#my emotional support wille
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real facts so true
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Most people really don't seem to understand that friendship is a two-way street.
They expect you to wait on them hand and foot as they rant about and constantly pour on you either their issues or their passions and when you finally have something you'd like to talk about you get a "Man that sucks :/" or a "Cool" in return.
Find somebody who doesn't do that. Then you'll have your best friend.
#i know i ramble sometimes and i'm extremely grateful that my best friend puts up with it :')#but see then in return i do the same for her because it would be completely unfair for me to expect her to act like a wall for me to talk a#or when i wanna show her something and i can tell she's being polite and it doesn't personally strike her fancy I MOVE ON#and she does the same for me and we have way frickin better communication and we have a frickin rad friendship#it's give and take#and also can we bring back the idea of being able to work through some things on your own?#like i am ALL FOR having a support system that can encourage you when things go wrong but some things can be solved on your own#i shouldn't be bearing the burden of figuring out your life for you you know?#i'm absolutely willing to help but if you're just going to spend all your time complaining to me and never ever take my advice#then there comes a point at which i'm literally just acting as your therapist and that's not how friendships are supposed to work#i've become kind of the designated therapist in a lot of friendships throughout my life#and it is exhausting constantly being complained at (sometimes over very minor things)#only to have that person or people COMPLETELY ignore your advice every single time you try to give it#that's not friendship my dude that's using me because you just want someone to complain to#like i said. support system good. treating your friend like an emotional punching bag to let out your problems 24/7 very very bad.#like when i was feeling completely unlike myself and irritated and frustrated for three dang years straight#i didn't really talk about it much because i knew it wasn't the kind of thing advice was going to fix#so i wasn't in the discord servers every two seconds “MAN I REALLY JUST DON'T FEEL GOOD :///”#because when other people do this to me there comes a point at which i'm like “WHAT DO YOU WANT ME TO DO ABOUT IT”#like i've given you all the advice i have and you have taken absolutely none of it nor have you taken any action on your own#so now i'm just here to make you feel better about yourself and that's really not my job#emotional support is necessary. patting you on the head when you refuse to do anything to better your situation is not.#tl;dr people who refuse to do anything to better their situation other than complain to ME about it 24/7 drive me nuts#and it drives other people nuts so please don't do it to anyone#don't bottle up your emotions but also don't let them come crashing down and drown everyone you know#just because you can't be bothered to put ANY effort forth to contain them#emotional regulation is attractive~~~#society today has built such a culture of “it's not YOUR fault and if you cry about it hard enough someone will fix it for you” like no sir#sometimes it IS your fault and sometimes you DO need to take responsibility#and if it is your fault then absolutely no one but you is obligated to fix it
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it does NOT surprise me that there are SO MANY tabloid movies coming out being labelled as "documentaries" filled with "friend of a friend of a friend" claims or like heavily, heavily, heavily biased with a clear narrative the filmmaker wanted to push from the beginning that tells only one possible explanation of the truth.
usually if a documentary is trying really, really, really, really hard to make you think a certain way, it's a propaganda piece. you shouldn't have to force feed your audience the "right" opinion to take away from the film evidence. you should present the full story as accurately as possible with real historical evidence to back up the storyline and the audience will walk away with the right idea.
documentaries should not have an overly persuasive tone to them because you should be able to follow the facts to get to the right answer yourself. if you find yourself walking away from a documentary feeling nothing but "wow this proves exactly what i suspected to be true why arent more people angry about niche radicalizing viewpoint that most people find to be inaccurate" you should recognize that as the first step to being indoctrinated into extremist behaviors and thoughts.
#if someone starts telling me about how much they love watching documentaries and its all super emotional hit pieces on bad celebrities#im like BIG yikes and i stay clear from them emotionally like no fucking thank you#i am a snob about documentaries sorry and i have no idea if im right in my thinking i just think this is how it should be imo#yall should walk away from a documentary understanding how someone can come to the wrong conclusion about something#because the documentary should always present the opposing view point in as sympathetic light as possible#steel man the argument then use facts to demolize it#if a documentary about a controversial or political issue#documentaries that lie manipulate rely on emotional support rather thana factual support are bad imo#because it often radicalizes people to the wrong side once they find the steal man argument against ur position#there is a reason people believe certain things#for example my terfs are lying about the original definition of woman argument post#in it i accept the possibility that woman could be defined this way only if u insist on denying factual history#i explicitly state woman was a white female child because it forces well meaning terfs to investigate the truth of my claim#and it forces them to confront the fact that their argument against trans women can be applied to people they think are in fact real women#you have to be willing to engage with repulsive ideas to show why they're factually incorrect.#im not saying the tone has to be completely passive but you have to be FACTUAL with your documentaries.#i am genuinely of the opinion that the facts will convince anyone because all people just want to be right at the end of the day.
