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bandzboy · 1 year

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dude i just remembered this one tweet i saw like weeks ago where someone on twt said like "i miss when everyone was a multi now everyone just stans one group" and i'm just wondering like........ wtf has been happening on kpop twt for it to be so bad for someone to say this UH 😭

#that tweet had a lot of interactions too so #it made it even clearer to me #like...... it's a total different world out there #in here we talk about our different kpop groups and have a good time #i can't imagine what that is even like dkfjgkdf #and i guess it's bc the voting/streaming culture is huge there #and they claim you can only do that for one group #believe me i know this i had to witness it during kd #< awful times for me #but anyways like #insane... you people live like that #just stand whoever you want and have fun #it's nawt that serious omg #tris.txt

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insoukokuhell-434 · 2 years

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#soukoku #soukoku memes #dazai x chuuya #skk #skk memes #please let me know if I’ve missed any quotes lmao #does this even make sense lol #I’m on such little sleep ;-;#edit: made the text clearer cause it was driving me crazy #Sierra’s posts 🌸

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limeartichoke · 2 months

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purgatory fanart of that one scene where phil loses his wings for the second time

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nie7027 · 1 month

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Hot take here but...

Like I know this is Tumblr. This is the autism site.

So of course I knew everyone would side with Laios on this and empathize more with him but its driving me insane how everybodys saying Toshiro was completely on the wrong here and he should have communicated better and talked about his grievances with Laios WHEN THE WHOLE POINT OF THIS IS THEY WERE BOTH ON WRONG HERE.

LIKE THERES A REASON CHILCHUCK BRINGS UP HOW LAIOS SHOULD WORK ON HIS SOCIAL SKILLS A COUPLE OF EPISODES AGO/JUST BEFORE THIS HAPPENS?

like I know most of you don't like it but social cues ARE a part of society culture. Social cues ARE a form of communication.

In fact they were made to facilitate communication.

They were made so everytime Alice and Bob annoy each other they don't have to go and have a heart to heart when a simple gesture can have the same effect.

In fact sometimes better because sometimes addressing something with words makes it come out stronger/ruder than it is.

And sometimes just like you have problems understanding social cues some people have problems speaking, finding the way to words their thoughts/feelings correctly.

Specially among strangers where you don't know the others personality or how they could react to your words.

That's where social cues, that are general rules the majority of people have agreed on, work. To facilitate convivence.

And yeah there's an argument to be said about how you are supposed to know them if they are unspoken rules and the thing is YOU LEARN THEM THROUGH SOCIAL INTERACTION, through living in a society.

Just like gender norms and the like you don't learn them in school during a boring lecture where a professor lists them on the board. You learn them through interaction and repetition, throught observing your peers. Just like learning to talk and walk and other stuff. Heck, your parents and other adults around are supposed to ease you into it.

And yes, it's not a perfect system. But nothing is.

The saying 'communication is the key' doesn't refer to just talking.

Social cues and other non spoken gestures are also another form of communicating. Equally as valid as all the others

There's beauty in talking and openly expressing your love to someone. Or your grievances.

But there's also beauty in grabbing someones arm or the you picking up your friend is uncomfortable due to the turnup of their mouth or the way they stand.

One isn't superior to other. They are supposed to complement each other

Laios and Toshiros mistakes were relying completely in one or the other instead a compromising and finding a middle point.

Toshiro should have expressed his annoyance at Laios.

And Laios should have picked better Toshiros signs of discomfort.

(All of this isn't even taking into account how they come from different cultures and shock it comes with it because others have talked better about it and I wanted to focus on this. On how even if they have from the same background Laios should have also been a fault.

Hell not only social cues even talking is affected by ones cultural background. What for me is normal could come out as rude for someone in Japan)

#dungeon meshi #i was going to say more about how non spoken cues are another important form of comunication #and how theres beauty in it and why sometimes its preferred over easier ways like talking (THE JEST THE PLAY THE AMBIGUITY #THE IF YOU KNOW ME... ITS LIKE POETRY IN ACTION JUST LIKE WORDSPLAY)#but i lost the steam #also this hit too close to home and it made me realize why im angry at my friends so thank you laios and shuro for serving #as an external mechanism i could use to analyze the situation clearer #dont even dare try to assume whats going when whta im talking about takes years of context #also dont even dare to say im discriminating against autistic folk #me saying autistic folk should work on their social skills even though is difficult is the same as saying adhd should work on their #organizing skills even if its difficult because the consequences will still be there anyway and one must #hold themselves accountable og their actions even if they were cause by stuff we cant help

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siren-of-agony · 1 month

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Even if the Sirens kill

for the wish to become one with the ocean, one way or another.

