i h8 dahvie vanity. i h8 dahvie so much. he’s a monster and makes me physically ill.
i won’t lie, there’s so much of botdf that i listen to. i pirate it so as to not give him any money or support. i have a lot of childhood memories associated with it and as such it helps keep me calm when im anxious.
but i just wanna say if you support dahvie or botdf please kindly leave and never come back to my blog. that man is a horrible predator and i do not say these kinds of things lightly. i hope more than anything he rots in prison and never ever regains any form of a platform.
warped tour mention needs a tw that gave me ptsd ☠️☠️☠️ i vividly remember fifty year old men holding a free hugs girls only sign at the entrance and the vibes went downhill from there. mcr was 🔥 though
ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT DAHVIE VANITY??? I was like 11 so I don’t remember a lot but that freak gave me a high five and it physically haunts me, I want to cut my hand off whenever I think about it I am forever horrified
It’s so sad that it turned so unsafe, some of those bands were amazing. It was one of the first concerts I went to when I moved to the states so I was v excited and went to every set and now I’m just disgusted I saw those ppl w my own eyes
Except my digital escape they are forever a wholesome core memory
spiderman 3 was bad because it was a chopped up incoherent mess of conflicting ideas, tones, GENRES.
TW rape mention. yes, really.
sandman and harry would have been good. sandman and venom would have been good. harry and venom would have been good. and all three at once could even have been done satisfactorily. but together it was a horrible disaster. none of them had their time to shine. flint was a magnificent way to tie into the first movie. harry was a magnificent way to end his character arc. topher grace, much as I love him, was horribly miscast for eddie brock. venom, fine, but not eddie. tom hardy played both well. but I think hardy is a much stronger actor than grace. one played charley fucking bronson and the other played eric fucking foreman. y’all gotta know your reaches! but anyway it’s fine I guess. it made for a decent viewing in no way home (which I have my own laundry list of gripes about). but even then, that’s not the biggest problem with the movie. and no, the emo peter wasn’t a problem either (it actually makes perfect sense for his character; it’s what peter himself thinks is cool, not what actually is cool). and NO it wasn’t wasting dr connors not once not thrice but TWICE.
the SECOND biggest problem is with the editing.
ok so individual scenes look passable to… beautiful. the introduction of sandman is obviously the highlight of the film. it was a very important pioneer for graphics design technology, and in my mind it’s probably the single most important thing in the history of making cgi look true to life (for all of its glory… and all of its horror). all of the fight scenes are well choreographed, visually stunning, and advanced the plot somehow. all of the character defining scenes were well done save for one character in particular who I will discuss momentarily. the scenes are good in their own rights. but they’re out of order. peter dancing in the street looking like dahvie vanity was not supposed to happen after supposedly killing uncle ben’s murderer, it was SUPPOSED to happen after getting the job over brock. and everything else was nonsensically crammed together like tetris sardines. it RUINED the pacing. there is a 40 minute period where venom does not appear or speak, and he is supposed to be the main villain of the movie. that’s the second biggest problem.
the biggest problem is Mary Jane.
Kirsten Dunst did as good a job as she could with the material she was given. but what is her character arc in each movie? be the love interest who needs to be saved from everything all the time. that’s it. the green goblin is attacking and MJ is in danger, Peter rescues her and she gets a crush on him. those rape dudes are attacking (told you) and MJ is in danger, Peter rescues her. they kiss. oh no the green goblin is attacking AGAIN, MJ is in danger AGAIN and Peter rescues her AGAIN and she falls in love with him. and so on. all she exists to do in these movies is get kidnapped and make peter’s spider dick hard. it is such a damn shame that those movies happened before the feminists really pushed to have women with agency in films and books and video games and stuff. remind me what aunt may did in these movies again? or gwen, or betty, or… anyone who was female? contrast with the amazing spidermans and the mcu spidermans. AND SPIDERVERSE. totally different beast there.
MJ’s character is unlikable, peter’s character does shitty things that make him temporarily unlikable, and their dynamic together is very… bland. you could cut MJ from 2 and 3 very easily and still potentially have a cohesive movie. raimi has strengths and he has weaknesses and his weakness is ingrained subconscious misogyny. oops. we expected better from the man whose claim to fame was a movie where a tree rapes a woman? 🤔 yeahhhh I don’t like evil dead 1. 2 and 3, good and phenomenal, but 1 is like. :/
so it’s nothing to do with the easy answers and it’s everything to do with the director is a little weird and Sony has never made a good business decision in its life.
ok blood on the dance floor sucks and all but I gotta admit “sext” and “death to your heart” are kinda banger,,,,,,, it sucks that they were written by a sickfuck I wish I could reclaim them :(
This is why I don't take people under my wing anymore. This young lady claimed to no longer support Dahvie Vanity, only to turn around and continue doing so. I tried to redeem her, to teach her how utterly disgusting he is, but no. She lied to me and betrayed my trust.
Okay but WHY THE FUCK isn't Dahvie Vanity in prison? Was a whole segment from Chris Hansen and the approach of hundreds of girls not enough? People don't care about victims and their stories until they've been victimized themselves. Not saying to believe every word from someone's mouth, but over 100 females? How is it NOT legible? It's been a year, and I've heard nada about this shit since it happened.
I don't want "Oh, Dahvie is a rapist, watch out for him" I want "Dahvie is in prison and will probably be beaten lifeless by their inmate within a few days"