I’ve included both part of the fandom, even if this will get me more hate, because I’m curious to know what (almost) everyone thinks. Can you reblog it, please? Thanks 💕

Are there any blogs u can’t stand r hate

I’m guessing you mean in my direct lil community? (Cause I don’t interact anywhere else) I don’t hate anyone here??? I find it hard to hate people online because you just don’t know them, yknow? Ofc blogs that support cupcest and stuff I will block because it makes me uncomfortable, but I don’t consider them part of our community anyways. now for blogs I can’t stand, I wouldn’t say there’s any! There aren’t any blogs that are “annoying” per se. I follow lots of people, and the people I follow are the ones I enjoy seeing (and the ones I’m not too scared to follow :’D)

as someone great once said, the internet is where nuance goes to die. so if someone makes a mistake and gets called out for it, but apologizes and tries to fix their mistake, i don’t think thats reason to ostracize, or harass them. Granted if they do something incredibly harmful that has permanent consequences to one or more people, then maybe they should take a break off of the internet entirely. I don’t block people that often, all the hate I’ve gotten has been entirely anonymous, so it’s not like I can block those who just wish to be a butthole. But a lot of the hate asks I’ve gotten are really silly, and often don’t completely involve me?

so short answer, nope!

U post about comics so confidently for someone who barely reads any comics. Shut up<3

dude, this is such like an asshole thing to say for no reason? sue me for being excited about my interests and talking about them as I read more comics and learn more about them, I guess

I want to be able to reblog people's art without having to worry about people's negative reactions when it's someone that a majority of people don't like, is that so much to ask?

Why must it be a problem if I like someone's art even if the person believes in something others don't? Why must people treat people like they're bad for liking someone's art and writing when others don't like that person because of their beliefs?

I'm just hanging out and reblogging art and writing that I find enjoyable. In the end that's just what I'm doing when I reblog stuff. Enjoying it. If it's something I don't enjoy/like to see, I just block the tag or, if it's a specific blog that I decided that I didn't enjoy and don't want to see I block that blog as well. Otherwise just vibing. I don't hate anyone that doesn't like someone else of course, but the way people talk about that one person, it's like they think it's the worst possible thing for someone to enjoy that person's art and writing. I just can't hate someone based on that person's beliefs, it just goes against my own personal beliefs, and I can't help that I still enjoy those things.

I try to keep the drama and stuff off my blog cause I'm not about that. And it shouldn't be treated like some kind of crime to still enjoy someone's art/writing/etc just because other people don't like that person, in my opinion.

when people who have ‘i block liberally’ in their bios learn they actually have to block people & cultivate their own dash:

Got my first hate ask today! Friendly reminder that the unfollow button is literally easy to access and completely fucking free. If you don’t like my content then don’t follow its simple as that. Also there is in fact something called a block button if I keep showing up on your feed unwanted.

Why are some fans just-

Inclined to bully Wukong? I don’t understand.

(And I don’t mean “I hate him(affectionately)” I mean GENUINELY hate him…)

I mean, I can theorize it's because people just tend to be harsher on hero characters that make mistakes than villain characters who do the same, but in the end it's like, I dunno, my dude. And I ain't got time to rationalize why people choose to behave in specific ways, I just don't interact with that stuff and sit in my corner where I am holding every character gently except Macaque who I'm shaking like rag doll until he gets therapy.

I'm straight up just not gonna focus on it, and for anyone who likes Wukong's characters peach (peace. I made that typo and thought it was funny so i'm leaving it) of mind I would highly recommend you do the same.

Focusing, following, and even interacting with posts and people who bash on something that's important to you is gonna stress you out and is not gonna be good for you, even if the content creator is good or if it's friend. Keep moving forward buddy, Wukong's an amazing character who is traumatized and doing his best and making countless mistakes but his intentions are good (which doesn't excuse it but he is trying, just not in quite the right way,) and I personally adore his character.

Anyway I dunno what happened in these latest episodes to have this erupt in this way but like, I don't want to talk about it or dwell on it because I don't need to. I like the characters, and I don't need to interact or look at stuff that bashes on them in a way that stresses me, good day o7

wait, there are "enemy" blogs you want to stay in the fandom? isn't it better if they stay away, if they're annoying enough to be "enemies"?

