#this is so tender and so boyfriend
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Anyway, they’re in love with each other.
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the thing is that they're so fascinated by sex, they love sex, they can't imagine a world without sex - they need sex to sell things, they need sex to be part of their personality, they need sex to prove their power - but they hate sex. they are disgusted by it.
sex is the only thing that holds their attention, and it is also the thing that can never be discussed directly.
you can't tell a child the normal names for parts of their body, that's sexual in nature, because the body isn't a body, it's a vessel of sex. it doesn't matter that it's been proven in studies (over and over) that kids need to know the names of their genitals; that they internalize sexual shame at a very young age and know it's 'dirty' to have a body; that it overwhelmingly protects children for them to have the correct words to communicate with. what matters is that they're sexual organs. what matters is that it freaks them out to think about kids having body parts - which only exist in the context of sex.
it's gross to talk about a period or how to check for cancer in a testicle or breast. that is nasty, illicit. there will be no pain meds for harsh medical procedures, just because they feature a cervix.
but they will put out an ad of you scantily-clad. you will sell their cars for them, because you have abs, a body. you will drip sex. you will ooze it, like a goo. like you were put on this planet to secrete wealth into their open palms.
they will hit you with that same palm. it will be disgusting that you like leather or leashes, but they will put their movie characters in leather and latex. it will be wrong of you to want sexual freedom, but they will mark their success in the number of people they bed.
they will crow that it's inappropriate for children so there will be no lessons on how to properly apply a condom, even to teens. it's teaching them the wrong things. no lessons on the diversity of sexual organ growth, none on how to obtain consent properly, none on how to recognize when you feel unsafe in your body. if you are a teenager, you have probably already been sexualized at some point in your life. you will have seen someone also-your-age who is splashed across a tv screen or a magazine or married to someone three times your age. you will watch people pull their hair into pigtails so they look like you. so that they can be sexy because of youth. one of the most common pornography searches involves newly-18 young women. girls. the words "barely legal," a hiss of glass sand over your skin.
barely legal. there are bills in place that will not allow people to feel safe in their own bodies. there are people working so hard to punish any person for having sex in a way that isn't god-fearing and submissive. heteronormative. the sex has to be at their feet, on your knees, your eyes wet. when was the first time you saw another person crying in pornography and thought - okay but for real. she looks super unhappy. later, when you are unhappy, you will close your eyes and ignore the feeling and act the role you have been taught to keep playing. they will punish the sex workers, remove the places they can practice their trade safely. they will then make casual jokes about how they sexually harass their nanny.
and they love sex but they hate that you're having sex. you need to have their ornamental, perfunctory, dispassionate sex. so you can't kiss your girlfriend in the bible belt because it is gross to have sex with someone of the same gender. so you can't get your tubes tied in new england because you might change your mind. so you can't admit you were sexually assaulted because real men don't get hurt, you should be grateful. you cannot handle your own body, you cannot handle the risks involved, let other people decide that for you. you aren't ready yet.
but they need you to have sex because you need to have kids. at 15, you are old enough to parent. you are not old enough to hear the word fuck too many times on television.
they are horrified by sex and they never stop talking about it, thinking about it, making everything unnecessarily preverted. the saying - a thief thinks everyone steals. they stand up at their podiums and they look out at the crowd and they sign a bill into place that makes sexwork even more unsafe and they stand up and smile and sign a bill that makes gender-affirming care illegal and they get up and they shrug their shoulders and write don't say gay and they get up, and they make the world about sex, but this horrible, plastic vision of it that they have. this wretched, emotionless thing that holds so much weight it's staggering. they put their whole spine behind it and they push and they say it's normal!
this horrible world they live in. disgusted and also obsessed.
