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addiction is not a silly way to describe having a favorite thing. saying "omg I'm such a [object or thing] addict!" or something like that when you really just mean it is something that you enjoy makes you shit. along with the already terrible stigmas surrounding addiction it makes it seem like something that people chose. it makes it seem like something that people just don't want to stop. stop using addiction and addicts as your punchline.
#robynski scream#addiction#cpunk#addict#these active tags as examples->#plant addict#fashion addict#travel addict#reading addict#chocoholic#etc etc
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// COMMISSIONS!
opening up general commissions so i thought i'd make a new post, most info is already in the slides but i require a document with information and references before we can get started, list below!
// WHAT YOU'LL PUT IN THE DOC.
which type of commission you want (head/bust/half body + lines/color)
short description / introduction of your oc
at least one visual reference but preferably more; face claim, art, picrew (if the maker allows it), NO a/i art!
additional visual references such as pose, clothing, tattoos, and color scheme; if you don't have any preferences, you can skip this!
additional details that i need to keep in mind (freckles, scars, stuff like that)
what kind of background you'd like (solid color, gradient, dual color)
// NOTES.
DM me before paying! i would like to see references first before receiving payment, so i'll know what i'll be working on!
if there's no open slots left, i can put you on the waiting list and i'll reach out to you as soon as i've worked through my queue :D i work in batches as to not overwork myself, so i cannot give you an indication on how long you'll be on the waiting list
i'll keep you updated throughout the entire process, please keep an eye on your tumblr dms when commissioning me for smooth communication! i'm willing to move to discord for communication too, but if i don't know you well please keep it professional
i might charge extra for complicated background pattern requests, complicated armor or complicated tattoos, but feel free to request anything because we can always discuss details about stuff!
the end result is a digital artwork of your oc, you will not receive any physical goods!
you’re allowed to post the art wherever and use it for icons and such, as long as you don’t take credits for the art yourself. you are not allowed to sell it or use it for n/f/t or a/i purposes
ko-fi: ko-fi.com/nuclearvessel
#commissions#rbs much appreciated!! <3#i'll have anywhere between 2-4 slots open at a time depending on complexity of the art!!#i'll try to reply to dms i get timely but please go easy on me if i take a while. my blog also runs on a queue so if you see me posting#that's probably my queue and it doesn't mean i'm actively online at the time!#anyway you can also check my art tag on my blog for more examples if you're interested in what i do :^)
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So, first off, this is not an attempt to kink shame (dubcon and noncon are great!) but I do keep seeing a thing in fics (I do NOT see this irl in kink spaces nearly as often) where like. A character will interrupt the flow of the scene to check consent
And I don't mean in an "are we still green?" Or "what's your color?" kind of way, but I mean. The author has tagged the fic and indicated via prose and/or author notes that they are doing their Due Diligence to make sure this fic is Righteously Consensual from top to bottom, No Question About It
And a character will ask for full sexual consent either directly or indirectly or renegotiate the boundaries of the kinks being practiced AFTER the sex acts have already begun.
Here's the thing: horny brain isn't great at making decisions! irl in kink spaces, there's often a lot of emphasis on negotiating BEFORE the scene begins, perhaps even with a space between negotiation and the scene if it's with a new/unfamiliar partner (maybe it's a few minutes while things are set up, maybe the partners negotiate a day or more in advance! It depends!), and not changing the parameters of the scene after someone is already horny or god forbid already in subspace.
Again, these are perfectly fine rules to break in fiction, when the author is aware of it (most characters are not going to be fully familiar with safe, sane, consensual practices and the traffic light system, nor would we want them to be!) but I'm increasingly finding fics where the author DOESN'T seem aware, which takes a normal fic (in-character, with reasonable but perhaps even somewhat dubious practices, which the author isn't emphasizing or preaching about) into Red Flag Territory (a character, OOC, yanking me out of the scene to behave like a PSA about consent instead of conforming to the horny tone of the scene, and perpetuating unsafe practices anyway)
If you are writing a master manipulator or someone who wants to have a gotcha, you totally said it was okay on a character they are trying to bone (which is well in the realm of non/dubcon) that's fine! This PSA is not aimed at you. But if you are trying to write someone who Cares Strongly About Consent, then perhaps be more aware of when is an appropriate time to escalate the situation (sexually speaking) or ask for consent!
