"There is No Elevator to Success, You have to Take the Stairs" - Zig Ziglar No One Will Work for Your Success Harder than You Do. Success is the result of what sociologists like to call “Accumulative Advantage.” - Malcolm Gladwell, Outliers It is an accumulation of Results, both Successes, and Failures, and Never Giving Up. One wouldn't understand the value of Success without the value of Failure. And it gets better and better, building success upon success, step by step, like going up the stairs. #Success #RoadToSuccess #Failure #WorkForIt #WorkForYourself #AccumulativeAdvantage #NeverGiveUp #KeepTrying #KeepGoing #Failure #WorkHard #DelayGratification #StepByStep #SuccessUponSuccess #KnowBetter #KnowBetterDoBetter #DoBetter #DoBetterBeBetter #BeBetter #Better #Grit #BeBetterThanYesterday #BeBetterEveryDay #GetBetter #BetterThanYesterday #Strive #StriveForGreatness #StriveForSuccess #StriveForMore #StriveForExcellence https://www.instagram.com/p/CgrngCZJLe-/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

#RamadhanInspirasi “Self-Control”

“Apa itu self-control?”

“Dan kenapa self-control ini penting untuk kita miliki?”

Pada tahun 1960an, seorang peneliti dari Universitas Stanford bernama Walter Micheal melakukan percobaan mengenai Delay Gratification, atau kepuasan yang tertunda. Penelitian ini dikenal dengan percobaan Marsmellow Stanford.

Dalam penelitian ini, dia mengumpulkan anak-anak berusia 4-5 tahun, masing-masing anak dibawa ke dalam suatu ruangan, dan sebuah marsmellow ditaruh di meja di depan anak-anak tersebut. Mereka diberi tahu bahwa mereka boleh memakan marsmellow tersebut sekarang. Tetapi, apabila mereka menunggu 20 menit dia akan kembali dan memberikan mereka tambahan 1 marsmellow.

Hasilnya? Sepertiga anak memakan marsmellow segera, sepertiga yang lain sempat menunggu tapi akhirnya menyerah dan memakan marsmellow tersebut. Sepertiga yang terakhir mampu menunggu hingga 20 menit dan akhirnya mendapatkan 2 buah marsmellow.

Belasan tahun kemudian, pada tahun 1981 Micheal menemukan kecendrungan yang menarik. Anak-anak yang dulu tidak sabar dan memakan marsmellow segera, ternyata memiliki kehidupan yang standar alias biasa-biasa saja. Sedangkan, mereka yang mampu mengontrol diri, bersabar, dan menunda memakan marsmellow, hidup dewasa dengan kesuksesan-kesuksesan dan capaian yang luar biasa.

Hal inilah yang kemudian disebut self-control, kemampuan kita untuk mengontrol diri, menunda kepuasan sementara, dan bersabar demi capaian-capaian yang lebih besar.

Self-control kenyataannya menjadi faktor penting dalam kesuksesan seseorang. Bersyukurnya dalam agama yang kita anut, kita memiliki ibadah puasa. Suatu ibadah yang akan membuat kita berlatih mengontrol diri, menahan nafsu, bersabar dan bertahan. Ramadhan ini dapat menjadi sarana training diri yang luar biasa impactful kalau kita mau memaknainya. Kita bisa menjadi pribadi yang lebih bersabar, mampu mengontrol diri, dan menunda kepuasan semu demi goal-goal masa depan, dan ini amat penting untuk kehidupan kita.

Selamat berpuasa, Sahabat. Selamat menjadi pribadi yang mampu mengontrol dirinya! :)

Are you willing to sacrifice everything? – If you want to be successful not onl… Are you keen to sacrifice every thing? 🧐 - If you wish to achieve success not solely financially however in actually something.

Delay Gratification. She sits at the door of her house, on a seat at the highest point of the city, calling out to those who pass by, Who go straight on their way, "Let all who are simple come in here!" She says to those who lack judgement. "Stolen water is sweet; Food eaten in secret is delicious!" But little did they know that the dead are there, that her guests are in the depths of the grave. #delaygratification #setapart #standout #white #black #guitarplayer #yamaha #yamahaguitar #theminstrelsoldier @begetmusic https://www.instagram.com/p/B8rt50vpKbu/?igshid=1kei1qjrrv65s