Her & the Sea - CLANN / Ocean - Parisian / This Is Love - The Hunts / Song for a Siren - The Jane Austen Argument / Crowded Out - Funeral Suits / Girl and the Sea - Reonda / Ocean - Alice Phoebe Lou / Borders - Kalandra / Mermaid - Skott / Down - Simon, Trella / Water Witch - The Secret Sisters, Brandi Carlile / Waters - Eliza Shaddad / Undertow - Lisa Hannigan / A Kind of Hunger - Penny and Sparrow / Bottom Of The Deep Blue Sea (Stripped) - MISSIO / Boy Was I Wrong - Talos / Circe Poisoning the Sea - Alcest / Siren Song - Lambia / In All My Dreams I Drown - Jessica Lowndes, Terrance Zdunich / The Depths - Cross Record / Waterfall - Vök / Beneath the Brine - The Family Crest / Regret - Cat Pierce, James Levy / Sirens - The Mechanisms / The Water Is Fine - Chlow Ament / Sing Me to Sleep - Matstubs / Call Of the Sea - Claudie Mackula

As a birthday present to myself and also Mermay starting in a few days, I'm thought I'd finally post this playlist. Hope y'all enjoy!

Taglist: @gottawhump @painsandconfusion @bright-whump @whumpwillow @dont-touch-my-soup @mostlydeadallday @kim-poce @lonesome--hunter @getyourwhumphere @not-your-housekeeper98 @yesthisiswhump @waitingforrescue @i-can-even-burn-salad @lazy8whump @painful-pooch (If you want to be taken off or included for coming playlists, please let me know (esp considering I haven't posted a playlist in forever and this is only tangentially whump)!)

#Playlist #mermay 2024 #mermaid #whump playlist #mermay #i hope it's okey that i'm posting this w mermay even tho i'm technically not following any prompts and also it's not may #but maybe if some ppl are still working on their stuff this could be a cool playlist to lsiten to while doing so?#also i started this playlist like 3 years ago but just never got around to posting it and i feel like if dont take the ooportunity of merma #plus bday then i'll just never post it :D #this is the third version of the cover too bc i'm never happy w it #normally i just use the copyright free stuff on canva but this time resorted to just sth from google bc nothing on canva made me happy #still not totally satisfied but again - if i don't post it now i never will #also normally the order of songs in my playlists is much easier for me bc they follow a clearer narrative but i tried

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unnerving-presence · 10 months

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unpopular opinion i think but i’m sad they didn’t stick with the cold, calculating, but calm wesker. it honestly just doesn’t fit him seeing him get impulsively angry at shit he wouldn’t have gotten angry at in re4 or uc

like he’s this character who has really deep lore and trauma, who has seen the worst of the worst, does bad shit, but is also calm and quick to think of solutions when things go wrong

in his newer iterations it just feels like that part of him is gone? like he just kinda gets angry (ahem re5) and we never really see his quick thinking. it almost feels like he’s so dedicating to his plan he doesn’t want to think of other options and it feels like he doesn’t. sure, you could argue that he’s a lil more crazy in re5, but 3 years ago that fucker didn’t beat around spencer despite him using him his entire life. but all of a sudden when it comes to uroboros he wants to get all cocky and just let his guards do all the work which clearly doesn’t work.

if this were like.. any other wesker iteration he would’ve thought to maybe.. i don’t know, do something smarter instead of letting all his soldiers die? wesker took down an entire umbrella base in russia by himself to get all of umbrella’s files but all of a sudden he’s too lazy to kill 2 people who he could impale in a second when they clearly threaten his plans? is he stupid? yeah probably lol

bring back smart wesker i’m tired of him being stupid aka typical comic villain in re5 :[

