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#youdontloveme#ユードントラブミー#nonono#ノーノーノー#dawnpenn#ドーンペン#reggae#レゲエ#dancehall#ダンスホール#instamusic#musicstagram#instagood#instapic
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Wait. Sorry, but I read your tags and you have dyscalculia? I didn't even think it has a name, I thought it was part of the dyslexia chain of disorders... Which it is! But I didn't know it had a name! I can't believe someone has the same type of inconvenient bullshit as me! Tho, I'm guessing mine is much lighter, since I'm actually pretty good at math. With a lot of checking and people triple checking for me, and struggling with a line of an equation for like an hour before I can comprehend how simple it is in reality. Same with letters tho. The brain sometimes not comprehending what is visually presented and convincing itself it is wrong, when in fact it isn't. Words appearing out of nowhere in the middle of sentences when writing. Or words changing shapes and meanings as you read them, so you have to re-read a few times until your brain understands it. Fun times, sorry, I got into it.
I can't differentiate between 7 and 9 what's the quirk you got from it? XD I know it ain't funny, but I got excited! I mean, if this makes you uncomfortable to talk about, absolutely ignore this please ☀️
oh don’t worry, it’s part of the tumblrcore experience to read tags lmao.
but i do actually, i was also diagnosed quite late i was fourteen at the time. and boy, the struggles i had with it was huge and still is. i didn’t know it was in the same chain as dyslexia but thinking of it now, makes a lot of sense. nice to know a fellow dyscalculic too, i’ve never met anyone either. i don’t think i can define mine as lighter since it was one of the main source of anxiety for me growing up lmao. i just god, i suffered with the bare minimum when it comes to math. even the simplest of problems is difficult for me. i have trouble helping my almost 10 year old sister with her math stuff, to give you an example. i just run from it in any given circumstance. i think i do also double, triple check any calculations i do. i even take a step further and do it at least five times to make sure and my mind sometimes still goes “are you actually sure it’s correct?” and proceeds to count at least two or three more times to be sure, even when i have a calculator with me. my main struggle is forgetting the numbers i’m seeing, exchanging them, i have trouble telling the difference between thousands and millions and whatever else gets too may zeros or too many numbers, basically anything after 900 gets hard for me. it also affects my left and right, cannot get it right for the life of me. reading old clocks takes a few minutes lmao. but truly exchanging things was one of the main issues for me, and i wouldn’t even realise it. it was like my brain couldn’t see the mistake unless someone helped me get there. hm, what else?
< > these two symbols? trust me, i still don’t remember them to this day, i would have to use a visual written explanation to remember which one was which and i still would take a bit of time to get there because it’s just confusing to me. i never had trouble with letters necessarily, i don’t remember rn anyway. those math problems that required you to get an answer after seeing something like “matt has two apples and karen has whatever blah blah blah” i just couldn’t do it. geometric math was my deathbed. pythagora’s theorems HOLY FUCKING HELL my most hated back then. my brain would shut down and not work at all. the multiplication table thing? i swear to god unless it’s two or five (counting on my fingers btw) i can’t do it. it’s like i see math and i think i get it but i don’t, not really. it makes no sense in my brain, i can’t seem to grasp it fully. and it’s so frustrating. i could complain about my brain’s lack of understanding for a lifetime, okay?! 🤣
#maybe it’s also related to my adhd? idk#i read somewhere that the possibility of having one and the other is quite high but im not sure#i truly feel so much anxiety when i have to deal with numbers#i used to work in two places where i had to deal with cash. i used to play it off laughing and saying iit can’t count just to take some weig#weight of my shoulders if i made any mistake#which i did often#repeatedly because i just overlooked them#sometimes iI just don’t see the numbers and i skip something#but i guess that’s also my adhd brain being inattentive lmao#who knows where one begins and the other ends at this point#ra☀️#youdontloveme-yet#gei’s nonsense answers#dyscalculia
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Show art pls ty 🙏
(as much as I love sending the stupidest asks, I'm genuinely interested in your art, so pls k? ty 😊)
hey ra! thank you for your enthusiasm 🥺 i hope to upload some of my art soon 💖
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Pink or purple ?
Blue or green ?
Yellow or orange ?
There's literally no reason behind this XD just a bit bored
Purple, Blue and Yellow :D
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No way, no way, no way, no way!! Another nf fan in this fandom??
HOLD UP HOLD TF UP I THOUGHT I WAS SOLO HERE
Okay, I'm chill now. Fave song if I may ask?
before his new album came out i already had a playlist of 30 of my favorites 🙈 and since it came out i have added 6 more so i am not sure i have an answer to that. most played song right now is happy though. what about you?
