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Maximizing Beauty Physically
Consistency is key!
Leave your place and look at what’s hot around you. The internet is not always accurate.
If you’re going to wear straight hair, gloss it, flat iron or press it so it won’t be puffy & dull. My straightened, silky 150% density bang wig stands out more than a blonde’s limp, dull hair since I dyed it to complement my skintone. I’ve seen results. I am a Maybelline Mocha 360, and this haircolor brought my face to LIFE.
Fix your posture, open your body language.
Wear makeup. Makeup emphasizes the beauty inside, instead of overshadowing your natural beauty. I am more attractive than a girl who’s barefaced but naturally attractive features through makeup.
Practice regimens you do for special occasions whenever possible!
For lipstick, go based off your flushed shade to look natural. MAC Brick-o-la with lip liner is my closest!
⭐️⭐️⭐️ Shading! I’m extreme in my makeup, using 3-5 blushes to create a color gradient that copies my natural cheek contour since applying extremely natural makeup takes careful consideration. You don’t need to go to my extreme though! ⭐️⭐️⭐️
If you’re going to wear lashes, wear eye makeup and blush as well. The more length your lashes have, the less eye makeup you need. A flat face given dimension by lashes is alluring, but it isn’t cohesive altogether. You need warmth and color to even out the depth + extra coverage of your face from lashes.
Slug the night before and massage your face. Wash your face and clean your ears please. Makeup remover, water by itself, and witch hazel aren’t face cleansers.
Earrings, necklace, ring and a bracelet.
Paint your nails.
Exfoliate a few times a week! I bought African net cloths for easy exfoliation. Follow up with water based moisturizer then lubricating lotion.
⭐️ If you groan about features other women have but you don’t, imitate or stop complaining. This isn’t from insecurity, it’s maximizing our beauty. I purposely seek out overseas dating sites or pages ran by men worshipping a single culture of women to find out their aesthetic culture, then going to their region’s makeup artists on IG to copy their look/products. ⭐️⭐️
Infuse your water, and walk on the treadmill/outside. I beat my all time record Sept. 12th & 18th by walking 5.5mi and the results reflect in my energy. Freeze cucumber slices overnight and add a dash of lemon to my water for the day!
Maximize the pretty!! 💖💖
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seretheprincess · 2 years
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I am in love with Coach’s Shearling Collection 😍😍 especially 3D logos
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jordancartier · 2 years
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@princesskhalyiah
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Your reminders motivated me so I made my own wallpaper with PicsArt, just thought u should know 🌼
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I Challenge You To..
Be as delusional as possible for a week.
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Take 2 selfies a day. You need to be very self aware of your beauty and pretty privilege. Do not wait 5-10 years and see how it’s like to feel average.
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If you only drink water when you brush your teeth, begin drinking at least 1 bottle of water (16.9 oz) every 2 hours. Water changes your mentality and enforces self-discipline.
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Literally embody your feminine archetype. If you’re worried you’ll be seen as an attention seeker because your archetype or femininity is trending on social media, GET OFF OF SOCIAL MEDIA AND SMELL THE ROSES.
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Grandiose displays of femininity have ALWAYS been around but we now have pictures and audios within arm’s reach! Wear that outfit you’ve been staring at, hang up a woven teabag full of Epsom salt, orange zest and rose petals on your shower faucet, wear the lipstick that’s been sitting on your counter and speak the language you’ve been practicing for years in public!
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Remove self-limiting beliefs and restrictions. You are the blueprint, a sex symbol and inspirational. You don’t need permission to wear what you want and to act emboldened because they’ll copy you anyways. Some people will sell their souls for your voice intonations, skin color and hair.
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Pause overthinking. Referring back to displays of femininity, do not waste your time, sanity or money watering down what could happen if you take up space in a room or envision yourself as a desirable goddess.
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View your self esteem as a trophy behind glass in a vault. No one can intrude unless they have your fingerprint.