#this shifts gender so much bc it actually affects everyone#yes it's a gendered phenomenon. i have written a LOT about how different genders experience it. that's for a different post.#writeblr#ps my comments about seeing someone cry -- this is not to shame any person#and on this blog we support workers.#at the same time it's a really hard experience to see someone that looks like you. clearly in agony. and have them forced to keep going.#when you're young it doesn't necessarily look like acting. it looks scary. and that's what this is about - the fact that teens#have likely already been exposed to that definition of things. because the internet exists#and without the context of healthy education. THAT is the image burned into their minds about what it looks like.#it's also just one of those personal nuanced biases -#at 19 i thought it was normal to be in pain. to cry. to not-like-it. that it should be perfunctory.#it was what i had seen.#and it didn't help that my religious upbringing was like . 'yeah that's what you get for premarital. but also for the reference#we do think you should never actually enjoy it lol'#so like the point im making is that ppl get exposed to that stuff without the context of something more tender#and assume .... 'oh. so it's fine i am not enjoying myself'. and i know they do because I DID.#he was my first boyfriend. how was i supposed to know any different#i didn't even have the mental wherewithal to realize im a lesbian . like THAT used to suffering.
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Spoilers for Lisa Frankenstein but the creature writing “Beloved Wife” on Lisa’s tombstone was the most romantic thing I’ve ever seen, it’s driving me crazy
#the best movie boyfriend of the last century has like one actual speaking line#he was so tender when he wasn’t committing murder#and when he was#lisa frankenstein#Lisa Frankenstein Spoilers
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there’s something unspeakable that happens to my heart when I look at Paul’s face in the right picture
#it’s like looking at pictures of my mum with her former boyfriends#can’t explain it there’s a tenderness there that we shouldn’t be able to see somehow#we’re intruding! we’re looking in on something so gentle a private! but it’s an official photoshoot and they put those pics out#gentle and private*#hm#frankly i miss paris#paul mccartney#the beatles#john lennon#george harrison#ringo starr#classic rock#beatles#richard starkey#brian epstein#george martin
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Bsd is so funny because Akutagawa and Chuuya never interacted in canon and are probably barely aware of each other's existence and then there's anime promo art where they're constantly looking like they've been happily married for ten years
#I swear the one and only existing promo art of Akutagawa smiling...#chuuaku#bsd#bungou stray dogs#mine#q.#18/01/23#Also thinking about the fifth years anniversary like. The way Chuuya looks at Akutagawa????#It's not even sultry or anything like the looks he gives Dazai it's literally#“soft tender look of someone who's been in love with their husband for longer than they can remember look” like. duh#The picnic one where Chuuya hugs Akutagawa.#Akutagawa - who you'd think doesn't really like hugs‚ right? - is barely distressed like that was. common occurrence??#Literally artistic equivalent of “I wasn't that drunk the other night” “you were flirting with me” “so what I'm your boyfriend”#“you asked me if I was single and then started crying when I told you I wasn't”#Anyways anyways. Chuuaku ❤️
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The Depths
#monster art#teeth#its a flesh based monster so#gore#pearls#mimic#tenderness#rendering is so much fun#monster boyfriend#monster x human#I have a whole comic for this I'm working on
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they are both so strong physically and mentally cuz they are just flirting and having sexual tensions on camera and they’re just okay with it
#Carlos survived the long lashes babygirl doe eyes#Charles survived the strong but tender alpha boyfriend#they are so much stronger than me#charlos#c2#c square#c²
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Ride 747: Sugimoto's back
Pag 1
1: His spirit trained them, and now his back sees them off
Pag 2
1: Those who won just look forward.....
Pag 3
1: Danchiku has won this race!!
2: Since they arrived at the same time on the second day, three of their races ended in a draw
3: And the fourth, the last lap with the ban on surpassing....
5: Showing an astounding tenacity, he held Sugimoto down and got the better of the final sprint before the finish line...
Pag 4
1: The second year Danchiku Ryuuhou obtained the jersey of the Inter High members!!
Pag 5
1: Ruaaaa!!
2: Yes!!
3: Let's go to the Inter High together!!
Hahaha, Danchiku!!
4: Danchiku-kun....
5: Ah!
Sugimoto-kun....
Pag 7
4: Sugimoto!!
Sugimoto!!
Imaizumi-kun
Pag 8
1: Nii-chan!!
Sugimoto fell!!
2: What was the crash just now.... huh!?
Huh
3: Sugimoto-san!?
He swayed.... and fell down as if he completely lost his tsrength!!
Is he conscious!?