#was actually working on a gif set last with the lyrics from gone and can’t wait to hurt a few people with it#youdontloveme-yet#asks
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Hi hi! Do you have any idea where I can watch Love Destiny? The CH3 youtube has them only to episode 5. And I tried a few other sites, but couldn't find it. :(
Also! Love your blog! I found some pretty good dramas and lakorns because of you 🖤 hope you have a beautfiul day!
hey!! i think it's available on netflix in some countries but if you don't have access to that i would recommend watching on alwaysgrumpycat as they have the netflix upload so it will be better quality than places like dailymotion you do need a password to watch but you can easily find it in the rules section of their website! i hope that helps and thank you so much i'm glad you like my blog! i hope you have a lovely day as well <3
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Jessi!! I'm late to your birthday :(
Anyway, I hope you had a wonderful day and all the days to come become your best! Wish you all the usual things and I hope you get to achieve everything you ever wanted and to keep enjoying life as it can be a wondrous journey! Your editing makes me 100% envious of your skill, so I hope you keep getting people like me who will be in awe of you! Also people who'll support your vision and who want to see you succeed! ☀️🖤
aw raaaa 🥺💖✨ so so grateful to have met you this year and getting to know you, your way with words and connection with content too inspires me! thank you for the birthday wishes and endless support, i only hope for a better new year and every ounce of happiness that you could find ;_;
#replies#youdontloveme-yet#birfday tag WOO! 🎁#& never late you were right on time i am very late on replies#have something delicious for me today to celebrate
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The Asian Drama Generational Trauma Challenge List
gif by @youdontloveme-yet
As @waitmyturtles has been making her way through her OGMMTVC I have been continuing to watch way too many dramas and thinking about the ones I want her to watch when she’s done with that project. And because I know Turtles, it’s always the dramas that feature themes around intergenerational trauma, filial piety, and lots of emotionally fraught interactions between parents and children that ping my “Turtles needs to watch this” radar. As I was mentioning the shows I wanted her to watch, Turtles joked that maybe I should make her a new challenge list that is focused on intergenerational trauma.
And if y’all haven’t learned this about me yet, you should know that I have no chill and absolutely will embark on a whole project because you make a stray comment in my direction. So here we are!
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I wanted this list to be inclusive of a broad range of Asian dramas, exploring how it shows up in different Asian countries and through both het and queer lenses, so I consulted quite a few friends. Shoutout to @wen-kexing-apologist, @so-much-yet-to-learn, @bengiyo, @shortpplfedup, @ginnymoonbeam, and @emotionallychargedtowel for helping me refine this list. We landed on the following criteria:
Modern dramas only—not necessarily current but set in a time period recent enough that we don’t have a whole additional set of social mores to layer on top
The drama explores intergenerational trauma, not just intergenerational dynamics (so shows like Reply 1988 that are very much about family but not necessarily trauma are not on the list)
Intergenerational trauma is a primary focus and a major theme of the drama, not a background theme, a surprise reveal, or just part of a character’s backstory to engender sympathy (waves goodbye to most chaebol romcoms)
We are using the word trauma in a broad sense here–a lot of the complex trauma featured in these shows would not meet the formal DSM diagnostic criteria as a Traumatic Event
We did apply a quality filter–the execution of the story needs to be good enough that the intergenerational trauma themes stay intact, even if the drama overall is not a total slam dunk
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Note also that this list is not chronological and there is no suggested watch order. I also do not recommend binging all of these dramas one after the other. Some of these shows are heavy and you’ll want to space them out. This is a challenge to complete over time!
I decided to share this on tumblr in case others are similarly weird and wanted to undertake this challenge with us. If any of you see this and decide to watch some of these, please tag me with your progress and thoughts! I have also linked each show’s MDL page so you can see the synopsis and general warning tags, but if you want specific content warnings for any of these shows, feel free to comment or message me.
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So after a lot of preamble…
Generational Trauma Challenge List
10 Years Ticket (Thailand, YouTube)
180 Degrees Longitude Passes Through Us (Thailand, Gagaoolala)
About Youth (Taiwan, Gagaoolala)
Bad Buddy (Thailand, YouTube)
Come and Hug Me (S Korea, Viki)
Flower of Evil (S Korea, Netflix or Viki)
GAP (Thailand, YouTube)
Go Ahead (China, Viki)
It’s Okay to Not Be Okay (S Korea, Netflix)
Khun Chai (Thailand, YouTube)
My Mister (S Korea, Netflix)
Our Dining Table (Japan, Gagaoolala)
SKY Castle (S Korea, Netflix or Viki)
Something in the Rain (S Korea, Netflix or Viki)
Until We Meet Again (Thailand, Viki or YouTube)
gif by @gabrielokun
Good luck, happy crying, stay hydrated, and please pace yourselves!
