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#i mean i'm not complaining but i would have never imagined tbh
missuswalker · 10 months
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could I request relationship hcs with Craig 🙈(nsfw too only if you feel comfortable)
of courseeee, my requests are FILLED with craig after writing notes, but i'm not complaining
relationship headcanons || craig tucker x fem reader
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✮ summary: um, yk, craig as a boyfriend 😍🤞 ✮ warnings: nsfw content, reminder that characters are aged up!
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sfw
very "shut the fuck up. i'm kidding, i love you" boyfriend. he's just silly like that. he does love you, he just wants you to shut up 😁
on the note of him loving you, i can't imagine him saying it first, but i can imagine him saying it more
"craig" "what" "i love you" "ok" "CRAIG" "i love you too, chill."
probably says it to piss you off more when you're already mad at him tbh
anyways, moving on, he's such a good hugger
he wraps his arms around you and rests his head on yours, meOW MEOW
sorry
but he's so cute. don't tell him that because he'll side eye you and leave you on heard
he doesn't mean to hurt your feelings, though. he's just like that fr
at like, 1 am, he can get kind of deep
"babe, do you ever think about how we'll either die loving each other or die being distant memories in each other's brains" "craig... bye."
will forget he even brought it up by morning
while you're sleeping he lets stripe #17 crawl on you because he thinks its funny
but then gets worried stripe will like you more so he puts him back
anyways, he kicks his legs in his sleep. you're gonna get kicked, sorry. or he'll like, roll over and suffocate you cutely and aesthetically, idk
reads satan x jesus fanfiction to you randomly when its been silent for a really long time
he threatens to break up with you all the time if you're annoying him (he doesn't mean it though)
after, like, a year of dating he gets you a promise ring
but he just hands it to you
"this is a promise ring, don't lose it."
but he gets all smiley when he sees you wearing it.
makes you wear it on your middle finger
sees karate moves on tv and asks to try them on you
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nsfw
very blunt about everything once he gets super comfortable with you
"i'm hard."
will send audio messages mid sext of him laughing
but that's only sometimes
you guys sext a lot not gonna lie
when you guys have sex for the first time he finishes so fast because he'd been thinking about you so much the night before, but didn't expect it to be that good, like damn
he can get pretty rough if he wants to
bites his lip if he's really concentrating
he grunts, folks, no moaning, sorry
pushes your legs open or back all the damn time, like if you put your legs too close to him, that shit is getting spread
once when he was having a bad day, you give him head and he whimpers
it only happened once, never again would he whimper
he was so embarrassed
if you're upset he's soso gentle
but won't let you ride him
unless its your birthday
or christmas
he likes to be on top because he likes to feel in control of the situation
and it makes him whimper, so its a no-go, sorry buddy
has a boner half the time you guys cuddle
plays with stripe immediately after you guys finish
he keeps a sheet over his cage thing when you guys do it though so he cant see
wants to take a shower with you but can't because he gets hard again
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dib-thing-wannabe · 8 months
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I WATCHED THE PILOT FOR THE AMAZING DIGITAL CIRCUS AND OH MY GOD I CANNOT STOP THINKING ABOUT IT-
(No spoilers under cut, just me going insane)
THE IMMEDIATE EXISTENTIAL CRISIS FROM POMNI WHEN SHE ARRIVED?? THE ALREADY DEEP SEATED LORE ABOUT NOT BEING ABLE TO ESCAPE?! ALL THE POSSIBLIES ABOUT WHAT COULD, CAN, AND SOMETIMES EVEN W I L L HAPPEN!!
If you have been a follower or a mutual of mine for some time now, you wouldn't be surprised to hear that Jax is what got me into it originally, nor be surprised that I am thinking about him the most out of the cast. What probably will surprise you is what I'm thinking about exactly.
What I'm thinking about is what will be done with him in the story. Will he be considered a villain? Will he be considered a good guy, despite him being a bully to the other casts? Does he know more than the others at the circus does? Who knows!! He has the potential for everything!
Something that I am struggling though is what headcannons I should have for him though-
He definitely is one of us fruits, but my question is which one?? He definitely seems like he could be mlm, especially with the energy he gives off. But I cannot stop thinking of transfem Jax no matter how hard I try not to- Because, like, I can totally see it being 100% canon!!