#like you don't see this shit in the sex pollen tag!#those folks know exactly what they're doing and they're having a great time#and i don't want to call anyone out specifically because like. this is a multi fandom issue#and i see it mostly in fiction space#written by people who are probably not active in their local kink community#but i did just see a really egregious and specific example which triggered this rant I've been sitting on for a WHILE#like. people who are writing heat fics also typically know! if the sub is gagging for any phallus it's not the time to ask for consent!#they're well past that point!!!#it's the fics in between that think they're doing uwu soft romance with a bit of spice#that don't know how to warn for shit and make me very concerned for their safe sex practices in the future#this is 10000% more egregious if you DO write a character who is keenly aware of SSC practices#if your character goes to kink dungeons or has opinions about the traffic light system#they probably should know not to fuck with renegotiating mid scene#this has been a psa
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Hey there!! I'm looking for some more blogs to follow, can you recommend me your favorites? Thank you!!
I sure can! Tbh, I don't follow many blogs (and even fewer are still active), so I'll just give you a random assortment of people who are a joy to have on your dashboard 🌼
@dancingcrowley @southfarthing @llokilaufeyson @capinejghafa @pedrocillian @ughmerlin @foolishlovers @wearecrowley @goomens @gooodomens @goodomensedit @sandmancentral @moorishflower @courtjestermerlin @queerfables @crowleyanthonys @iant0jones @toshsato @plumbum-art @gleafer @peregrintook @hardly-an-escape @landwriter @softest-punk @wizardofgoodfortune @wordsinhaled @rooftopwreck @donttouchtheneednoggle @lit-in-thy-heart @botanicallyinclinednerd @rainbowvamp @mumble-muse @queerofthedagger @fellshish @seance
#this list is very sandman/good omens heavy with some multifandom sprinkled in#also not sure if you're new on tumblr#but check out the tags for shows/films/characters/etc you like#and if you're specifically looking for gif makers to follow check out the '-edit' tag for your fandoms#('goodomensedit' for good omens for example)#aaaand! there are usually source blogs for specific fandoms (like 'merlin-gifs' or 'sandmancentral') which are a good way to find people#who are active in a fandom#ask
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Peace and love on planet Earth but if I see one more post NOT about recovery and, in fact, encouraging eating disorders in the ed recovery tag, I might just turn into a chimpanzee and tear everyone's faces off.
#ed recovery#are you people for real?#ONE. I'm asking for ONE tag.#how tone-deaf and cruel do you have to be to post your active ed behaviour absolutely without any trigger warnings#or forewords#you know what i foolishly expect in the es recovery tag? ed recovery. yes i know very presumptuous of me.#i expect people who are trying to recover or are in recovery sharing their experiences and maybe some body positivity#talking about how hard recovery can be; for example. etc etc.#you know what happens in the tag? of course you do. ana meal diaries. posts about nothing but how much you body check#talking about how much you hate yourself because you're trying to lose 10kg and yesterday you had a salad and now you're asking#for tips how to get better at restricting and continuing your ed.#everyone who does that is a ghoul. and I'm done being nice and ignoring that shit.#like. some fucking room check maybe? I'm sitting in my flat shaking from cold which is caused only partly by the room temperature#and I'm doing my best to avoid everyone i know because i can't stand the thought of them seeing my form and when someone#i know accidentally meets me on the street or somewhere i feel like shit because I'm disgusting and if it were up to me#i wouldn't even leave this flat at all. so you know. naturally. i try to get myself at least some form#of support. i try to look for positivity for people like me; who are trying to recover. i want an outside source to affirm that I am not#repulsive. that I'm not insane when i think that all bodies are cool and fascinating and that there's no way or shape anyone is#expecting me to be in order to earn their love or at least their lust. and what do i get instead? you ghouls#wonderful. lovely. think about all the people like me next time you decide to post that shit in the recovery tag. thanks.
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The fandom has gotten really dark since you left.. certain shippers are really aggressive about their ships to the point of bullying. I kno you’ve dealt with stuff like that in the past and you handled it all so well I remember reading some anon asks.. any tips n’tricks?
OOF, WHELP -- not sure I'll be much help given that I have no idea what state the fandom is in. All I can really say is that you're going to find aggressive shippers no matter what fandom you're in. My method to dealing with people like that was to just block them and add them to my blacklist. The only times I ever engaged with them was if they came at me directly (which rarely happened -- the more aggressive they are, the more cowardly they were when it came to confrontation) or if they put a callout post about me directly in the main fandom tag. I always clapped back at those people just because like lol if you've got a problem with my fics or my decision to delete them all, okay cool, I don't care, but doing stuff like putting a long-winded complaint post in the main tag is so childish and stupid.