(Tagging friends @neuroticbookworm, @kyr-kun-chan, and @chickenstrangers who I have already discussed this with.)
#bad buddy#flower of evil#180 degree longitude passes through us#come and hug me#our dining table#until we meet again#gap the series#go ahead#it's okay not to be okay#khun chai#about youth#my mister#10 years ticket#sky castle#something in the rain#intergenerational trauma challenge#shan recommends
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kinnporsche wasnt just a show for me, it was an experience. it gave me one of my most favourite characters (kinn, if anyone is curious) and helped me make more friends and meet more creators and see their amazing work.
What I loved about the show was how character driven the plot was, even if we all could predict what was gonna happen next. and of course, the actors acted their ass off making this show legit a standard in its genre.
To appreciate these characters and actors who did justice to them, i have made like 22 ( math and I arent on good terms, I made a webweave for everyone leaving jom and tem because i didnt have enough information on them as individuals)
Its my first attempt at webweaves and tbh quite proud of it and hence want to share it with you guys who made KP fandom what it it is for- a joyful, hilarious and creative space - thank you you all
@spicyvampire @liyazaki @ayan-sukkhapisit @smittenskitten @daswarschonkaputt @purpleguitar @stormyoceans @angelbesideme @guzhu-furen @thoresque @akkpipitphattana @magicaldreamfox1 @taeminie @alexshenry @nanons @thanawins @luckydragon10 @bisexualhedgehog @radishayuan @oswlld @snickerdoodlles @snimeat @machikeita @onstoryladders @kinnsporsche @kinnporsche @kinnbig @nattaphum @nattawins @milkpansa @bellepark @dramaism @youdontloveme-yet @moodkiller @thelaziestmotherfucker @ellaspore @yeetlegay @kinnporsche007 @morkofday @dimpledpran @negrowhat @theleftboobgrabber @ahdriking @boysbeloving @benkaaoi @biochemjess @lutawolf @icouldhyperfixatehim @alienwlw @daltoneering
If I am forgetting to tag anyone or have incorrectly tagged someone (that is you didn't watch the show) i am sorry - I am on periods which means not even a single brain cell of mine is working as it should
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thank you for making my 2023 <3
to,
@kxttxnkxttxn @a-slut-for-vegaspete @pxvvar @youdontloveme-yet @hoppipolla @forcebook @seatawinans @forcebookish @daymork @ellasaru12 @sailingsnow @topmewera @first-kanaphan @25shadesoffebruary @vecchiozooeee @shakalakaaa @tomatoland @forcebookcorner @bookishforce @djeterg19 @itsmelb @i-got-the-feels @eveindtub @milkpansa @chinho-kun @frostluvrs @writerwithoutsound @fuckingcrescendos @nattawinlove-andmygaytea @dragonsareawesome123 @extremelybabygirl @vhsbabyxx and everyone who i have ever interacted with this year,
thank you so much for everything. you guys made my 2023 better and brighter. thank you for finding me. thank you for liking anything i put out on my platforms. thank you for being my friend. i hope 2024 will be a prosperous, blissful and exciting year for all of you <3
#appreciation post#thank you for making my year everyone#may God bless you all <3#hoping that 2024 will be better. <3#you guys are the best#<3
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Watchlist Tag Game!
Thank you @waitmyturtles for tagging me!
Currently watching
A Boss and a Babe - cute, easy to watch
Bed Friend - cute, easy to watch HA! who am I kidding. Despite the icky trauma I love this one. Let's hope it sticks the landing.
Chains of Heart - I was going to wait to watch this one (like Big Dragon) but I got SO DRAWN IN and now I'm obsessed.
The Eighth Sense - I knew a kbl would be gorgeously made but this one is knocking all other kbls out of the park. It's also stabbing me in the heart. But I love it.
Future - a little cringeworthy, a little slow, but it's light and easy.
The Promise - I have to watch this a week behind since I don't have a subscription hence I miss the analysis and discourse, which is needed because the characters' motivations can be frustrating. Plus colours!
UMG - I wish this could have had a midnight museum level of depth, even a 10 years ticket, but it's slapstick crack. Which doesn't make it bad per se but it's a little too light and throwaway whilst also trying to be sort of a character study. I also wish they had given the aliens a blurred focus because they're much less menacing when you can see it's just prosthetics and make-up.
3 Will Be Free - I started this a while ago but stalled mid-way through ep 3. I'll get back to it soon but I find Joss a bit wooden.