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10 Pretty Privilege Affirmations FORCED
My beauty brings men to tears every nanosecond
My desirability increases by 10,000% increments at the universe’s speed
I am a show-stopper at every place I visit every nanosecond
My confidence is increasing in magnetism at the universe’s speed
My pretty privilege makes me money every nanosecond
I am immune to low quality experiences every nanosecond
My walk brings traffic to a standstill
I am so stunning, I naturally have a spotlight every nanosecond
I am immune to time wasters every nanosecond
My pretty privilege is opening every door I desire at the universe’s speed
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Pretty Privilege Makeup Tips
Always, always revolutionize your beauty.
💖 deep cleanse the night before (learned from dear peachie)
🍊 splash eyes with cold water, soak toner on cotton rounds & set over eyelids before priming
💖 curl lashes with curler or warm spoons
🍊 never rush through makeup application
💖 keep travel sized foundation, blush and eyeshadow on hand for touch ups
🍊 never touch up makeup or perfume yourself in public; you just gave your trade secrets away
💖 moisturize lightly 10-20 minutes before applying base
🍊 use fine mist setting spray
💖 don’t forget your neck, hairline or ears
🍊 use a mirror, phone cameras are filtered & inaccurate
💖 use q-tips to remove mistakes
🍊 warm up your base makeup on the back of your hand
💖 oil & water don’t mix
🍊 know your undertones
💖 always glisten & never forget who you are 💝
💓Maximize the pretty!💞
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“Who/What causes you to lose allure?”
If you don’t like cussing, sorry. Your future isn’t guaranteed and we don’t have time to wait for the perfect moment.
The Who’s
Negative bitches. Negative bitches can come in the form of mothers, relatives, besties, and acquaintances. In some cases, they can be well intentioned, but they’ll never understand your lifestyle choices if they aren’t in it themselves. Negative bitches will make you shoot yourself in the foot through sabotage, feeding you doubt through the guise of “caring about you”, and talk about how they never did that and they’re still fine. They want to throw you off track so they won’t feel embarrassed or left behind.
Uninspired persons. The people who want to grow with you by attaching themselves to your hip, and literally copying everything you do. If you do 100 jumping jacks in the morning, they’ll do 101 and take credit for it first if they succeed.
Level up buddies that gave up on leveling up. When you’re on your journey or generally growing your independence, you’ll realize that you can’t afford what you always want to do and staying in your current position ain’t getting you nowhere. Having colleagues that became complacent isn’t helpful to you or them, so dissociate or send them packing.
Comfort zone friends. Comfort zone friends can be the same as negative bitches, except they can become proactive if they view you as a mutual, instead of as a frenemy. Comfort zone friends can also be childhood friends, relationships that you run back to when they ran their course, acquaintances, and placeholders.
Comparison heauxs. The name is literally their description: bitter heauxs that always feel the need to compare themselves and you to their/your progress. They always try to humble you but copy your habits at the same time since they can’t trust themselves.
Unsolicited advisors. Unsolicited advisors like giving advice and comparing their progress at your age to theirs. Their desired results are attention, praise and appreciation for unwanted advice, but I ask if they want a cookie for giving an opinion no one cared about. If they’re people you can’t avoid, ask them questions that have no benefit to your mission.
The What’s
Telling your business on the first visit.
Exposing your routines, private life.
Telling your favorite habits [to heaux’s that’ll switch up on you if given a chance]. If you love singing and the heaux is mad at you, guess what? Your voice sucks and you sound like a dying goat. Love your pretty nose? Guess what’s being attacked first in a fight.
Telling your plans to anyone who’ll listen.
Taking advice from people TO HEART who haven’t experienced what you do. It’s taking medicine you don’t need, but convinced yourself enough that you’re sick. My confidence is the highest it’s been, and I now understand why low esteem people would take advice or criticism from people who’d never liked them.
Giving up after you put in the work required, because “your plan said I could do this in 6 months” but it’s 6.1 months later.
Revealing who you are to someone who didn’t put in the work to know you.
Living for other people.
Living through other people.
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Increase Your Pretty Privilege
💎 Know your beauty. Matching the beauty standard won’t make you beautiful. I’m phasing out my basic straight & body wave wigs for kinky straight that match my hair texture.
🤍 Other’s beauty doesn’t detract from yours.
💍 Decrease your social media consumption. Social media can make you feel ugly when no one else views you that way.