#i also don’t like him in cv i’m sorry #funny as hell lines but why is wesker smart only when the devs want him to be #i’m just biased i just uc wesker LMAO #i hate that you can argue pretty much anything too #big ego (which he has in uc but still beats ass while being a little bitch)#crazy (fair but back to what i said abt spencer. perhaps that was his downfall but it should really be made clearer)#plot armor (well yes)#me just having an extreme bias toward uc wesker (yes)#wesker not knowing abt project w in his younger years (also yeah but they do not make this shit clear whether it affects him)#(they do it for other characters why can’t they do it for wesker?)#(yeah he’s obviously affected but we don’t even know how much it affects him so it’s hard to even tell if most of his decisions are based-#off that or if it’s just plot armor)#probably plot armor yeah yeah #i just like to complain cause i miss old wesker he was so pookie #i like all the weskers i just wish re5 wesker was somewhat smart

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monstersandmaw · 2 years

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What 👏 You 👏 Are 👏 Writing 👏 Is 👏 Not 👏 Yautja/Predator 👏 fic👏!

I'm sorry Anon, but this made me spit my water all over my screen. I laughed so hard. I... I can't even with this. It's too funny. You have to be joking with this, surely?

Folks, I present to you: Reading inComprehension, ft. Chapters 1-5 (plus tags) of my 'Male 'yautja-INSPIRED' alien x gender neutral reader story.

#this made me laugh so hard #please just... read the top of the posts #or even like the third word of every title #i know it's not yautja fanfic #it's just... yautja design in my own little sandbox #i'm just having fun with my alien-looking blorbos #how can i be clearer? haha

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bookwyrminspiration · 4 months

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I feel you. My issue isn't really specific to auditory processing, but my brain works sort of slowly, so it often takes me longer than others to formulate responses to things. Not fantastic for convincing people that I'm knowledgeable and competent :/

Honestly I don't know quite what it is for me, just for some reason it often takes me longer to process when someone asks a question. Which sucks because then you're just kinda staring while they're waiting like why aren't you saying anything. and I'm like. I also wish I was saying something dude

And while speed doesn't equate to intelligence and knowledge, you just feel like an idiot sometimes because it's just! A jumble of words! I know each of them individually, I know what we're talking about, I know the answer to your question, I just need a few extra seconds to figure out what that question was. But you also feel the need to fill the space, and then you're using part of your energy to fill the space so it takes even longer to process the question and form your response

then you get to feel like an idiot while trying to remind yourself no one else cares or will likely remember the 5 seconds of you thinking then going huh? but you will. you'll remember it forever.

#quil's queries #professor was like quil how about you answer this one because we made eye contact (I don't think we actually did)#and however she worded it it just did not click. like I did not know what she was asking about #straight up. i gave an answer but it wasn't the one se was looking for #and her clarification did NOT make it clearer for me #so I was like. i do not know. because I was panicking a little #turns out she was asking about a really simple concept that was SO simple i'd forgotten we'd even covered it #and I know. I KNOW that's not a big deal #day 2 of class fudged a question who give a shit #ME APPARENTLY #because I swear I was trying not to cry the rest of class. and then spent half an hour calming down by the duck pond before my next class #though i know i wasn't actually that upset by that one question #it just seemed like a bigger deal because of all the stresses of massive schedule changes this week #so it was just like. a straw dangerously close to the last one. you know?#and it's just like. annoying to know things but not be able to articulate yourself well

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unproduciblesmackdown · 1 year

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also let's hear it for our [cam stone exists] entry being the only one (so far) of the 2 trans 2 furious zine to have an editor's note, hell yeah

#the issue was ''oops we didn't realize at first this is like Real Real Preexisting Info & not an OC''#and i'm like well since (a) that's on the basis of my Already trying to make it initially clear & (b) i'd have to edit in more text #and i Know i both wouldn't do that concisely Nor even have a good idea of how to make it Clearer & (c) i think a separate editor's note #would in fact help Clarify in being a separate editor's note; would be more concise than i could make it (it is: ''this isn't fanfic.#everything on this page is true!''); would also just be funny in & of itself #there's also some Artist Statements in the back of the book; i didn't know that at the time but prefer it right on the page anyways #as the editor's note is....loved an artist statement abt an edit that made me laugh that said like [humoring another trans person out there #is enough]; a statement contextualizing an abstract very epic comic/illustration as ''this is my effort to imagine a distilled #Platonic Ideal of the fastness & furiousness at the core of the movies'' right tf on #2 trans 2 furious #cam stone #it's what they and we deserve: a funny little and clarifying little special addition