Well, it is not a real """enemy""", hence why I used three whole pairs of quotation marks and not one x) And it is a singular, not plural.

The problem with BB fandom is that it is like... in a crisis? Not only the truly active part of it is like, same 20 people for years now, but also there is a hegemony of the same characters, same ships, same takes, same headcanons, same designs for unseen characters... People that join in the fandom see what fans are up to, but since most of the activity is the popular girls (gender neutral) of the school who are all tight mutuals group doing the thing of the week they share (usually when it happens you can blame a Discord server), these new people assume that this is what will fly, also that this is what is "canon". They're yet to discover that there are different interpretations, different possibilities, alternative ships..... but they now will not, because they already got swayed by influence. The cycle continues.

The """enemy""", that I only call such because we seriously didn't get along as people and not because they did something bad, is very different though! They are not annoying! They appear to be an individualist, they are touching ideas and characters fandom practically abandoned, they draw what THEY like and not what is a current set fun trend, they do not try to throw a bone to the community-

It is just refreshing to see something unique and interesting! I am the type that actually goes insane if I have to see the same thing over and over. I'd start hating my favorite ships if I never could see alternatives, ffs! My idea of ideal small fandom is various individuals doing cool stuff and simply sharing with each other, rather than there being a "core" that sets the trends and everyone outside of these trends being passively-aggressively ignored for "wrong" takes, "wrong" ships or "characters no one will care about". There should be more users that radiate such strong individuality and creativity instead of resorting to being just another gear in the machine! I would not be as petty as to wish for someone actually interesting to leave the fandom over personal things. My real enemies, on the other hand, are not creative at all. Well, one of them used to be but completely lost the spark.

THREE YEARS OF WRITING 🧁 (or close enough!)

Lemme start by saying I am tired. One hater takes enough out of me, I have ADD hypersensitivity, so yeah, still kinda recovering!

I wanted to make this something super happy! And actually on time, but literally, one day later, today some asshole wants to show up in my tumblr inbox and complain? And it was about the old me! So I'm doing it early! I’m here to celebrate my growth! Fuck them! Lol 🖕🎉

They were basically, oh, you’re not Q! You’ve fallen off! No, I’m not! Q is dead! And Q was never truly entirely me! I will always be grateful if she hadn’t taken the first step, I wouldn’t be here, but Q got scared even writing the simple niche of Gon carrying Ki more than once! I still remember that authors note Q wrote apologizing! I wanna laugh at her! Like she owed anyone anything! It was like her fourth fic, I think.

I get her, part of her still lies in me! Like I’m sorry to that person you’re so insecure and pathetic that someone changing and growing into a confident person who writes what she totally likes full on indulgence! Bothers you! She was always in there okie! She was just scared! 

Creating Qutie was the first step. And I’m proud of her and how far she’s come! I don’t care anymore if everyone hates me! I know most probs do! I am confident and happy about my presence here! And love that I can speak up without fearing anymore! Realizing I don’t fit! Or belong with the fandom was the best thing that ever happened to me! I don’t forgive the og hater/stalker and made me poof Q, but I am actually thankful to them. 

My third year anniversary of writing is coming up on Sept, 4! 

And I probs would’ve made a speech about how happy I am and how far I’ve come then too! So consider this that! Except it probs would’ve been 50 tags cuz that’s my style lol 😚

No matter what anyone says I am proud of me!

I love my writing, and I love my fics! It really just is the simple concept of imagining finding an author you like! And then there are tons of works ready for you to read! Even if they're small thingies like mine! I was into GK back in 2012, but I was young and there wasn't any GK really, and plus after CAA I was just depressed there was nothing there for me. So I left! And then 2020 of June I fell back into Gonki!

I watched tons of reactors and got back in, but I couldn't find anything that was my taste fic wise, so I just took a leap of fate, I found maybe one fic of Gon carrying Ki maybe one and billions that I did not like! So I decided to do it for me!

I wanna be with Gonkillu forever! I don't wanna imagine a world where I leave again! But on the chance it ever does happen? Look what I've done for me! I've become that author I would like with tons of fics all ready to read! For me! 90+ will be there if it does happen.

And nothing pleases me more! I do reread my fics as is! But the idea of knowing me of the future should something ever happen has that... it's the best feeling!