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Hey hey! I’m exhausted TwT BUT this exists, and I had 7 planned and pre-written already, just need to do edits and warnings, SO yay!!! But I also dropped off the face of the earth bc of Fatigue, so that’s great. Whoops. BUT hey I’m trying my best, and I might come in a little late but I do want to finish this and I’m gonna try even if it ends up late ^^ Why win a race when you’re enjoying the flowers on the side of the track?
Anyway. We’re focusing on Cheri for a change! This is probably a few years before Cheri meets Volo again, and a few months after getting back home from Hisui. He’s like 17-18 here, and as his body is maturing, so are his abilities. Which is VERY not fun when one of them is the ability to feel exactly what others are feeling and he doesn’t know how to turn it off. Poor guy :(
Warnings: lashing out at loved ones, emotional hurt/no comfort (despite people being there who very much want to provide comfort), caretaker makes it worse?? Sort of??? Also whumpee being scared to leave their room, not sure if that needs a warning but. Yeah I’m gonna warn on that anyway
6: Dizziness
Ana’s at the door again. “Cheri? You okay in there?”
Concern filters through the air, filling his head, and he lets out a low groan, burying his face under the blanket. “Leave me alone.”
“Please, just tell us what’s wrong.”
Another two sets of feelings joins the mix.
Worry, concern, fear, merging together, and he curls up tighter.
“We want to help,” Keyo murmurs, Sprigs meowing through the door in agreement. “Please let us help.”
So much worry is flooding him and he doesn’t know how to stop it.
The ability is both old and new. Ever since evolving, he had gotten better at reading people, better at understanding their intentions. He’d thought it was intuition at first.
But now he knows.
It was an ability, one that hadn’t yet fully matured.
He still hasn’t fully mastered it yet. Other people’s feelings crash through his body, and he wants to scream.
“You want to help? I’ll tell you what’ll help- go away!! And take Sprigs with you!”
He doesn’t want to be so harsh.
But he’s scared.
Being overwhelmed with his own emotions can mess with his head, knock him off balance, to the point where his other abilities will lash out even if he doesn’t want them to. He’s not sure if it’ll happen with other people’s feelings too.
He’s scared.
Pain, emotional pain as he dismisses the others so harshly, and he chokes back a sob.
He feels so much. He feels so much. It’s dizzying, feeling so many sets of feelings aside from his own.
“..I’m leaving food at the door,” Ana says. “Please come out and tell us what’s wrong when you can.”
And after a few moments, they leave, the intensity of the feelings leaving with them.
But he’s still crying.
Please come back. I just want things to be normal.
They can’t be normal. I can’t turn it off.
I’m so alone, so alone, it’s my own fault, I don’t want to be alone-
I can’t subject them to this. I don’t want to hurt them, I’m so terrified of hurting them.
He curls up tighter, squeezing the pillow to his chest.
I just want to be normal again. I never asked for this.
#🤍cheri#🤍keyo#🔥ana#pokémon whump#whumpril2024#whumprilday6#whumpril#emotional hurt no comfort#caretaker makes it worse#it feels. SO strange calling my guys whumpees ngl#bad stuff happens to them yeah and technically they are but that’s not the only thing they are??#like. idk they All hold each other and they also All get hurt#like. eclipse is the only one I can really completely classify and not have it feel weird#not sure why#anyway Cheri’s fine he figures his abilities out eventually#he has to expose himself to other emotions to get it figured out but he figures it out and things get easier#and he’s able to turn that curse into a blessing later#but yeah poor guy’s magic puberty basically is a pain in the ass#also he and his siblings are VERY close btw. he would normally never push them away like this#so both of them are like ???? 🥺 rn#same goes for his Pokémon he pushed all of them away too#luckily he has a good supportive family who were willing to help and understand <3
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#BIG DAY FOR THE GIRLS(GN)!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!#I have to go write a midterm but later will watch my emotional support Roman Empire arsenal at ch*lsea 2020 match fjsnfnsncmg#and bday brownie for iftar god willing 🧎♀️
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NILLE FOREVER (as bros)
“What if - what if. What if we make people think we got off with each other at the next party. So you get to come out, and I get to stop having people treat me like I’ve gotten over my gay phase. Win-win scenario,” Wille rushes out in one breath, blotches rushing to his cheeks as soon as he suggests it.
