snap is not that bad.

THERE. I SAID IT.

Like c’mon let’s be honest 😭 if we want to talk canon, SNAPE was a victim of the marauders (specifically James’s) bullying. Ofc yes he was terrible to Harry and yes, he was mean during his years in school. But being honest with all of you (as a victim of bullying) it changes you as a person, Snape did nothing to deserve that kind of treatment.

IF WE’RE TALKING FANON

Snape is literally just used as the ‘bad guy’ because the fandom already converted the slytherins (More Regulus and Barty who are canonically known to be PROUD DEATH EATERS) and now they need a character to “bully” and make the marauders (and I’m talking about Sirius and James) look cool.

Please grow up and realize that if you can and want to make Regulus, Barty, Evan, NARCISSA AND BELLATRIX good people, you should also consider doing the same for snape. That man did NOTHING to be as hated as he is 😭😭

WARNING: THIS PERSON IS CRUEL AND LIKES TO FALSELY ACCUSE OTHERS IN A GUISE OF "BEING HEROIC"

Everyone, @ari-doodles-stuff

Is a person who threatened me and my friends and followers as well as random supporters over false allegations of me being a "pedophile" for drawing a butt "too detailed"

Please be careful!

Here is proof they harassed me and others

Stay safe

By: Martin Evans

Published: Jan 14, 2016

Male victims of domestic abuse are reluctant to report attacks because they are often subjected to false accusations themselves, according to new research.

More than 700,000 men each year are thought to fall victim to violent attacks at the hands of their partners, but many are too ashamed to report the offences.

It was thought much of the underreporting was due to men feeling embarrassed by the stigma of being a domestic violence victim.

But new research has suggested that many of those who do come forward risk being arrested themselves, after their abusers make false accusations against them.

Dr Jessica McCarrick, a Senior Lecturer in Counselling Psychology at Teesside University, who carried out a study with male abuse victims, said they were often treated with suspicion by the criminal justice system.

She said their experiences were not only dismissed by some police officers, but they could even find themselves under arrest when their partners turned the tables on them.

Dr McCarrick said: “Men find it incredibly difficult to talk about their experiences of domestic violence because of the shame and emasculation they feel is associated with it.

“To find the courage to speak out, only to be accused of violence themselves, is incredibly disheartening and ultimately prevents countless men from reporting intimate partner violence.”

Abuse charities also claim they are finding an increasing number of male victims coming to them to seek advice after becoming the subject false accusations.

Mark Brooks, chairman of the Mankind Initiative charity, which takes calls from around 1,000 men per year, said: “Over the past ten years we have seen a steady increase in the number of callers to our helpline stating they have been the victims of false allegations.

“The type of thing we hear is ‘my wife or girlfriend has said if I leave, or tell anyone, she will say I was the one attacking her and she was just defending herself.”

“It is an extremely powerful weapon in the armoury of the perpetrator and leaves the victim feeling trapped and helpless.”

Police forces insist they are making great strides in tackling the problem with the number of women convicted of domestic abuse quadrupling in the last decade from 806 in 2004/05 to 3,735 in 2013/14.

But the problem remains still largely hidden and campaigners insisting much more needs to be done to encourage victims to come forward and have the confidence to report an offence.

One male victim who took part in the study, but did not want to be named described how he had been arrested on three separate occasions following false allegations by his wife.

He said: “In the latest incident I made the initial complaint to police as my wife assaulted me. But when they arrived, they showed little concern and instead arrested me because my wife made a counter allegation.

“I certainly feel that more compassion and empathy needs to be shown towards male victims of domestic violence.”

Dr McCarrick, said his account was not uncommon adding: “Within my research, the predominant experience is of men being arrested under false charges and their disclosures of being the victim are not taken seriously, despite having evidence.”

She said domestic abuse must be viewed as a human issue rather than a gender issue with more services and support available to enable men to seek help and support.

She added: “Campaigners and researchers made waves in the 1970’s, which had a positive impact and improved service provision for women – it is time to do the same for men.”

“Promoting awareness of the plight of male survivors may encourage men to report abuse and feel assured that they will be taken seriously.

“Intimate partner violence is an issue which affects men and women within both heterosexual and homosexual relationships and I would like to see increased funding to improve service provision and development in order to support all people affected by this issue.”

