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thevirgodoll · 11 months

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to all of my dolls finding themselves:

originality is the "aesthetic" you are looking for. individuality is the "it factor" you are looking for. from your personality, pieces, hair, cadence of voice...even down to your favorite foods or special interests. you aren't supposed to change every aspect about yourself to be more palatable for everyone you meet. that actually makes you BORING!!!

"but so and so is doing this" "but what if people don't like it" ... so??? don't take people disliking your aesthetic as a sign that you need to do something different. like, of course they don't like it or have second thoughts - it's because THEY wouldn't do it themselves because it wouldn't go with THEIR given aesthetic. HELLOO??????

unless they are like minded, stop asking other people to weigh in on the things you CLEARLY like about yourself. especially if it's a core personality trait or interest. your LIFE isn't a group project. your LIFE is not a co-op game.

and yes... people will try to force you to assimilate and follow the crowd by speaking misfortune on your rebrand, your expression, your hobbies, your chosen path out of jealousy. however, that jealousy is lowkey unspoken respect for the fact you have the candor to go against homogeneity.

your authentic dedication to everything that makes you YOU is what will bring you the illustrious life you so fervently seek in the end...not some book a celebrity wrote or a youtube video. it's in YOUR DNA to be a star already in anything you want to do.

there isn't one tutorial on this world wide web that will help you if you don't realize you have the components within you first. there is NOTHING wrong with you!!! you are EVERYTHING that is right already!!!

NEVER conform to the way they think you should shine.

#thoughts #i cant stand seeing a pack mentality i hate seeing ppl shy out of who they are esp neurodivergents #while it is to be expected and is a result of our age group as well as cultural factors especially collectivism #i cannot help but reiterate how harmful it is for everyone to move as if they are the SAME PERSON! you are not so and so and they are not u #yall both just have the same hair or skin or smth you are still YOU hello #inspo is everything and dreams are a foundation BUT make it ur oWN #we all gotta start somewhere but golly gee! PUT THAT STUFF TO REST!#the obsession everyone has with humbling someone who is being themselves is old and tired! KEEP GOING I BELIEVE IN U DONT LISTEN TO THEM.#words i needed to hear when i was younger #ok rant over

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oso-nan · 9 months

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johnny face study

#oso art #my lelonny ship art got some hate comments on tiktok as expected #but #heres smth funny as fuq #this person commented ‘oh nah’ and i gave them such dry ass replies and they just. deleted their comment.#if u gon hate on me #i better be seein some dedication to it #d1 hating #riding my tip #like #ok rant over #now for actual tags #the texas chainsaw massacre game #tcm game #johnny sawyer #johnny tcm #johnny slaughter

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nixthelapin · 11 days

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I don’t think enough people realize that Origins Pt. 1 & 2 happen on the same day

In French schools, they have a long lunch break, so lots of kids just go home for that time then come back. Seriously, they get like 90min- 2hours! (Which blows my mind as an American, who only got 30 minutes for my lunch break)

So when Adrien runs away again to school, the stuff that went on with the seats, the hurt from Kim taunting Ivan, Marinette’s insecurity about being picked as Ladybug, is still fresh! They didn’t even have the night to process it!

I just still see a lot of people who discuss origins talk about pt. 2 as “the next day,” when really it’s just the afternoon, so I thought I’d make a post finally lol

This has been a short PSA, thank you.

EDIT: ok, turns out I am a moron. I am being torn in the replies 😭 The amount of time for lunch in French schools is true, so I just took that info and went with it lol- I definitely should’ve just rewatched the episodes instead of being stupid, my bad y’all 😂

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conundrum-cat · 2 months

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Please make Francis look more like a sad wet dog kinda man instead of a slim jawline or body HES NOT SUPPOSED TO BE ATTRACTIVE (to me at least and that's why I love him)

#like look at his eye bags #tell me he's not supposed to be a poor little meow meow #ok rant over #thats not my neighbor #francis mosses

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jacarandaaaas · 5 months

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“what if they forgot to make mirabel a room in rebuilt casita”

bro she’s literally in charge of planning the whole thing

#encanto #encanto disney #disneys encanto #mirabel madrigal #disney’s encanto #also the madrigals wouldn’t forget like we just had a whole movie about this #she would have gotten a room regardless #nothing is getting past her #mirabel encanto #I really hate the hc they would make her live in the nursery again #firstly there is no nursery not whilst it’s still in construction #and secondly the house only became magic after #they planned out everything before even knowing the magic would come back #mirabel as one of the leaders of the rebuild would not let people forget her room!!#ok rant over

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summershouto · 1 year

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baby 5 & sanji- the role of gender

I’m definitely not the first person to say this but Sanji’s women obsession is very similar to Baby 5’s need to please and I wanted to expand on it more bc the thoughts keep bouncing around in my brain

Sanji and Baby 5 have the same core need to find love and it effects their actions- especially in matters with romance/the opposite sex. While both of their fixations are often treated as jokes, they still reflect underlaying issues tied to their backstories.

