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sugarwavelove · 3 days

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Dearest older brother...?

Notes: woke up from my nap and wrote this off the top of my head. Some of this is based off my own personal experiences. Not proofread.

Content to be found: 100% PLATONIC, implied bpd and ocd if you squint, unhealthy sibling dynamics (lmk if there's more I should add)

You remember asking Sunday that question all too well. And boy, how did you regret it.

“Is it ok if I call you… big brother now?”

You so desperately wanted to have a caring family, siblings, but younger naive you clung to the wrong brotherly figure.

He and Robin had such a tight bond, and you, being an only child, envied them. So when you were invited to playdates, you enjoyed every second being with them.

The fond memories of you and Sunday supporting Robin's dreams. Sneaking into the kitchen to grab snacks without getting caught. You three grew so close, you practically were their third sibling.

But happiness doesn't last long. The more you all grew up and followed different paths, the more distant you guys became. Of course, there are still attempts to meet up, but it was difficult. Most of the time, you were left behind with Sunday, the man you called big brother.

Could you really call him that anymore though? He made little effort to keep ties with you. Check in on you. You understand that him and Robin obviously had a closer bond. Therefore, he'd pay more attention to her, but you? It's like he was trying to erase you from his life.

No. That's not right. He distances himself from you and lets you fall into loneliness. Yes, that's true. But then why does he keep coming back every time you're at your breaking point?

“What's wrong? You can always tell me anything. I am your big brother, after all.”

It's the same thing every time.

He asks you what's wrong. You break down. He consoles you. Then leaves and the cycle repeats. And every time you refuse to talk, he'll manipulate your emotions to speak and cause you to break down even more.

Why would a big brother do this to his younger sibling?

You couldn't take the emotional hurt anymore. It's like he just sees this as a game. He always uses the big brother card on you knowing it's your weakness.

Things get worse though. Of course they do.

You caught news that Robin has been found dead. That can't be right. It can't. You loved Robin as if she were your actual sister. Why did she die??

So here you are. Walking to the estate where Sunday should be. Why are you even going to him? You should be distancing yourself and be grieving alone. As much as he emotionally hurts you, you still care about him. As much as he abandons you, you always come back.

As soon as you make it through his office doors, someone aggressively grabs you by the shoulders and backs you up to the nearest wall.

It's Sunday.

He's shaking, breathing hard, clearly angry, but hurt above all. He rests his head on your shoulder, still holding you but with less force.

You've never seen him like this before. In the past, you'd occasionally see tiny outbursts when he couldn't get things the way he wanted, but he never displayed this much emotion near you.

“...Don't leave me too” he said in a shaky voice, but you couldn't catch that. All you could hear was your heartbeat from the adrenaline of suddenly being forced against a wall.

Out of genuine care you still held for him, you embraced him. He stiffened up but soon accepted it.

No matter how much you regretted ever calling him big brother, no matter how much it hurt when he abandoned you, you couldn't find it within your heart to leave and move on.

Comforting him was clearly a mistake. For out of fear he'd lose his only other sibling, he imprisoned you in a spare room in his estate.

He still had to keep up appearances so you'd constantly be left alone repeatedly. The cycle repeats itself again. He'll come back home and comfort you for leaving you alone for so long, then leave again for a long period of time.

You'd never escape. You had so many insecurities and were so emotionally constipated. Sunday made things worse. He just had to keep you somewhere where he knew he couldn't lose track of you and possibly lose you just like Robin.

You still loved him. You always would. And he in return would offer you the type of love you never got from your actual family, even if it was just for a bit.

To you, he was your beloved older brother no matter what.