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https://sci-hub.hkvisa.net/10.1891/1946-6560.1.3.332

Rather than self-defense, the most usual motivations for violence by women, like the motivations of men, are coercion, anger, and punishing misbehavior by their partner (Cascardi & Vivian, 1995; Fiebert & Gonzalez, 1997; Kernsmith, 2005). For example, Pearson (1997) reports that 90% of the women she studied assaulted their partner because they were furious, jealous, or frustrated and not because they tried to defend themselves. These motives are parallel to the motivations of men perpetrators.

I'm so glad that people are not responding well to defamation campaigns anymore 👍

Percy proved himself innocent a long time ago yet many still want to spread misinformation and false reports about him or his character from Wednesday...

I just want to clarify that if @netflix decides to cave to internet trolls and end his role in this beloved series they will risk losing massive numbers of followers:

_Those who are fans of Percy will take the news harshly and they will unsubscribe from the streaming service, as well as launch their campaign to save the actor's name and reputation and reprehend the company's executives for their contribution to destroying a young innocent man's career, just so that they could keep their name away from controversy.

the company will have no male actors left in their projects if they fire every actor whose reputation was tarnished by false allegations in dark corners of the internet.

It should be the company's responsibility to keep their employees safe, not support their abusers.

_those who are done with cancel culture and understand well its dangers on celebrities and public figures. this includes members of Wednesday cast who are still in support of their good friend and colleague #Percyhyneswhite. if he gets canceled and fired from the show it will hurt and affect them greatly. I highly doubt that they will stay silent in the face of the internet cancel mobs.

_ While the Wednesday series received positive reviews and worldwide success, it is still not considered a masterpiece of artwork. the show's success originated from people's ability to care about the characters: especially Wednesday and her friends.

xavier is definitely one of these main characters who had a strong impact on Wednesday regardless of the nature of her feelings towards him. "Writing out" his character is not a good move because fans are already feeling that the dynamic of the series will lose its charm.

introducing new and "strange" characters to fill the void will not be well received as far as I have seen.

In the end i would like to say that we must all fight against #cancelculture and internet sociopaths...

False SA allegations are apparently less terrifying than coming out as gay?!

Trigger Warning: Discussions about SA and casting couch. I recently saw this reblog from blea74. There someone claims to have worked for CAA, the PR firm Chris Evans is still under. You can read everything this person said here:

Something important was mentioned that some people still deny when I talk to them privately about this whole Portugal PR mess: "but to my understanding and digging a little deeper, there was some tantrums on both sides here. Chris not wanting to do things, and her forcing it by whatever nonsense she has in her pocket. I will divulge my suspicions of that, but it's probably within your imagination. And yes CAA suits would do that. They would also tell the parties involved it's over or "do this and you're finished" and then change their mind. As long as the date on the paper hasn't expired they can really do whatever they want." When confronting people with the fact that Hollywood is basically a mafia, many refuse to believe me because it sounds too much like a conspiracy theory. However, not too long ago I came across this article:

I don't know much about Vin Diesel because I don't watch idiot movies like Fast & Furious (I actually only like horror movies) but it doesn't matter which social media platform, almost every time Vin Diesel is written about in connection to the SA allegations, many people in the comment sections reply: "How? He is gay." Where there is smoke, there is fire and just because someone has children and wife, doesn't mean they are hetero. See: Will Smith or John Travolta.

Shortly after the allegations against Diesel, I saw this discussion by a youtube channel called HoneyBadgerRadio:

At 33:50 the discussion becomes interesting in relation to our PR theories. They already started to talk about Vin Diesel before my time stamp but at 33:50, the celebrity expert called Lauren B comes on the show and discusses how this accusation could just be PR to make Vin Diesel appear as a "masculine" straight man. The discussion I highlight goes on until 48:14. I recommend listening to these 15 minutes but the most important thing you'll learn is that: False allegations are apparently less terriyfing than coming out as gay. I remember a similar story regarding this soccer player called Ronaldo or something... but I digress. And when you think about it: Hollywood is hypocritical again! They push the agenda that toxic masculinity is bad but use examples of toxic macho behavior to promote their stars??! And it also demonstrates to what lenghts some of these PR firms go in order to paint a certain narrative. So when an anonymous CAA anon claims that Chris and other celeb dudes could be forced into certain behavior, unless they want to kiss their careers good-bye, it is actually not so hard to believe.

here we have @bird-enthusiast-hq , who is an ableist sack of shit after falsely accusing someone of being a sexual predator because of his lack of tone tags. he's a dogshit human being that tries to ruin people's lives over his own mistakes, so do whatever the fuck you want with him. i'll post part 2 soon

Jack Reid, 17, a student at Lawrenceville School in New Jersey took his own life after being bullied by other students

A year after his death a school statement recognizes the failure of the school to protect Jack noting how inaction by teaching staff contributed to his death

School has committed to taking corrective actions including appointing a new dean who will be responsible for dealing with mental health issues 

If you are having thoughts of suicide, call or text 988 to reach the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline or go to SpeakingOfSuicide.com/resources 

An elite New Jersey boarding school has admitted that 'more should have been done' after a student took his own life in his dorm room following a year of bullying by his peers.