💎 Spend as little as possible for the greatest of good. I don’t mean be cheap, but shop around for the best price you can find.
💍 Make your beauty benefit you. When your self esteem is low and you’re all dressed up, it can feel like others are taking it for granted.
💎 Use your color analysis religiously. I purposely wore a nail color that makes a gorgeous contrast on my skin and earned numerous compliments.
💍 Worry about yourself instead of factors you can’t control. If you step out in the world worried about how others will perceive you or whether anyone will remember the time you forgot deodorant, you might as well lock yourself in your room. Stop caring about what doesn’t serve you.
💎 Lay your stake. Being 100% nice to your detriment will drain the life and energy out of you before 40% stern will. You will be respected more.
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Beauty is not free, never feel ashamed for charging admission.
MAXIMIZE THE PRETTY! 💋
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Makings Of A Simp
Simp is slang for a guy that’s overly submissive and “too nice” to the woman they like. It’s also used as an insult from feminine men and dusties who expect women to put in equal or more work since they have a natural “advantage” with their P. If we go outside and touch grass, simps are abundant in real life situations.
He HAS to like you much, much more than you like him. A mutual attraction isn’t proof enough.
Generosity/provider. Their money is just as green if they drive a Toyota instead of a Mercedes. They don’t feel attached to their money/net worth since they don’t measure their esteem to a numerical value. Their self worth is measured by your happiness!
Unashamed of pining for you in front of others
His intentions are shown through actions, not words.
Wants to make your life easier, not harder.
Has nothing to gain except your attention, respect & happiness. Sees you as a woman with feelings first, not only your P.
Doesn’t need to be told [how] to pursue you.
Will put in as much effort as it takes when competition’s abound. Simps sleep well at night
Respects boundaries. If you don’t have any feelings towards them, they’ll gradually distance themselves instead of leaving you high and dry.
Knows attention isn’t free. They show how serious they are through their work ethic, plans, and putting your needs before theirs.
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Cats Don’t Chase Dogs
Disclaimer: I’ve never read the book. My title happens to be the same.
It’s a lot more special when I’m able to capture my cat’s attention than my dogs. No matter what I do, he’s always begging for my attention when my cats can’t stand my attention. I say this because it’s easy as a young woman, to go with the flow and be the cat chasing the dog when other relationships in your life are like that.
Every time I get one of my cat’s attention, I cherish it. If they sit in my lap, it’s really a special experience.
Be the elusive cat.
You aren’t hurting the “dog’s” feelings if you start running once you get his attention. Being into being chased than the chaser activates their innate ability to pursue and gives them motivation believing they have a chance of winning you.
For example, if the dog locks its eyes on you and says, “hey mrs.,” you’re not going to say hey sexy/hot stuff or “I’m your misses?!”! You’d react on the same wavelength or lesser, in a classy way. Practice a sweet, feminine tone with songs by crooning singers, or songs that utilize the vibration of your bottom OR top of your vocal cords.
The cat is not surprised or impressed with being chased.
Keep your excitement contained to yourself by taking deep breaths, if you feel excited at all. It’s no surprise someone finds you alluring!
The cat always keeps the dog on his toes.
Never give away your secrets because you were cornered or barked at.
If you tell the dog the reason why he SHOULD chase you, you just sold fantasy you to the lowest bidder.
The cat never tells the dog to chase her.
It can feel unnatural at first to turn your back on a pursuer, but do it anyway.
The cat doesn’t care if she loses the dog's attention! It’s not her responsibility to maintain the dog’s attention or ask how she’s doing in keeping his attention. There’s nothing more attractive than being self assured.
There’s nothing wrong with feeling special and paying more attention to your appearance, either! Treat yourself how others should treat you. It’s no one’s job to build you up, not even your family’s. You don’t need your family’s permission to date upwards!
When the cat wants to surprise the dog, her actions are purposeful, meaning you’re not making physical contact for the sake of touching.
You are not starved for attention! Never ever say to anyone or yourself that no one has ever noticed you and how amazing of a partner you can be!
Once you say how you’re never anything, you’re opening yourself up for manipulation.