Just imagine the angst potential involving it, because he probably wouldn't know what he's experiencing and he might think that he's starting to extract! But yet the gender disphoria (idk if that's how it's spelled, but you'll get what I mean if it's spelled wrong) was always there for him, even before he joined the circus! And some of you probably know that Goose themselves have started to think about having Jax wear a dress in future episodes, and hooo boy, am I having thoughts about that!!
Imagine this: For the latest adventure, Jax is made to wear a dress, as a disguise. He is just complaining about it the entire time, not even going to look at himself as he's wearing it as he "probably looks silly and stupid in it". Once the adventure is over, he stomps away from everyone to go and take it off, feeling as if he was being made a fool of by them, even though they had been complimenting the way he looked the entire time (even if some of the compliments had laughter in them). In a similar fashion to the scene where Pomni stopped in front of the mirror when she saw herself in the digital circus for the first time, Jax walked passed a mirror and decided to take a look to "see what they were making fun of". When he looked at himself while he was still wearing the dress, he couldn't help but stare at himself. He thought, for the first time in forever, that he didn't just look good, that he looked right. There's wasn't any other way to explain it. He just looked right. He looked and felt like he was what he ever wanted to since he was a little kid. He twirled a little in the dress, making sure to get a good look at himself as he's wearing it, not being able to help but just softly smile at himself as his eyes were majorly dilated. This goes on for a few minutes before his first moment of gender efforia (again, don't know how to spell it-) is interrupted by Pomni and Cain, who were going to see if he was done with getting dressed. Cain just simply says something along the lines of "Wow, you finally decided to take a look at yourself, Jax? My, I thought we would never see the day!" Which results in an embarrassed scoff from Jax as he rolled his eyes at him. But Pomni saw that he was actually happy with the way he looked like never before, and tells him that he could wear dresses more often if it made him happy. He acts like he was deeply insulted by it and said that he wouldn't ever even think of doing this again, but later on he starts wearing dresses in his free time (where no one could see him, of course) (Except for Pomni, she'd probably help him pick out the dresses tbh).
If anyone wants to draw the little imaginary scene I made up, do it!! Draw it! Just tag me in it so I can see it!
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thedreadvampy · 11 months
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I'm going insane my notes are full of people responding to the communes post going like "this is why we need a state to prevent abuse"
HOW'S THAT STATE-PREVENTING-ABUSE THING GOING? PRETTY GREAT I DON'T THINK.
seriously this is what gets my fucking back up about people in opposition to anti-statism or anti-carceralism they're always like 'oh can you propose a way to 100% prevent abuse or violence' and it's like. Insert I, Robot gif here. Can you?
like I'm not complaining about the lack of attention to safeguarding and justice in anarchist communities because anarchism is particularly bad at it! I'm complaining about it because tackling the issue requires acknowledging that it does exist in every community we try to build and that we have to speak up and deal with it proactively.
abuse happens in anarchist spaces, in socialist spaces, in marxist-leninist-maoist spaces, in capitalist spaces, in religious fundamentalist spaces, in feudalism, in whatever fucking system of authorities you wanna name. the question is how we deal with it and anarchism is deeply imperfect in that but so is every other system I've seen and anarchism is pointing at the better goal, I think - a method of community accountability which focuses on harm reduction, desystematising, and healing rather than on punishment, revenge or cycles of violence.
we're not there yet and we will probably never build a 100% foolproof system where abuse and interpersonal harm never occur. but frankly neither will any other system, human interactions are complicated and messy and sometimes there will be shitshows - our priorities are to reduce the number, severity, fallout and normalisation of those shitshows and figure out ways to prevent, react and support healing.
like here's one key fucking thing ok. I have found the way that anarchist groups I've been in have handled abuse allegations really traumatic and overwhelming and triggering. but that's largely been because I have some faith in the approach and it hurts a lot more to fuck up when you have hope.
but you are fooling your damn selves if you think going through the police or the state is less traumatic and overwhelming tbh. reporting and going through the court system is notoriously retraumatising and miserable for survivors, even when it's done with empathy and support. it also Does Not Work. punitive justice actively intensifies cycles of abuse and trauma.
obviously like. the main problem in these notes is that inexplicably people reblogging my post seem to believe the core thesis of anarchism is sunshine, rainbows and the milk of human kindness not like. hard graft to build tailored systems to meet community need. and you are wrong about that. anarchism has never been about 'building a community of morally pure sweethearts who wouldn't hurt a fly' it's about taking responsibility yourself, as an individual, for the wellbeing of your community, and working together collectively to identify what needs to change and what systems would create that change.
but the secondary problem is a lack of fucking imagination. people act as if an idea for change not being utterly bulletproof is a reason to throw the whole concept away, as if existing systems are less imperfect. babies, bathwater, my guys.
