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nick-close · 6 months
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Idk why when it comes to Glenn people forget about the generational trauma aspect of the podcast entirely. Don’t get me wrong, you don’t have to like him- but people act like he acts this way because he was just. Born a bad person. Chose to be that way. But for Henry or Ron, because they face a much more direct form of abuse it’s easy to spot- and the way it affected them is ironically more palatable for people.
Idk, people can’t stand the idea that trauma makes you a worse person sometimes. Sometimes you don’t get a fear of expressing anger, or people pleasing, or awkward and funny misinterpretations. Sometimes you just avoid being vulnerable or accountable and end up childish. Hell, we see this with the s2 dads sometimes too. If Sparrow ended up like this, it isn’t because his dad did everything right and he decided to fuck it all up. Shit happened!!! There’s always a cycle!!!
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stevesbipanic · 1 year
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For my lovely Cass @henderdads because I owe you a happy, birthday fic 🎂
Steve had a weird relationship with his birthday.
When he was little his birthday was a big event. His mum would wake him up with a big pile of pancakes that he'd get to eat in bed and wouldn't need to worry about getting syrup on the sheets. Then his parents would load him up in the car and they'd go to Indianapolis where they would have lunch in the big park and then his dad would take him to the biggest toystore he'd ever seen and little Steve would pick anything he wanted. He would always fall asleep in the car ride home and his parents would carry him upstairs and tuck him into bed.
Once he started school his parents would throw a big pool party for him and his classmates with cake and presents, one year he even had a bouncy castle. Tommy would get to sleep over and they would get to stay up watching movies and eating popcorn.
Steve could remember the year it all changed.
When he was twelve his parents had to leave for work at the last minute, some emergency Steve didn't really understand. They apologised that they'd miss Steve's birthday but they'd make up for it when they came back and left him money so he and his friends could get pizza or go to the movies while they were gone. It was ok, it felt weird not getting birthday pancakes, he just made himself some cereal and hung out with Tommy and Carol. When they came back they still went to Indy but it felt different, felt forced.
The next year they missed it again, they still left money but there was no Indy makeup trip on their return.
The following year they didn't even realise they missed it until they came back, they gave him some money for pizza, they were leaving again.
By the time he was sixteen he didn't expect anything. He made himself pancakes now, still ate them up in bed, he was a lot better at cooking now. He hung out with Tommy, took Nancy on a date. It was fine, it was just another day but with pancakes.
Robin brought back the magic of birthdays.
When she discovered what his birthday was she insisted she get to plan his day. Steve had no plans so he agreed easily with his best friend.
The night before his birthday she slept over, they crashed on the couch together under a pile of blankets, the TV still on. Steve woke up the next day to noise in the kitchen. He saw Robin making pancakes and almost cried.
"Hey birthday boy! Sit, sit, these are almost done, my mum always makes me pancakes on my birthday so I thought you'd like the same."
"Y-yeah thanks, Robin."
They ate their pancakes as Robin told him about her plans for the day, she had convinced Jon and Nance to carpool the kids to the quarry and they were going to have a picnic down there with the whole little family.
It was a perfect day.
Steve spent his twentieth birthday in a hospital room. Eddie had been here for weeks, Max just down the hall, Steve barely left, only to help volunteers and get a change of clothes. At least Eddie was awake, Steve loved talking to him, learning everything about him. He didn't even realise his birthday had arrived until Robin arriving with a little Tupperware of pancakes.
"Didn't think I'd miss the big day did you? You're old now dingus the big 2-0."
Steve cracked a smile, his eyes stung a bit with tears seeing the pancakes.
"Thanks, Robbie."
"Stevie, you didn't tell me it was your birthday, shouldn't you be doing something fun."
Steve smiled at Eddie softly, "I'm exactly where I want to be, Eds."
The three of the shared the pancakes and swapped stories of birthdays past.