You are not going to chase the dog.
It’s unnatural and emasculating to a masculine man to initiate physical contact and heavily flirt with him. The dog may think you have issues and back up.
You are not going to persuade the dog to act like a cat.
You are not going to give free passes to the dog to capture you.
By free passes, you’re not going to dedicate an ounce of your mind to wondering if the dog really likes you and whether he’ll escalate the chase. You are not afraid or worried about losing anyone’s attention.
Those who are interested show interest. Write out all of your emotions uncensored when the chase scatters your nerves.
After you’ve been elusive and allowed the dog in closer OR to claim you, allow friendly competition.
You’re a knockout, and as a knockout, many guys will be ruthless in getting you to lose interest with this guy who looks smitten with you! Meaning, they’re going to target the dog’s self esteem and wallet (since you look so expensive!!) by blatantly flirting with you and paying for you.
💖Maximize the Pretty!💖
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Boys Falling For Me Fall
September-October 2023 Digest
This advice isn’t for beginners! After researching how I could maximize my features (as a disclaimer), I realized they were considerably attractive but my esteem made me overlook that, so I cannot give accurate advice like I used to. This very early fall has had shaved head guys fixing their hair for me, and stop telling your momma or family what goes on in your [aspiring] pretty privileged life.
General
August 2023 Digest
I’m a Gold Digger!!!
Being A Betty in a Sea of Pickme’s
A Betty is a babe, attractive woman.
The 411 on Personas
Level Up Past Your Pickme and/or Insecure Family
Asks
My B Cup Bimbo Flirtation Methods (My persona seriously changed my entire outlook on life.)
My Daily Exercise Regimen!!
Model Persona Masterpost
My Daily Soft-core P0rnstar Makeup
My Bimbocore Eye Makeup!
Makeup & Skincare for Attraction
Becoming Pretty Privileged If You’re Seriously Ugly
Dealing With Jealousy
Betty Tips
Refuse Hi Maintenance Advice From Low-no Maintenance Ppl
Wandering Around Prettily
Juicy AF Lip Routine
The Skinny on my B Cup Bimbo Persona* (don’t feel drawn to this persona anymore, will upload it as is)
Laying Grandeur on THICC
Earring Styles for Oval & Oblong Faces
Ascending To My Persona
Spa Pretty & Finesse
15 Minute Facial
Budget Lip Blushing
Radiant Body Polish (repurposed from xiahongshu)
Finesse: Cheap Fragrance
Finesse: Beauty Supply Body Oil
Finesse: Cheap Palettes
Budget Body Washes That’ll Pass The Hot Test
Personal
(9/02/23-9/09/23)
Beverages Around the World To Try
My FAVORITE Daily Eye Look (no more than 2-4 colors!!)
**like only instead of reblogging for updated links!!
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Pretty Privilege Tips 101
Acknowledging your pretty privilege is simply not acknowledging it. Your pretty privilege is as natural as breathing.
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Acknowledge pretty privilege is ALL about your appearance. Only your appearance because that’s what people see first. I call it the Cinderella and evil stepsisters factor. I’m excused more often, tipped, receive better treatment, etc. due to my looks.
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Cultivate your pretty privilege efficiently to gain more pretty privileged perks. I could always say “eat healthy & exercise!!” as a blanket statement, but that’s SO easy to say with anonymity and an oxymoron since I have a box of Ritz bits in my lap.
Eat when you can & what you crave in moderation, find a fun exercise regimen and hobby to practice, start enjoying your life.
I found my new method of exercising by gardening since it doesn’t feel like exercise! I dug my first hole in the ground for an apple tree a couple of months ago, and I really enjoyed it, so I dug 3 more.
Appearance-wise, make your own challenges for your face and body such as creating themed shower days such as mango mai tai Mondays, Old Hollywood Wednesdays or New Jeans cookie (I have a speaker for my bath) scrub. For my facial care, I always visualize myself preparing for an event, because I am an event.
You are your own goddess.
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Stop acknowledging opinions about pretty privilege that hold no weight to you. “It’s all about pleasing the patriarchy, you’re only a pretty face, men use you and you don’t even know, once you gain weight you’re just like us,” blah, blah, blah.