If I say 'this part of how we're organising is likely to present the risk of abuse' that doesn't mean 'we should stop our whole approach to organising' it means 'we should take stock of why that risk is there and figure out how to adapt to manage it.' Criticising your ideas and approaches is a vital part of building a better version of them and it's really frustrating to have any critical appraisal met with a barrage of SEE THIS IS WHY WE SHOULD FULLY ABANDON THIS IDEA FOREVER
like fuck man how are you planning to build a better system if you can't iterate ideas, criticise, finetune, adapt, reiterate, problematise and adjust, and talk about what the fail points might be? how are you planning to build a better world if you reject any attempt to suggest a replacement for the Totally Fucked Hellworld system unless it has already ironed out every flaw before being tried?
the reason I am talking about the cracks in a lot of anarchist ideas where abuse comes in is because I want anarchist ideas to work. I think they're good ideas. (not communes I don't think communes are good ideas I have been clear on this). I want a better, happier, less harm-filled, less abusive, more just world and I think the anarchist vision has the most elements to get us there so I want those elements to work, which means I want to identify what comes packaged in with those ideas that might be counterproductive. so we can do better. so that we can use the good ideas and dump out the elements that are likely to cause harm. you know. like how thinking works.
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thewitcheress2389 · 2 years
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Hiiii, I have a request for youuuuuu.
Okay, men with kids makes me weak not gonna lie so I was thinking about the reader watching Geralt and Ciri doing really anything and thinking it's adorable how this huge man gets soft for his Child Surprise.
I was thinking that maybe you could use propt 132 and 141.
Thank you if you write it!!!
I'm in the same boat as you tbh💖 Men with kids or babies makes me melt
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A Witcher’s Worry
To them, he was Geralt of Rivia, a fearsome emotionless monster. To you, he was a man who just became a dad.
#132 "Do you think I'll make a good father?"  
#141 "We can be scared together."
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You were watching something rather wholesome.
Out of all the things that Geralt and Ciri did together, you certainly weren’t expecting this. They could be training or some other type of witching training, but instead, Geralt was teaching her how to fish.
However, he wasn’t the best fisherman.
“Geralt! I caught something!” Ciri exclaimed in excitement. However, instead of pulling the rod up from the water, she was tugging it over her shoulder. 
Apparently, Ciri hooked a tree.
You could tell she was teasing him based on her smirk. It was obvious that she knew he wasn’t very good at this. That said, Ciri was thankful that Geralt treated her like a normal kid for once instead of worrying about training or mentioning her powers. 
But Geralt just sweat dropped. He had gotten his line all tangled up and was currently holding it in one of his hands with an exasperated look. This caused you to giggle from your place under a tree not too far away.
“Ciri, why don’t you keep trying. Hopefully you’ll be a better fisherman than me and catch us some dinner.” The witcher told the young girl, who looked like she was about to complain, but eventually gave in and started to unhook her rod from the tree.
Then Geralt made his way over to you and plopped down with a sigh.
“This is a lot harder than I thought.” He mused aloud, and you snorted.
“Well, fishing was never your strong suit.” You told him and Geralt sat up to lean against the same tree you were, your shoulders touching.
“I’m not talking about the fishing...I’m talking about Ciri.” The witcher said while moving to fold his hands in his lap. Your joking demeanor died down when you saw the legitimate worry in his eyes.
“I’m just...scared I’ll screw up her life...The life of a witcher is no life for a young girl.” He eventually said to you, looking over to where Ciri had successfully got her hook into the water.
You reached out and placed a hand over his worried ones.
"We can be scared together." You told him with a bit of a laugh. It wasn’t just Geralt who received a child surprise, but you as well. At first, Geralt was afraid you would leave him after he got Ciri, but you stuck around. After all, she needed someone there to look after her besides Geralt.