Looking forward to watching soon
New shows:
Our Skyy 2 - I might end up having to watch each ep later than everyone else (and thus hiding the tag for the whole series sadly) because Wed and Thurs evenings are the WORST time for me. But SO EXCITED!
Double Savage - I might also have to wait and binge this one later because it might be difficult to squeeze this in with all the above.
Older shows:
The Director who buys me Dinner - the eps are only short, so I could binge it at some point.
HIStory 5: Love in the Future - the ep lengths daunt me, so maybe I'll binge it during my next long break from work?
Big Dragon - not sure when I'll get round to this but it's been on my list since before Christmas.
Ai Long Nhai - this has also been on my list for a while, maybe too long now...
Remember Me - ditto (I can't even remember what this one is about).
To Sir With Love - starting to think I won't watch this though...
Would like to watch but can't for region locked/subscription reasons
Our Dining Table - it looks so soft and domestic!
Destiny Seeker - the colours!
Also - any gl recs gladly taken! It's harder to keep track of what's airing and when with gls...
Tagging some peeps whom I haven't interacted with much recently (it's me not you) and some who have popped up in my notifications recently: @seeking-moonscapes @jemmo @markpakin @elnotwoods @youdontloveme-yet @airenyah @ablazenqueen @wen-kexing-apologist @vegasandhishedgehog @colourme-feral @kyr-kun-chan @lurkingshan
#that tag game#watch and rewatch drama list#a boss and a babe#bed friend#chains of heart#the eight sense#future series#the promise#umg#3 will be free#our skyy 2#double savage#the director who buys me dinner#HIStory 5: love in the future#big dragon#ai long nhai#remember me#to sir with love#our dining table#destiny seeker
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Mhm, mhm, mmmmhm. Today is the day for controversial opinions in the fandom. 👀
Anyway, yes, objectively speaking, cuz frankly idc about actors and their lives, his acting ain't it. Bland is the right word.
LOVE IT FOR US BEING CONTROVERSIAL.
i mean, i don’t care about actors outside of shows either. i don’t even have problems with my fave characters and whatever might be said about them. but if it’s for entertainment purposes and it’s your job, you need to at least make it believable. not looking for an oscar worthy performance, mind me, just the bare believable minimum.
THAT’S IT, BLAND. HE’S AN UNSALTED CRACKER. IF HE IMPROVES IS A DIFFERENT STORY
#until then he’s just dry af. nothing helps swallowing it down either#im on my reputation era and you’re enabling me LMAO#ra🌻#youdontloveme-yet#gei’s nonsense answers
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♡♡♡ When you receive this, tag your favorite content creators to give them a little shoutout and show some support! Let's try to end 2022 on a positive note and show others that they have brightened our days on tumblr!
kpop and asian drama tumblr has some of the best and most creative content creators and i love so many of them. there are gif makers, video editors, authors and more on this list but i still forgot at least 200 people.
A - H
@actually-yikes @agendratum @alienwlw @ashinlae @awek-s @baek1nho @baijingting @bareums @belsmultifandommess @bfjeff @billlkin @brumarchesine @bubblegeon @chaeunwoo @changbeens @cherrymaho @coldties @cuddlybitch @curlykytta @dahyun @dazzlingkai @deokmis @fangrui @freensrcha @gooseras @gunsatthaphan @guzhu-furen @heretherebedork @hyunchanz
I - Q
@itsallaboutzayn @itsanidiom @jaehwany @jangman-wol @jeffsatur @junghaesin @kaonoppakao @kimporchay @kinnbig @komunyoung @la-fourmi @lakorns @laowen @leedongwook @liankuea @loveisactivated @machikeita @maggiecheungs @mostlyfate @moonlightchicken @nfly5 @ohsehuns @paisky @pharawee @pranparakul @pranpats @prapais
R - Z
@ryudaeng @se-jun @seanwhites @seawherethesunsets @smittenskitten @spicyvampire @storge @suhyeos @sunsetandthemoon @tachineko @taeminnie @team-win @tehohaews @thisautistic @tirpse @urheartsamess @wanderlust-in-my-soul @yeonjune @yesdramas @yibo-wang @yilinglaozu @yingtan @youdontloveme-yet
this whole ask made me realise i don’t know half your urls bc ive been misreading them.