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pepprs · 2 years

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also the favoritism thing is still making me so fucking mad and insane btw. im not jealous / resentful of my brother bc he deserves her love and is also burdened in his own ways by it and bc i think my drama w my mom has shaped my life in profound ways and given me friends i cherish and i would never trade any of that for the world but jesus fucking christ. why do i have to beg you to interact with me like a mother. why do i have to talk to me at all beyond asking me to do you 847439473 favors a day. why do i have to beg you to take an interest in my life and apologize when you hurt me and be nurturing and perceptive for once in your fucking life. like it hurts to hear her asking him about his classes and whatever bc she didn’t think i was stressed out w school but i had to talk to a ****** hotline last decemver when i couldn’t take it anymore and my mental health was crashing and burning and it doesn’t even fucking matter to her at all and she’s going to get him the nice gifts and throw him the nice parties and whatever because she hates me and my sister for… and let me get this straight… being complicated and anxious and depressed and also girls. lol!

#purrs #delete later #sorry i knowive been insane about momposting but this shit has me screeching like an ape. the way when my brother was born she decided me #and my sister would be okay with each other bc we were twins and meanwhile she was leaving my sister to have anxiety attacks and me to take #care of her and all of this happening at like 7 years old and she would come into my brothers room every single night and kiss him goodnight #and talk to him for a long time and she wouldn’t even come in and say goodnight to us. LOL. ok. like our room being a depression nest is not #an excuse. us not helping out much in the kitchen or around the house (which is bad but also we have reasons for it that i think are valid #and i only do it here and not elsewhere btw.) is not a good excuse. you can’t decide you love your one kid more because he helps out and #keeps his room clean and whatever. maybe he is normal because you made it very clear from the time that he was born that he was your top #priority and you gave him your attention and didn’t take it away meanwhile my sister and i have always had to share bc we’re twins and she #cast us aside when he was born and has fucking tormented both of us for years over who we like what we want where we go all of that shit and #then has the AUDACITY to call herself a good mother. being a good mother is more than feeding your kid and projecting your childhood trauma #onto them by preventing them from ever developing cancer to the point where they’re afraid fo like. go outside. you have to be patient and #nurturing and kind and like.. motherly. ans i know no one can be a perfect mother and she has been hurt so badly and she is dealing with a l #lot right now but COME ON. for gods SAKE. i am right fucking here. why don’t you care about me? why do you make it clearer every day?#ask to tag #like the way she would say when my sister and i were growing up and going through it that she wished she could book a hotel and live there f #far away from us and miss out on us growing up so she wouldn’t have to deal with us being anxious and hormonal because we were teenage girls #LOL. totally did not impact me at all. totally is not a wound that informs every breath i take and every thought i have. not at all #* like maybe he is normal because you uh… idk. just a guess here. actually gave him the motherlove people need to be functioning healthy #human beings? idk. just a silly thought. haha

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ratgirlcopia · 8 months

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dance macabre sounds insanely unbelievably good here. by the way.

#copiaposting #footage tag #<-keep forgetting to use that for stuff.#me pausing and rewinding and squinting and trying to figure out why this performance goes so fucking hard.#are the vocals just clearer than usual?? second verse/chorus right before the solo is INSANE. to me.#by “insane” i here just mean i feel like there's a little more copia flair in the vocals. also it rules and kicks ass.#the “sting in the way you kiss me” and the pronunciation of the “you”s in general just feels even more copia than usual here. to me.#look. my brain is basically. made of dance macabre confetti. i know this. but there is something in this one that hits uniquely hard.#maybe it's better audio quality on the recording? none of the other songs in this set stuck out to me as particularly insane unreal tho.#anyway. normal standard brain moments this morning.

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daydreamingoncloud9 · 1 year

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#i spent the whole day consuming haikyuu content and i'm so inconsolable right now #the series has had a special place in my heart for years now but i've never entirely understood why #like it's a very visceral‚ instinctual and emotional type of love that i haven't been able to feel towards any other series #and this is even when i haven't reread/rewatched the series in a long time #but it's always at the back of my mind and i always mean to come back to it eventually #now that i've watched/read some analyses on it‚ it's clearer now how furudate-sensei's masterful writing was what made hq so special to me #even if i couldn't intellectually understand‚ the raw emotion that this series continues to pull out of me is a testament to how good it is #the series isn't just about volleyball‚ it's about passion‚ life‚ connections‚ hunger #there's so many good life lessons you can get from it and relearning them is just one benefit of rereading it i think #it's so utterly dense that if you sit back and think about it or read up about it‚ you can see how intricate each journey is #and it uses volleyball as a vehicle to convey these themes #i'm getting so emotional again holy shit #god haikyuu is so good y'all #it means so much to me #still one of the best pieces of fiction i've ever had the pleasure of consuming #haikyuu!!#The Cloud Talk