PAY YOURSELF FIRST! THE MASSES.........PAY EVERYBODY ELSE 1ST! Then they blow money on #instantgratification and maybe save what’s left. The wealthy, do the same thing..............in reverse. FIRST they pay THEMSELVES ( meaning saving, mostly to invest. Not just stacking. Stacking for a purpose. ), THEN they pay bills, THEN they pay bills, THEN they MIGHT buy something. Often times ( the smart ones ) GIVE half of what they were going to #splurge with. They understand the principle behind “ITS BETTER TO GIVE THAN RECEIVE”. They understand #TheLawOfReceiving . Some of them.....actually DONT understand it lol. It’s just part of their #paradigm . One of the keys of going from broke to wealth...... is being able to #delaygratification . Haven’t you noticed that in almost every case, you appreciated the things you work and wait for....far more than the things that came super easy. IF YOU MASTER DOING WHATS HARD, YOUR LIFE WILL BE EASY. IF YOU ARE ADDICTED TO THE SEEMINGLY EASY ROUTE............YOUR LIFE WILL BE HARD! #GETTINGIITHEGREATNESS https://www.instagram.com/p/B1eaBpygh5p/?igshid=kmosi6stgpjd

Tip of the day, don't feed that instant gratification monster. . . . ✔️Like this? ☝️ Follow me for #instadaily ✔️Feel free to repost it 🔁 ✔️Tag someone who could use this. 👇 🔻Love your Comments below🔻 . . . #delaygratification #instantgratification #SuaTruong #businesswomen  #beyourownboss #Entrepreneur #entrepreneurship #Entrepreneurs #Entrepreneurlife #entrepreneurlifestyle #entrepreneurmindset #EntrepreneurQuotes #Motivation #motivationalquotes #actiontaker #motivational  #motivationalquote #bosslady #motivations #motivationquotes #motivationalwords #MotivationMafia #motivationalpost #bossman #motivation101 #dreamchasers #dreams #ladyboss #creatingambassadors https://www.instagram.com/p/Buridlthtny/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=12rm9c6jlywm4

Giving up the things that distract you is vital. Every single one of us have bad habits that get in our way. Some of us waste money and time. Some of us eat too much. 🛍 . . Sacrifice what is not completely vital to your success and watch how much easier it becomes. Distractions are plentiful in the modern world, so learning to avoid them is a necessary skill. 💎 . . Let go of your minor comforts today and have a life of luxury in the future. Spend that time and effort with purpose and your dreams will come true. 👑 . . Willing to sacrifice @thewisdomshortcut 💪 . . #sacrifice #investinyourself #delaygratification #future #removedistractions #makeitcount #focusedeffort

There is an aspect of not skipping commercials we may have failed to appreciate: Its the ability for our kids to practice patience & delay gratification

#selfcontrol #control #timemanagment #delaygratification #patience #patienceisthekey #mindset #mindpower #mind #successtips #successmindset #mindsetliberationbook #thoughtleadership #vitalysamonov #author #ceo

Nothing to Celebrate If You Didn't Overcome Your Adversity/Struggles!? If You had Witnessed a High Energy Event like Tony Robbins' Unleash the Power Within where You Start off by Jumping around Celebrating "Life". To me, it wasn't a Celebration But an Exercise to Get Blood and Adrenaline Pumping for the Upcoming Sessions. Of Course, You Can Celebrate All You Want, Nobody is Stopping You. You Can be Happy Without a Reason. 🙂 The Real Celebration Comes When You Have Done Your Firewalk, I Still Remember mine was more than 10 years ago. They asked Us to Celebrate the Moment Immediately after Crossing and to Anchor (NLP) the Emotions with Our Own Gesture (Whatever Motions, or Senses) - A Gesture that When Repeated, Reminds Us of How We Overcome Fear and How Capable We Are: "I am a Firewalker, Nothing Stand In Our Way, Not Even Burning Coals". - Not the Official UPW Incantation But at the End of the Event, If Your Problems are Not Solved, Your Struggles remained Chaining You, You'll Feel Even More Miserable... Like a Euphoric High that You Struggled to Go Back to... (Which I Personally Feel is One of the Reasons Behind a Celebrity Suicide) To Reach the Height of Heavens and Drop Back to Earth... Even Mediocrity Becomes a Suffering... "𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝑯𝒊𝒈𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒀𝒐𝒖 𝑪𝒍𝒊𝒎𝒃𝒆𝒅, 𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝑯𝒂𝒓𝒅𝒆𝒓 𝒀𝒐𝒖 𝑭𝒂𝒍𝒍", Or "𝑰 𝑼𝒔𝒆𝒅 𝒕𝒐 ______, 𝑩𝒖𝒕 𝑵𝒐𝒘..." If We Don't Have the Mindset to Overcome the Next Setback or to Make a Comeback, Most of Us Would just Settle into Mediocrity... Thus It's Always Good to Prepare For Your Next Valley When You are at a Peak. There's Always Another Devil at the Next Level - New Challenges, New Struggles. 𝗔𝗹𝘄𝗮𝘆𝘀 𝗖𝗲𝗹𝗲𝗯𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝗦𝘂𝗰𝗰𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝗪𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗢𝘃𝗲𝗿𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝗮 𝗛𝗮𝗿𝗱𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽, 𝗜𝘁 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗯𝗲 𝗠𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝗣𝗼𝘄𝗲𝗿𝗳𝘂𝗹 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗣𝘂𝗿𝗽𝗼𝘀𝗲𝗳𝘂𝗹, 𝗕𝘂𝗶𝗹𝗱𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗨𝗽 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗠𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘂𝗺 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗠𝗼𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗡𝗲𝘅𝘁 𝗢𝗻𝗲... #Struggle #Struggles #Overcome #OvercomeFear #FireWalkWithMe #UnleashThePowerWithin #UPW #DelayGratification #Gratitude #AchievingGoals #ArtOfFulfillment #NLP #Anchor #Anchoring #Winning #Win #SmallWins #CelebrateSuccess https://www.instagram.com/p/CUFiVGsJvWY/?utm_medium=tumblr