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If you’re in denial about your pretty privilege, suck it up. Far too many people waste their time concerned about what they do and don’t have.
Prepare for the benefits and consequences you may face being pretty.
“A man being rich is like a girl being pretty!”
In contrast to the feminine energy posts you may read, you need to man up and put in your dental guard. It is more difficult being pretty privileged if you equate it to being aligned in your femininity.
Find out your tricks and trades. Are you a walking siren? To find out your natural disposition, you don’t need to search too hard. If you’re having trouble, you could be hiding your true beliefs due to the opinions of other people or denying your disposition since an article or test said it’s “uncommon”.
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Your seesaw is on top. In any situation, your benefit is the priority.
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Own your pretty. You can feel yourself resisting what you really want to do because of judgment from society. Let the inner woman out!
Flirting should be casual conversation to you, but with your eyes and less words. Many women think flirting with someone they barely like means they share the same attraction with them when I view it as a king of the hill game. Flirt for sport and with yourself!
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Flaunt your attractiveness. Being an apex predator is leaving out weaknesses and self-doubt. If I know I’m the most attractive person I’ve seen, everyone else knows I need a worthy opponent to challenge me.
You need to be on top of situations to gauge your options. A realistic proportion I have is for every 2 things that go right, 1 thing can be wrong and so on. You shouldn’t overwork yourself to project perfection since it doesn’t exist.
Actually have fun.
Most people know how to look like they’ve had fun instead of having fun. Fun is when you don’t care what anyone thinks at the moment or looking back.
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Peacock. Wear your feathers vividly and without shame. Bitter & jealous people want you to paint your feathers to match theirs. Don’t!
Be Luxury, Live Luxury.
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Leveling Up Past Your Insecure &/or Pick Me Family
Guess what? Your family will always move the goalpost until they benefit from or experience what you seek. This is mostly for women who are unable to move out, too young (18+), and cannot afford to distance themselves for sanity, causing a power struggle or an uncomfortable house.
For some of you, if you absorbed every bit of advice your family or friends gave you, you wouldn’t be on this page, still pick me-ish, unmotivated, just not where you saw yourself being. Throw your hands up to their woes and tune them OUT. If I listened to bad advice, I would’ve been on the couch all summer with Cheetos, in bed all day, a pick me arguing with a trash bf and masculine minded.
Stop it right now telling anyone other than you and trusted people your goals. The goalpost will be moved by insecure people. People who constantly use “but I don’t”, “but I didn’t” will trip you up and leave you confused on your ass. Just because they may seem like authority from age and experience, it doesn’t mean they’re smarter than you.
Toxic, dysfunctional and generally unhappy people will use your goals and standards against you until their last sunset.
Everyone tells you to move in silence to the point it sounds cliche, but it’s pertinent to remember to shut your mouth because your wishes and new routines will not be appreciated or admired unless it benefits THEM.
Don’t EVER give up a dime of your profit from leveling up because you feel forced or encouraged to. Negative, tacky low esteem people will always move the goalpost and have their hand out for more. Giving away money only benefits the person taking it since there was no service done in your benefit.
🚨 If your purpose for leveling up is to become Captain Save-A-Hoe, LEAVE. I am NOT doing that. You’re going back to being a pick me and square 1 by submitting to family who may wish for you to do well, but to their level. At a point, getting a job will be less thankless than leveling up to give your family money.🚨
This is very different from taking care of incapacitated people, the elderly, ill or people who CANNOT work, and people who require constant care or children because they cannot help themselves. Don’t misconstrue my words on purpose.
Do not be a slave to able bodied, competent people because they will use and abuse your kindness. Do not give to family or friends with frivolous spending habits. It’s “fine” to share with able bodied others, but that shouldn’t be your overall goal. Pour well into your cup before others.
Check your family if you cannot leave. Negative people will always move the goalpost, whether you appeal to them or not, and your appeal will not be appreciated.