#did i create a spreadsheet to try and remember everyone? yes#did i still miss people? of course#morgan answers
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WDYM NO ?? 🤣 I'm already doing it. A dozen tattoos and smokes xd
The tattoos are fine, but stop romanticising dying young!! Living till 90 is the DREAM. You can say whatever the fuck you want and eat whatever the fuck you want and no one can do a damn thing about it
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CHEERCEMBER 2023
DAY 15: follow forever + my thanks
So those who have been around for the last few years know I usually post this on the last day of cheercember as a thanks for those who participated and sent in requests as well as just to thank all the lovely mutuals for hanging around and for giving to the fandoms in the way that they do. As you can see it's only Day 15 and that just kind of explains my year skjfslkjf. For those who don't know I was promoted earlier this year and I now have a dual role at my job and slowly as the year went by in order to keep up with things as well as for other reasons that happen within my career I started working 85-90 hours every two weeks. December was no different and by the time I got home I had little energy left to be creative or to sit in front of my laptop. However, that being said I do still plan to finish the requests and even my list (yes I had a list). I will slowly push them out through Janurary.
Now that that's all out of the way, I do really want to thank everyone (followers included) for making this such a fun space as we all need a little escapism in our life. And I also always appreciate your support! I hope you all have a happy new year and that good things find you throughout the year. Tagging my lovely mutuals beneath the cut & in the comments because tumblr put a limit on it . (if I forgot anyone I am deeply sorry)
first and foremost @akkpipitphattana, thank you for always being my biggest support and letting my ask your opinion when i'm being outright indecisive. couldn't function without your half of the braincell, love you silly goose.
@h-isforhome @khathastrophe @khaotunqs @markpakin @mooninaugust @theedorksinlove @taeminie @khaotungsfirst @seatawinans @moonkhao @khaotunq @dimpledpran @aprilblossomgirl @milkpansa @hup123hup123slapslap @smileytharn @sollucets @youdontloveme-yet @justafriend-ql @krystaljungs @icouldhyperfixatehim @heroeddiemunson @spicyvampire @firstkanaphans @jeongtokkie @revengeofthesiths @buckleys-diaz @buckhelped @bangchanted @fitfmybeloved @bellamygate @sunsetandthemoon @freensrcha @forcebook @sparklyeyedhimbo @liyazaki @daymork @celestial-sapphicss @piningintrovert @morkofday @alexshenry @ardentlytess @nicholasnelsons @weiwuxian @eddiediaaz @i-got-the-feels @disasterdiaz @tailoredshirt @oliviairodrigo
#thank you from the bottom of my heart#sending my love to all of you#cheercember23#flickering tw#flashing tw
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Thank you to all the wonderful content creators who have blessed my dash with awesome creations that made my day!
Obviously there are much more faves, but these are the few I can squeeze into one post. The rest will be reblogged on my blog throughout the month.
Fave Drama Blogs:
@asianlgbtnetwork .@asiandramasource . @userdramas . @asiandramanet . @wohdaily
Fave Asian Media Creations:
@allirenaneko : Word Of Honor
@angelbesideme : KinnPorsche
@ardentlytess : Vice Versa
@ashinlae : Word Of Honor (1, 2, 3)
@athrisen : Word Of Honor
@baek1nho : Word Of Honor
@carloslouwho : KinnPorsche (1, 2, 3, 4) | Not Me (1, 2, 3) | The Gifted (1) | The Eclipse (1, 2, 3) | Vice Versa
@eohachu : Not Me | My Country The New Age
@fangrui : Animes | Love Between Fairy And Devil (1, 2) | 86
@fantasysociety : Word Of Honor
@i-got-the-feels : Light On Me | The Eclipse | Vice Versa
@highwarlockkareena : A.C.E | Tinted With You
@kaonoppakao : BLs
@kinnporsche : KinnPorsche (1, 2, 3)
@lan-xichens : Tian Guan Ci Fu
@lanzhans : The Eclipse
@liyazaki : KinnPorsche (1, 2, 3, 4) | BLs
@luna-lina : Not Me | KinnPorsche (1, 2, 3)
@mayalunas : Between Us (1, 2)
@oswlld : Vice Versa (1, 2, 3) | KinnPorsche
@porscheskinns : KinnPorsche
@sheepandpencils : Word Of Honor
@smittenskitten : KinnPorsche
@snimeat : The Eclipse
@spicyvampire : KinnPorsche (1, 2, 3) | Manner Of Death
@taeminie : Not Me
@talays-portkey : Dew The Movie | Not Me (1, 2) | KinnPorsche | Vice Versa X Bad Buddy | Vice Versa
@thatgothsamurai : Word Of Honor (1, 2)
@vennilave : Vikram
@weiwuxian : Not Me | Nevertheless
@wohdaily : Word Of Honor
@youdontloveme-yet : The Eclipse (1, 2) | 10 Years Ticket
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