Client- But Coach Ken, I haven't lost any pounds? Coach Ken- 1. Did you count calories? Client- yes 2. Did you drink more water than normal? Client- yes 3. Did you use will power to stop eating unnecessary junk? Client- yes 4. Are your energy levels high? Client- yes 5. Are you sleeping better? Client- yes Focus on your lifestyle change!! #ItTakesTime #DelayGratification #UFiTFamily #UFiT #ClientsBeLike#ChinoFit #PersonalTraining #UzimaFitnessTraining #ChinoFitness (at Uzima Fitness Training)

la paella es muy deliciosa, gracias por el señor de la comida. *nom *nom *nom 😂 practice lang 😂😂 #paella #spanishfood #spanishcuisine #espanol #bien #spanishsardines #spanishexpansion #businessexpansion #soon #madrid #barcelona #europe #delaygratification😂😂

“The greatest power is often simple patience.” E. Joseph Cossman #alittlepatience #patience #patiencequotes #patienceisavirtue #patienceiskey #delaygratification #delayedgratification #garyvee #garyvaynerchukquotes #garyvaynerchuk #roadlesstraveled #HustleQuotes #BusinessQuotes #Dreams #RealLifeQuotes #Determined #Inspiration #Motivation #Inspire #GoodVibes #QuoteOfTheDay #Quote #SuccessQuotes #Success #QuotesToLiveBy #QuotesOfInstagram #Quotes #MotivationalQuotes #EntrepreneurCoach (at Master Coach community)

ONE OF THE MOST IMPORTANT UNSPOKEN PRINCIPLES OF #SUCCESS IS THE ABILITY TO #DELAYGRATIFICATION ........ That is to say being able to give up what's good right now, for something far greater......later. #Millennials are certainly the most prevalent example of the #microwave #mindset but they are by no means the exclusive owners of this trait. FEW TIMES OF YEAR SEE MORE SHINNING EXAMPLES THAN INCOME TAX TIME. I SHOULD KNOW. I LITERALLY INVENTED THE PHRASE #INCOMETAXBALLER LOL! YUP......sure DID! So like #PimpC said "gone get mad at ME"! In all seriousness though, it wasn't created out of spite or jealousy. It came from the following #observation . 1. Person complains about #financialstatus 2. Person files return and immediately plans for #grownfolkschristmas. 3. Person receives refund and it burns a whole in their pocket. 4. 7-30 days later they have completely ran through the funds( 50- %100 of which is spent on things that depreciate in value and they won't even care about in 6 months ). 5. Person is right back to complaining about their finances. BUT NOT JUST THIS YEAR. EVERY YEAR LOL!! The definition of #insanity is doing the exact same thing and expecting something different. I haven't got a return in years! But even when I did, it was never more than $2200. I'd be surrounded by people who finagled their way into $6500 returns. Three months later they'd be broke.....and I'd still have money. Why? Because I'm a #flipper by nature. Rather than buy some luxury I'd #invest in something that yielded a #roi ( return on investment ) and buy the things I wanted out of that! This same principle applies in regards to #health #spirituality and even #relationships . I HAVE A #MOTTO . "RIGHT.......IS ALWAYS BETTER THAN FAST" -II D.E.E.P #GETTINGIITHEGREATNESS #GIMBG #IfearFEAR #PerpetuallyMotivated #ONLYqualityPeopleInMyCircle #OnlyDieOnce #DoForSelf #TheEnergyOfFaith #FAITHIsAVerb #PurposedPost #REPurposedMemes https://www.instagram.com/p/Bs-BJhZlClX/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=jtcj6bd76bgv