just what I noticed. You don't have to see what I see. Please form your own conclusions.
Also warning: my friends hated me for showing them this but I had way too much fun with it and now u get to suffer too 🤭🤭🤭 sorry not sorry 😂
So here we go. More proof of gay JK. Our lovely Kookie did awesome on that performance video and I have been enjoying watching and rewatching. So this is something I picked up on. 😂🤭 Once again I'm so sorry 🙈
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When watching for the umpteenth time i noticed JK checking out Mr. Beard thrice here. When I tell you I was shooketh 😳 I can't see hot beard's ass very well but JK sure can 😂😂
When I showed this to my friends, one of them told me about black guy here. JK checks him out too when he sings every hour. So she was like; its part of the choreo Shaz stop it! And I was like okay. 🙌🏽
But as i continued to watch the video, guess what happened? Mr. Beard is now on JK's other side when it happens again!! Here he checks out hot beard guy when he sings Tuesday and then does again at the end when he sings seven days a week.
Now hear me out 🙌🏽 I'm not insinuating anything. Y'all now I'm deep in this Jikook shit. I'm just saying JK was checking out hot beard dancer. Which is no bd of course he's just looking. People joke around and call JK Jiminsexual because while we have seen Jimin thirst over other people here and there, we have never seen JK do this. Ever. Even other members like RM, Suga, Jhope and V have all been caught in 4k. But all these years and JK we have nothing. The only person we see JK checking out is Jimin. So forgive me if I was fascinated. 😂😂 Especially coz it kept fucking happening. I mean look at this!! When he runs back his eyes are on beard dancer's ass as he sings night after night 🤭🤭 Lastly, there is a part where JK shakes his dancers hands. Now watch him shake the other dancer's hand first, (i think its Brian) then watch him shake beard's hand and then smile back at him.
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Why was it only Mr. Beard that got a smile? 😡 I don't think i like Mr. Beard and I hope he gets fired 😂😂😂🤣 Guys, I just thought this was really funny is all. And fascinating if I'm being honest because this isn't the norm for JK. Or maybe I'm just a nut job that need to go to bed.. who knows? 😆
Oh wait, hold up.
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I just realised something. If Jimin watches this and sees what I see then JK will definitely be in trouble. Now, they've been at this xes thing for 9 years so JK should be a pro by now, right? So maybe the times when he's limping is because he gets punished for misbehaving and so Jimin goes a bit harder than usual which prevents JK from walking properly?
Or sitting down. 😳
I cracked the case y'all. 😂😂
Anyway anon.. what a long winded way to agree with you. Yes. JK is super gay! Like, super, duper gay. 💯
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johnslittlespoon · 3 months
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Curt coming untouched from getting John and Gale off and when they realize what happened, Curt all flustered and red faced, they both can’t help but make him come at least one more time. Gale sitting on the edge of the bed (we’re gonna pretend he and John have their own private quarters) with Curt pressed against him sitting between his thighs, John on his knees sucking him off and Curt honest to god whimpering in between his stammered attempts to keep up his usual New York snark. Gripping onto Gale’s arms that are wrapped around his torso as he squirms and bucks his hips, Gale’s chin tucked over Curt’s shoulder so he can murmur all sorts of praise and dirty words that no one, especially not Curt, ever expected to hear coming from good, Wyoming boy Gale’s mouth 😌😌
Anyway, all those gays are switches but Curt will almost never put up a fight about them domming him (tho the idea of Curt/John domming Gale or Curt/Gale domming John is 👀👀 especially John I know that man can be a little shit in the bedroom)
i need you to know this was the first thing i saw when i woke up this morning and i almost had to go back to sleep to recover
gale's strong arms holding curt in place on the mattress between his legs because he's squirming from oversensitivity, but john is kitten-licking him back to hardness while jerking him off with a shit–eating grin, going on about "it's only fair if we return the favour." gale mouthing at curt's neck leaving sloppy wet kisses and whispering the dirtiest things, making both curt and john flush.
gale getting hard again from curt wriggling against him and john getting hard again from hearing the way gale is talking and the pretty sounds curt is making. john pinning curt's thighs down with his big hands when he comes, shaking against gale and grasping at john's hair to pull him off.
they're both worked up again from getting curt off so gale throws curt over onto his back and runs his hands up his thighs and curt whines, slurring an "i can't", too fucked–out to speak coherently.
gale purring out "aw, is it too much?" but they both take pity on him, gale holding curt's legs up, pressing them towards his chest but pushing curt's thighs together so he can fuck them instead of actually fucking him.
curt laying at the edge of the bed so he can turn his head sideways and let john sloppily fuck his mouth and the fucking noises he would let out around john's dick every time gale brushes against curt's own overstimulated cock as he pushes into his thighs!! the way he'd grip john's thigh with one hand and the blanket with his other, eyes all pretty and teary and cheeks flushed, feeling like a lil ragdoll between the two men <3
thx for the fic inspo! ^^ xoxo LOL
(and yes absolutely, john has a mouth on him and needs to be put in his place often and sometimes he acts out just so he can make that happen <3)
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fandomfluffandfuck · 18 days
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Hi S! I’ve been wondering. I know some (gay/bi/…) men hate it when women write m|m. And well as a woman. I love to read and write m|m. I find it way more intriguing than m|w or w|w. (I don’t even know why.) I mean, I love Stucky and Evanstan and I’ve been writing my own OCs story (without smut, cos I can’t know how it feels to be hard and shit like that, and heterosexualisation)
Anyway so this got me thinking about how you might feel about this. Because I don’t want to hurt people and your opinion kinda matters to me. I look up to you even though I think we’re the same age.