#honkai star rail #sunday x reader #sunday hsr #found family trope gone wrong #platonic relationships

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just-a-queer-crow · 3 days

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Favorite pairings (romantic or platonic) in the show that ARENT Buddie:

Buck & Hen (Big sister/little brother, i need them to have more screen time)

Buck & Chim (Deeply underrated, Brother-in-laws)

Hen & Chim (BESTIES & SIBLINGS‼️‼️‼️)

Hen & Athena (Wine Moms Gossip Night fr fr)

Maddie & Josh (BESTIES, so funny, so sassy)

Josh & Chim (under explored dynamic)

Buck & May (also underexplored, step-siblings)

BOBBY & MICHAEL (PLZ ONE OF MY FAVORITE DUOS THEY R SO FUNNY TOGETHER)

Eddie & Hen (theyre so underexplored??? Eddies relationship w/ the team except Buck feels so underexplored but thats besides the point, i think these 2 should have gay little bitch fests together)

Eddie & Josh (theyre so funny i wish we saw more of eddie & the dispatch team in general)

Eddie & May (follow up from prev, she feels like he little cousin or smthn)

Maddie & Eddie (also criminally underexplored i feel like theyd be so funny together)

Karen & Eddie (in my heart they r friends)

Ravi & Everyone basically (I love him, he deserves more screen time PLEASEEE)

Albert & Buck (they r hilarious together)

Albert & Chimney (i love seeing siblings rebuild their relationship)

HEN & HER MOM TONI‼️‼️‼️ (i love toni she really grew on me)

Taylor & Buck (BUT AS FRIENDS!!! REALLY LIKED THEM AS FRIENDS THEY WERE FUNNY)

Buck & Athena (THATS HIS MOM‼️‼️‼️)

BOBBY & MAY (& Harry) (THATS THEIR STEPDAD!!! THEY CARE ABOUT EACH OTHER SO MUCH PLZ I WANT MORE)

Maddie & May (i am a big big fan of may i want her and maddie to be sisters)

May & Josh (dispatch team go brrr i think hes like her gay uncle in my heart)

BUCK & JEE-YUN (uncle buck has my heart)

Hen & Karen (theyre such a good couple theyre so healthy and have worked so hard on their relationship its impossible not to love them)

Bobby & Athena (i adore them, they r the sweetest couple, i love the fact that theyre older but theyre still flirting and having sex and just being in love with each other, theyre so good for each other)

MADDIE & CHIMNEY (my favorite ship on the show, they have done SO much work to be together and love each other so so much, they are soulmates, they choose each other every day, they r silly, they show their love to each other so obviously and r so devoted to each other, im obsessed with them im so excited for their wedding)

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glorfindel-of-imladris · 1 day

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Glorfindel Week | Day 1: Valinor Headcanons

Glorfindel headcanons for his time in Valinor for @glorfindelweek 💛✨

I primarily write in the Second/Third Age, but I do have headcanons for Glorfindel in his youth and in Valinor that do influence my writing. I thought that today's prompt gives me a good opportunity to share them!

Born after Turgon, around Galadriel and Aredhel’s age. Glorfindel's actual age has never actually come up in my writing (other than he's Very Old), but the idea of it does influence his dynamic with other characters. He is younger than Turgon, and in a way defers to him beyond Turgon just being his king. Turgon is like an older brother to him. Ecthelion is slightly older, but barely; Egalmoth is a little younger, but also barely. Glorfindel treats them as peers as well as his best friends. Galadriel is also a peer and so he interacts with her as such, especially after his return in the Second Age and well into the Third Age. Glorfindel's age also somewhat affects his dynamic with Erestor, whom I of course write him with plenty. While I also now mostly write Erestor as having been born during the Years of the Trees, he is always specifically younger than Glorfindel. I don't think I ever mention it though and I'm not even sure if the effect is noticeable, but it's there. 🤭

Mostly Ñoldorin, but part-Vanyarin, cousin of Elenwë. This is an old but popular headcanon for Glorfindel, considering how: 1) it was said that Glorfindel crossed the Helcaraxë out of his kinship with Turgon; and 2) he has golden hair. I adopted it very early and just ran with it all these years. One thing that has changed over the years is that although I have written him as a pure Vanya before, I have now resolved to have him as part-Ñoldorin, simply because he was the only one among Fingolfin’s host that canonically didn't take part in the kinslaying at Alqualondë. I do not like the idea that some clans are better than others, that violence was a mark of the Ñoldor while “goodness” is ascribed mostly to the Vanyar, who happen to be the whitest of the white among the races in Arda.

