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dino-boyo-agere · 4 months
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Hey little one!
Oh, you had a bad day? I'm really sorry to hear that.
There's no need to apologize, sweetheart. It's okay to cry. It's okay to be upset, just let it all out.
You wanna hug baba? That's right, it's okay.
Look, baba got your favorite plushie! Let's hug them too, as tight as we can, yeah?
Do you want baba to put more pressure on your body? Wrap you up tight in my arms?
You don't have to be sorry, it's okay. I love you. I love you so much.
Thank you for trusting me. I'll hold you till you feel better.
I'm not going anywhere, I'm here for you.
Baba is always going to be here for you, darling.
You're so lovable. You're worth the world. You're my world, little one.
I'm here with you. Yes, and with plushie.
Oh, was that a giggle? No? It's okay, you can giggle and still be sad. You can giggle and still cry. Feelings are complicated. But we got this.
You got this. And I got you.
You're so brave. I'm proud of you. Dealing with all those big feelings.
Baba is so proud!
.゚。.・.*.゚☆❗only interact if your blog is SFW❗☆ ゚.*.・. 。゚.
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puppys-tiny-space · 4 months
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🖍️Tips for tinies that struggle with hypersexuality🖍️
First of all it is completely valid and fine to struggle with hypersexuality while regressed or before regressing. This can be for any number of reasons and all of them are okay! It does not make you any less valid or precious. You deserve healing, love and gentleness. I will also be making a post for affirmations to deal with impure regression and hypersexuality.
🧮stop regressing if you need to, if intrusive thoughts or feelings get too much stop regressing, take a break from it, clear your head and calm down🧮
🧃do affirmations, remind yourself that you are precious, your regression is healing, you are clean and deserving of love🧃
🖍️avoid triggers, if you know what triggers hypersexuality try to avoid them extra hard while small, if it is not having close skin contact, not wearing tight close or whatever🖍️
🧮don't be shy to cope, cope however you need to, let out your painful feelings, scream, break things, run or write whatever helps you let it out do it🧮
🧃do not act on it, do not act on intrusive thoughts or feelings no matter how much you think it might help it won't, it won't make them go away it will make it worse🧃
🖍️journal, journal about your feelings, about what hurts and what helps, build skills that work for you, they don't have to be what other people do, it is your healing and nobody else's🖍️
🧃talk it trough, talk about your feelings with somebody, be it a therapist or somebody you trust, you deserve a safe space🧃
🧮teach yourself, teach yourself you do not need to do sexual things to deserve love and kindness, you have a right to gentleness and to being fragile, you don't have to be pure to be loved🧮
🖍️don't compare yourself, comparing yourself with others is never a good idea especially not with this, it might feel like you are alone with this issue but you are not, others struggle with it but most regressors don't talk about it as it's a very personal thing🖍️
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Fun fact of the day: you can tell the difference between rocks and fossils by licking them
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lemonys-place · 9 months
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idk who the frick thought the term impure regression was nice but it's incorrect. that sounds so dumb. oooh you're sad or experiencing smth less than positive while regressing or its triggering your regression?? "oo that's impure cos everyone knows regression is only happy silly fun colors good time and not at all a very common COPING MECHANISM and therapeutic tool" /s (it is not and never has been only joy and good and silly, and it has always been a coping mechanism and it isn't even voluntary for some people!!!)
Regression exists on a spectrum, you can experience it in a variety of ways, there is no Pure way to regress. that's ridiculous and puts the unnecessary connotation of Good and Bad on people who are just trying to cope or get out of their head or don't even mean to regress at all.
NONE of my regression is impure regardless of the reason I'm regressing. when I'm sad and crying and hugging a stuffed animal or can't even hug a stuffie because I'm so upset or when I feel scared and small and need to hide a bit, I'm still regressed and there's nothing impure or less or wrong about it.
do not try to make certain regressions seem better than others, do not make regressors feel worse for their bad mood than they already do. just stoooopppp.
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pretty-space-princess · 9 months
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Anyone else mostly feel small when they’re sleepy but u still wanna play n stuff but also no energy cause sleepy?? N also I have a hard time playin n talkin outloud bc it reminds me that m’ not physically as small as I feel n it makes me sad 🥺 anyone else??
