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lutawolf · 2 years

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Soft D/s Element of Not Me Episode 8

If you don't know what soft D/s element or tendencies are, then you haven't read my other posts. You can find them on my master list here. If you're interested in more D/s content then check out my general master list here, there is also a short bio there telling you, my qualifications.

There are several types of subs and Doms for that matter. Which I give somewhat of a description here. The important thing to understand is that while a person might be a natural submissive and use to listening and responding to commands. They do draw a line at who they will take commands from.

Sean has come to apologize but White has every intention of making it hard on him. He tells him in a salty manner that he doesn't want to hear and tries to shut the do. Sean forces his way in. My opinion is that Sean at this point is now ready to acknowledge his feelings. He isn't only going to apologize but work up the nerve to put some fillers out. They are also sharing a drink from the same bottle. Previous I spoke about the intimacy of this act.

Sean goes to sit on the bed and White says nope. Sean listens and pops up. Now you could say, how is Sean the Dom if he listened to the command. Because he is in the wrong and he has to make amends for that. He is in the wrong for not listening and hurting his sub. So what does he do, he listens. He's already pushed his way in, he can give a little slack. So he sits on the floor like the brat tells him. At this point Sean is lower than White but it's not long before White is adjusting to change this. He goes from sitting up to laying down. Now they are level.

"I was being too hot headed that day, so today I'm treating you to a drink in return."

White smiles "See you're here to apologize."

"You've changed so much. You use your brain more. You smile more."

Then they start talking about the protest and support. Sean scoots closer and leans in to show he is listening. After a moments pause White lowers himself, sitting on the floor with Sean.

"What was done to you? You might think this is your problem, not someone else's. But you don't need to keep it all to yourself. You might feel better, if you share it. If it's too much to bare. I'm here to listen."

And Sean shares for many reasons. As an apology, to unload, and because he wants to share himself with the person he has come to have feelings for. I also want to point out that being a Dom doesn't equal not vulnerable. You can be a Dom, strong, and vulnerable. It's just that you are more careful when, where, and to whom.

"I'm glad you told me this. It helps me to understand and to get to know you better." "Why do you want to know about me?" "Because I want you to trust me just like I trust you."

White doesn't hesitate to reach out and support his Dom. White not once has deviated from being submissive to Sean once he made that decision. To me, this happened when he left his father. He is naturally submissive to his father and brother. However he walked from his father and his brother isn't around. He has handed that submissiveness to Sean and not changed course. Not even when Sean hurt him. He got salty and bratty back but the forgiveness had been there long before.

"Do you trust me?" "Did you just say that to make me feel good" This, this vulnerability that he gives "Black" is such a huge trust equivalent. You can see it on White's face that he realizes this and White trusts Sean in return. He proves it by doing the trust fall. "I just showed you that I trust you. So I did the free fall. And you just showed me you wouldn't let me go." Then Sean tells him he is full of surprises and asks if he is still hurt. To which White asks if he can punch him back and Sean agrees. 9:00 for those wanting to watch with me.

White puts his hands on Sean's shoulders. If you watch, this is actually a pretty funny cute moment. 9:02 Look at Sean, he was expecting a punch, he doesn't know what to do with this. Then "Black" starts to lean in and you can see the moment he thinks he is gonna get a kiss. And guys, he isn't moving out of the way. Then "Black" bumps foreheads a little, instead of the punch that Black would have normally landed. This I believe clicks all together for Sean. This was the last little bit he needed to acknowledge what was going on between him and "Black."

"The way Sean looks at me has slowly changed. It's not as aggressive as before. The wall he had built is gradually breaking. The secret he told is like a door I can walk through to get closer to him."

In episode 8 2/4 we see Sean and White once again sharing a bed. Sean wakes first and goes to caress "Black's" face. He might think that "Black" is pretending but he is being softer than he ever has with him. He is gentle while also familiarizing himself with his body.

Once he is sure he is asleep he goes snooping. He wants to know more about this person that has changed suddenly. Why has he changed and why does he effect him so much now?

Once again with Dan and Yok we see the vast difference in relationships. Their's is a balanced give and take of power structure. During the scene of the nude drawing we can see that Yok is slightly more dominant at this time. However, Dan easily snatches this back at other times in other scenes.

