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momochanners · 17 days

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Man, it rained for the first time in weeks here and the temperature stabilized to a cool 25C from hellish 39C and I *should* be happy…but kinda bummed that I’m here and not in London right now to attend the BG3 symphony concert tonight (with no online streaming option in 2024, really?). Life getting in the way and spending 10K for a weekend not being an option in this economy…the vibes are just not immaculate right now :(

#don’t mind me #just venting a little

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starrspice · 8 months

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I want to experiment with art styles drawing sun and moon

BUT MY BRAIN SAID NO ART TODAY

#BUT I WANT TO DRAW #GRRRRRRRRR #ART BLOCK SUCKS ASS #maybe i should try sketching on paper #sometimes when i struggle digitally i do fine on paper #because its easier to work around a mistake than it is to just undo i #idk #i have a cute style for them #but i wanna try drawing them in a more detailed style #less cartoony #this is when i wish i still did the zaza #never had art block when i was high #rip #starr stuff #ignore me #just venting a little

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nil-elk · 1 year

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I may be butch but sometimes I want a butch who'll bring out my inner I'll-step-on-you femme.

I know she's in there. I can hear her whenever I have to reprimand someone. I'm instantly that eyebrow-quirk meme.

#honestly it's just how it is for me... not really an inner struggle #usually it'll help when i need to shut a man up funnily enough #but butches don't seem to catch on unless they're older...because they know what's up #sometimes i just get tired of being the pursuer or whatever is expected of butches #just want to be taken care of from time to time #don't mind me #just venting a little #lgbt #butch #femme

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silenzahra · 5 months

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I've been feeling a bit down as of yesterday and today because somebody decided to steal one of my posts from my instagram account and I can't seem to find the way to have instagram actually help me and delete that post 😔

But nothing as coming back here and seeing and sharing your amazing Mario art to cheer me up 💖 Thank you for being so incredible and awesome, dear friends 🥹 I'll try to drop by a little more often next year! 💖

#just venting a little #thank you for being so amazing #I'm so grateful for you guys!

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suffersinfandom · 5 months

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I was going to make some embarrassing, fluffy New Year post about how grateful I am for OFMD and this fandom and how cool it is to be here and participating for the first time ever (I mean, I made some goofy meme edits for BSG and Star Wars, but I sure as heck wasn’t brave enough to share actual thoughts). I was going to type about how awesome and smart and funny so many of the people I follow here are and how much I love all of the meta and art and fanfic, and I was going to go on about how important OFMD is to me and how much it’s brightened up my life.

But then I logged on and remembered how flawed this fandom is, too. It makes me sad to see all of the insults and personal attacks in a fandom that is -- or at least claims to be -- more queer and more accepting and more invested in kindness and goodness than any other I’ve come across.

There’s the block button, I know (believe me, I use it every time I come across someone who goes on about how abusive Ed is because I absolutely won’t entertain that), but the hostility runs deep and blocking alone isn’t fixing anything. People act like the mere existence of interpretations that contradict their own are direct attacks on their character, and they retaliate by calling people idiots with zero reading comprehension and abuse apologists and cruel sadists who wouldn’t know suffering if it bit them on the dick and so on. It’s not enough to disagree; we have to tear people down and insult them and make everyone angrier by showing our followers strawman arguments being tossed around by ~the other side~.

Don’t get me wrong, there are definitely abhorrent takes that demonstrate, at best, ignorance on the part of the person making it. We should call those out!

Idk, I just wish we could have discussions and disagreements without attacking actual human people. Like, I love it when people engage with things they don’t agree with in good faith and pick apart arguments and make new points. I even love passive-aggressive indirect responses to bad takes. Those can be very fun and, tbh, it’s not a fandom without a little pettiness, as a treat.

But it sucks to scroll around and see people in your fandom throwing out very personal insults and attacking others for interpreting things differently or thinking a fake guy is a piece of shit, y’know? I want better for us. We deserve better.