Jack Reid, 17, attended The Lawrenceville School, between Trenton and Princeton, where tuition is $76,000 a year. 

He died on April 30, 2022, but in the 12 months leading up to his death he had become the victim of a vicious bullying campaign that consisted of cruel and malicious rumors that labelled him as a campus rapist. 

The rumors were made up by fellow students and were said to Jack both in person and posted anonymously online thereby spreading the story beyond the campus walls.

During a secret Santa gift exchange among his classmates, Jack was given a rape whistle together with a book about how to make friends.

Although school staff were made aware of the bullying, the school has now admitted make an extraordinary admission of failure on the anniversary of Jack's death. 

'There were steps that the School should in hindsight have taken but did not,' the school wrote in a lengthy statement. 

Most damning of all is the fact the school did not make a public or private statement that it had in fact investigated the rape and found the rumors about Jack and the entire story to be completely untrue. 

Neither Jack not his parents were ever told that he had been exonerated over the claims.

The school's officials have now admitted that they were aware of the bullying, but fell short in their obligation to protect him. 

In a frank, honest and heart-wrenching admission the school, which ranks among the nation's top boarding schools, believes Jack's death could have been prevented and stated how 'there also were circumstances in which the involvement of an adult would have made a difference.'  

'As we seek to improve as a community, we have examined our role and take responsibility for what we could have done differently. Lawrenceville's top priority is the physical, social, and emotional health, safety, and wellbeing of our students. We recognize that in Jack's case, we fell tragically short of these expectations,' the statement read. 

'Jack was universally regarded as an extremely kind and good-hearted young man, with an unwavering sense of social and civic responsibility and a bright future. We continue to mourn this loss,' the school wrote in the statement noting how a settlement had been reached with his parents, William and Elizabeth Reid.

The agreement requires the school, which hosts 830 students, to undertake a series of corrective actions, including creating a new dean's position that will focus on mental health issues, with the goal of becoming a model for anti-bullying and student mental health. 

'We feel like we both have life sentences without the possibility of parole,' Jack's mother, Dr. Elizabeth Reid, a clinical psychologist, said to the New York Times.

'The only thing I'd love to change here is to get Jack back. I can't. I do know if he were alive, he would want me — both of us — to try to make something good out of this and honor him in the way he lived his life.'

'We think bullying, with the 1,000 times echo chamber of the internet and everybody knowing, is much more devastating to kids and, in Jack's case, produced a very impulsive act,' dad, William Reid said. 

'He had to escape the pain from the humiliation he was feeling.' 

The school explained how after a student who previously had been disciplined for bullying Jack was expelled for an unrelated violation of school rules, Jack was allowed to return the school but was left largely unsupervised where students gathered.

'Some harsh words were said about Jack,' the school revealed adding that administrators did not notify or check on Jack once he was back on campus.

Later that night, Jack, who was a Dean's list student, took his own life, telling a friend that he could not go through the ordeal again. 

He had a bible in one pocket of his gym shorts, as well as a note directing his parents to a Google document, in which he described his helplessness.  

MORE HERE

Ok, i just want to say something.

[long post, just venting tbh]

I'm a casual Kwite enjoyer, i love the guy and his humor a lot. But i wasn't actively on circles about him or his company, just binged on his vids.

So imagine my surprise when he posted his response to the allegations video.

But before watching it i looked up wtf happened before and, shit, as a t!guy who had been sa'd and had too many toxic friendships in the past i was pretty scared yk. But i know how these things work on youtube, so i went and watched Kwite's video as well.

And thank god i watched it bc damn, a lot of things were cleared up, i found it sad how he was forced out of his anonymity because Orion couldn't understand that basic boundaries. There were a lot of alarm bells ringing when he started pulling out messages where Orion used the same tactics a former friend of mine used even years before i cut them off of my life.

But... we'll have to wait.

I've been around this block before, and i know it's not over (from what i've seem on Orions twitter) but they don't seem to be holding up their side very well bc forging documents and cutting off messages that leave you looking bad is not something an innocent person would do.