“You’re not alone on this...and besides, you need me.” You said with a smirk, causing him to give you a look.
“What do you mean?” He asked you, and you playfully rolled your eyes.
“You get so soft on her...softer than I ever imagined a witcher to get...Ciri needs someone to have a firm hand with her.” You stated, accepting your place as Ciri’s other parent. Geralt merely rolled his eyes, making you laugh.
“I don’t get soft with her.” He stated defensively, and that made you laugh again.
“Then what exactly did we travel three towns over for?” You asked with a smirk, referring to the time you guys traveled all over just so Geralt could buy Ciri her dream horse.
“Shut up.” The witcher said before turning to look back at Ciri, keeping an eye on her. She was busy dancing the rod back and forth, trying to tempt a fish to bite. It was silent for a bit before you sensed Geralt’s worry return. Eventually, he asked a question he’s been holding back for a while.
"Do you think I'll make a good father?" The witcher asked quietly. He never imagined himself with a child to look after and raise. In fact, he never thought he could care for a child so much. Now Ciri was under his protection and care, and he was worried if he could fulfill the role of a father.
Before you could answer him, Ciri started shouting from the river.
“Geralt! Geralt! I caught a fish!” She sounded so excited, and you both turned to see her holding a fairly large trout which was squirming slightly. It was probably the largest smile you’ve ever seen on her face.
With a slight smile and shake of your head, you turned back to answer Geralt’s question.
“Absolutely.”
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lunathebee · 2 years
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i have a request 👀 moon boys with fashionista gf, she’s always wearing a something nice and stylish but her aesthetic changes depending on her mood or the day. do you think they have favorites outfits of hers?? do they each prefer a different look on her than the others??? hehe thank you🤭 (i just love fashion bro you will never see me outside in a lame fit)
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THE MOON BOYS REACTING TO THEIR GF BEING A FASHIONISTA (with moodboard)
A/n: ty for sending in a rq, this is such a fun idea!
Warning: none, just fluff
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🍓 Steven Grant 🍓
Steven would be AMAZED of your closet tbh
Like how do you know what to wear with what??
It's not that he doesn't want to be like you, he is just very comfortable with wearing the same jacket every day.
I don't think he'd be a fan of bright colors, but he'd still support you if you wore something bright.
Hes your biggest fan!
But yea Steven is more into warm color, like the color of dark coffee and beige and the autumn yk what i mean??
Its giving dark academia vibe
He also adored any accessories that's in heart shape
That's how he and you end up wearing couple necklaces 🥺🥺
It's subtle, he hides it beneath the layer of clothes, but it's there, he always make sure it's there <3
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🍓 Marc Spector 🍓
The definition of "overdressed gf and underdressed bf"
I'm sad to say Marc knows nothing about fashion or aesthetic or theme or whatever is trending
He is a simple guy, he gets a t-shirt and a pair of jeans and that it, that's his outfit
He'll probably complain about how long you took to get ready (he still loves you, it's just a BF thing)
He says stuff like "You look great", "That is amazing bae *kiss* let's go now"
Never ever told you to change into something you don't want
Very respectful, he have that lovesick grin when you're happy in your outfit
It's funny to say this, but you won't be able to change his mind about dressing differently or extra, he would do the opposite to YOU
Like unless it's a big event or you guys go somewhere that requires dressing up, you will dress up. But most of the time, you find yourself in a casual fit with Marc.
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🍓 Jake Lockley 🍓
Honey idk WHY but I always imagined Jake as this CEO/boss mixed with gangster
So if you're a fashionista, he would give you *hints* on what outfits he likes
Jake LOVES any bold color: gold, red, white, ANYTHING
Just make it satin/sleek
Sometimes if you're feeling a little feisty you could spray some glitter on them
Lord have mercy Jake would DIE for you
If it's a backless dress he would definitely leaves some kisses
He likes to keep you close to him so his hand is always on your waist
Jake love a woman who is fierce and strong, but also elegant
So two strap satin dresses with high heels are his all time fav
If you're feeling a little cold, his leather jacket will come in handy *wink wink*
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curlyhairedprince · 26 days
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Any opinions about the OTP situation?