Is he alright!? Sugimoto-kun
With that fall...
Pag 9
1: Sugimoto!!
6: Are you okay? Do you need ice water? Do you want a towel?
Pag 10
1: Imaizumi-kun....
Hotshot....
2: Did you give everything you had?
4: It....
5: It.... sure... seems like it
6: ….. everything
Pag 11
1: When I saw.... Danchiku from behind.... and I saw him raising his hand.... I don't know why but....suddenly... all my strength.... left me
5: It was a run that made us shake, an all-out sprint that captivated those who were watching you
6: You were cool
7: Could you.... pour some ice water on me
Pag 12
2: It made me shake too....!!
I felt the strength of Sugimoto-kun's wishes!!
It was the best run ever!!
3: So cold... it feels...so nice
4: Imaizumi
5: Yeah
6: Teru
Pag 13
2: Huh!? No... that's... that's
3: Teru?
4: Imaizumi... maybe, if on the fourth day... I go all out
5: If I get to go to the Inter High....
6: Could you call me “Teru”?
Ah? Why- ah, Teru as in... Terufumi?
7: No, no, well, it's just an idea!! I'll ask you again on the fourth day, yes!!
8: It doens't matter how I call you
You- you're right, it doesn't matter
9: But I'll ask you! Imaizumi
Please call me Teru from now on!!
Let's fight together in our last Inter High!
If I win...
Pag 14
2: That was supposed to happen if I had won...
It doesn't matter...
4: Thank you
5: Imaizumi....
6: Imaizumi
7: Please
Pag 15
2: Ride with my feeling of three years too
4: To the Inter High
Pag 16
1: Go there, Imaizumi!!
Pag 17
1: Got it, Teru!!
3: Sugimoto-kun.... you pushed Imaizumi-kun's!!!
4: Back!!
5: Danchiku!!
Pag 18
3: You too!!
Be resolved!!
4: Yessir!!
Pag 19
1: Thank you much for this all-out race!!
Thank you!!
2: Nii-chan!! On
Ah... Sadatoki...
3: I'm sorry, I wanted to show you something cool, but
4: I los....
5: Um... well, how do I say... if I put it into words, then that's it...
I los...
6: Imaizumi, could you give me the towel
Pag 20
1: Uaaaaa, I lost
Pag 21
1: I lost, I lost!
2: Uaaaaa
3: You fought by yourself, and you never gave up, over and over
Sugimoto, today you were the strongest
4: Dammit, I'm so frustrated too
Can't you do something about it, Onoda!?
5: Sugimoto did his best! And without doing anything wrong, too!!
Pag 22
1: On the fourth day of training camp, at 19:10 of the last day, the third year Sugimoto Terufumi.... with 45km out of 1000km left, retired
2: “Retirement race”....
Pag 23
1: Imaizumi, Naruko, and Onoda cleared the laps they had left
2: At 19:50, with plenty of time left, they cleared the whole 1000km
3: The two second years, Danchiku and Kaburagi, cooperated and cleared the whole 1000km, too
The other first and second years decided to retire early and ran errands
Pag 24
1: On the course
2: Remained two people, the first year Kinaka Tsugunao and Rokudai Renta
#yowamushi pedal manga#yowamushi pedal#yowamushi pedal translations#yowapeda#yowapeda manga#yowamushi pedal spoilers#ride 747#so is yowapeda a shoujo now asdghasdjhsgf#sugimoto may have lost the race but he did win Imaizumi's heart#the real win was the boyfriend we got along the way#NO BUT SERIOSULY THIS CHAP WAS THE MOST TENDER THING EVER WTF#gently stroking your buddy's cheek and calling him a cute nickname is pretty gay imaizumi did you know that#i didnt even know imaizumi could be THIS SWEET#THEYRE SO CUTE ;A;#but also#there's many pages in this chap that really fckin HURT#sugimotooooo ;A;#im SO SAD for him#but also so happy bc yk theyre dating now right#(im saying this as the biggest imanaru shipper eh i want to make it clear lmao)#(watanabe has the talent of making me ship every single possible ship#theyre all a little canon after all)#(yowapeda sure is a multishipper's heaven)#but anyway!! next chap we're going back to my babies!!!!#And the question still stands: what if both of them complete the 1000km what then#why should danchiku go instead of both of them#or what if neither of them finish the 1000km so none of them can go#what then WHAT THEN#i said it already but this whole thing makes no sense when theres 2 spots left on the team saghdjas
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Its the jiao jiao anon again .