And no one will take that from me! When I couldn't find anything I wanted in 2020 I didn't go to writers and go WAHHH WAHH WAHHH DO WHAT I WANT I took action. So no loser anon is gonna stop me. If you liked the old me become her, but I like the new current me more! Who goes full in no fear!

I do wish there was a GK world and I will say stuff like that! Cuz I do wish there was! But I've never gone to a writer and been like dooo this for meee, like!

I put my money where my mouth is and am creating the GK world I want for myself!

Thank you, me! For the three years of writing! Here's to many more!

I’m on a little teeny tiny island by myself! I need a cute flag 🥺 IT HAS TO BE PINK OMG WITH GON CARRYING KI AND KI WEARING A CUTE PINK DRESS AND LITTLE BUNNY EARS 🥺 he’s a little bunny 🐰 

i love how the mood here undulates and change

sometimes, i can almost feel new people coming in and bringing their energy with them

i've got to say though – i'm really grateful that this is overall a happy space & i hope that we are making this a comfortable space for you, sab

i really hope you view this as a space where you can relax & take your mind off of things

(also – absolutely loved chapter five & i absolutely adore 'the ethics of relationships' series xxx)

I’m so glad because I feel the exact same way babe!!! this place is so so happy and nice and peaceful— it’s definitely an oasis for me and I hope it can be for all of you as well.

you guys definitely make this such a wonderful place to be and I am grateful to every one of you so so much

thank you bb I love you so much 🥹💕 for this message and also for enjoying the series. I appreciate you so so much

u see my hate towards dxton wouldn’t exist this much if they were so awful towards jaren cuz one one thing is hating ben but another is mocking his appearance because comments like “devi keeps getting all this hot love interests to be end up w that ugly man” like i get you all put looks over reasoning but let’s be decent human beings. jaren does nothing to be insulted this way and maitreyi will hate them all.

yeahhh no i get you 100%. there are so many things that diehard d*xtons say that......just rub me the wrong way and feel very gross lmfao. i don't really go out looking for their posts but every now and then i'll come across something in the nhie tag that is just. either braindead or straight up wrong or they just sound like a straight up asshole. and like to be fair i'll be the first to admit i'm not entirely an innocent party bc i have posted my fair share of mean things before but like!!!! idk the difference i see with a lot of benvi shippers vs d*xton shippers is like.....a lot of us genuinely like paxton as a character, even love him, and we love the arc he's had!!! not to be all "blah blah media literacy blah blah" but we don't willfully misinterpret his actions in the show, especially his negative actions, as being "abusive" or "toxic" or whatever just because he reacted like a normal teenager would. we don't hate on the actor for his looks - the only comment on his appearance i'll make is that he is visibly much older than maitreyi - because he is older, and i definitely think they should have cast a younger actor to play paxton, but that's not a dig at darren's appearance bc he's still very much conventionally attractive, it's just that he's, well, 32 as opposed to maitreyi's 21 and jaren's 22.

also like, they act as if jaren isn't attractive which confuses me so much? i may not be into men as a whole but even i can see that he's also a conventionally attractive guy. hot, cute, sexy, whatever you wanna say - he is all of those things! and so is darren! i don't care if you're trying to "defend your ship" or whatever (a ship that has effectively sunk at least as of 3x10 and, if we're being honest, earlier than that), you leave people's appearances out of it lol.

i think d*xton was cute, when they were together. i think they were a sweet short-term high school relationship. i think devi needed to explore that relationship with him in order to let herself fully move past that fantasy she had. i don't hate the ship itself - i just really very strongly dislike a majority of its shippers, for many many many reasons, the ben and jaren bashing just being one of them

it’s not cute to be self conceited and narcissistic

sure it is. because i'm the one doing it and i'm cute (<— conceited self centered and narcissistic take)

genuinely forgot other people can block me also. like it wasn't just me who can arbitrarily block 🥴

why do you tag asks with pigeon your clogging up the real pigeon pictures

im so sorry, truly, to all the pigeon stans out there who have been personally victimized by me - a 5 seconds of summer blog - tagging asks as "pigeon," it was wrong of me and insensitive, and i will continue to do it :(

you are never going to beat the lesbophobe accusations with the way you choose to defend your au 😂😂😂

ok