okay so look, i'm speaking as someone who wasnt planning on attending any of those shows so there's that. but i totally get that people were pissed that they cancelled them, they could have definitely handled the situation a bit better and tbh i am also curious to see who the artist is they are touring with and if it's really worth cancelling your solo shows for, we've tried to figure it out and everyone we've come up so far we're like okay idk if that would be worth it lmao
BUT!!!! oh my god the fans, what the fuck is wrong with some of them. it is 100% valid to be sad and upset and to complain about it, especially because so many people cant get a lot of their money back, but the things i have seen are awful, people who usually worship the ground they walk on were SO fucking nasty, like so so so mean, things you should never say to anyone no matter the situation, criticism is one thing but being a fucking asshole is a whole different situation. it's also funny to see how quick they were to switch up when the boys deleted their accounts and said they werent gonna be on social media for a while, like babe you are literally the reason that happened dont act like a victim now
and finally i think the main problem was that the boys just never got any criticism from the fans so far, it was always love and adoration and suddenly they got so many backlash i cant even imagine how blindsided they must have felt, which is also a sign that their fan artist relationship isnt the healthiest lmao, but i'm not surprised
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petruchio · 7 months
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hope this isn't a weird and irrelevant reply to your personal post but honestly i really get what you mean. tbh i've been there too. i get how being in a place where you're confident in some aspects of yourself and doing enviable (?) things can be pretty isolating, especially if you're (perceived as) a woman, you feel like you're good at [insert some skills that matter to you], and you generally like the way you look. it can feel like you lack empathy because you don't share some of the insecurities that people around you experience and bond over (though you may be struggling with something different that they don't get), it can feel like you can't tell if you're a good friend or not because others talk about you in terms of what you've accomplished or what you have rather than who you are as a person, it can feel like your positive emotions aren't real because they're atypical and viewed as "unrelatable" idk. i feel like loving yourself and believing in your abilities is a net good but not a substitute for being around people who actually relate to your experiences. for me it's essentially feeling likable but not understandable (or understood), and ime it's something that isn't "solved" by having a lot of friends. it makes sense if you feel like that's not enough. not sure if any of this is actually similar to what you're going through, but i hope you get the chance to be around people who Get It, and i hope you feel less alone soon. you seem like a genuinely kind person on top of being great at writing/analysis -- i love the way you write about the things you're excited about. wishing you all the best <3
it's not weird or irrelevant AT ALL! it honestly always does make me feel better when i come on here and speak about something i'm struggling with and other people say, hey, yeah, me too. especially when the thing i'm complaining about is feeling alone, it's comforting to know that other people feel the same way. like, we're all lonely together, which makes us less alone in our loneliness.
and yeah i think you're right -- confidence is one of those weird things where the more you work on it, the more difficult it can become to relate to other people. people are always telling me i'm so confident and asking my advice on things and i'm always like... idk how to tell you to just stop caring what people are thinking. i mean, obviously i do care what people think of me, but maybe the problem is that because i'm my own worst critic, i can't imagine anyone hating me more than i already hate myself, which paradoxically means that i assume everyone loves me? or maybe it's because i can't imagine anyone genuinely giving a shit about what i do, so it's easy to just do whatever i want. because it's not that i don't care what people think, but just that i pretty much assume they aren't thinking about me, so why would i bother trying to impress them? (like some of my friends will describe in detail the logic behind their instagram story posts. and i'm just like... do you really think other people are noticing this? do you really think people care that much what you, some random person, is posting? it's kind of crazy to spend so much time thinking about yourself through the lens other people. just post if you think it's funny, or don't. nobody is actually thinking that much about you.)
but to your point, i feel like that is kind of where a lot of the loneliness comes from. because people describe certain insecurities or thought patterns that they have, and i'm just like yeah i truly cannot relate to that, or yeah, i would never do that. and when i do express things i'm struggling with, people act so shocked and never offer any kind of support because they're like "but your life is so perfect!" (which is INSANE! nobody has a perfect life! and i know it sounds like the most obnoxious problem ever, like oh my life is so great that nobody believes me when i say i'm still inexplicably sad, but it is a really isolating and lonely existence!!) and then i guess it kind of becomes a cycle where people say or do certain things, i don't relate to them at all, and then i wonder why i'm still struggling so much even though i'm honestly doing fine, and then i feel guilty for even struggling or feeling down because i don't really know what else i can do to get better, since again, i'm objectively doing fine.
