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howlsmovingurl · 2 years

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A Wikipedia poem about Falling inspired by @headspace-hotel. Thank you for the lovely poems.

And dedicated to my darling husband whom I love so very very very very much. Who helped me turn from one sort of falling into another. ❤️

#headspace-hotel #wikipedia poem #wikipedia poetry #i tried to make this hopeful

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lupucs · 2 months

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Undyne tries to be a good lab partner to Alphys but then Frisk shows up with some newfound skills 🐟🦖 Made with Blender!

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#undertale #animation #undyne #alphys #alphyne #frisk #blender #3d animation #i worked like 5 months on this on and off why am i like this #ive been meaning to model and animate them for a while im so glad i finally got around to it #their designs were so interesting to make i tried to keep em cartoony and stylized #hope yall enjoy i snuck in some details here n there hehe

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andthebeanstalk · 11 months

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Today my therapist introduced me to a concept surrounding disability that she called "hLep".

Which is when you - in this case, you are a disabled person - ask someone for help ("I can't drink almond milk so can you get me some whole milk?", or "Please call Donna and ask her to pick up the car for me."), and they say yes, and then they do something that is not what you asked for but is what they think you should have asked for ("I know you said you wanted whole, but I got you skim milk because it's better for you!", "I didn't want to ruin Donna's day by asking her that, so I spent your money on an expensive towing service!") And then if you get annoyed at them for ignoring what you actually asked for - and often it has already happened repeatedly - they get angry because they "were just helping you! You should be grateful!!"

And my therapist pointed out that this is not "help", it's "hLep".

Sure, it looks like help; it kind of sounds like help too; and if it was adjusted just a little bit, it could be help. But it's not help. It's hLep.

At its best, it is patronizing and makes a person feel unvalued and un-listened-to. Always, it reinforces the false idea that disabled people can't be trusted with our own care. And at its worst, it results in disabled people losing our freedom and control over our lives, and also being unable to actually access what we need to survive.

So please, when a disabled person asks you for help on something, don't be a hLeper, be a helper! In other words: they know better than you what they need, and the best way you can honor the trust they've put in you is to believe that!

Also, I want to be very clear that the "getting angry at a disabled person's attempts to point out harmful behavior" part of this makes the whole thing WAY worse. Like it'd be one thing if my roommate bought me some passive-aggressive skim milk, but then they heard what I had to say, and they apologized and did better in the future - our relationship could bounce back from that. But it is very much another thing to have a crying shouting match with someone who is furious at you for saying something they did was ableist. Like, Christ, Jessica, remind me to never ask for your support ever again! You make me feel like if I asked you to call 911, you'd order a pizza because you know I'll feel better once I eat something!!

Edit: crediting my therapist by name with her permission - this term was coined by Nahime Aguirre Mtanous!

Edit again: I made an optional follow-up to this post after seeing the responses. Might help somebody. CW for me frankly talking about how dangerous hLep really is.

#hlep #original #mental health #my sympathies and empathies to anyone who has to rely on this kind of hlep to get what they need.#the people in my life who most need to see this post are my family but even if they did I sincerely doubt they would internalize it #i've tried to break thru to them so many times it makes my head hurt. so i am focusing on boundaries and on finding other forms of support #and this thing i learned today helps me validate those boundaries. the example with the milk was from my therapist.#the example with the towing company was a real thing that happened with my parents a few months ago while I was age 28. 28!#a full adult age! it is so infantilizing as a disabled adult to seek assistance and support from ableist parents.#they were real mad i was mad tho. and the spoons i spent trying to explain it were only the latest in a long line of #huge family-related spoon expenditures. distance and the ability to enforce boundaries helps. haven't talked to sisters for literally the #longest period of my whole life. people really believe that if they love you and try to help you they can do no wrong.#and those people are NOT great allies to the chronically sick folks in their lives.#you can adore someone and still fuck up and hurt them so bad. will your pride refuse to accept what you've done and lash out instead?#or will you have courage and be kind? will you learn and grow? all of us have prejudices and practices we are not yet aware of.#no one is pure. but will you be kind? will you be a good friend? will you grow? i hope i grow. i hope i always make the choice to grow.#i hope with every year i age i get better and better at making people feel the opposite of how my family's ableism has made me feel #i will see them seen and hear them heard and smile at their smiles. make them feel smart and held and strong.#just like i do now but even better! i am always learning better ways to be kind so i don't see why i would stop

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tooquirkytolose · 18 days

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~The Most Beautiful Woman in The World~