The way they act on this romantic drive is somewhat different, as they both assume the traditionally expected roles in accordance with their gender. They’re putting on a performance, behaving over-the-top in effort to please, while still varying in how they portray their love-sickness to remain a model man/woman. these differences set them apart, and I feel in Sanji’s case it can result in his behavior being brushed off as simply a weird quirk (unlike Baby 5, who’s actions remain lighthearted but are recognized as a trauma response).

They both have the same reaction to potential interest/attention, but remain strictly on the opposite ends of the spectrum of Man vs Woman in a conventional relationship.

Baby 5 maintains a caretaking, flattering-focused obsession of the opposite sex rather than transforming into having pervy gags. She wants to be needed but she also enjoys (and sometimes imagines) being swooned over.

Looking at Sanji in the beginning, before the annoying nosebleed/creep gags became more prominent, he was also rather romance driven rather than motivated by lust. He, similar to Baby 5, saw many as potential suitors; a hopeless romantic at heart. While Baby 5 strikes at the first sign of interest from a man, Sanji equally treats every woman as someone he needs to look after .

Baby 5 jumps into the role of a caring wife. She blushes like a schoolgirl and assumes that every man who is kind is showing interest in her. Meanwhile Sanji, filling the role of a traditional man in the relationship, seeks to provide. He wants to aid women in any way possible- whether thats with cooking or actual physical protection. His pervy gags could also be read as a way to fit this norm- as a man it’s more societally acceptable to be lust driven- (and in some cases, lust/sex is a way to “prove” ones manhood). This is especially prominent after his time apart from the crew surrounded by people that challenged his notions of gender.

Overall their use of these traditional gender roles are safe; an easy way to get attention. People in real life often use romantic attention as means of fulfillment, and I read their actions as the same.

Baby 5 and Sanji are both people pleasers. Baby 5 is named as such, noting she can’t deny anyone anything because she longs to be needed. Sanji’s lack of self-worth causes him to always put others first, even at the cost of his own wellbeing. They see themselves as existing to fulfill a needed role, bidding their time until the moment arises.

Other people have noted how similar Baby 5 and Sanji are in this way, joking that it’s good Sanji and Baby 5 never met because they’d get married instantly. I think it would actually be very interesting if they had met. Two people pleasers in a relationship is a recipe for disaster, especially with people as passionate as Baby 5 and Sanji. Their way of dealing with conflict would be to.. not. Neither would ever want to say the other is at fault. Their approach towards romance is seeking a sense of fulfillment, which would create an interesting dynamic with their exaggerated swooning.

Now there are some people who truly are greatly motivated to pursue relationships, but with Sanji and Baby 5’s backstories revolving around a lack of love, it’s safe to assume that it’s a bit more of an inorganic reaction for them. Especially when looking at the situations their love gets them into, such as when Baby 5 fell head over heels for a man because he was kind to her once despite not showing any prior attraction.

Sanji is on the opposite side of the spectrum, finding /every/ woman beautiful and himself unworthy. Where Baby 5 aims to prove her worth from any one person and seeks a reason for her receiving kindness, Sanji places himself below all the women he meets and grovels in attempt to please as they stand on their pedestals.

Sanji was raised by Zeff- someone who had a strong influence in how Sanji perceives and treats women. Sanji’s hunger for love was enhanced by the teaching of strict gender roles and emphasis on chivalry. While Baby 5 longs to be the helpful wife, Sanji becomes the pursuer- acting like a white knight as he sought women’s attention. That’s not to say his attraction isn’t real, but his extreme reactions to women reflect his desperation to please.

Sanji also has the added factor of the men vs women in his life prior to Zeff, with only his mother and sister showing him kindness. Women were safer; and Zeff furthered this belief through his teachings.

They’re both self-sacrificial to a dangerous degree. To them, their lives are indispensable; meaning if someone needs to die for the greater good then that’s the role they feel they were made for. Their life IS other people.

This is also interesting to consider in the perspective of non-heterosexual relationships. Sanji has a complicated past with gender/sexuality, so his aggressive actions towards men reflect what he feels a “real man” should be. Feminine attention is good, acceptable to enjoy, but male attention is something to scorn.

