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Jenny always had first pick of the new girls.... always!

How rude of her - You're trying to enjoying the movie!!😤

Also omg okay this is completely unrelated to my username but

I’ve been thinking about Miles (42) being like…not as dominant in a relationship as people think? You know? Like dominant as in like always bis spooning, always providing, always making the first move…etc

Cause like my thought was…you can’t tell me this boy doesn’t like to little spoon. You just can’t. Also like, him asking for kisses instead of taking them? And like subconsciously asking for permission? You know?

And I want to make headcanons on this kind of thing but I don’t want to use the word submissive because I think it sounds weird and idk what word I can use to replace it 😟

no no I understand what ur talking about

he’s a literal BABY. I feel like BOTH of them want to act all hard and tough in public cause it helps their ego, but when the doors are closed…

oh man he’s SMITTEN. wide eyed, cutie patootie who just wants to lay in ur arms (cause he’s been thru sm. pls give him a hug)

u should definitely make a fic abt this i’m just sayin 🤷🏾‍♀️

Elsie Hewitt

Christ, Man of Sorrows, Antonio Pereda y Salgado (Spanish, circa 1611-1678). Museo Nacional del Prado, Madrid.

Intimate touching between women was still defined as a sin, but the greatest concern was reserved for a woman who was assertively sexual. A contemporary poet described the sin: 'Women who exercise their lust on other women and pursue them like men.'

"Normal Women: 900 Years of Making History" - Philippa Gregory

No more

“not choosing is still choosing.”

I had a recollection earlier this week about what it means to be friends with someone who is passive. My best friend of fourteen years, Nikki, was someone who was friends with everyone. She was passive and thoughtful. She let herself get walked all over. Honestly it’s best for me to not remain friends with her. She remained friends with a college roommate of mine who spread bad information about me. I have a mental illness, okay? How do you not respect someone with a mental illness’s privacy? How do you not let someone like that stop talking about someone with a disability?

I am a survivor of a sexual assault and was in an abusive relationship with the same person for two years. My BFF knew about it. Why did she do nothing? Couldn’t she have possibly known about sexual assaults and what it means for someone to overcome trauma? I think you are ignorant and an enabler if you do not give someone with a strong personality boundaries. It is good to have boundaries with someone. I have a strong personality and am assertive. I don’t think she gave me the right space and she did not give me the kind of respect that I deserved.

So I wrote her a letter telling her that she did not respect my space and that she did not honor me, as a person who is BIPOC, who has a disability and who is a survivor of an assault, because she remained friends with someone who devalued my worth, spread information about me to other people--about stuff that I said when I was mentally ill and psychotic, and when she knew I was psychotic--and attributed it to me as a character flaw. How ridiculous and out-of-touch can you be? What kind of quality person would do such a thing to a disabled person? Actions are louder than words. Her actions speak for themselves. You cannot judge a mentally ill person for their actions if they are psychotic. But you can judge someone who intentionally and willingly destroys and shames an assault survivor and disabled person socially. Because that is just wrong. I am glad I left my BFF. What kind of person would remain friends with a negative person like that and still expect me to remain her best friend?

Passive. Not choosing is still choosing.

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"I saw the way you were looking at me, officer.... I know that look. And I say 'yes' to what you were thinking. Maybe not now, but later, honey.... I'd be happy to oblige in a bit of fun."

Blackfire x Raven by SYTOkun

Don't. Be. Bothered.

Don't let people see they get to you. Don't let these fuckers bring you down when you know you're doing everything right.

You don't owe anyone your happiness, your excuses, or your sadness.

Express yourself but never lose your cool.

They don't deserve it and you don't deserve to feel as bad as you're feeling right now.

24-021 Assertiveness

“the quality of being able to stand up for yourself in a calm, positive way” I have learned, intellectually, that standing up for myself in a calm, positive way builds confidence, self-respect, and empowerment. I say intellectually because sometimes I forget the “calm, positive way” part. I know…it just takes practice. Probably the best advice I ever received was a mantra from a holistic…

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'Fight for yourself. Don't let anybody push you around. Do you hear me?'

Siri Hustvedt, from The Blazing World

Evie Bunny [14/01/2023]

I forgot to upload this here lol. Anyways have a buff bunny girl with a big gun