Bye and thx 💙❤️
Hey, sweets!
First, I have to stay, I can completely relate to this. I've had--few and far between, but still, it's happened--people ask/request me to write smut with genderbent stucky with Steve and Bucky both as women. And, yeah, I always have hesitations about it. So, I've never actually done it, lmao. I, personally, always feel weird about it because of the history of men (usually straight men, but, I'm clearly not that 💀 so we'll go with men who are attracted to women exclusively or otherwise) fetishizing lesbians.
Realistically, going outside and touching grass, I'm of the opinion that this is fiction. We're writing fictional stories. It doesn't bleed into my real life. I understand the difference between fantasy and reality, and I try to assert that on my blog. So, in theory, it is harmless. But, funnily enough, just like you, I also don't feel qualified to make that judgment. I always try to mark my fics appropriately--whether it's me, as a man, writing about women or it's me writing about a subject I am not an expert in like history, specific careers or jobs, legal issues, exact timelines of canon, etc., etc.-- that way, appropriate readers will continue if it doesn't bother them, and other readers will move on if it does. Of course, there will always be people who ignore those tags or are outraged by it existing to begin with and... there's no pleasing those people. So. They don't bother me. The tags are there. The warnings are present. So, it's their responsibility as a reader to act appropriately from then on. I can't do it for them.
Anyway, my ramblings aside--
It doesn't bother me when straight, cis women write mlm fanfiction! It doesn't bother me when women write mlm fanfiction at all.
Obviously, there would (and probably will) be outliers in women who have unchecked homophobia/transphobia/general queerphobia that is expressed through their writing but... I have yet to come across that. So, I don't really care.
Think of it, like, I don't have a problem when straight, cis women talk to or about gay/bi/queer men. It only crosses a line for me when those women start to think they know better about the the queer community and talk over queer men. (And the fact that you're concerned about it being strange points toward you not being like that. Not crossing that line.) Or, because I like to explain everything to death, think of it like like acting. I am of the opinion that I don't need every queer character to be played by a queer actor--what I want is fair representation and job opportunities for queer actors in Hollywood across the board, not necessarily the ability for only them to own those roles. Some straight and cis actors might not have the range or ability to play a queer character, and so they don't. However, straight and cis actors exist that can portray queer characters in vibrancy and outside of harmful contexts. What makes those actors good? Their ability to learn and understand queer people as people. Clearly, you, anon, want to learn and understand. That's good!
Fetishizing, I obviously understand, can be some people's fear but with fanfiction... again, it's fantasy.
(That, and, my understanding, is that mlm ships are more common because of men often being written more in-depth and more readily available in media within the patriarchal society we have constructed and because it can be refreshing to completely take yourself out of fantasy and pleasure and that sort of thing when it is so taboo in our society (especially women's pleasure). Which, mlm relationships provide more so than mlw or wlw. So, I can understand the appeal!)
I will say there's a layer to my answer, too, of how much a lot of fandon spaces can feel like women's spaces to me. Obviously, it's not all women, and I know that well. There are lots of nonbinary people and men around here! Though, fandom has been something that has, from my knowledge, been dominated by women historically. And while I love seeing more diversity in fandom as people of all types embrace and love the art that speaks to them with wild passion, I still see a lot, lot of women. So, I don't feel like it's my place as a man to police the space and say what belongs or doesn't belong, y'know? I'm just here enjoying my time. And with all the incredible fanfiction that's out there that has been written about mlm ships by straight women, cis or trans, I wouldn't want to change that.
So, TLDR; I don't mind when women write about queer men, whether they themselves are straight or not. Obviously, there are limits to that, and harm can be done when straight women try to speak over queer men (queer people generally, too), but it seems like with your concern for the topic you'll do just fine. So, go out there and write!
P.S. thinking about sensations in smut... you might be interested in these two drabbles I've written 👀
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turtle-steverogers · 8 months
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im curious do you see canon steve as bi or gay (or something else)? because i oscillate between bi and gay, i see both sides but i can't make up my own mind haha
thx for your ✨️wonderful✨️ thoughts
oh gosh, if i'm being completely honest, it changes! typically i headcanon him as bisexual with a preference for men, but i think that any which way people perceive his sexuality is totally valid, you know?
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