For Baby 5, we don’t really see her react to the kindness of a woman. She grew up around predominantly men and men appear to be the ones who most often take advantage of her. It’s curious to consider if meeting another woman with good intentions would allow her to be more sincere.

I guess in conclusion I often see Baby 5’s actions being recognized as a response to her past, but I don’t often see Sanji’s explained similarly. Personally I think Sanji’s behavior is greatly effected by his starve for love, and he throws himself into it just like Baby 5. However, the way theyre perceived is greatly effected by their gender and their according behavior to fit the norms. Regardlessly, he and Baby 5 both rely on other people to find their worth- and the quickest way to do that is to turn to romantic love.

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anominous-user · 6 months

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triple threat end card but with the honkai inpact trio. and also bald TT.

#the henry stickmin collection #thsc #honkai impact #bronya zaychik #kiana kaslana #raiden mei #do i tag. the thsc trio for this. i mean they are here as bald as they can be #i guess.#charles calvin #henry stickmin #ellie rose #a-u edit stuff #note that i edited them based on their poses/expressions this does NOT mean bronya = charles or mei = ellie cuz #characters flip around a lot in my edits there is no set standard except for maybe like one lr two characters and even then.#ok anyway i mainly edited this with the honkai trio cuz. they dont interact enough in the story.#like its funny when you think about it but like they separate in the early chapters and only reunite completely in the final arc of part 1.#and i wish there was more. just like how i wish the tt dynamic was more fleshed out #theyre nice and all. just. nothing for me to chew on #ok rant over #i actually am currently redrawing the end cards in the same vein as honkai cgs i jist needed to get this out of my system #i was also highly considering leaving kiana bald. jsut like her great-grandpa^44 kevin.

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arkos404 · 7 months

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ik people already did this but i couldnt help myself, this is literally them

#prohibitedwish #prohibited wish #prismo the wishmaster #scarab the god auditor #adventure time: fionna & cake #adventure time #fionna and cake #fanart #atfc #at:f&c #arkos draws #ive had the most annoying art block #but im halfway glad abt how this turned out #had some fun doind it and yanno thats all that matters #if you told a-couple-years-ago-me that id actually have fun drawing profiles #i wouldnt have believed you #ok rant over

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lethal-effect · 4 months

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Fuck it I’m fighting Kristen for Cassandra’s honor. Meet me in the Chilis parking lot Applebees

#yes yes we support women’s wrongs and well written flawed female characters and cringe fail girls #but also #consider #I have feelings about Cassandra and I will defend her with my life #Also yes Kristen is trying to reconnect but only after all that and ALSO #ONLY BECAUSE RIZ WAS PUTTING THE PRESSURE ON #and frankly good for him where tf would this team be without riz truly #fantasy high #ok rant over #cassandra fantasy high #kristen applebees #dimension 20 #don’t mind me

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b0ylik3r · 1 month

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why was there a proshipper defending r*pe and age gap ships in the zadr tag

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feelslikegold · 2 months

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while I understand what this person is saying….the difference in how their partners are treated makes no sense to me lmao. I have seen the other partners (some who might argue are just as if not more private than josh’s) be included in fic??? with tabs kept on all of them to the point where fans even notice *instagram comments* left from them???? it’s so funny that only josh gets this kind of treatment when every other relationship (hannah doesn’t count) is obsessed over by fans…..

we don’t know for sure what jenny was to danny and yet why do I still see people casually mentioning her and posting about what she’s up to when her socials were private too while she was with him????? she was clearly very private and yet……?? people obsessed over talking about them…..

respecting their privacies should be happening, but respect all of them? the same? 😭 josh’s partner is treated like a curse if he’s mentioned which is pretty respectful ig, but why are there tiktoks of other partners along to the sound of “she’s getting that dick” like it’s just SO so fucking weird to me that this fandom does not respect women no matter what and has also treated josh so oddly when he came out 😭