The best advice I think I can give for this is to just not care LOL I sure as hell never did and still don't. Never will! Shipping is supposed to be fun and the people who actively try and take that fun away from others are struggling with issues outside of fandom, but shipping is their outlet so that's where their aggression manifests. Happy people don't care about drama over fictional characters, so go be a happy person! Utilize that block option and live your best life!
#anon#for real you will find this in every fandom#I've been too involved in my own stuff to get involved with any other fandoms after this one#but if you'd like an example of a fandom that went absolutely feral in terms of bullying#lookup what happened to the Voltron fandom#I wasn't even active in it and I heard so much stuff about it#sending voice actors death threats#sending food laced with nails and poisons#lying about trauma to get people to donate to a gofundme#stealing thousands and thousands of dollars for zines#the bloodshed between Shiro/Keith and Keith/Lance#it was all so incredibly stupid#for the love of god be a happy person#indulge yourself in what you enjoy#ignore everything else#even if you try to be nice to everyone like I did you will still experience haters#it happens and no biggie#do your best and learn your lessons then move on#HOPE THIS HELPS#sorry for all the tags#I forgot how much I enjoyed just whispering gently down here
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entrapta as a guest speaker at force captain orientation
#she ra#entrapta#spop#spop entrapta#''you see! just replace X with any activity! for example: murder. or baking''#my footprints#my she ra stuff#i have more in this tag
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I love the same folks that cry over fictional lesbians being “toxic” and “abusive” buddy up with real life people that send actual homophobic hate. We see y’all laughing and having fun with the same losers that have been jumping on queer peoples posts saying we’re ruining Star Wars. You’re welcome to play the purity police and pretend to be the holiest & friendliest bunch on the internet, but we see you.
#the ahsoka tags have been FILLED with gross hate yet yall are chilling with those same people now#the queer & sapphic bubbles on here won’t hesitate to block a TERF or bigot#yet fans of cishet ships LOVE to excuse anything people do as long as they *also* like the ship#do whatever you want with your life but don’t pretend you are some perfect angel that rejects all “toxic” and “problematic” behaviour#when you are LITERALLY supporting real world examples of it#media consumption is NOT activism#enjoying fucked up characters and plots does NOT make you fucked up#but being comfortable with actual real people who do actual real bigotry is fucked#do you see the difference?#text#mine
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i find dennis' toxic love for the gang sooo interesting. the lengths he goes through to ensure that their group dynamic never changes. the amount of planning he puts in implies that this is one of his fears– how they might one day change and abandon him.
an example of this would be in "frank retires" where he had formed the franquito plan seven years before he needed to use it, which felt devious (towards frank) to charlie, dee and mac, but dennis had justified it by saying he just didn't want them to change. the ending had dennis acting like he didn't mean a word he said, but i doubt it, because just a few episodes before (the gang misses the boat) he concluded that he just wanted things to stay normal in the gang after a minor freakout about how they're all gradually getting more and more insane staying in the bar together.
dennis resisting change is a consistent theme for his character. he does not want the gang to live in virtual realities, charlie to get smart, mac and dee to leave, mac's mom to stay with them, mac to connect with his dad, dee to actually be successful, mac to be so forward in his advances, frank to retire, etc etc. because he already likes the gang so much the way it is.
that is, unless he personally seeks the change. he could get married in a day, because he wanted to. he could kick mac out. he could leave the gang and start a family. he could change his car to a more modern one. but each time he tries to change and leave, he comes back to the gang... and his range rover.
and this is why he seems to hate them too, because most of his hatred comes from his resentment from loving them too much and being unable to leave. and the love he has for them is toxic, because he wants to drag them down together with him. the s13 narrative wants us to know that he's the main reason the gang stays the same for 16 seasons.
it's what makes dennis takes a mental health day so notable to me though. the commentary on systems throughout the episode, and how dennis is sick of it. dennis' rejection of technology when it takes away real life interactions, parallels the episode "charlie rules the world" in s6 which was the major turning point for dennis developing a god complex (where british dennis tells him that 'you create your own reality'). i believe dtamhd will also be a turning point for dennis, perhaps where he starts letting things go without putting as much control (systems) because he wants to live in a reality where he doesn't need to do these things anymore.