read my nille fic on ao3 🤭
#my fic!#this is so unhinged lmao#nille as bros being hoes#wille thought simon has moved on 🥲 and is just being a good bro#i will never be over nils saying being queer is ‘their thing’ !!! them!!!#also can we talk about how wille has no white friends sksksk i love him#i don’t know is this how boys interact but this is 100% how i interact with my emotional support white boys so#lived experience i guess hehe#this time last year i keep giving wille gaysian besties!!!#and s2 delivered!!!#love that for me!!!#this is set after felice gate and before the ball#young royals season 2#young royals fanfiction#also look at edvin’s hand on samuel’s inner thigh… boys wtf
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my crush broke up with her partner specifically because she's allo and they're ace, so that's fun
#I'm admittedly being uncharitable in my description here#because like the reason I thought I might act on this crush was because she was trying polyamory to make it work#and had tried an open relationship before that#before finally accepting that there was just no way for it to work#so then here I am trying to support my friend through their breakup while internally having my own emotional breakdown#learning that even if your're sex favorable and even if your allo partner is willing to try non monogamy#asexuality in and of itself can be an insurmountable barrier for an otherwise great relationship#🙃
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life sure does come at you fast
#not /another/ music room fight 😩 my lil heart barely survived the first one 🥺#not simon getting his heartbroken by wille (again) and then going to rosh and ayub for advice (/again/)#all these happen the same day and you cant convince me otherwise#simon in the 2nd pic is def having flashbacks to when he asked if they didn't want wille to see him anymore and wille said he wouldn't let#that happen#before he went and denied the video#wille going from hopeful with his lil smile in the first pic to fucking up the music room is gonna make me cry#life comes at you fast#glad to see that simon still has rosh and ayub as a support system even if they weren't /actually/ in the trailer#they definitely pulled up to hillerska on their scooters once school was done bc simon texted them about his convo with wille#or maybe they were going to check on him anyway since they know being around wille again would be hard#they really experienced the entire human range of emotion in that one day huh#yr s2 spoilers#young royals season 2 spoilers#young royals#my yr thoughts#late night yr
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My video production professor has once again given me feedback that is so nice and so what I needed to hear that I am crying a little bit
#ej.txt#he told me my recent project was at the same level as the pro 4 students (I’m only in pro 2 cause it’s my minor)#and he said he is willing to give me more challenging assignments if I want to try to progress as much as possible before I graduate#and also he told me to stop calling myself pretentious and to take myself seriously as a filmmaker#in other words he’s so cool and nice and I love him. emotional support millennial.
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sending lots of hugs your way :''3
Thanks, i really needed those. The shock is starting to wear off and i'm getting more and more... emotional :"D How...do they expect us to enjoy this week's Gojo episode when Gege pulled this in the manga. I didn't like to admit it but i did have a soft spot for him, damnit.
#I'm sorry but yeah i'm lowkey tearing up over him now too#re-reading his flashback sequence and getting to the point where he waves Goodbye..#I just can't#i can't hold back the tears when i get to that part..#It's stupid to cry over fictional characters i know but something about stories and becoming so well-immersed in them is beautiful#These characters act as a sort of friend and emotional support for many people around the world#and although Gojo may have not been mine i still adored him to a very big extent#I was willing to see Sukuna get smacked around for 10-11 chapters for the ending of the fight to be satisfying and to NOT have it end on#Gojo's death ; especially the brutal way he had to go; Gege really did not pull back any punches ; This was the most unexpected thing.#i'm still lowkey hoping gojo makes a binding vow ;sacrificing his limitless+6 eyes in return for getting his body healed up and to- SURVIV#That would be a great way to keep him around please Gege just..don't let him die like this..His kids need him.#Nerf him Sure ; Make him second to Sukuna in terms of being the strongest but don't actually kill him off like that ah :')#I guess this means that Gojo is my no.2 Favourite character in JJK i can't really deny it anymore#ooc#answered ask#thanks for asking!#<3 hugs for you too incase you're suffering too
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slowly (once again) coming to the realisation how little my parents actually care about me. diasppointed to report it doesn't hurt any less the nth time around
