*James Bond voice* I'm Ace. Aro Ace.

I have experienced so much from people who claim they are allies

my best friend talks about how I will find someone one day and I just have to wait

girl I’m not looking

it happens

"aPhObIa IsN't ReAl"

my best friend told me to my face, knowing that I'm aro, that aromantic is a label for people who can't get bitches and then say its because they don't want bitches.

she said it was a joke, and for everyone wondering what the big deal is, think about it like this.

let's say, a gay dude is talking to his best friend, who then says something like this "being gay is unnatural". as a joke. that would not be funny.

homophobic jokes are homophobic.

aphobic jokes are aphobic.

aros are valid. always.

cough cough Alastor

here's the thing. "ace people can still have sex" and "aro people can still be in relationships" are objectively true statements. this is because people can do whatever the fuck they want forever regardless of their label/orientation. however some of you have GOT to get your shit together and stop using those statements to undermine larger conversations about aspec identity. following up "ace people don't owe you sex in a relationship" with "ace people can still have sex in a relationship though!" is not fucking helpful! yes it's true. yes it's a reality for many people. however if we used our fucking brains for a second and thought about how following up "people don't have to conform to societal expectation" with "but people can still conform!! don't worry they can still conform!!!!" is counterproductive and very frustrating for a lot of people then we could get back to the actual point which is not "aspec people can still have sex/be in relationships" but "aspec people can do whatever they want with their relationships and their bodies". which they can, by the way. they can do whatever they want forever. and you should give them 200 dollars every time you see them for dealing with this shit

Yes exactly

he has the inferiority complex he treats women right He’s even a pretty boy

but no let’s hate on him cus he calls out bakugo on his bad behavior

you know what i just fucking realized today?

Monoma is just fanon Bakugo. like he is CANONLY how the fandom / Bakugo fans see Bakugo.

He has a serious underlying issue that's the cause of his rude behavior. he respects women, ie, defending Uraraka when EVERYONE was doubting her during the sports fest, and literally looking the opposite direction when that stupid fuckwad tricked the 1-a girls into wearing those cheerleading outfits. he's extremely insecure, and he's actually nice to his classmates.

Bakugo on the other hand was canonly spoiled as a child. he had a god complex that was shattered and that's the closest thing to a reason for his behavior. he simply refused to go easy on Uraraka just because she's a girl but for some reason the fandom makes it waaayyy more than it actually was.

but for some reason the fandom decided that Monoma was the bad one out of the two just because "he's annoying", and writes him as this homophobic, sexist bully who, in reality, is a good fucking character.

if I had a nickel for every time an anime had a line about paying with your body only for it to turn out to be about manual labor I would have 2 nickels. Which isn’t a lot but it’s strange it happened twice

I was showing some friends mha for the first time and the first episode surprised me

why did they have All Might say you can’t be a hero in the second episode?!? Like it would be the perfect hook?? They even left of the line before that

i identify as kilometers per second because i also think about km/s

I just spent 3 hours being bullied by a ai

what is my life

It has been 5 minutes and I’ve already been diagnosed with depression

Happy Aromantic week to all my aros, aroace, a-spec, and questioning

in honor of aromantic day pls reblog with your favourite aro/ace headcannons in the tags it's for science

the worst part about getting into a new fandom is having to learn to draw new characters

like I went from drawing relatively human characters to having to learn how to draw turtles TURTLES HOW THE HECK DOES ONE DRAW A MUTANT TURTLE

while procrastinating I decided to watch the 2012 tmnt and it only been 10 minutes and I already have a ton to say on it

Mickey gives someone bunny ears in the theme song

raph has a chip in his shell

Mikey stuck his tongue out at Donnie

mikey was the only one smiling while everyone else was trying to look serious

Mikey has freckles

did I just watch over 4 hours of hermit craft? Yes.

Should I go to bed? Yes.

will I? No

reading the hunger games and there’s no way that katniss isn’t a-spec

the whole time she isn’t really interested and says she’s to busy for romance

she acts disgusted by the idea of the lovers plot

and she’s very confused at Finnick stripping, you can’t tell me that’s not an ace mood

even which Gale she just states that she doesn’t want to be alone and he’s fun to hang out with

Katniss is A-spec and everyone is just to much of a coward to admit it