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bugkennel · 3 months
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eeyore inspired stimboard 🌿
“i don’t know how to be happy. nobody ever showed me”
🏞️/🛤️/🐌
👒/🛋️/🪑
📜/🍵/🏷️
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cuddly-princess · 7 months
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Will someone please come and take these big girl feelings away from this itty bitty little baby? I don't want them anymore :( they're not being nice
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mybrainissquishy · 3 months
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hey uh I've never done an ask before n I feel awkward but uh idk if ur still taking requests n like it's totally fine if ur not but I think it'd be cool to see like little scott agere where he's like having a hard time dealing with emotions when he's regressed cause everything is big and confusing which leads to outbursts. I feel like everyone always does fluffy stuff and like comfort but it'd be nice to have representation of like the "ugly" side idk I can't word stuffff. but like basically i think it'd be cool to see little regressed scott like acting out or having a tantrum because emotions are hard when you're a toddler and it'd be cool to see how wallace handles that ok sorry this is long n weird but ty for reading I'm sorry 😭😭😭😭
You're so valid, anon. We do need more representation for those of us who have tantrums and cry and feel bad during regression. If you wanna check out my Todd Ingram agere HCs, there is some sad/impure regression in there. For now, enjoy a sad bby.
Scott Pilgrim Agere Headcanons
+ CG Wallace
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(with some bonus art from me)
Scott usually has the most bad days and tantrums when Envy gets involved somehow.
When he's upset like this, it's usually due to a build up of little stressors piled up throughout the day. Envy is usually the last straw for him.
He has a bad habit of pulling at his own hair when he feels this way, which leads to more crying over how it's too long.
He has sensory issues, so if a sensation makes him uncomfortable, sometimes it leads to incomprehensible yelling on Scott's part.
Wallace feels horrible for feeling this way, but he gets deeply frustrated with Scott when Scott's in the middle of a breakdown or tantrum while regressed.
^Wallace doesn't see Scott as a burden, but he does sometimes use harsh words or yell at little Scott out of stress when he doesn't know how to help. It often leads to the silent treatment from Scott.
If it's not a loud tantrum that comes up, Scott completely shuts down. He'll lay on the floor in the dark and think about nothing until Wallace steps in to do something about it.
^When Scott shuts down, Wallace usually picks him up and holds him like a small baby, and rocks him gently back and forth, and whispers compliments to Scott.
"You're my special little baby..", "I love my sweet boy..", "Look at your cute hair..", "Such an adorable little one..", etc.
Scott always feels guilty when he leaves his little space and remembers his tantrums in hindsight, but Wallace always reassures him.
The best way for Scott to recover from bad days like that is a long nap, cuddles, extra stuffed animals, extra quiet time, and more sweet words.
Sorry if it's not a lot, and I'm sorry it's so late, but I've got a lot on my plate lately.
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blackholemojis · 7 days
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If possible, could you make a "AUDHD time" and/or "Impure regression! Help!" Wordmoji or Moji? (Yes, I was waiting expectantly for your asks to open again, I love your mojis sm)
Yeah I can! I’m glad you like my stuff :) (also for anyone wondering, I also have “vent regression” and other similar emojis in the #sfw agere tag on this blog)
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sleepyybee · 2 months
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I feel like recently I’ve been much more baby but not fully regressed, if that makes sense. It’s as if I’m teeter totting btwn my regressed self and big self. Like anytime I get frustrated or upset it’s always a big feeling. Makes me wanna cry and stomp and even on occasion I’ve thrown my stuffies. (But I always pick them up and say sorry!) I don’t like my impure regression cause in my head it solidifies that I’m a bad kid. I just want someone to take away these feelings.
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puppys-tiny-space · 4 months
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🩹i wish people would be less negative about the term impure regression, I understand why some people don't like it and of course nobody has to use it if they don't want to but it's nothing bad. Sometimes my regression is impure, I feel dirty, unsafe and scared and thats okay. I don't have to be pure and healthy to be loved. I am allowed to struggle, I am allowed to be angry and an emotional mess, I am allowed to be all that and more and still be loved. Your regression doesn't have to be pure and innocent to be valid, it is allowed to be messy, dark and scary at times. There is nothing wrong with impure regression. You don't have to use different terms because of what other people say, do what comforts you.🩹
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Fun fact of the day: avocadoes aren't vegetables, they count as fruit
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g0thb1tch · 3 months
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i'm in a mood :P
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lttl3babybug · 14 days
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I’m having some big boy feelings rn and I don’t like it. I’m not a big boy, ‘m a baby. I’m a toddler. Not a big boy too small to be feelin like this :((
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dino-boyo-agere · 4 months
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Anon asked me:
I’m very new to the whole agere thing, but after looking into it a little i feel like I’ve been kind of subconsciously doing it? like I said, I didnt really do any research, I’ve been honestly very very shy about bringing it up anywhere.
Whenever my mental health worsens, I end up feeling so.. small? Like I want to just curl up and make myself so small and disappear. But so far from what I’ve seen people usually aren’t so negative and “miserable” when age regressing, but thats how I feel. I just kind of feel so sad and teary eyed all the time is that also a part of it? Or am I experiencing something else?
I’m terribly sorry to dump all this on you haha, I really hope I’m making sense.