Has sisters (and maybe one brother). I imagine Glorfindel as having siblings; he just has that vibe about him. I usually place him around second out of five children, with the older sibling to him being always a sister. The placement sometimes changes, and sometimes there isn't even a brother at all (or if there was, Glorfindel hasn't met him before he left with Fingolfin's host), but somehow key to my idea of Glorfindel is that he has sisters and he has a good relationship with all of them. He is therefore comfortable with women, is gentle with them, and relates with them easily. He does, however, stand a bit independent of his sisters, who share a close bond among themselves, and he is the only one in his family to join the hosts crossing to Middle-earth.

Bonus: Valinor, post-death

He has returned to Middle-earth at least once before the Second Age, by fighting in the War of the Wrath. According to The History of Middle-earth, Glorfindel was reimbodied shortly after his death, within the First Age. Given that he already was there when Eärendil arrived asking the Valar for aid, you cannot convince me that Glorfindel wouldn't have gone. There was hardly anyone in Valinor more motivated to help Eärendil than Glorfindel himself, Eärendil’s savior in Gondolin, and you can take this headcanon from my cold and dead fingers.

Emissary of Manwë, learned from Nienna. It was also said that Glorfindel became a follower and friend of Olórin (Gandalf) in Valinor, so this isn't much of a stretch considering Olórin's alignment as well as a Maia. Given also how Glorfindel was returned primarily for his "goodness", and the fact that he was steadfast against the kinslayings, and his care and love for people, Nienna as the Vala he most aligns with also is not a stretch.

#glorfindel #headcanons #glorfindel week #glorfindelweek #tolkien #the lord of the rings #the silmarillion #the history of middle-earth #ah yes timezone #what a wonderful thing lol

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a-dumb-sarcastic-bisexual · 14 days

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More clone wars headcanons (it's just Ahsoka and Anakin)

No matter how only Ahsoka gets Anakin will always see her as that little 14 year old who strong-armed her way onto a battlefield

Honestly he isn’t very aware of this but there are tiny moments when it becomes very clear

There are moments when people ask how old his padawan is and he’ll go “Oh she’s” and he’ll take a moment for some mental calculations and say “she’s 18 kriff she’s 18”

And he’ll kinda sit in silence with that fact for a couple of seconds

There’s also moments when people will call him out for getting her age wrong

Like he’ll go “Don’t bite off more than you can chew Soka you’re only 14 after all”

Ahsoka will reminds him in two days she’s be turning 20 when Anakin argues that fact Obi-Wan reminds him that he’s 25 which would make her 20 in a couple of days Anakin just kinda stares at a wall

Ahsoka tried to snap him out of it but Obi-Wan stopped her with a quite “let him grieve Ahsoka”

No matter how old the two get they will always play pranks on each other if anything the intensity grows with them

When Ahsoka when 14 she would save small handfuls of sand to put in Anakin’s shoes

And he would have thought it was just left over from some mission if the sand didn’t keep appearing after he emptied it out

That and he caught Ahsoka red-handed and chased her sneaky ass around the temple until they were both too tired to care

When Ahsoka turned 20 she hid sand everywhere in his shoes and in his pockets, girl even got it in some of his mugs

He knew it was her cause he knew her m.o but she won’t admit to it and she doesn’t stop to matter how much he begs

The breaking point is when he finds his bed covered in sand which he deems going too far cause even tho Padme literally couldn’t care less

He tracked her down and kept her in a headlock until she admitted defeat

It wasn’t a chocking headlock mind you it’s just tight enough to keep her in place he just drags her around the whole base while he goes about his business

Anakin’s prank was pretty simple he would slowly steal all her head wraps

At first she didn’t notice anything she just thought Anakin stole one during training and put it somewhere

But after a couple of days of not being able to find it she discovers another one went missing

And the cycle continued like that for years

It didn’t bother her but sometimes when she was going out with friends and couldn’t find her favorite ones you’d hear her scream “Ani where’s my leather head wrap?”

