I have a sneaking suspicion that Radfems blogs are bots. Why? Bc I have to block them with the same vigor that I have to block bots. They're fucking everywhere and it makes me nauseous. Pls someone tell me they have a Blocklist.

god. saw an intersex TERF and it made me so sad. you are in a community that wants you to hate yourself

are you a man? I'm asking because I don't commission men. sorry!

I'm a woman, but uh. don't worry about commissioning me with that kind of thinking

Is this what we're heading towards? Marketing to women is already overboard but now this?

Um?????? You found it weird? That was weird to you? Ok sure whatever. The condoms are ph balanced and the brand is female owned. Congrats. U cared the bsre minimum for women's health. But why on earth is it (in your mind) up to women to take on this also????

Don't women generally bear the brunt of ensuring reproductive health already? Taking bc, getting tested, risk of pregnancy etc etc. Now you wanna market condoms to women too? And you can check out the page, that's 100% what's going on it's not even subtle.

Like girl. Don't let men convince u of this and make a whole BRAND about it. You're not the cool girl for thinking of this and I'm sorry men made you feel that way.

Why are radfems like 10x more misogynistic and lesbophobic than the so called "TRAs" that they're up against

Radfems and Alt-right'ers aligning with each other is one of the most incredible things to come out of the 21st century lmao

Why is it always straight to ‘what they’re ACTUALLY saying is that they want to kill us’. There is absolutely no middle ground, it’s always ‘if you don’t agree with us on this, you obviously want us to die’

Gyns I'm going to fucking scream I just saw the worst thing:

the lesbophobia...i can't...

The truth is most men are not worth the energy it takes to keep them alive/ from killing each other

'only a few murders, trans people are probably one of the safest groups out there' yeah go into the deep south and you'll see how 'safe' it is for them

I live in the "deep south" and know many trans-identified people, none of whom were ever assaulted or otherwise harmed on the basis of them being trans. The worst things I have ever heard from any of them were instances where they were misgendered. Which doesn't even count as assault, much less murder. In addition to that, at least one of those people got a female coworker in trouble with her workplace for misgendering. A week after said trans-identified person started ID'ing as trans. 🙄 So no, sorry, you're still wrong.

I’m feeling the heterophobia very strongly this night y’all

I love you men-hating lesbians

Were you the person cosplaying as a transwoman when you are AFAB? Because that's just sick af. I've seen post circulate around you - I just came here because I recently followed you ... and .. now .. Idk ..

I used to used to refrain from confirming my gender with anybody, due to how uncomfortable I was about my gender being a talking point online. I have always struggled with my gender identity. The idea of people focusing more on what's under my clothes instead of the content of my character really bothered me. I believed that since people often call out racism without people assuming they belong to the group they're advocating for, that I could do the same for transphobia. Oppression is not comparable, however, and I realized that this did not work for these discussions. If I am to effectively advocate against terfs and for trans people, I then need to use my privilege as being cis passing in discussions. I don't really love people online knowing my gender, because I dont really know my gender either. But this feeling is the exact same thing trans women constantly go through: the feeling that their gender is constantly subjected to ridicule by any random you encounter, both online and IRL.

I have never said that I was a trans women, merely deflected whenever someone asked me about it. In retrospect, it was a selfish thing to do that I definitely regret. I started this blog as a teenager and it's aged with me to mid twenties. If I could, I would go back and re-do some interactions. The mistakes have been uncomfortable but necessary learning lessons for me. I learned I can not effectively advocate if I keep my gender a secret, because it means I refuse to do the same thing that trans people are expected to do.

I wish I could go back and state what my gender was when it mattered. I didnt know entirely how to classify myself, however, so I redirected any attempts to talk about my gender identity because I myself didnt want to think about it. I dont feel cis, but I also dont feel trans, so how can I tell someone what my identity is if I dont know it myself? However, since my gender identity will never be a trans woman, it wont hurt me to confirm with people as much.

I came to the conclusion that I can not have both my ambiguous gender identity and be a terfexclusionist. I chose to sacrifice the comfort of my ambiguous gender identity, in solidarity with trans people who are expected to disclose. Unfortunately, the world we live in is that we are representatives for our gender (which I think is bs). We all deserve to live as individuals and not spend our short lives worrying about how our life will influence the collective's public perception on others who share a gender identity. Unfortunately, this not how the world operates, especially not online as it pertains to trans people. You speak for members of your gender identity when you're anything other than cis, heterosexual, and endosex. Instead of selfishly denying the reality that trans people are forced to be model minorities, I instead adapted my advocacy to better fit this unfair aspect of life. If trans people are forced to cater to cis people's comforts for their safety, it should be up to cis passing people to (safely) show to cisendosex people that it's not just trans people who care about this. This is obviously a fine line, as you dont want to advocate in a way that might cause more violence than it helps. I'm still figuring out the best way to do that. I make mistakes, unfortunately I am not perfect nor will I ever be. But the mistakes help me learn who I want to be, and not starting this blog with everyone knowing my gender was one of those mistakes.

You're right, cosplaying as trans women is disgusting, I've seen it both IRL and online. It pushes trans people out of spaces designed for them, and that's something I would never want to do. However, my refusal to confirm my identity should not mean people just assume I'm a trans woman. I do not believe trans people should exclusively be expected to call out terfs. It means that cisendo people are not doing their jobs as allies to use their priviledge to call out bigotry.

I never started this blog thinking anyone would actually follow me or even have opinions about me. I definitely did not think "terfexclusionist" or "transinclusionary" would be followed by anyone other than my best friend. This blog initially started because of my (admittedly) unhealthy anger about the absolute refusal of terfs to admit that they are doing is wrong. To this day, the rhetoric that terfs spew almost brings me to tears of frustration. The LGB community makes me want to pull out my hair and scream. This is why I often take extended breaks from this blog. I still probably can develop a healthier way to cope with the anger. I want to do something to help this epidemic, but I'm just one person. I just want to do the right thing, but it is often unclear about what is the right thing to do. This is why I appreciate having my followers give me feedback, both positive and negative, as it allows me to introspect.

If you want to remain followed, that's fine, but do not feel pressured to. Life is way too short to continue following someone you dont feel comfortable with. I am always open to any suggestions, criticisms, and concerns by both anon and DM. This goes for both you, anon, and any other of my followers. Please never hesitate to reach out. I appreciate you (and all my follower) for caring about doing the right thing and keeping me on the straight and narrow. Have a good day.

Do you think terfs will ever realize they are pick me women, doing the patriarchy's dirtiest work for it?

Instead of focusing on the 90%+ of abusers that are cis men, they are focused on discriminating against less than 1% of the entire amab population, just like men want them to.

You really ate up what the patriarchy was selling you, didn't you, you dumb cunt?

Cis men played "These are not the men you're looking for" mind tricks on you and you felll for it.

Just..... yikes. No wonder pick mes never get nor stay picked.

Imagine trying to be friends with someone stupid enough to excuse cis men's behavior just to focus on hurting a small portion of society?

Gross and shameful behavior.

btw idk if ive said it on this blog or not but terfs/radfems/anyone of that ilk is not welcome on this blog. my love and support for my trans siblings will always come first. i hope every transphobe dies vias meat grinder. goodnight

Help I accidentally ended up on radfem Tumblr I need to go wash my eyes out with soap