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#my art #comic #it's about how when you love someone you think theyre the most beautiful person to exist!!!#it's also about me drawing a man in the sluttiest little miniskirt imaginable-who said that #i tried throwing hints throughout the story that yes the gods are doing the equivalent of making two dolls kiss #anyways hope u like it i know its quite long for a tumblr post teehee woops

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datcravat · 1 month

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pe ru so na

#MY ART #I SPENT FOREVER ON THIS #persona 3 #persona 3 reload #makoto yuki #okay so while it is super iconic I didn't want to draw someone with a gun to their head (love it in P3 love the symbolism #just dont want to explain it all to my mum or have non persona fans see it at my booth at comic con)#so I was forced to get creative #I hope this comes across #but I wanted to imply he just shot that bullet hole into the background that makes thanatos' eye #the bullet hole also sort of looks like a big glint of than's eye #those white parts on the white are than's hand curling around the MC #and I tried to make the colour scheme CYMK to symbolise how the MC is the wildcard #he is the blueprint and can make anything.#a lot of thought and effort went into this one. persona 3 baby!! hope you like it

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bluegiragi · 6 months

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guess who's about to learn all about werewolf tail etiquette

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#in case i didnt make it clear enough #simon went to get soap's file to try track down soap's old shithead officer #silly snoopy man #also i tried to convey that simons a lot warmer and casual when its just him and price #i hope that got through #monster 141 au #simon ghost riley #captain john price #giragi art

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floccinaucinihilipilificationa · 6 months

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#sherlock #it might be the cough medicine but I'm really feeling the bbc sherlock wedding episode today #a good feeling ₍՞◌′ᵕ‵ू◌₎♡#like finding an old block of cheese in the back of the fridge you forgot about and its gotten super hard and chewy #i currently have half a block of gouda curating in the vegetable cupboard #waiting #how are you doing friends!! C:#I'm good! I still have the cough but I also got a new scarf #I'm still thinking about buying window colors as well but I am waiting if that is also just because of the cough medicine #I can't believe it's already been a year since I have moved! last year I was doing everything here for the first time #and now everything is happening for a second time! that year was both very long and also happened very fast #our floor in the “office” my father wanted to install still is not completly done but he threw up last time he tried #he did not threw up because of the floor but because every time he does a home renovation project he drinks 3 liters of Cherry Coca Cola #we are trying to not make him drink 3 liters of Cherry Coca Cola but he doesn't want anyone else to finish the floor I think so we just do #not mention the hole in the floor #have a nice autumn day friends!! I hope you're doing well! ( ´͈ ◡ `͈ )#♥

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mercymaker · 13 days

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BALDUR'S GATE 3 COMPANIONS: A meme summary (insp.)

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ramonapest · 4 months

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Pressure is, it's kind of my thing

@d20exchange gift for @doodlididi!

#D20Exchange2023 #fantasy high #dimension 20 #d20 #riz gukgak #happy holidays dani!!!#it's my first time making gifs for d20 and first time making any gifs in over a year #so i hope you enjoy this! i tried to include a mix of happy bonding moments and chaotic moments #i tried to find some riz voice of reason moments but despite how often he is the voice of reason #those moments are much less iconic and memorable than his chaotic ones lmaoo #also i love your art!!!#it's so fun!!#my edits #my gifs

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thirstywaffles · 21 days

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Guess who drew this instead of doing my thesis haha.....

Template by pompipurin !!

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degenerateshinji · 8 months

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(read left to right)

in a dream, on a wave.

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disco-drunk · 2 months

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Sing your soul away🎶🎤💫

Absolutely love this scene, though I was very surprised by Harry's voice HAH! But he got it, he ate and left no crumbs!

Also Kim so adorable there, standing in the middle admiring his bf :)

#art #digital art #my art #fanart #disco elysium #disco elysium fanart #de fanart #harry du bois #kim kitsuragi #harrykim #kimharry #kim x harry #they are so gay #I swear #cute #also I tried making this look like a movie screenshots I hope I nailed it

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motelofmermaids · 4 months

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The First Taste

(+18, mdni)

finnick odair, who’s finally gotten you underneath him, can no longer get enough of you. finnick odair who finally had you at the will of his hands, in his web; gentle hands sliding down your body as his lips embrace the curvature of your neck. until his hands reach your hips and his thumbs dig ever so slightly into the soft fat. every sound, every sigh, every shy call of his name and he has the clench his jaw because he feels as if he’s the one being touched and explored. finnick odair who gives you a soft kiss and a gentle question of, “do you feel ready for this, honey?” and with a nod, he slowly starts moving lower, consuming your entire being in passionate kisses and small bites that he immediately soothes with his tongue.