And he’d act all innocent saying that he “has no idea what you’re talking about snips maybe you misplaced it again”

And she’d groan and go look for a different one because she didn’t have enough time to interrogate him

Anakin waits a couple of years to pull off his full prank which is convincing everyone he can to wear one of her head wraps and act like nothing is going on

And he gets a good amount of people too including some of the clones and even the twins

The only people who wholeheartedly reject being a part of the plan are Padme and Obi-Wan they discovered years ago that it isn’t wise to get involved in their prank war

Honestly Ahsoka would have thought she lost her mind that day if she hadn’t found every single head wrap she lost hidden around her quarters

It kind of becomes a running joke of how protective Anakin is of Ahsoka

Some stories being blown out of proportion about how Skywalker single-handedly moved the ruble to grant her freedom form the tank

Some say how he searched on the ground day and night when Ahsoka was captured by the hunters

Criminals claim they barely made it out with their lives if they had Ahsoka in their custody

They both find these stories hilarious but Obi-Wan and Padme know there is a lot of truth in those stories

It doesn’t just stop with the enemy either this man has and will do intensive background checks on every single person Ahsoka meets

And you best believe that potential love interests are kept under the closest watch possible

Rex and his boys are happy to track down the person if they feel they’re acting a little sketchy

Sometimes this ends with actual criminals being put away and sometimes this ends with Ahsoka scolding everyone who had anything to do with it

Some people get 30+ apology letters and a promise that it will never happen again (most of those people can tell those letters were written with grit teeth and a little togruta standing close by)

Anakin does agree to tone down his protective streak and promises to never abuse his power like that again

She didn’t make him stop giving the shovel talk to literally anyone within a three-mile radius of her (mostly cause she didn’t know he was doing it) so he considered that a win

I’m always reminded of how Anakin made it a game to count how many people their squads took out and I was wondering what other games they had

How many times could they lie to the council without getting caught, how many times they crash a ship, and how many times they save each other's lives

Like imagine Ahsoka tripping Anakin and before he can ask why the hell she did that a blast hits the floor and she just goes “That’s 40 for me” as she runs away

Anakin yelled after her “yeah 40 to my 80 snips”

Those numbers also serve as a reminder and reassurance that no matter how dangerous the situation gets they’ll never let that count stop

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mogosketchpad · 1 year

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someone cheer this boy up!!

#sth #fanart #shadow the hedgehog #maria robotnik #sa2 #sa2b #shth #sonic #space colony ark #ark siblings #maria nation rise up #she is everything to me. if it was not clear #older sister sibling dynamics? i'm losing it. crying. weeping #my art

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funlazoid · 2 months

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Colored version of a doodle I made

#they’ve got a older brother+little sister dynamic cuz they’re LITERALLY ME AND MY OLDER BROTHER #gamzee and nepeta #homestuck nepeta #nepeta leijon #homestuck gamzee #gamzee makara #homestuck fanart #i hope they explode #I hope they absolutely implode

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karamazovposting · 18 days

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I wish we got to see Ivan visiting Dmitri in prison because I just know the visits went pretty much like this

#you can't tell me Ivan didn't call Dmitri an idiot the whole time #Ivan: you fucking idiot now I have to save your ass from prison #Dmitri: who the fuck asked you because it sure wasn't me #unstoppable force (Ivan who feels the need to fix his family's mess)#vs immovable object (Dmitri who doesn't want to be saved)#basically me and my older sister's dynamic tbh #the brothers karamazov #ivan karamazov #dmitri karamazov #mine

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softfae · 1 year

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*The Cike is playing a team sport*

Qara : Are you upset you don’t get to be on the same team as Altan?

Chaghan : Have you ever played a game with Altan?

Qara : No…

Baji: Have you ever been trapped in a cage with a wolverine?

Meanwhile, on the other side of the field

Altan, chasing Rin: I SAID FASTER! DO YOU KNOW WHAT THE WORD “FASTER” MEANS? IT MEANS MORE FAST!!!!