i get what you mean about feeling likable but not understandable. recently i was on a second or third date with someone, and i had this weird out of body experience where it was like, i could see myself doing everything right -- i could see that he was totally into me and that i was saying all the right things and laughing at the right times and making the right jokes, but i didn't feel like a person? i knew i could make him like me, and that it wouldn't even be that hard, but i knew he would never actually know me, not even if we kept dating for years. he would always have just "liked" me, like you said. it was a really weird and uncomfortable feeling. i came home and wrote in my journal "sometimes i feel like i'm so good at pretending to be a person that i don't feel like i'm actually a person at all"
SORRY for these long rambling answers. i guess i'm feeling some type of way about my inability to function normally lately. being 24 is just weird i guess. it's uncomfortable and awkward and frustrating, and so much of it feels like this sense of cognitive dissonance between being really good at acting like an adult but still feeling like you just want to scream and cry and throw things like a toddler but you know you can't. i guess someday it will all make sense. or maybe it won't. but i'll keep writing about it either way <333
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gasolineghuleh · 11 months
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I was scrolling through your posts because everything you write is amazing every time I read it, but I saw you mention in a post popias s/o getting his bite mark tattooed, so I was wondering, how would the papa's and/or ghouls if your choice react to their s/o getting their bite tattooed? I'm kind of in love with the idea tbh, now That's What I Call Romance
first of all, thank you so much, that means the world to me! i've been self conscious about my writing lately.
i'm gonna do the ones i'm not head empty for right now
Primo:
"This is permanent? Wow!"
Runs his fingers over the tattoo gingerly when you come home with it, careful not to hurt you or touch the exposed skin.
"For me? This is... Mi amore."
Immediately tries to find a way to make you a never-wilting flower in exchange.
He's incredibly touched, obviously, and he keeps trying to find ways to return the affection.
Terzo:
"Sister you... marked my bite on your ass permanently?"
Just like his brother, he'll find a way to make sure you know his love is eternal.
Sex is quite a bit more acrobatic now, since he loves to be able to see the bite mark tattoo and LOVES to bite next to it.
"Now I am able to be marking you all over, si? Will you get more tattooed? Let people see who owns you?"
Every time he sees it peeking out from your shorts he becomes unbearably horny.
Dracopia:
"...even the little fang marks? Oh Sister... This is lovely. So passionate to see my bite on you... Not fading or bruised, either."
Immediately upon seeing the new tattoo when he gets home from tour, he takes you, his eyes on the faux bite mark the entire time.
"As long as I live, Sister, you have my heart. Eternal."
It might be your imagination but... did his eyes flash red a little when he first saw it?
For the Ghouls, Dew is absolutely over the moon about it. It see like he gets a little bit sweeter on you afterwards, and you're not complaining! Rain, for his part, cries about it as soon as he sees it. He takes it as a declaration of your love, which is is, and he vows to get something similar for you. Swiss finds it hotter than all Hells and find anyway he can to show it off to the other Ghouls, even carrying you around with your skirt lifted slightly to see it, right on the side of your thigh.
Cirrus takes some convincing, but once you come home with it she's excited and absolutely adores it. She pampers you the entire time that it's healing, cleaning it and making sure it heals properly. Cumulus does the same, pampering and babying you while making every excuse in the world to see it.
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youremyheaven · 9 days
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different anon chiming in but man the thing I don't get about Meghan Markle is like... dude, you joined the ROYAL FAMILY, like- the actual royal family lol. They are known for having intense rules and traditions and obviously in recent decades it's become more lax and adapted to the changing culture, but there is a reputation to uphold. Why would you join the royal family then act all 'shocked pikachu face' when suddenly there are rules, and they are uptight, and things aren't always fair.