Also, just to be clear, this isn’t in response to anything specific, okay? I was just generally set off when I scrolled through the OFMD tag today and saw yet another “well, if you don’t see things the way I do, you’re a stupid piece of shit who loves abuse” post from someone I hadn’t gotten around to blocking yet. Not to get personal, but as someone who was regularly called an abusive, stupid piece of shit by someone who was genuinely abusing me when I had the nerve to challenge them, that kind of thing can be legit triggering if it hits at the wrong time.

Also also: I do feel all of those things that I mentioned in the first paragraph! I’m so grateful for OFMD and the fans of it! There are so many brilliant and talented people around here, and I know I wouldn’t be as bummed about the unsavory parts of OFMD fandom if I didn’t love it so much as a whole.

#ofmd #fandom critical #new year same me lol #i'm not trying to accomplish anything here #just venting a little #maybe hoping someone will see it and go #oh dang i was insulting people and didn't even think about it #time to be nicer #time to screenshot and dunk on bad takes without attacking the op directly #TO BE CLEAR #i think most people in the fandom are chill and cool #if this isn't about you don't make it about you y'know

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krazyyy · 1 year

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Idk if posting here is worth it sometimes, engagement here has completely tanked over the years. Kinda sad but I guess it's to be expected, I just miss all the fun I used to have here.

#mrskrazy speaks #just venting a little #ignore me lol

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thezerada · 11 months

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sometimes i wonder when i speak if people listen what i say or am i being ignored because i start feeling shit after i notice i wasnt listened to by my 'friends' again..

#stuff i say #just venting a little #dont mind me

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everlastingdreams · 2 years

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Hearing a sibling and my own mother side with my abuser really ruined my mood tbh

#personal #might delete later #just venting a little

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nikothebookdragon · 1 year

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how does one take care of oneself :(

#3 of my friends have messaged me checking if im okay and i cant even bring myself to respond :(#and eating is Hard #just venting a little #too many Thoughts to even vent properly lmao #i want a hug :(#alex rambles #personal

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icedmochasi · 2 years

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Main Reason I don’t go browsing through fic archives much: Went on AO3 today to look at Darius & Hunter father and son fics. Found some truly horrible, gross stuff. And found some stuff that is so OCC in how I interpret their characters it was laughable. Did find some gems, some fics I love.

Not even filtering tags really helps because people tag so differently on AO3 for almost all fics

#don't mind me #just venting a little

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magnificent-winged-beast · 2 years

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I can't watch it because it is forbidden in my country Misha, did he masturbate in the movie Karla? I don't find him strange, I'm just curious because after all, he's just acting

https://twitter.com/Wayward_Lily/status/1543002972694650880?s=20

Hmmmm.... 😑

I don't watch it either not because prohibition or censoring, and I'm sorry you live in a country that chooses what you can or cannot watch. That's probably why you always need someone to double check things for you.

I don't want to watch it because Misha was right, that movie was awful. MISHA OR DMITRI wasn't masturbating there, the awful character he was playing was doing it. Like you say, he was acting, that was his job at the time.

The same way the Jackles bated his meat in front of two women. Or the dude that plays Homelander did in the past season of The Boys.

Sometimes the meaning or purpose of this vaguely obscure asks just eludes me. Are you trying to make a point?

Is this an attempt to make Misha look bad?

Is your primary gold to troll for the sake of trolling? Am I falling on the troll wagon because I got a bad day and few human interactions in the past week that I prefer to yell into the void of this pointless ask?

Of course.

Taking advantage of this weird attempt to "discredit" or show a dark side of Misha... For whatever reason, because I know and WE know Misha Collins isn't your average vanilla white Hallmark dude.

Let's talk about all the fuss the Jackles made about that particular scene. All the preamble about having to call Kripkie, and saying:

Oh! Very respectful of him. Putting his role as a father then as a son to not be put in an awkward position and burn his just starting to leave an everlasting role on TV to fly with his new wings through Hollywood and show what he is capable of.

