I AM FINALLY FREE and i can appreciate the kweens birthday. ofc i was a good housewife and sent my workingwife a birthday message, but she still deserves appreciation so I have comprised a few carol memes i found on twitter that accurately depict our everyday struggles....

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Sometimes even the most snobby food makers among us must resort to a microwaved meal. Thank goodness for Indian food (I did whip up a garlicky yogurt real quick like. I’m not a savage.) #vegetarian #microwave #indian #workingwife (at San Francisco, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/BoLHaUZleu5/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1k53iyjdcuuw

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A Woman’s Work is Never Done

My mother warned me of this when I was a little girl but I didn’t believe her.  “I’ll never be some housewife,” I thought.  Unfortunately, I’m a wife with a home.  Therefore, I’m still a house wife, I just spend some of my time at something called a full time job.

For the record, the decision to send my last husband packing came after he left me completely hanging on preparation for a trip.  Sure, he’d been cheating for some time, but the act of leaving all travel prep on my shoulders is the surest way to get yourself snapped at, and today is no different.

At this point, my husband is acting salty because, after two days of doing the preparations for a cross country trip without any help, I snapped.  Somehow, he works full time and gets to spend his days off relaxing.  Mine are spent cleaning.  He’s had four months to complete a digital media task for this trip and he’s on the floor in front of his computer working on it with less than three days left.  Why?  Because I finally spoke up and offered to add the project to my list because it wasn’t getting done.  Had I “trusted him” to self motivate, we would be in a bigger argument and worse situation hours before our flight.  I did not nag or bitch.  I kindly told him I was severely stressed and he didn’t let me finish before mumbling about how he’s sore and tired.

Who do men think packs their fucking suitcases?  Who do they think orders the tickets, structures the trip schedule, and prepares for TSA? Doby the Goddamn Housewife.  That’s who.

To work or not to work?

So it’s especially very hard for me to decide on this simple dilemma. After a decade + of being unable to find a Pakistani husband, Allah put me with a Muslim hubby (Alhamdulilah) but I got married into a non-Muslim family. 

Now my issue is, if I work, how would I raise my kids as Muslims? Currently I have no kids. But when I do, and if for a certain years I become a stay at home mom, then when I decide to re-enter the workforce, how would I go on about it? How would I even be able to get a job? 

P.S. I have already graduated Alhamdulilah in a health science degree. 

This is so depressing, not only because I am a little fearful for the future of my unborn children, but I am also fearful because the women of that household have no religion of their own, nor do they have any self-respect whatsoever. I have seen it myself, them trying to not spoil but corrupt their other niece/nephew and grandkids. They aren’t into anything for other than FB and TV, so they will never understand how important religion is for me and for my kids in the future.

Writing this is making me even more depressed. 

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