I don't know the details of the situation, never followed it much tbh but that part of it just confused me, it's like she didn't register how serious of a position it is to be a member of the royal family
LITERALLY???
there is a very famous clip where she says Kate & Will did not hug her when they first met her and she's making it seem like the biggest deal lmfao its sooo funny to me,, this is her exact quote:
"I remember I was in ripped jeans and barefoot. Like I was a hugger, always been a hugger, I didn't realize that that is really jarring for a lot of Brits. I guess I'd start to understand very quickly that the formality on the outside, carried through on the inside," she continued about the multiple etiquette rules followed by the royal family, which she mistakenly believed were only observed in public. There is a forward-facing way of being and then you close the door and you relax now," she added about how she expected the etiquette to be left at the door once the work day had finished. But that formality carries over on both sides. And that was surprising to me."
im not a royal or British but if someone i met for the first time in my life wanted to hug me, i'd be uncomfortable too?? like imagine complaining about that?? "theyre sooo formal😩😩i just wanted to hugggg" like girl WTH 😂
this is what I mean by Moon dominant people being manipulative as hell. that anon literally said my trauma has made me biased against Moon dominants and that's why i'm misogynistic to Meghan Markle. you dont have to be an FBI expert to see how fcked up of a thing that is tell someone ???? if I criticize Meghan its bc IM misogynistic and traumatized?? I bet my money that the anon was also Moon dominant,, what kind of asshole do you have to be to spin things around like that ,,, yuck,,,
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mistysblueboxstuff · 1 year
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Hi! I love your art and I have just gotten more into art myself. I am improving by drawing actors from the movies I watch and love. I can draw the characters the actors are playing, it's fine with me and I feel like it's okay with everyone else too.
But I really don't know about drawing the actors themselves. It's not a role they are playing, they are real humans. Every time I feel like I want to draw an actor from some reference picture I can't help but think if it's wrong to draw them. I know that drawing them in appropriate situations is better than portraying them in some humiliating situations (which I would never do) but in my head the line between those is small. I tend to overthink what is appropriate and what I can post.
I'm just one human in this world and the chance of the actors actually seeing my art is very low but the fact that other people see it and that there still is a small chance that the actors will see it makes me question if it's right to post the drawing. I don't want to hurt anyone with my drawings but I want to share the beauty of drawing with others.
I'm sorry for bothering you but I feel a little lost with this.
Hi! I've actually struggled with this myself and I still prefer painting actors in character than just being themselves. I'm not sure why that is, but it might be because I'm more interested in the characters they play than them as people. There are a few exceptions though (well, just one really).
I don't think it's wrong to draw them just being themselves tbh. Like if it's a picture from a photoshoot? I can't see why you shouldn't draw it if that's what you want. The only pictures I wouldn't paint are the nonconsensual ones, like paparazzi shots but those are rarely ever good anyway xD
I've painted stuff from interviews, rehearsals, stage doors, headshots, photoshoots, Instagram pics - I've never had anyone complain. I don't think there's anything wrong with actors seeing your art. Personally I wouldn't post anything NSFW or RPF, as idk if that might come off as offensive but i don't mind if other people are doing it.
I've had actors see my art, both of themselves and in character, and they've always been nothing but kind and gracious about it. I think sometimes they might even like seeing that people care about them out of character too. I used to be terrified of Philip Quast seeing my art, especially because there's so much of it and I didn't want him to be scared xD But he saw it and that turned out better than i could've ever imagined.
I don't think your drawings will hurt anyone nonny. You sound like you care about the people you draw and there's no harm in sharing your art of them, everyone does it and I've never thought it might be inappropriate to do so - i think it's flattering and I think most actors feel the same. And you're not bothering me at all, i think it's a valid question and the fact you think about it just means you care :')
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waterparksdrama · 2 years
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man i know yallre just worried for them and it comes from deep appreciation for what the band has done up until this point but, why all of the nihilism??
sure funeral grey and fuck about it are.. pretty vapid in a few ways but, they each have a least a lyric or two worth something and sound generally catchy? rsd and self sabotage are pretty good imo, and seem genuine/vunerable even if they showcase Bad Stuff for awsten. and we havent got to see really *any* of the record thusfar because theyve been so busy, so there can be hidden gems. no ones gotta deny the clear appeal to general audiences, but i dont think we have to shit on it *so* heavily. ultimately they seem to want to keep growing and making music. they are probably pretty wealthy but its likely not enough to drop everything after one last poorly performing album. i especially can’t imagine that awsten would want to “let Them win” by leaving from feeling miserable due to ending up the same as every other artist or “failing” to play the industry game.