Funny thing is, because he is a white millionaire pretty famous dude, is able to say this things, "self respect as a human being" and ask for the robe, and the angle that will only imply his actions and "ACCOMMODATE AND HIDE" his royal white ass and Acklesconda.

But I wonder. What about those ladies that had to be fully naked and were captured in a few frames of lewd acts in front of the sexy, yet clothed actor? What? Didn't they have families too? , sons? , or a long lasting career that now summarizes in this frame of FULL FRONTAL nudity while they touch themselves for fear of this white dude?

Why the Jackles couldn't extend the same speech for them, and spear the full frontal yet VERY ACCEPTED FEMALE NUDITY on TV. Why he didn't ask for the same cleaver technique of acting like he is masturbating, while covering his very expensive and reserved privates. But still delivering the same shock value to his despicable character.

Well, that's why he is the white rich celebrity dude. And the two ladies where LITERALLY the Help in that scene. Even in that industry your dignity or personal reservations will be weighted with your overall value as a celebrity or money.

To be honest, I don't know if Misha would had done the same. I mean, probably fight for at least just be naked from the back not showing the main prize we all long to see. But asking for a minimum of modesty and reserve of his white male lead status in this show. AND he probably would had "forgot" to speak about this ladies too.

I hope everyone FORGOT this ladies, and that scene isn't the most relevant role of their careers in their IMDBs. BUT we shouldn't forget about this ladies and all the other women who have to do WHAT THE SCRIPT SAYS because film industry and the INTEGRITY OF THE PIECE.

Yet, a white dude can invoque the I'M A FATHER AND SON AND HUSBAND EMEMDMET.

Funny, all the listed true life roles where only given to him because of a woman in his life.

#just venting a little #This was stuck in my mind since I saw the episode #And understood why the Jackles was so flustered and had to explain his clinical repulsion to this scene #to be honest #He is in the right to choose what to show or deliver about his body to the public #Even as an actor / celebrity /public personality #Every one of the public figures that work in this industry should have a saying in the actions of their characters #Specially as they are developing them #But.... That's the tea.#HE AS A WHITE RICH MAN CAN HAVE A SAY #But other actors and actresses... Just have peal their clothing and /personal drama/ and deliver #I would have lije him to add later... Yes! I said no because father son and stuff #BUT ALSO FOUGHT FOR THE LADIES because they were about to do some nasty shit too....#Even so... It's very plausible this ladies were very much ok with all the thing... Because trained actresses and #Stuff #But the Jackles making THE PREAMBLE AND all the fuzz JUST ABOUT HIM...#Was the thing that make me realize that us as a society will never change if we keep JUST saying yes to pretty white rich faces #And ignore the ones who don't have money or fame to pay to have a choice #The boys #True shock value for your raitings

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mercurys-in-retrograde · 2 years

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maybe i just curate my dash well but i have almost entirely stopped seeing john mulaney memes and reaction images which i think is so funny. you thought you were a meme, so many memes? you thought you had staying power? get fucked.

#im on desktop but if someone reblogs this im deleting it #not trying to start a fight or even a discussion #just venting a little

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corruptedhellbait · 2 years

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sometimes i feel uncomfortable when people tell me they want to suck my tits? i just feel weird and it's super confusing because generally i don't mind and i can enjoy it too but i noticed i dont like to even think about it at times and it just turns me off when someone mentions it😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫

#don't rb #just venting a little #it's weird #im not even sure where that comes from

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stevmarie · 1 year

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My daughter has been sick so that means we’ve both been up all night crying :’) I just got two hours of sleep after being up since 3 am.

#personal #stevmarie speaking #nothing important #just venting a little #I hate when my kids are sick #I forgot what it was like to have a sick infant #hopefully today will be better than yesterday

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mellorocket · 1 year

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Well, both our freezer and fridge have totally crapped out. Wonderful!

#this house is so old that eventually all the appliances will have to be replaced #we've already replaced the oven #the washer and dryer (twice)#and i think this is already our second fridge??#now we need a new one #just venting a little

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