#if ron’s photos were taken from a private account and leaked then that’s absolutely one thing but I will never get over just how weird this #fandom acts towards josh the second they learned he has a male partner 💀#if you’re going to play the respect card (which is appreciated/should be the standard as fans) you need to respect ALL of their partners???#if you’re weird about only josh………it’s actually weird :’)#ok rant over #I just cannot handle hypocrisy 😭#god josh himself is going to post wedding photos one day to his instagram and fans are going to be so weird about them 😭😭😭#respect josh’s privacy always but don’t basically re-closet him after coming out??? I just do not understand it #(in the terms of him posting wedding photos…not rn because he doesn’t share much of his private life still)#but if he had an issue with ron’s photos they literally would not have been posted ?????? ron adds all fans as friends and his facebook is #very public……..he’d know what josh is and isn’t comfortable with 😭#also don’t twist my words bc clearly if you’re cropping josh OUT and only posting his partner that is so fucking weird 🧍🏻‍♀️like.#just be normal!!!! just be normal oh my god #you don’t even have to make 3738392938 tweets like this like literally just be normal and leave ALL of their partners alone 😭#except miss hannah because she might die from lack of attention 💔#also ignore me bc I have to run my mouth or *i’ll* die #also hate to be that bitch but *some* treatment towards josh really is homophobic lmfao but I will not get into that rn when I have already #yapped this much <3

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thedeafprophet · 3 months

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I get really annoyed at the way some people behave with a level of entitlement in fan spaces. The minority of people who act like everything should be made For Them and treating fanartist and fanwriters as people who should be making what they want, and complaining when they don't.

People in fan spaces are making stuff for free, and sharing it with others on increasingly less friendly websites. A lot of work and effort goes into it, and me and many people I know are also disabled and dealing with chronic pain at the same time.

And then people have the audacity to demand fancreators time or expect them to cater directly to them? If yall want something specific: pay for it. Folks have to balance this with jobs and/or school already, they're not spending their free time on some random stranger on the internet

#this isnt really about the tag im just commenting generally about behaviour ive been seeing online #people being mad that not everything is fan spaces is For Them #and yes ive seen this behaviour in the fl community too #ok rant over #the prophet speaks

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just-somedude · 10 months

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How do people still not know the difference between "their", "they're" and "there" LIKE IT WAS TAUGHT SO EARLY. Their is possessive. There is a location. They're is "they are" minus a few letters. How hard is that to understand mannnn.

ALSO "your" and "you're" POSSESSIVE VS "YOU ARE"

#I WANT TO BE ABLE TO READ SOMETHING WITHOUT HAVING TO LOOK BACK AND FIGURE OUT WHAT YOU'RE SAYING BECAUSE YOU USED THE WRONG VERSION #ok rant over

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fibrespace · 28 days

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I'm crocheting a granny square holiday stocking in May because why not.

The pattern calls for 27 granny squares. I run out of the holiday yarn I'm using on square 26. I scour the internet for hours looking for this unlabeled yarn and find it but fml it's been discontinued for over a decade. So I look up other granny square stocking patterns. I find one that not only looks better and isn't so comically huge, but also requires only 15 granny squares.

Was this way too much effort for a small project? Maybe, but I refuse to be bested by a stocking.

#this was supposed to be a quick and easy project but the universe said no lol suffer #i hate playing yarn chicken with ufo yarn why did i do this to myself #crochet #ok rant over

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jacarandaaaas · 11 days

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breaking news!! stating your opinion is now online bullying

basically woke up this morning to someone harassing me and I’m very confused lol

#encanto #encanto disney #disneys encanto #honestly I want to say with confidence that I am NOT a bully #if you are a proshipper and I blocked you it’s because i have dni in bio #I never go out of my way to harass others and if me stating this fandom has a misogyny problem #which it has had since the beginning btw this isn’t anything new #I don’t see how that makes me a bully tbh #but moreso I’m just kinda hurt by the fact they’re harassing me for no reason #ok rant over #I don’t like bullies

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theotherbuckley · 1 month

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Someone force me to delete twitter please.

#there’s so much fucking hate on there #so many people want Buck and Eddie to be cheaters????#and the amount of fucking censoring of Tommy’s name what the fuck #and the people actively hating on the actors makes me sick #and there’s people hating on new people in the fandom joining after 704??? like we WANT people to watch the show so it doesn’t get cancelled #god it’s actually appalling and this is the shit people like Lou have to see 😭#you dont have to like bucktommy I LOVE them but you dont have to #but Jesus fuck your behaviour shouldn’t be this #saw someone say it was disgusting that bucktommy has 1000 fics and bucks other relationships have less and henren has less #AS IF BUDDIE A NON CANON SHIP DOESNT HAVE OVER 25K????#YOURE NOT HIGH AND MIGHTy???#like such hypocrisy like it’s ok when it’s your ship #I LOVE BUDDIE but these people are ruining it for me fr #I can like multiple ships #you don’t have to #but don’t be shit #fuck #ok rant over #911 abc #911 fandom #911 spoilers #twitter #purple rambles

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