Some people don't like how Kwite defended himself, saying he was "too aggressive" or "not emotional enough for what he's saying" but remember, someone crying doesn't mean they're telling the truth (remember amber heard?) and if you're really about "hearing both sides", you can see that he's uncomfortable when speaking about his trauma and struggles, needing the script to communicate what was necessary without overwhelming himself.

Something that should've been private and respected, but instead was shared without his consent and used as a weapon against him. Manipulating him into doing what he wanted or trying and insisting even after being denied time and time again.

What strikes me is that Kwite isn't blaming Orion for anything, he's just defending himself and even sometimes taking the blame for not comunicating better about a boundary or nor being able to do something for the other person, you know, something that victims commonly do.

I'm just tired about people using SA to bring others down for a personal grudge. It's something horrible to go through and seeing it being thrown around like it's nothing makes me want to throw up.

And honestly, if someone (even worse, a close friend or even a s/o) deadnames you, calls you hateful slurs or even say that they would phisically harm you as an actual threat, you cut them off of your life, you don't usually attempt to reconnect.

I'm not saying Kwite is right or that Orion is right, but Kwite's response stuck stronger with me and the amount of evidence is very telling, he tried to bring and provide every single piece he could to support his side, even if it was painful for him to do so.

In this house, we stan Camille Vasquez 💜

so kwite was innocent the whole time and the allegations against him were lies. i’m glad i was wrong and that he didn’t assault anyone. but on the other hand this situation is still fucked up and not without bad consequences. not only was an innocent person accused of something terrible, but falsely accusing people will make it harder for actual victims to be believed in the future, and it’s also just wildly disrespectful to take up space for lies out of pettiness where actual victims’ voices should be listened to instead. it disappoints me every time someone does this, just like it disappoints me when someone is genuinely a predator. orion, you better take responsibility for how you’ve affected kwite and true victims in the world. this isn’t something you can just walk away from.

Wounds (not the movie)

Ths is an accidental 1 inch deep cut. It needs 4 hours of medical treatment n stitching in Emergency Dep.

This is Paige Lorenze's "A shaped, above 1 inch deep cut, carved w a knife" wound. No mention of instant visit to ER for stitching or medical treatment, only laser treatment for leftover scar days later aftr d wound healed.

1 inch is d length of average 1st joint of a finger. Compared to her finger her "wound" looks like a scratch

Watch "Indias Sons" on YouTube

tabloid lies

Looking through the # for Ezra Miller, I noticed people rehashing the bullshit allegations put in the media last year. I just want to tell you, if you’re one of those people, that you know nothing. Google d e f a m a t i o n and if you still don’t get it then just delete all your social media because you are in an online hate mob and are part of Satanic Panic II.

CW: feet, tickling, ableism, false sexual harassment allegations

context for the last post, @bird-enthusiast-hq was invited to a small friend group by friend A earlier that morning because they thought he was cool. It was all fine until a few hours later. We were joking around, and I said (as a joke) that I was gonna tickle his feet. I do want to note that our friend group server has a mutual interest of feet/tickling, and friend A found Dio (@bird-enthusiast-hq) from a tickling/feet server. I've said this to other server members as a joke before, even ones who didn't have a foot fetish. I also indicated that this was a joke. However, he immediately got aggressive, but I assumed that he was joking because of him not using tone indicators, which caused him to become even more aggressive. I left the server to calm down, and for the most part, other people agreed he was in the wrong. However, when I came back, he tried starting things again even though other people were telling him not to. I do want to mention that he never indicated that he was genuinely uncomfortable with feet, and I had absolutely no idea that this was a trigger for him. He did mention that he didn't have a foot fetish, though, which is the only thing he mentioned when it came to feet. He ended up leaving the server, but dmed friend B and friend A. Friend A was there to witness the entire thing and took my side on it, but friend B was offline until he dmed them. He falsely accused me of being a creep and sexual predator as a way to turn everyone against me, and was temporarily able to turn friend B against me due to me allegedly "telling him to kill himself" without proof.. Friend B left the server while friend A pretended to be on Dio's side of the situation. Dio was spreading nothing but lies and kept out a lot of context, such as the fact that he never mentioned ANYTHING about having a discomfort for feet. If he did, then none of this would be happening. He also attempted to get me banned in another server but was banned due to not having any proof for such serious allegations.

Dio, I know you're reading this. I hope you know how much of a disgusting sack of shit you are. Instead of holding yourself accountable for YOUR mistakes, you instead decided to double down and attempt to destroy my image. You're an ableist liar and a horrible human being, and I hope you have the life you deserve. Leave me and my friends the fuck alone, thanks <3