he’s drunk off you now, mindlessly kissing and tasting every spot as he travels lower— the the one spot that’s a wonder you’ve never really dared to explore. you sighed, with a soft moan following soon after as he reached your vulva with a gentle peck. you look down to him, who never looked away from you. he looked starved. you reach to brush along the side of his jaw because you love him so much. “i love you,” finnick always seemed to read your mind. you try to reach down to him in an uncomfortable position of moving onto your elbows and he meets you halfway.

the way he kisses you is mind bending, it’s always a chase that you immediately let him win. you’ve been growing weary for a while now, and no one is to blame. finnick wanted to take his time, wanted you to know that you were more than sex, that he wanted you for your heart and soul. he didn’t want to rush to the capitol’s standards. you started to get impatient; heaven cannot wait forever, after all. you smile against his lips and he follows suit, slowly pulling away and fluttering his eyes open to give you this look. this loving look that tells you ‘i’m here, i’m always here,’ before going back down as you reposition your back and head onto the mattress.

your eyes are on the ceiling when you let out a surprised moan and your thighs flinch. finnick, that man, that man who playfully nipped at your inner thigh. that man who’s now chuckling against said thigh. “finn,” you whine, threatening to close your legs around his head but he’s already spreading them back apart. “i’m sorry, sweet girl,” he still has that playful grin on his face. his calloused hands gently rub at your thighs, thumbs drawing small circles as he finally reaches back down. gently kissing your folds, you let out a sigh of air you didn’t know you were holding. he goes at that for a little while, relishing in the wetness you produce, until he needs the first taste and laves his tongue over your pussy.

your hands immediately reach for something to hold, fingers slipping through his bronze hair. his tongue runs between your folds up to your clit, lips enveloping the small bundle of nerves that has you arching your back and whining at the foreign feeling. finnick looks up to you, the most he can in this position, and watches your chest rise and fall. he watches you bite your lower lip, he watches the column of your neck bob as you swallow down moans. “finnick… finnick, feels ‘s good.”

he’s losing his mind; seeing his love so fucked out, he urges you to an orgasm fairly quick. yet he doesn’t stop until your thighs are shaking for a second one. he breathes you, especially after his first taste.

#finnick odair x you #finnick odair x reader #finnick odair #based off of my favorite fiona apple song #i HOPE y’all like this #i tried to make it more sweet than just pure smut #kel’s concepts ♡︎#finnick odair smut

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teethkid67 · 7 days

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happy @mcythorrorgiftexchange , @haunted-here !!!! sorry it took so long to get to u :P i wanted to go ahead and draw clem and reverie from your (and @stemms , which thanks for the help btw hehe) CD au !!!! so . here they are teehee :3

i had a really good time participating in this exchange !!! thank u mods for hosting and haunt i hope u like it !!!! :3

#things i make #mcythorrorgiftexchange #dsmp #dream smp #tommyinnit fanart #discduo #primeboys #ctommy #dream smp fanart #BLEH #this took so . long. like unreasonably long #mostly due to the angle on reveries face #tried to fit in as many details as i could from what i got from stemms !!!!#idk . yr little guys are neat i love the au i love freaked up aus #ya. idk haunt u r like so freaky nice and sweet so . hope u enjoy

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theeretblr · 6 months

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Hey Tumblr! Lately, I've been enjoying using social media for the first time in a while! Tumblr has always been a nice cozy (and often chaotic /pos) place for me. I am looking forward to posting here more! :D

Also, have some cat photos

#good to be back!#cats #Goose #Mouse #Crumb?#she counts as a cat right?#Crumb with Gun #i have tried to make this post like 6 times but Tumblr kept glitching out #i hope it's not made the same post a bunch without me knowing #anyway #cats!

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carthonasi · 5 days

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what do you know about my mother? she was like you. she was kind. and loving.

#rose x moldaver #rose maclean #lee moldaver #fallout #fallout edit #fallout on prime #fallout tv #fallout spoilers #fallout tv spoilers #i haven't been able to stop thinking about them since i watched the finale #the implications of what they were has altered my brainwaves i fear #ok so i've tried posting this like twice now and i hope the gifs look passable now #tumblr is dedicated to compressing the fuck out of these and making them look bad i swear #the raw files look good on my desktop i swear #also i appreciate the rainbow in the third gif but god did it make it hard to color properly #anyway tragic post apocalyptic yuri my beloved #my gifs

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