#probably has been said before too lmao#like u see. he isnt against technology when it gets him and his friends closer#like a modern tv is cool#bc he could watch shows w his buddies#a groupchat is annoying but fine too#he was glued to his phone in mac n charlie writes a movie but it was ultimately to write his own movie for the gang#like dennis loves the gang so much eventho he would neveeeeer admit#like yeah hes using them too but he loves hanging out w them#also kinda made me think of the johnny thingy#imo just another example of the lengths dennis goes through to make sure their dynamic doesnt change tbh#bc as we know it mac is actively searching for boyfriends himself which is a no no#bc if dennis isnt there to actively monitor the progress of the relationship then itd be jover for him if mac leaves him for his bf#and thats why seeking a bf for mac is ok bc he has already inserted himself into the relationship as a middleman and can monitor it#and yeah catfishing mac is even better bc hed be in full control to make sure the relationship doesnt progress#he is also in love w mac but thats another convo#wait why did the tags slowly become mcdn... uh#whatever#iasip posting#dennis reynolds
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every poll that goes around here asking how long u've been on tumblr has a majority of people answering 10+ years so whats the excuse for people claiming they dont remember tumblr suppressing the ferguson tag or that black bloggers weren't banned for talking about it?? like actively denying that happened?? u didnt feel threatened and u weren't affected at the time so u just dont care and dont want to acknowledge the history and present of anti-blackness on this site??
#syd squeaks#like it wasnt some tiny insignificant thing. tumblr was actively suppressing the ferguson tag#and theyre obviously still doing that with the palestine tag and any black blogger they dont particularly like#i get that this recent example was especially flagrant and 'meme-y' but like why do u guys have amnesia all of a sudden
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If you’re a star wars fan here from twitter,
hi, welcome, please be specific with your tags and don’t tag characters in your post if they aren’t in your post
thanks
#we do not like it#it will not work to bring you more of an austience it will actively discourage tumblrinas from enjoying your pos#you may even be reported#be specific with your tags#more tags will not make you more friends#captain gregor or whatever other nieche character lover will instead come to your hiuse and murder you becauze you keep putting codywan shit#in their tags#this is not a subtweet it’s just an example#I was going to put this in the starwars blog but then I didnmt want to be a hypocrite so newbies probably won’t even see this lmao#*tag#sorry for my typing it’s been a bad wwek for fine motor control
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Baby Mickey! 💛
#so fun fact about me literally no one would guess:#I have the trait that when something is TOO cute it actually makes me uncomfortable#it doesn't happen often but with me#this is extremely rare and is almost always limited to cute things that are portrayed as sad#(like Sad Sam and Honey for example)#but baby-ified things will do it too. this mickey borders on that line#monchiichis activate it too!#anyway. normal tags now!#mickey#disney#80s#toycore#kidcore#toys#mine#original#nostalgia#nostalgic
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awesome well now that i have been blessed with this power im going to make the poll ive wanted to make for ages because this is something that im really truly curious about.