Check them like a Nike shoe. I was taken aback when I was told I should’ve exercised early in the summer to look better before school, BUT when I began walking 4mi a day a few weeks before school, I’m told 4mi is TOO MUCH and SO UNNECESSARY for a young person! You need to eat more instead! Like wtf?? You can verify yourself that 10k steps a day is acceptable, and once I did what I said, it was suddenly unnecessary.
Now that my legs look great and I normally walk a lot, I’ll tell someone who wishes for my leg tone that I despise their attitude, it makes me gag b/c I told & shown what I do. Leading by example and not reflecting their attitude back is a cleaner way of checking attitudes.
Give them the exact treatment back if you dare, but not by stooping their level, or let them grovel until they realize they don’t make sense. Another option is to be altruistic and give advice but that’s the very last resort since it can backfire. Lead by EXAMPLE.
Stay 2-3 steps ahead of criticism and let your confidence shine.
If you always share your plans, the goalpost moves and you’ll never measure up.
Contrary to popular belief, don’t pummel your family when they are down because you and your feedback will be remembered and referenced to in the future.
Don’t move the goalpost on them, this method does not progress anyone. It’s not what you say or how you said it, it’s how you made them feel. Also, they might not see it as an insult like you do and as a way you’re coming back to your “roots”.
Lastly, some may be more empathetic to your plight and respectfully disagree or be open to learning from observation.
Maximize the pretty, not stress!!! 💖
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5 Things to Come to Terms With For Pretty Privilege, No Sugarcoating!
1. Your purpose/reasoning.
To fully acknowledge your beauty and its effects, the sooner you can manage it.
I had to stop convincing myself it’s a one-off occurrence and everyone experiences it, because it’s not true.
My purpose is to level up, work for myself without worrying about finances, and just being able to buy & live how I want, without sacrifice!
Identify yours.
💎💎 Beauty is a vehicle, be a fully loaded one!! 💎💎
2. The scary effects.
Overt beauty, like money and power, brings the best and worst out of people.
I no longer go out at night alone unless it’s to the neighborhood store because people are insane.
Your spatial awareness needs to be up to par.
You can pretend to be naive to its effects, if you are, until you have to be identified by a family member.
3. ✨✨ Having to toughen up. ✨✨
Wandering around bright eyed and bushy tailed will put the largest bounty on you.
If you’re already wearing your head on a swivel, you need 2 more heads.
Emotions will greatly intensify in your presence, so people will go out of their way to humble you, embarrass you publicly, take advantage and generally take you down a few notches because you’re a threat.
Being called a bitch, ugly, whore and shallow mean nothing to me.
😍 Bitch = beautiful, good on you for noticing! 😍
When you look really good and know it, there will be public displays of hatred & jealousy and times you’ll be uncomfortable by women trying to claim their significant other’s by making out in your airspace, announcing they’re taken, acting jealous and the like.
Form thicker skin, read between the lines, value your opinions over others, find others who can relate and level up your mindset to stay ahead.
4. ✨ Intelligence being your powerhouse. ✨ Being a beauty queen + speaking as such = muah 💋💋 that’s peak hotness to me!
Education, well roundedness, and intelligence reflects in how you carry yourself.
People enjoy assuming beautiful people are lacking in brawn to make themselves feel better.
In my required speech class, my professor coached a pageant queen, then I took a Dale Carnegie class for professional speaking!
If you can find a DC class, public speaking, and improv, enroll!
5. Not stressing out due to your pretty privilege!
I’m wholly aware of the dangers, as well as the life changing benefits since the same dangers could arise if I was on the opposite end.
Viewing pretty privilege as a lifestyle enhancer will help you enjoy it!
I CHOOSE to enjoy my pretty privilege and love the enhanced version of my life!
Choose to enjoy makeup routines!
Choose to enjoy your privilege! I choose me!
💖 Choose you, and maximize the pretty! 💖
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How I Stay Motivated to Exercise
Pavlov’s Dog Experiment
Simply put, if I’m on the treadmill actively walking/running, that’s the only time I can watch a makeup tutorial.
When the treadmill is paused, the video is paused.
I conditioned myself to associate active videos with the treadmill running.
If I cross 10k steps and the video is almost done, I’ll finish it out sitting down, or else, I’m done for the day!
💖Maximize the pretty!!💖
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