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chasing-chimeras · 1 year
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“baby’s only 23 / dancing under lights since she was 17 / her brain’s flooded with ketamine / high from every party, low from self-esteem / it’s selfish but she never sleeps / honestly, she needs a little sympathy” - 23 by chase atlantic
Theo Raeken in Red Flags
“You promised me an out!”
“I promised you nothing.”
“No! You said—”
“Inconsequential.”
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vamplire · 5 months
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me consuming every piece of queer media instead of having a social life:
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inkskinned · 9 months
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he says i hate everyone except you and that is addictive and that is kind of romantic and beautiful because you're young and you're kind of a sarcastic asshole too and you don't like bad boys, per say, but you don't really like good ones either. and you like that you were the exception, it felt like winning.
except life is not a romance book, and he was kind of being honest. he doesn't learn to be nice to your friends. he only tolerates your family. you have to beg him to come with you to birthday parties, he complains the whole time. you want to go on a date but - people are often there, wherever you're going. he's just so angry. about everything, is the thing. in the romance book, doesn't he eventually soften? can't you teach him, through your own sense of whimsy and comfort?
at first - you know introverts often need smaller friend groups, and honestly, you're fine staying at home too. you like the small, tidy life you occupy. you're not going to punish him for his personality type.
except: he really does hate everyone but you. which means he doesn't get along with his therapist. which means he has no one to talk to except for you. which means you take care of him constantly, since he otherwise has no one. which means you sometimes have to apologize for him. which means he keeps you home from seeing your friends because he hates them. you're the single exception.
about a decade from this experience, you'll type into google: how to know if a relationship is codependent.
he wraps an arm around you. i hate everyone except you. these days, you're learning what he's actually confessing is i have very little practice being kind.
#i used to think it was romantic too and then i was like. now i see it as a HUGE red flag#writeblr#it is also almost EXCLUSIVELY said by immature ppl who think this is normal#fyi even if u think it's funny and ur like 'im an introvert it's just TRUE' like. you need therapy (ily tho)#healed introversion is just ''i would prefer to be by myself'' not ''i hate every person'' ... hate is not normal. that is not healthy#im sorry. i know it feels accurate. but if you're walking around with that kind of rage....#1. you're making a LOT of assumptions about every single person u have ever met. which is often unfair and unkind#and also usually involves judging people based on their worst moments or little mistakes#2. you are being unfair to the person who is ur ''exception''#3. there is a VAST difference between ''ur my favorite person'' and ''the ONLY person i like.''#idk i think this is just a personal bias thing tbh#im sure there are people who have this experience normally#but i have YET to find a man who thinks like this and ISNT absolute DOGSHIT. although tbh.... like. im sure he exists#when u hit like 30 some of the things that were once kind of hot now just sound fucking exhausting. like ''im in a band''#edit in the tags: i used to kind of be like this too. but the thing is that like. my life became so much more peaceful#once i started believing that people are generally good. like yes i am mad at the world at large#but it's just.... a very hard way to live. you're not a bad person or wrong for the ways other people hurt you and taught you to be angry.#but that anger will continue to hurt YOU. it will punish YOU. it will prevent YOU from making new deep connections. it will protect you yes#but it will also cause MASSIVE blowback. bc if you lose the One Person... your life will fall apart. i know this personally.#i really recommend just trying to be... cautiously optimistic instead. like. yes#people can be horrible and cruel and there are some communities (incels for example) that aren't worth that optimism#but i think like... most people will hold a door for you . most people want to help you find your wallet .#i hope one day you are able to find peace. i hope that rage eventually smooths over. i know how hard it is PERSONALLY#and i know what must have happened to you. and im deeply deeply sorry we share the same wound.#but i promise - sometimes we all need someone else to help us carry the weight. eventually the rage has to die so that we can let help in#i had to spend years biting at outstretched hands. i still often do. im still very wary . and my heart breaks that you flinch too.#here's the thing: i don't blame you. but we were both acting out of fear and pain. .... not out of healthy behavior. and ... change#was needed. i needed change too. rage was useful for a while. then it just left me isolated and bitter. i had to (with effort)#choose to let that rage go. and let people in . VERY SLOWLY THO LOL
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toneelspeelster · 7 months
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wuthering heights by emily brontë
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ofmd-ann · 5 months
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Edward Teach (S02E02 - Red Flags)
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sunlightdrop · 4 months
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    short hair rapunzel ♡
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donut-rights · 1 month
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leaked promotional image for rvb19
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blakbonnet · 7 months
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🥺🥺🥺 why must he go through this when he's so adorable
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harringroveera · 7 days
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Didn’t you know Robin? Steve’s favorite color is red
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danger-bird · 2 months
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Contributing to the "bloody Leander" assemblage in the Touchstarved archives (I'm surprised nobody has gorified this sprite already, it's so perfect )
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j-ustkeepdriving · 10 months
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insane
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chasing-chimeras · 9 months
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“I’m only silly putty in your hands right now / you could throw me out the window / you could burn me to the ground / you could fuck me up and I’m always down / I’m only, I’m only, I’m only, I’m only” – silly putty by phem
Liam Dunbar in Red Flags
“Because you’re kinda homophobic dude.”
“Then why did you keep hanging out with me?”
Liam shrugs. “You’re hot and I’m toxic.”
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lewdo · 10 months
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*and the crowd went wild*
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rosyjuly · 9 months
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@f1blrcreatorsfest week #2: vintage // bauhaus + sebastian vettel (insp)
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insomniaeon · 9 months
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Red Dead Redemption Scenery 8/∞
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ofmd-ann · 5 months
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Edward Teach (SO2E02 - Red Flags)
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