he says i hate everyone except you and that is addictive and that is kind of romantic and beautiful because you're young and you're kind of a sarcastic asshole too and you don't like bad boys, per say, but you don't really like good ones either. and you like that you were the exception, it felt like winning.

except life is not a romance book, and he was kind of being honest. he doesn't learn to be nice to your friends. he only tolerates your family. you have to beg him to come with you to birthday parties, he complains the whole time. you want to go on a date but - people are often there, wherever you're going. he's just so angry. about everything, is the thing. in the romance book, doesn't he eventually soften? can't you teach him, through your own sense of whimsy and comfort?

at first - you know introverts often need smaller friend groups, and honestly, you're fine staying at home too. you like the small, tidy life you occupy. you're not going to punish him for his personality type.

except: he really does hate everyone but you. which means he doesn't get along with his therapist. which means he has no one to talk to except for you. which means you take care of him constantly, since he otherwise has no one. which means you sometimes have to apologize for him. which means he keeps you home from seeing your friends because he hates them. you're the single exception.

about a decade from this experience, you'll type into google: how to know if a relationship is codependent.

he wraps an arm around you. i hate everyone except you. these days, you're learning what he's actually confessing is i have very little practice being kind.

to the boyfriend i want so hopelessly but will never have, happy birthday milove ♡

terfs go climb into a hole and start rotting. animals cannot inherently tell your "biological sex" you are all so fucking stupid. All this post is saying is that animals are not infallible judges of character and some of them make really stupid vibe checks and that people should try not to take it personally. Unless youre a terf in which case they know and they hate you and you should take it personally

re that one post tbh i do want to stress i dont think animals are like magically psychic at knowing your True Gender tbh i think ppl definitely get way too weird about Animal's judgement of ppl.

Sometimes a dog will vibe check a man and the dog will be right and you should listen. but sometimes the dog will vibe check someone for no good reason. sometimes dogs have wack judgement. sometimes dogs have biases influenced by their owners or previous owners. like. there are Racist Dogs. its not the dogs fault, but that doesnt make the bias theyve developed less real, or less potentially hurtful. i dont think we need to like, Cancel Dogs Bc Sometimes Ppl Can Train Them To Be Racist, but we do need to stop perpetuating the idea that a dog's judgement of someone is infallible. theyre not responsible for it and its not their fault its developed, theyre just dogs, they didnt choose it, but that doesnt mean theyre RIGHT lmao. i think its important to stress this for many reasons but in regard to that last post specifically, if youve ever been vibe checked as a gender you arent by a judgy dog its literally not your fault. might not even be the owners fault. not the dogs fault cos like. its a fucking dog. you do kinda have to be the bigger person in that scenario cos the other person is. A Dog.

hiii:33!! friendly reminder that someone can enjoy a character that has done heinous things and not support said heinous things

usually when a character does Bad Things in a narrative (espec if they're not the protagonist) it is Portrayed As Bad so people who enjoy the character Likely Know They Are Bad

& either way harassing people over enjoying a fictional character is just really childish

if you don't like the character, that is perfectly valid. but there's never any reason to characterise everyone who likes said character as Evil, and/or imply they condone the character's negative actions.

also sometimes i look at internet discourse and it's like people want morally grey characters but then turn around when "morally grey" is not always "i have my own rules but i still make all the right choices !!" some of y'all just need to admit you just like good characters that's fine not everyone is into the spice it's ok to like that good protagonist energy

;;;not saying every character i'm referring to fits in that "morally grey" category, some are just evil villains, but even then i'm sorry 90% of ur stories wouldn't exist without them. they drive the plot.

That post going around saying people on here have racist music taste really struck a nerve huh?

To follow up on my last post about Suna simping for Jay Chou, his little sister stans Stray Kids, because she prefers rap-based songs.

Once, because of a dare, she played Lalala (her favorite song) on her teacher's speaker when the class was doing an assignment and the teacher was absent. No once really cared about it, except the teacher who got a bit mad that someone touched their stuff.

Suna would come home every day to hear his sister dance and sing gibberish which is supposed to represent Korean words. He's not even interested in them, but he heard about them from his sister so much he now knew Bang Chan's birthday.

Btw, Lee Know's his sister's bias.

And when Suna complains about it, his sister always brings up the Jay Chou thing.

I think the disconnect between canon Belos and (a certain genre of) fanon Belos is that in canon he is pathetic (in the dramatic sense) not sympathetic.

I love learning about regional differences within countries or even regions. It's an American internet so even I know that New Yorkers are on a whole 'nother level of exceptionalism and being from Brooklyn specifically Means Something. Tell me, how does the rest of Brazil feel about people from Rio? What sets the Quebecuois apart, aside from speaking French? Does South Africa have stereotypes about people speaking all the different languages they have? Does being closer to North or South America mean something in Mexico? Italy hasn't been one cohesive country for very long, how shattered is it still? Etc etc etc tell me about regional stereotypes in your dear homeland Ethiopia make it a fight if you have to. I want to HEAR

pocket monster ideas

We’re having an emergency meeting to discuss Chris Johnson and the whitest name ever

absolutely fitting for our white man now innit

i’ll like shut up after this but lately a lot of people have been saying affirming things to me, unprompted, about things ive been working on for years. even when semi prompted they still assert things i used to be told all the time are not true. like its nice to see material change in my relationships to people around me. of course its still painful that i was shitty to people in the past and im not shy about bringing up past shitty behavior because i have little interest in pretending it never happened (not fair to Them) or im not still meant to be accountable for my actions despite change (not fair to Me) but when people are straight up shocked when i tell them things i was told about myself, repeatedly, both by people who did and did not like me, my entire life. idk. im a whole new beast baby.

tfw you're trying to be active again but tears of the kingdom has you in a strangle choke-hold with over 125 hours in it already and most of that time has just been spent killing frogs, finding koroks, and making the most stupid machinery for the most crazy solutions that somehow end up working-

xg shooting star time

My very first tier list: twst version

im having a feeling the crush cancelled and asking nonblack people what they think of black people posts are related and if im right im so sorry you should be allowed to beat his ass

kind of 😭 he hasnt done anything to me directly im just nervous because of... well. u know. whether it is deeply internalized for him or whatever im just worried and im kind of angry that i and other black ppl have to go through this just to form good relationships with people. so for now, i dont have a crush on him, not until i ask him the question that was in my post

Look no one prepared me for the fact that we're getting rocker kihyun again this era-- and like I'm going to lose my mind-- every time his rocker version comes out my sanity crumbles just that bit more.

Anyways-- I'm vv excited for their cb-- and pls tell me why all of them look fine-- Pls i've been a mbb for 7 yrs and they never give us a break--.

I was discussing with my friend how your bias has the capability to wreck you even tho you bias them?! And I just find that fact so wild-- because it's so correct?! Now here i am as a Kihyun ult being absolutely destroyed-- Pls someone send an ambulance or sth- cause this cb is going to crush my heart-.

(I have so many thoughts on this and we haven't even gotten the highlight reel yet--).