Can you help explain this brainrot post that just nonstop keeps showing up in my FYP? Are they saying Gen Z needs to be into kink because being ""queer"" is a fetish? I've read it several times and I literally cannot figure out what the fuck any of it means lol
They are trying to say that if we don’t defend the straight men walking their GF on a leash or grown men dressing like little girls and sucking their thumb in public all “queers” get targeted.
In their view, since Johnny HateCrime thinks a normal gay couple is as degenerate as the aforementioned straight pervs, we should naturally team up.
Completely missing the point that is ADMITTING that being same sex attracted is the same as kink. Instead of challenging the heteronormative belief that same sex attraction is a fetish, this is saying “yes, being gay is kinky and that’s okay!! All kink is okay and worrying about exposing kids is alt right talk!”
Which conveniently allows (mostly straight) male pervs to become legitimate public threats.
It’s started by trans women predators and repeated by useful idiots. And sadly rarely challenged by people that don’t lump the LGB with the TQ.
I listened to the newest episode from my favorite podcast ASHKITTY IN ACTION, it was about coming back to yourself through trusting yourself. This really resonated with me because I have been on an up & down health journey for almost the last two years. I hired a Personal Trainer/ Life Coach which happens to be Ashley the one who runs the podcast. She has the most amazing program where she customizes everything to fit your lifestyle! I am a very busy person trying to manage a full-time job, playing gigs, making music with my band & trying to balance a social life & an upcoming wedding! Even with all of that I always found ways to be prepared & make it to the gym once a day! Every single time I join her program I always have had success, she is absolutely phenomenal & extremely motivational.
I notice when I try to do things on my own from all the things she has taught me, I always find myself slipping back into the bad behaviors & or habits that I was training my brain to forget. Which is exactly where I am at in my journey.. I have picked up eating fast food again, not going to the gym everyday & most importantly I am just not taking care of me in the way she taught me too. Her podcast was a huge reminder that you have to trust yourself.. If you are making promises to yourself & not fulfilling those promises your body takes note of that & will just continue on with the same cycle. Even if it is something as simple as telling yourself, " I will make my bed everyday when I wake up" and if you don't make your bed, you are only hurting yourself. I DO THIS, and I am sure at some point others do too.
It has been in the back of my mind..
To start creating better habits & slowly ridding myself of the negative ones. Like I said before, when I do her program I find success & I feel like I am working towards my most bad a$$ self! I am getting married in 48 days & I am not feeling my best & my dress is a two piece! Which in itself should be enough motivation for me to get back into the routine she created for me, but deep down I know it's time to make those disciplined choices. To be able to make decisions without asking others for validation, & trusting myself to make choices & follow through.
How I plan to get back on track..
I know you may be wondering, well how are you going to get back on track? My plan, is to implement all the things Ashley taught me.
Always be prepared: having food & snacks ready so I am not tempted to eat out.
Journal: Set 3 intentions for the day, Celebrate 3 Wins @ the end of the day!
Working out: whether it be going to the gym or getting outside & doing an activity.
Tracking my macros to stay within a calorie deficit. Also taking into account that my body is like a car, it needs the correct fuel to run properly, Just like we need the right foods to function art our best.
Following through: When I make a promise to myself I will fulfill the promise & just do it so I don't let myself down!
With all that said, I know I can do it, because I have done it before! But this time the goal is to maintain these changes & only grow from them. Each & every time I have had someone keeping my accountable for my actions other than myself, but BY MAKING THE CHOICE FOR MYSELF I will implement these changes on my own & stick to them!
If you are still here, I appreciate you! Listening to this podcast was just a reminder for myself that I need to have grace with myself. I am human & I will make mistakes. It also was a wake up call & mental swift kick in the a$$ to be better! I will check back in 6 weeks (September 12th) to update my progress! Until then... happy first day of August!
About swimsuits: Do not be afraid to wander into the men's department if you want a more modest suit. I got bright orange swim trunks to match my blue and pink floral tankini top, and I look great and feel comfortable. Both from Walmart.
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