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collecting--stardust · 1 year

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TIL that my right eye had gone haywire and shit

#story time! because im annoying #so today is my first day of clinical posting this semester and im posted to eye clinic #so we did our assessment (which the marks not as high as i expected) which are performing visual acuity test and instil eye drops #and when my friend did the visual acuity test on me my right eye vision is shit even when im wearing my glasses #it was 6/18 (which in the snellen chart i only managed to read until the 3rd row)#my left eye is okay and i thought i was tripping tbh #my ci thought my glasses' power increases as hell so she sent me to the low vision specialist part of the clinic #the ophthalmologist mention a medical condition idk the name and did the test like you would when you want to buy prescription glasses #the one where you wear a weird glasses and they keep on changing the lenses and ask you if its clearer or what #ANYWAY #turns out that when i was younger apparently the shop i made my glasses did the wrong prescription glasses #like my left eye was right but my right eye was wrong and it made my right eye turn to shit #so my power for my left eye is 300 while my right eye is 600+#but they cant give me the 600 on my right eye because then it will autocorrect #like if i occlude my left eye i can see the it clearer but as a pair of glasses it will be hard to read as the words will merge and all #so what the glasses shop i got my latest glasses did is they balanced the power on each side so that i can see better #thats why when i did the visual acuity test my right eye is shit because my glasses is made that way to balance it #its a really good news though because i thought that i need to buy new glasses #he did mention that my 'silau' increases tho but that's fine #the more you know 👀#personal.txt

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heavierthanlaila · 10 months

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today is just one of those days where waiting sets very heavily on top of your shoulders that it almsot breaks your bones. patience is a 1000 degress firey monster that can melt your flesh away in a second. you feel like you've overstayed your welcome in your family's house and your free trial is over and is now the time to pay your overdue rent. their love will no longer be for free. whatever friends you have left are distracted living their own lives cherishing their own separate friends and can't find the time to include you. yet you can't blame anyone because it's your time to be tested. it's your time to be stripped away of whatever little support system you have to see if you're a true believer on your own or is it only a group project sort of thing. but you know it's not easy and loneliness is a big fat bitch that sits on your neck almost crushing your wind pipe.

#writing this made me realize that having inconsistent love in my life is exactly what my test is #and realizing that made me feel truly at ease because I know that Allah will left this hardship and give me even better than i ever asked f #if i accepted the test and was content with it #i thought Journaling was western nonsense but honestly writing down your feelings helps you process it and see things clearer #i won't complain about this again hopefully because it's been a common theme through the past 10 years #and i have done nothing but conplain not realizing that it's actually my test and all i could ever done to make things better is to accept #wow im such a slow learner lmaooo #i didn't want to post this but honestly it's just there to remind me of my progress whenever i feel down again #and to document this moment of breaking through

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juvian · 2 years

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it's gotta be lyon and gray right? and ik you like kpop but i. have no idea abt ur kpop faves im sorry alex i failed u

Oh !!! 2 on 5 !!!! Bfksbdjsj yeah they are my 2 of faves characters but Lyon is only my 3rd fave 👀 Gray is an half of the loves of my life 🥰

Based on my blog, who do you think my favorite fictional characters are ? Can be of anything 💕

#you didn’t fail me !!!!#and it’s okay you don’t have to get my kpop faves this ask is only about fictional characters 💕#i have 5 favorite characters for fairy tail actually !!!!#if anyone wanna try the 3 others hahaha #maybe even 6 there’s one I could except as an answer jfbsjdbsjs #you made me realise i should add fictional to the ask I thought something was missing to make it clearer thank you bfkdbdjd #ess💙#based on my blog who do you think my favorite characters are ? can be of anything

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jewishdainix · 1 year

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Yup you can indeed see this is based on something polish

#like it couldnt be made clearer that its a holocust metaphor(?) is metaphor the right word here? peralel?#idk you know what i mean!#and its making me love jaskier even more <33

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