White wakes up the next morning to find himself handcuffed to the bed. His first thought is to yell for Sean to help him. Sean isn't far and immediately shows up. He asks if he is hungover. Think about it. Sean's first comment to "Black" is one of care. "Did you tie me up?" Sean casually sits on the bed. "It's just you and I here. Who else could have tied you up?" "Why did you do it" "Think" This screams, "I've caught you and now I'm keeping you. "

White once again proves he is a brat though. Which means you only get total obedience when they want, and you've earned it. White puts up a fight. He wraps his legs around Sean and bites him. Let's be real though, this isn't a real fight. White is purposely biting jacket and not skin. He's still getting punished though, Sean leaves. Side Note: I have never, nor will I ever leave a sub tied up out of my sight. Not just because I use rope either. It's just not worth the risk. Things can happen and they have no way to save themselves.

Then Sean goes and sees Gumpa. Setting up the warehouse date. Don't doubt it, when Sean handcuffed "Black" he was committing to him. The warehouse was the trap to fully capture him.

Again, I want to point out the vast difference between Namo and Sean's relationship vs Sean and White. There is definitely respect and while Sean is commanding it's not as a Dom. While he is caring it's not in the way of a Dom protecting and caring for their treasure. Remember, while a sub gives up power to a Dom, the Dom considers a sub their most valuable prize.

We see this with Sean's treatment if "Black." He goes through the warehouse window and anticipates "Black" needs and comfort. No doubt about it, getting the bench is an act of care.

White shows up grumpy to the warehouse because he doesn't understand. Meanwhile Sean is greeting him with anticipation and joy. When White complains, we see Sean say, "stop nagging" and gives a slight tap to the arm but the smile never leaves his face. Sean then tells "Black" they are staying the night and to come on. He brings him into the warehouse by helping him through the window. White is noticing the changes and gets playful, giving Sean a bratty push.

Then one of my favorite parts. "You will pay for that tonight." He is so clearly stating his intentions here. Which is a very Dom characteristic by the way. Our relationships are based on our submissive's ability to trust us. Which means we need to be clear and communicative.

They make their way through the warehouse. Sean noticing that this "Black" is playful and likes games, sets up a race. When he goes to cheat, Sean grabs control of him and brings him back. When White complains about the backpack, Sean takes it. See White brings emotional stability to Sean where Sean shows care physically. By physically making things easier for "Black." White still cheats, but Sean doesn't appear to be surprised or really mind. He is still very playful. Bratty White teases with the water and then Sean tells him to help with the tent.

When they go to the rooftop Sean immediately touches "Black." Always before it's been White making physical contact but now Sean is doing it as well. Sean tells "Black" he will need him to help spy. White tells him "Do you even think I'll help you after what you did?" "Fine. Don't help. I can do it by myself." "I know you're good. You can do anything." "Yes, I'm good." Then there is a moment of pause where White looks at Sean with his heart in his eyes. "What if I want to help? If we're in this together. It can't be that bad."

This is the face of a man who fell completely in love. To cover up this epiphany he grabs "Black" and has him look through the looking glass. Where they then gave playful banter back and forth.

Sean grabs "Black" and takes him up higher. You'll notice that Sean once again anticipates "Black's" needs and helps him up the ladder. Once up there, he preforms the trust fall but in a far more dramatic and drastic way. Don't get me wrong, I love the drama king for it. You won't catch me doing it though. That being said, White catches him.

"Sean, have you ever thought about what we would be doing if not this?" "This is the goal that keeps me alive." Then he gently caresses the back of "Black's" head. "And you are too." Then Sean leans in to gently kiss "Black's" forehead. Gives "Black" a minute then goes for his lips but White pulls back. Sean pulls back some and waits longer. Then moves in again. Gives a slight peck. When he gets no further resistance, he deepens the kiss. This was an extremely consensual kiss but also dominant. Look at the hand placement. Sean is controlling that kiss and White has given over the trust and power.

That's it for this episode. Hope you enjoyed.

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lutawolf · 2 years

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Soft D/s Element of Not Me Episode 9

Honestly the whole love scene was very much negotiations, consent, and guidelines. This is what we do in a D/s relationship. Not only was it emotional but it detailed perfectly that negotiations and consent can be sensual as well.

Establish consent: "Are you scared of me" "No, I'm not" Establishing consent AND consent of power exchange: "What are we doing?" "Hmm, what should I do to you?" "That's up to you." Then establishing guidelines: "Don't be afraid. Once I do something, tell me if you like it or not.