You keep giving me great pairings. Tell me everything how su she (Shang Qinghua) transmigrate and how will fuck jiang cheng. Is he still an author ? What was his intention with this kinda book?
I think he is still a writer but not the actual author of mdzs. He's a relatively casual fan who admires the vision and winces in sympathy every time drama gets kicked off. This is why you don't try, mdzs author! You give the people what they want and take their money. He's originally planning on keeping his head down and learning just enough cultivation from the Lan to make his life easier than it otherwise would be, then getting an urgent letter from his sick mother right before the Wen are scheduled to attack, but alas, his wandering not-cultivator dumpling sabbatical puts him directly in Jiang Cheng's path while he's frantically running for help after leaving Wei Wuxian in the Xuanwu cave. And the thing is he's still kind of reflexively haughty when he needs something? So pathetic and vulnerable. So cute. What could possibly be the harm in giving him a ride? The Wen aren't scheduled to attack Lotus Pier for ages. He can be on a ship to Dongyin by that time!
Anyway no good deed goes unpunished because Jiang Fengmian does as a general rule believe in giving credit and naming names. He should have fucking known. Now Wen Chao has a grudge against him and he's running around under a fake name wracking up credit for things he did (while trying to run away) and things he did not do (sometimes even when you have a massive army and the most powerful cultivator in the world on your side, things go wrong! He's not responsible for every problem with Wen supply lines. He's responsible for exactly one cart blowing up, and he was just trying for a distraction so he could sneak onto a ship. It didn't work and the harbour is kind of a no-go zone for him now). He comes up with a new plan: find Huaisang and use his shitty unwanted heroic reputation and talent for creative pornography to worm his way into the young master's guard, where he can get some writing done far from the front lines. Unfortunately, he once again stumbles across Jiang Cheng, who is tragically trying to rebuild his sect and searching for a missing shixiong. Shang Qinghua is still a logistics guy, because he was doing grunt work for the Lan and also I feel like that's the shape any transmigration setting is going to bend into around him. Jiang Cheng is so grateful to see a familiar face. He knows the value of a good spreadsheet. His eyes are so pretty when he's trying not to cry. The Jiang aren't in a great place during the war, but Shang Qinghua knows the sect makes it through and he doesn't remember any Jiang disciples being asked to heroically sacrifice themselves after Lotus Pier falls. Plus the food is better and there's plenty of room at the top! A veritable power vacuum. To say nothing of all the empty space in Jiang Cheng's personal life when almost everyone he loves dies and leaves him alone! Anyway this is the story of how Shang Qinghua accidentally paints a series of targets on his back, unnecessarily involves himself in the plot, and overcomplicates his life because being a sucker for a pretty face and a bad personality is even more integral to his character than underappreciated grunt work. Probably he manages to save Yanli, at least. He's not interested in being a stepfather! That's a lot of work. Wei Wuxian barely notices he exists until either he saves everyone or the second life roles around, depending on how ambitious and/or motivated Shang Qinghua is feeling. Then he hates him passionately, but it's too late. They probably eventually reach some kind of begrudging peace.