hello my dear followers, if you see this PLEASE vote and let me know:
#banebabbles#bane polls#guess this can be a tag now???#obvs yall dont have to reblog this but ill probably be bumping it at least like once a day LOL#thanks and also sorry in advance ;ljksf i i just uh really genuinely am curious about this#ive wanted polls so i could more easily find this out for years#also i TRIED to stick with stuff where it's like. i was actively involved in the 'fandom' or made stuff for it#YOI was almost on here bc i wrote posts while watching live for example#but id say everything else up here was way more prominent or more likely to have drawn folks to my blog#okay ill stop talking now tho. sowwy. pls vote tho <3
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hadn’t really regressed in a While and i didn’t realize how much i missed/dareisay needed it until i had the free time and ability to do so over the last few days and i have to say. i’m feeling a bit better
#imagine that! the coping mechanism… helps!!! wow#Seven’s Small Thoughts#not tagging this as anything else bc this blog is really just a not-so-secret public diary#and im not really trying to gain any sort of following or participate in the community very much#i just wanna talk to the void abt regression every once in a blue moon y’know#i also feel like i don’t really belong in the community much/am not a Good Example of sfw agere since i’m very n/ s/ f/ w everywhere else#which is a double standard that i don’t hold others to but i feel like others will hold it against me??? and i’m just shy anyways#and not looking to interact. just wanna keep all this stuff tucked away in a side-blog#i also feel like a lot of the community likes to blog while actively regressed and i don’t wanna step in there as someone who isn’t#nothing wrong with it! at all! i just don’t have the capacity to since i go nonverbal when i regress. no thoughts head blissfully empty#anyways this wasn’t supposed to be a vent post let’s change the topic!#anywhooo what else did i come on here to say. oh yeah#i lowkey forgot how much regressing has helped me in the past until i was able to really indulge myself in it again recently#it’s so nice to just be small and hand someone else the reins and forget abt everything other than doing something you enjoy#maybe one day i’ll be at a point in my life where i can fully regress more freely and more often but for now i’ll take what i can get#i’m also excited because i’ve been thinking abt ordering a paci from this one specific seller#and yesterday saw that they’re dropping a new batch of fall/halloween themed ones today!!!#so now i’ve gotta make myself stay awake until 6pm so i can jump on it when they’re available#which is a small struggle considering my nocturnal sleep schedule but i will do it nonetheless#that crescent moon patterned one Will Be Mine#trying to decide between buttercup yellow and schoolbus yellow for the clip#i think i’m more drawn to the vibrancy of the schoolbus yellow honestly#eeeeeee i’m excited i’ve been wanting to treat myself to ordering from this shop for a g e s and im finally gonna do it
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before i get to the book asks: i was tagged by @gideonthefirst for 9 no-skip albums! this was hard for me. partly bc when i'm listening to an album i don't actually skip songs and partly bc even albums i really like there's usually at least one i'm just kinda meh on. but these 9 i really think i stand by all the songs. sorry patd is on there but i had to follow my heart
for other people to do it ummmm @oberon-miranda-titania? @ratgirlianthe? @hoot-h00t? any of you feel like doing 9 albums?
albums are: Some Nights by fun., A Badly Broken Code by Dessa, Gone Now by Bleachers, A Fever You Can't Sweat Out by Panic! at the Disco, Boreas by The Oh Hellos, HARDLOVE by NEEDTOBREATHE, Pure Heroine by Lorde, Sigh No More by Mumford & Songs, and Transcendental Youth by the Mountain Goats
#trans youth isn't even my favorite goats but it IS the most no skip. due to my favorite albums having songs i actively avoid bc they make me#far too sad#doomsday diaries almost made the cut but then i re-listened to rapture and i still don't like it. sorry ms axford.#also you may say boreas is an ep but tbh the entirety of the four winds series is no skip for me#limited myself to one per artist also otherwise probably chime and aim & ignite and grand romantic would be there#some nights is also maybe cheating bc i can't stand the acoustic we are young that's at the end but i just love the rest of that album#and it feels like that one's not a real song.#tag game#it's sort of fun to discover w this that there are some of my favorite artists (oh hellos + nate ruess + dessa for instance) where i tend t#like EVERYTHING they put out and others (fob + hozier for example) who very much ARE among my favorites but i couldn't find a no skip for
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I don't know how to ask people to not use masculine gendered words when trying to refer to me.
"guys", "dude", "man", "bro", "bruh", "buddy", "fellas", "boys", "lads", etc. are all extremely extremely extremely very very very very very very very severely very very uncomfortable. I'm not any of those. I'm a girl.
But I'm too non-confrontational to say anything. I hate it I hate it I hate it I really hate it I hate it.
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#the main thing is that I don't want there to be A Conversation About It#and I am very uncomfortable derailing conversations to point it out#and I don't want to talk 1-on-1 in DMs either... I keep my DMs closed#I was already having a particularly bad day so.#and I have too many experiences /trying/ where people just say ''oh I mean it in a gender neutral way'' or ''I call everybody that''#or they try to argue that ''language changes'' even though androcentrism isn't an example of semantic shift#it's a separate linguistic phenomenon and those words /are/ in fact male-gendered#but I don't want there to be a conversation and I hate TRYING when people will dismiss it like that...#so I just...#I can't easily bring it up#uhhh I guess like... 3 people who actively follow me here probably could very easily put 2 and 2 together on this#I just...#...#I hate it#and I...#I don't know#I hate it and I don't know how to... I don't know!!!#I kind of suck#I already have severe trauma specifically related to expressing myself / talking#I'm going to stop writing tags on this post#''...''
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