Steve could never pick a favourite birthday but the morning of his 21st came pretty close. He woke up just as the sun started filtering through the curtains of his tiny apartment. Their soft rays gently stirring him. He opened his eyes to see the space beside him empty, he was confused briefly before the bedroom door opened.
Eddie cracked a soft smile as he gazed at his boyfriend.
"Good morning, sweetheart, special delivery for the birthday boy."
That morning they shared a big stack of pancakes in their bed and didn't worry about getting syrup on the sheets. Pretty close to a perfect birthday.
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spiderversegf · 2 months
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cass i need ur spotify & letterboxd for science
spotify & letterboxd !
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simplydnp · 2 months
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gardenerian · 10 months
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on vacation ⛰️✨
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shandzii · 2 years
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Draw more Roto <33333
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florwal · 4 months
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sorry but I have a question, you were going to just update the buildings that already exist in the save to be compatible with the for rent pack?? because I think everyone can do that in their own game, you shouldn't stress over it. and if you want to add new ones, we can wait so dint rush, you can wait to update your game.
thank u 😭 yeah i already uploaded the updated versions of the apartments n stuff to the gallery i was just wanting to update and add other things as well and it’s frustrating that my game STILL is fucked. i recorded a speed build the other night and it crashed multiple times rip. thanks again though, i definitely stress way too hard over it! i just haven’t released anything new in a while cuz i’m busy with chaotic life stuff so it’s constantly bothering me.
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ukrainian-psycho · 4 months
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actual-changeling · 6 months
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Never stop shining as bright as you do bestie ❤️❤️❤️❤️
thank you 💚💚
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gendertroublemaker · 4 months
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hi popped up for a second and I'm abt to go to sleep bc its 4.40 and I need to wake up for work at 9 lol theehee but AUUUEEEEGHEEEUUEG < I'm reading a book and it's sparking my passion for reading again man what finally finding the right genre and topic to interest you does to a mf
HI BABYYYY 💓💓💓 yeah get some rest!! We can always talk in the morning but I miss uuuu 💜💜 also what book is it? 😏
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weemssapphic · 11 months
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Top 5 Gwen fics
hello <3
I answered this here (well it was top 5 fics but all I currently read is Gwen fics sooo xD). I might make like a longer general list by character of fics I love and re-read if anyone is interested?
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vanivanvanilla · 4 days
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ask gam 4, 9, 23, 29? 💛
hiiii ❤️❤️❤️
4. what flower would you like to be given?
hmmm maybe roses , i’ve always loved them :D i love a bunch of different flowers as well though
9. what calms you down?
i usually try distracting myself to calm down (sometimes videos, sometimes gaming, sometimes music, etc). depending on what i’m stressed about i might use fixation(s) to calm down.
i also have a couple of funny things that calm me down like sorting characters into hair thickness categories (thin, thick, middle) (i usually think abt this with genshin characters for some reason lmao maybe bc there’s a lot of them)
the movie ponyo calms me down + these albums
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(grew up listening to these three ts albums lmao hashtag nostalgia)
23. favorite piece of clothing?
difficult question… my favorite changes a lot but i’ve been rlly loving this jacket i got a while ago
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29. morning, afternoon or night?
probably night, i feel the most at peace at night probs since i can be alone lol
[question list]
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crowtrobotx · 4 days
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one minute you’ve snuggled into bed after your sleepy time tea and the next you’ve accidentally triggered @grisailledreams ‘s Gaurdians of Ga’Hoole trap card
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kiuda · 12 days
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hii ♡ love you and miss you
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hi kaya <3 miss you always
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erwinsvow · 17 days
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hope youre feeling better soon sweetheart ! take as much rest as u need n pamper urself u deserve it !! <3
tysm bae u are so sweet 🥹🥹🥹 think I burned myself out writing too much lol but fear not i shall be back ! nothing can keep me from rafe n his dick !
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lucespeaks · 22 days
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jesus christ 300 of yall on hereeee😭😭😭no idea why but i love yall dearly ❤️‍🩹
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