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Thank you so much for reaching out, I know how hard it can be to ask for advice and I'm very proud of you for doing so, good job! /gen
Your absolutely making sense and you are not alone at all!
The official term of what you are describing is "impure regression" it's regression that is caused by / causes negative emotions.
I personally don't like the term "impure regression", I usually call it "sad-" or "upset regression" but I wanted to give you the official term, so you can find others who share your experience more easily!
I also have to deal with upset regression quite a lot, it's mainly caused by stress for me aswell.
The AgeRe community has this issue (like most online communities) that it often tries to only show the happy times. All positivity and smiles and playing. But regression can be messy. It can be upsetting and scary. It can feel debilitating.
Just know that you are not broken. You aren't "doing regression wrong" and it's not your fault you feel this way!!
Regression is a form of therapy and can be a trauma response, those things aren't meant to be "just happy". They exist to help you process and work through your feelings, all your feelings. That also means the negative ones.
I'll link some sources to maybe help you (and anyone else who needs it) to understand the process of regression, especially upset regression:
What is regression in general, why do people do it and what is it for?
What is upset regression specifically?
Why we move away from the former term of "impure regression"?
Tips on how to deal with upset regression?
More tips on how to deal with upset regression
A post to show you that you're not alone
A very helpful website! youragerefriend.com
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I know sometimes it can feel like you're with your problems alone in this world, but I promise you're not! There's always a place for you, and if you can't find it, it'll find you.. eventually. So, please, don't give up! <3
Hopefully this was helpful, if you have any further questions, feel free to ask. You can also reach out in my DMs, if you're comfortable with that! <3
.゚。.・.*.゚☆❗only interact if your blog is SFW❗☆ ゚.*.・. 。゚.
I wasn't able to edit the ask, after sending it to my drafts, but I had to add those links.. So, I got impatient and decided to answer the ask like this. I hope this is okay for you anon and hopefully Tumblr fixes the bug soon!
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cosmic-c-kiddo · 5 months
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Vent regressor! Lucifer moringstar <3
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jellystarjam · 9 months
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lets talk about “impure” regression 💫
from someone who experiences it!
this post references some triggering topics, so please process with caution below 🩷💛🩵🩷💛🩵
if you’re familiar with the age regression community, you’ve most likely heard the terms “pure” and “impure” regression. These are widely accepted ways to describe if somebody’s regression is a positive experience, or a negative one. However, age regressors are starting to move away from these terms, because they’re actually very harmful!
As we know, age regression in most cases is a coping mechanism for survivors of abuse and trauma (but if your regression is purely recreational, that’s wonderful!). Many of us have had our childhoods taken away from us at a very young age. Regression is a way to reclaim that childhood experience and heal from our traumatic memories. As such, sometimes the line between our physical childhoods and our mental child-like states can get a little blurry. This can result in things like flashbacks, panic attacks, mood swings, or harmful stims / coping mechanisms.
many of us may experience involuntary regression- meaning we can’t control when we slip into our regressed states. Sometimes, this means feeling small, vulnerable, and scared in the middle of the day- public places, unfamiliar environments, or even dangerous situations. involuntary regression could also look like uncontrollably regressing to a younger age when confronted with a trigger, or negative emotions like fear or loneliness.
as you can imagine, these are not positive experiences. and when age regressors put these experiences into a category we label as bad, it makes those of us who experience painful regression feel even more lonely and invalid.
many of us, myself very much included, also struggle with a sense of shame, or sometimes even “dirtiness” around our regression. For me personally, i have had others sexu@l!ze my regression and ridicule and berate me for it. Because of this, i often feel like i’m doing something very very wrong by regressing. The term “impure” deeply upsets me, as it brings a connotation of uncleanliness/immorality to my coping mechanism. And I know i’m not the only little who experiences this!
separating age regression into these two categories is a little bit like dividing therapy up into two categories- imagine if we said the people who go to therapy because they feel good telling someone about their feelings, or they want advice, or for any reason other than a psychological struggle, go to “normal people therapy”. And the people who suffer from mental illness, who are trying to deal with trauma, or who are experiencing a crisis go to “crazy people therapy”. It helps no one and hurts those who are already hurting enough.
I’ve seen many people ask for alternative terms to impure regression. Here’s my suggestion: no alternatives. We don’t need to be categorized under a different name- we are the same as regressors who have purely positive littespaces. Whether your regression is “impure” or not; it’s still age regression. Sunshines and Rainbows aren’t a trademark of this coping mechanism. You aren’t in the wrong for struggling with big feelings when you’re feeling little.
And to all of the other regressors who relate to this, know that you are just as tiny, cute, and sweet as every other kiddo out there. You’re not bad, and you’re not broken. And there is nothing impure about giving yourself the childhood you deserve.
that is all <3
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bugkennel · 3 months
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lost fawn regressor/kin stimboard 🦌
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