#i just know altan would be the type of kid in seventh grade who took indoor soccer in PE way too fucking seriously #altan trengsin #fang runin #this is what their relationship is like in my college au tbh #older brother terrorising his equally terrifying little sister dynamic #rin afterwards complaining to nezha: AND THEN HE FUCKING YELLED AT ME FOR THE NEXT THIRTY MINUTES #incorrect the poppy war #incorrect tpw #qara suren #changhan suren #chaltan #the cike #the dragon republic

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jewishcissiekj · 1 year

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The Thrawn x Ar'alani ship murdered my grandma's cousin's friend's bulldog I can NOT see them as anything other then siblings I'm sorry straight Thrawn fandom

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friendscfmine · 17 days

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//stan should beat shelley's ass more often i think

#misc :: ( ooc )#//the only unrealistic thing about their dynamic is that he doesn't fight back more often #//i get that she's bigger and meaner than him but come on #//i was bigger than my sister and the bitch still made ME hurt #//river (only child): shelley and kyle are so abusive!!#//me (the older sibling): nah that's just how older siblings be

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notquiteaghost · 1 year

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it is endlessly funny to me how steve harrington is classic 'well my kid sibling's friends are all drastically in need of older brother supervision so i guess now they're all my kid siblings' except for how he is an only child. and his ex-girlfriend's kid brother isn't even kid sibling ground zero. he dated nancy and then somehow got dustin in the divorce, and only through dustin did he get sibling custody of mike. i'd say 'how did he make it to senior year without adopting kid siblings' but well we know why huh

#yelling at clouds #stranger things #funny also to see people treating it like he is actually a pseudo parent #as an eldest sibling who has in fact semi adopted some of my kid sister's friends: trust me the dynamic is different #there is shit u tell an older sibling u do Not tell a parent

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cheemken · 10 months

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Yeah

#like thats basically their dynamic in the villain au #phaesporiashipping #villain diantha au #phaesporia in the villain au is so funny to me tho fr like fhmdne #its basically cynthia simping for her bestie's older sister #said sister is basically satan incarnate shes very cunning #but damn she do be hot #and cynthia's like tall yknow in my hcs shes one of the taller champions #and dia's like 5'9“—#imagine your celebrity crush pinning you against the wall #and shes there looking up at you bc youre 6'2“😭#and youre too much of a fucking bottom to actually do anything #despite the fact you cn easily carry her out or pin her instead #like homegirl really is a power bottom fr fr hahahah

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thegrantwater · 2 years

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i am a firm believer that regina and david have the best friendship, like i cannot imagine a universe where david and regina aren’t besties who get lunch together once a week and regina gives him baby tips every once in a while and he’ll take her and henry to the stables and when he acts like an idiot regina slaps the back of his head and tells him as much and when she’s overwhelmed about something she won’t talk about david will just hold her and let her cry because that’s what she needs right now

like pls just imagine for me david and regina in the loft with baby neal and she’s helping him cook dinner for once snow and emma and henry get home and when neal gets fussy she holds him until he calms down and once everything is finished they’ll sit on the couch with some earl grey and talk about their week and reminisce about the enchanted forest and the first time snow saw this she accused david of having an affair and they both just laugh because they remember before the curse broke when regina tried seducing him and it failed so miserably and FUCK i just love the evilcharming bromance so goddamn much i could talk about it for hours

#once upon a time #ouat #ouat headcanon #regina mills #david nolan #prince charming #evil charming #cjwritesouat #emma swan #snow white #mary margaret blanchard #henry mills #platonic evilcharming has such a special place in my heart #i cannot stand it i just know they’re friends #he’s so protective of her all the time they’re like older brother/younger sister dynamic to me

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wakingworldofdreams · 2 years

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Collei: So we both have dendro visions

Tighnari: Yes

Collei: And we're both bow users

Tighnari: ... Yes?

Collei: So does that make us...

Tighnari: Don't you dare-

Collei: *finger guns* Dendr-bows

Tighnari: I'm sending you back to Cyno

#in honour of the 3.0 livestream coming soon #tired older brother tighnari and younger sister collei who likes to mess with him is my favourite dynamic #also i like bad puns so this post is a win for me #tighnari is one bad pun away from self-combusting #genshin impact #collei #tighnari #confusion tries and fails to be funny

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athenaschild5 · 11 months

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just realized my little brother is taller than me this is horrible for me

#me to my brother:#* tugging him down by the ear *#listen here you little shit you’re not allowed to be two inches taller than me so get shorter #little brother #siblings #sibling dynamics #older sister

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growinguptheyoungest · 1 year

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Once when I was a little kid, my older sister convinced me I was adopted and my real parents were Demi Lovato and Ronald McDonald and I cried

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