#any time i show signs of distress and am in need of help? they turn/walk away to leave me to deal with it on my own#to snap out of my 'dramatics' and be normal again. just like they've always done as long as i can remember#no wonder i automatically repress it to the point of forgetting. until something puts me in a vulnerable position again#and the cycle repeats and repeats and repeats and repeats#i cannot expect any type of emotional support or care from my parents. this is a fact. they cannot give it. they have shown that they cannot#like yes i get a roof over my head and food to eat and other basics (for a monthly fee) but nothing beyond it#this is how it is. i cannot change them. i cannot make them care beyond the bare minimum#brain demons say i demand too much. am too high maintenance and should be happy with what they are willing to provide#but my brain demons are evil little bitches. but also i cannot trust myself. no gut instinct in this meatsuit
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Deadly combination of two ppl living together is one person who never wants to make their mental illness symptoms somebody else’s problem, even when they really should be making it somebody else’s problem bc they need help, and the other person is someone who will not stop making their mental illness symptoms everyone else’s problem regardless of the consequences
#y’all I’ve HAD IT lmao#trying to be helpful and maintain boundaries at the same#time is exhausting#this bitch doesn’t even knock on my bedroom door before she walks in tho so wtf am I saying about boundaries tbh#like also I’m still not over having been parentification by her as a child so it’s like#sorry mom I cannot shoulder your new emotional burden today. I do hope you feel better tho#she always gets upset that I’m not willing to listen to her problems#read: she will walk up and just start venting for 40 min without checking in or anything#and if I get upset about it I’m the bad guy#she’s like well shouldn’t our relationship be equal#which actually just means why am I not willing to be her sole source of emotional support which. jesus#but also. like no you’re my mom!!! it was never going to be 100% equal bc you’re the parent! in case you’ve forgotten!!#also she’s terrible at listening to me talk about my problems so???#but she says it’s bc I get offended too easily#which idk man she just says stupid shit when I’m upset and I get so overstimulated that it’s rlly easy for it to send me into a meltdown#I know I’m not easy to help sometimes like I get it!#I’m very aware#she just feels. so entitled to my time and space and energy and ALWAYS has. since I was a child.#but she seems to think shes p much OWED that bc she pays some of my expenses#idk man. I’m tired#vent#personal
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gay?????
"its more like two stray cats that now cant be adopted separately..."
#SOOOOOO HAPPY HE GOT THIS ASK CUZ HONESTLY I THINK HIS REALATIONSHIP IS THE MOST IMPORTANT ONE IN THE STORY AND IM NOT JOKING#fellas is it gay to be a dude who lives with another dude in a way that is platonic but also you are each others emotional support systems#and this relationship (platonic) is so important to you that you are willing to literally follow each other to the ends of the earth?#anyways. yeah they r my favorites. and yall havent even seen Ced yet hes so unhinged. WOOOOOOOO#dakanswers
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I want Mike, Will, and Jonathon to break into Nina or whatever, steal a bunch of guns, learn that the big bad this time is literally just some guy so they can just shoot him up and set him on fire with Argyles lighter simultaneously until his stupid human body gives out and as they stare at the body we get the classic shot of “people looking at things”
#alternatively looping back to my other post: Wills in the upside down again gets the shot gun from the shed and blows Henry’s head off#I’m sorry but it’d be so funny#max and Lucas are also there like >:/ and :0 respectively#i just think it’d be humbling for the pretentious asshole that is Vecna#stranger things#will byers#mike wheeler#jonathan byers#yes I know I spell his name wrong in posts idc#Jane is hugging hopper and getting emotional support from Joyce this entire time btw#byler#they kiss in the blood raining down on them
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@cxnvicts :D
#jhgfdfghj#;sir this is my emotional support cringefail gacha game protagonist. (ooc)#⛓️YOU’RE A RISK I’M WILLING TO TAKE BUT MY HEAD IS TELLING ME THERE’S TOO MUCH AT STAKE. (cxnvicts / chameleon)
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havin another one of those nights where i'm getting real emotional over all of you giving this little freak of a muse a chance
#i've gained a surprising number of new mutuals over the last few weeks and i'm just. baffled every time someone follows me lmao#but byan is lowkey my emotional support knife child & weirdly kind of a comfort muse so i'm just!! so so grateful to everyone who's here#and everyone who's willing to write with them. and everyone who gets as excited about our threads/plots as i do ;u;#and!! everyone who reads my headcanons!! and just engages with this pest in any way!!!#NOT TO BE CHEESY ON MAIN BUT I LOVE YOU GUYS OK#ok i'm gonna go sit back down and try to get more of these memes done i just needed to express that again it's been a while lmao#♡♡♡♡#━━ ˟ ⊰ ✰ OOC ⋮ DON’T @ ME.
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