Also take note that White establishes Sean's guidelines as well. Guidelines go both ways. A submissive has to ask to figure out what is acceptable and unacceptable to their Dom.

I often get asked what's the difference between body worship and sensuality. What White is doing is considered body worship. It looks like he is taking control from Sean but no, he is actually body worshipping. He is taking over to give maximum pleasure to Sean first.

Next scene has White and Sean sitting on an edge of the building. They both check on each other, asking each other if they are okay. Though Sean carries the power, there is not an imbalance in love and care. Though you will often see a sub caring for and putting their Dom first. A sub to their Dom is more valuable than anything.

I love how if you watch Dan and Yok scenes, you can really see the dynamic difference between the couples. Dan "What are you doing at the police station? You should go." Nope. Yok not going anywhere till he gets his date. These two hold an equal power balance.

The next scene has White waking up before Sean. Immediately going to touch him because as we've seen in previously, White finds comfort in touch. Now he feels comfortable to touch as much as he wants. Sean wakes up and though he is questioning why Black was awake so early, he reaffirms that Black can touch him all he wants. While telling Black that they have the day off and are going for a walk. White has questions but he isn't arguing.

As they are taking the walk; Sean is attentive, supportive, and protective. Helps Black through the window, over the gate, and basically helping him wherever he might need assistance. You've not seen Sean like this with his friends or even Namo because this sort of treatment is reserved for Black.

Sean takes Black to his spot. Where he comes when he is reborn. He knows that Black is struggling with something and not ready to communicate. He's trying to give him the tools to face his fears. He wants him to leap and land on a tire in the middle of the water. "If you're not brave enough, you'll never achieve it." He pushes and commands Black. "You do it, jump and land on your feet." White is still hesitant, rather than use a full command, Sean gives an incentive of a bet. Which White does respond to though hesitantly. Sean goads but it isn't like previously, this time it's gentler and intended as soft pushes.

White overextends the jump, but Sean is prepared and catches him. This was to show Black that he can face his fears and Sean will always be there to support him. Sean calls him on the fall, and they have enjoyable bratty banter. However, when White commands "ask your favor. Do it now or I'll change my mind." Sean quickly proves who the actual Dom is. Once Sean shuts him down, White just smiles back at him.

Once again we see the vastly different dynamic of Dan and Yok. Who easily balance commanding each other and giving over power wherever necessary. We have Dan pushing Yoks head down. Yok listening to Dan. Then Yok telling Dan to give him a ride. Very back and forth.

The next scene is Sean bringing a drink to Black, he even opens the can. White doesn't show the proper respect. Sean does a gentle correction by withholding the drink. When Sean does get the correct response, he quickly relents. However, he does enact some pay back by spraying the drink on Black. To which White tells Sean to "watch your back" "Look who you are speaking with here." "Who here should watch his back?" To which White has no comment. I think some people thought Sean was referencing being the top but considering the equity of the show. I really doubt it. It's referencing him being the Dominant in the relationship. Sean then hands over the other drink and puts Black's helmet on him.

Sean notices the car following them and lets Black know. He then tells him to not look back but to increase his speed. White instantly obeys. What I love though is that when White says, "Sean, make a turn up ahead. It's a one-way road." Sean immediately listens. My husband is my submissive but there are things he is more knowledgeable about, and I would be stupid to not listen. A good Dominant knows when to lead and when to listen.

When they arrive at the garage, Sean is in protective mode. Dominants are naturally very protective but add in Sean's abandonment issues and it's worse. White handles this perfectly. He listens to Sean until he knows they are safe, then he immediately starts to soothe.

When White gets a phone call from his mom, he decides to meet her. You can tell Sean would rather him not leave but Black is still his own person. Remember there are different types of subs and only a small percentage gives over all control. This is one of those times when Sean recognizes that he is going to have to step back and let Black do his own thing.

Let's talk about Black and White. Black is very much a Dominant. He's no brat tamer either. He is a classic Dominant with very little bend. White with Black doesn't brat or play, he just obeys. White is not even like with his father. He was able to defy him on something that matters to him. Not so with Black. Black has him completely conflicted.

Well, that's it for this episode. Sorry it took so long; I had a lot of issues finding the gifs I wanted. Hope you enjoy.

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