#meanwhile in svsss a noted danmei author woke up in lmy and decided that she would not be joining any harems or dealing with any#dead brother induced vengeance quests#i think plan a was to solve the plot with liujiu#because she likes enemies to lovers and has a very specific set of narrative problem solving skills#and anyway! sqq won't kill his lover right she's pretty sure you can solve murder with dick and he's always seemed very lonely#and obviously it would be ungentlemanly to snipe his boyfriend's intended disciple#an elegant solution!#but then clan leader seems so heartbroken! what has she done!!!#threesomes go against her morals as a strict otp shipper but she IS in a dog shit harem novel after all#and her tender heart has been moved by the plight of a childhood friend with a big dick. something something she also winds up the center#of a shl nyy love triangle like oh nooooo what WILL she do
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the softness of this moment is something so personal to me
#cobra kai#cobra kai spoilers#lawrusso#johnny lawrence#daniel larusso#william zabka#ralph macchio#johnny always gives to softest of touches to daniel i'm-#idk idk this is just so soft and tender and cute i want to jump off a cliff#the way he calms him down.........#just a protective boyfriend#****the#things i post
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Yeah, we gay, keep scrolling
#has this been done before idk#wille looks so annoyed at being interrupted#he wanted to kiss his boyfriend so bad#dont worry you will do it later#joking aside this shot is so pure and so tender i want to cry 🥺#young royals#wilmon#prince wilhelm#aka Simon's boyfriend#simon eriksson#aka Wille's boyfriend#yr s2 spoilers#young royals spoilers#yr spoilers
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I want to go back in time and thank the person who invented the idea of exchanging rings with your lover as a sign of your commitment and bond ... what a wonderful concept
#whenever i take my ring off before bed and examine it my heart feels so tender#my boyfriend sleeps in his#and when i see it on his finger while he's sleeping soundly my heart completely melts#like we wear these antique pieces of jewellery all day every day so people know we belong to each other and love each other#...#that's so special#:')))) <333
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Well since you asked and I am just your humble servant.
Could we have more angsty Ralvez, maybe a slightly smutty one with Luke comforting Spencer after a flashback during the deed...?
#criminal minds#criminal minds fanart#spencer reid#luke alvez#ralvez#spencer x luke#sad boys time#luke is the best boyfriend i love him#just imagine him being so tender careful and sad when spencer needs space#wonderful ask thank you#asks#sketch asks#500 followers#500 celebration#prompts#fan art#my art#art
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i was constantly wheezing with the shenfan reunion situation where yu fan was constantly overthinking like "we may have found each other again but things aren't as simple and i still have to explain the thing with my dad blackmailing and extorting from his mom and he'd probably want to break up with me after that anyway-" while chen jingshen is waiting for yu fan sitting on yu fan's bed in yu fan's pajamas in yu fan's house going (*´ω｀*) "ah, a beautiful day of getting to see my beloved..."
#our wedding shall be in spring#chen jingshen to anyone who would listen: i am at my Boyfriend's house. yeah. my Boyfriend-#they're so silly and tender and i am going to explode#they really made me sob in the 70s chapters but the 80s were worth everything i had to go through#still hurt like a bitch though make no mistake#yu fan#chen jingshen#wait for me after school#wfmas#danmei
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#last night we were both a little sleepy.#a little wine-drunk.#i asked him to play me something on the guitar while i leaned on his shoulder.#he said he only knows a few songs. i said that's fine#whatever you want.#first song: like real people do by hozier#which has a very tender place in my heart because it's the last song i sang for a real performance (2015).#so i still know all the words.#and he didn't know that!#it just happened to be the song.#anyway it was 1230am. anyway my jacket smells like his apartment.#anyway early this morning i said i thought romance was built of small acts of devotion. like how every morning my dad makes my mom coffee#because she sleeps worse and takes longer to wake up and he wants her to not have to worry about another thing in the morning.#when she comes downstairs every day he has it ready for her to take to work.#he makes it separately because he drinks an entirely different coffee than she does. but he makes it because he wants her to have it.#it's one of many small repeated acts of love they do for each other. they're still in love with each other after 30 years.#anyway my boyfriend is a notorious instant coffee fiend.#it's easy and he likes the flavor.#but when we got up this morning he pulled out a bag of coffee beans and a hand-grinder and said: would you like me to make you coffee?
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It’s the middle of July and I cannot stop thinking about Stobotnik Christmas fics and ideas
#stobotnik#mocha rambles#the few I’ve read are SO soft#some of my favourites#stobotnik + Christmas is just the perfect match#I don’t make the rules#I need more#sobs#it’s about the tenderness and seeing the beauty in life at just the right angle#and the way your boyfriend lights up#the warmth in the air#despite the snow#ok I’ll stop waxing poetic in the tags now
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