it would be ideal if they took these next few months before ymas tour to take a genuine break (minimal writing, no studio, nothing) and let fans know a vague release date but that its for the best so that they can put their all into it. i know realistically that probably wont be how it goes, but i trust them to recognize their own burnout and take *somewhat* of a break before their art suffers for it. even if they were planning on this being the last album before a hiatus, i cannot imagine theyd want to flop hard instead of going out on a bang. this doesnt have to be “the end of a good band” etc, awsten has openly talked about how much criticism theyve gotten from the start even on black light.
how hard is it to take the bands experimentation at face value or at least give awsten the credit of knowing when enoughs enough?
wow this is long and im not even sure if my response will encompass all of this but i'll try
i think the nihilism is reasonable tbh. it's not like awsten changes his bad habits online and it's not like this fanbase gets any less annoying and the songs don't get stupider etc etc. everything and nothing ever changes with this band at the same time. they get older, but habits still stay and never leave.
i think the new songs for the most part are passable but aren't really "parx songs" in the classic sense meaning "playful, but with some serious passion entwined in it that really gets you hooked". it just feels really edgy yet somehow generic when he tries to push some of these sex lyrics in and it just feels awkward especially coming from him of all people. and the complaining songs (as i call them) about shit he always complains about (fans, music critics, being a d list internet celebrity at best) is so fucking tired and also some of the things he complains about are usually his fault and something he can stop.
i do think they want to keep growing and making music but i also feel like they're trying to convince themselves that they are in the first place bc things just don't flow the same anymore especially now that they don't even all live in the same place. i don't think they're sticking to whatever plan awsten had in his head for this album from the looks of it bc i have a feeling it's been reworked a lot and he's kind of stalling its official announcement to rework it in the first place.
as of taking a break, while that is a good idea and you know they probably won't anyways, have you seen awsten? he barely takes breaks and even when he says he does, it just means he's lurking without saying anything because he doesn't wanna say shit. he legit has not taken a real break since goddamn 2010 because even after he finishes something, he's always onto something else. in fact, i'm pretty sure the only reason there's such big gaps between the eps was just to gather the resources and promo they needed to record them in the first place bc they're always making some shit no matter what. i don't trust him to take a break even if they're burned out bc he'll always have something to say and write as stupid as he manages it.
it's ironic you use the term experimentation considering they're really just relapsing into that modern distilled pop punk sound when their last album was experimental one. i feel like if awsten's trying to go mainstream on the radio, let him; it won't necessarily mean it's the best they've put out. and awsten never knows when enough's enough; he'll take things too far every time (love, internet jokes, etc etc) and won't jump back until he stops posting (only for a little while of course and he'll still lurk himself in that time) and come back so that everyone tells him they love him and he'll believe it until he takes things too far again and the cycle repeats like it always does - iz
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shiny-jr · 2 years
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Nah don’t apologize, I should’ve explained better 🖤 And it’s cool that you can’t write the first part, main reason why I requested Kalim and Deuce is cuz I never really see yandere works for them? And I like how you write so yeah lol. And tbh they wouldn’t even hurt a fly.
But since you won’t do the first one, can I tell you my thoughts?
I do kinda see Kalim as a more…manipulative yandere? Like Kalim is a greedy person, used to getting what he wants and the lavish and just living in the clouds. He knows he’s cute and comes off innocent so idk, I feel like he would use it to his advantage but not consciously? He’s not actively trying to manipulate you, but hey if his puppy eyes and begging work, then who is he to complain? Does that make sense 🤔 when making that request I had a picture in my head of reader with solid gold handcuffs and Kalim just…keeps on adding weights or something to prevent them from trying to leave. The cuffs hurt and readers wrists are sore and peeling, but all he says is sorry and that it hurts him more than it hurts reader…
Deuce was significantly more harder to imagine lol. This thought isn’t as detailed just, maybe his mom hinted at how reader would make a perfect spouse. And we all know how much he wants to please his mom, so maybe he starts pushing that agenda. Getting a bit too touchy-feely and overprotective cuz he doesn’t want anyone taking his mom-approved reader. And then…idk. Maybe his delinquency past shows back up when he notices people too close…? Idk, his really gave me trouble 😭 but I could definitely see him as a delusional yandere.
…can you tell I’m not like a yandere writer? Lmao this is way out of my expertise. These were just what was going on in my head when making the first request of “it hurts me more than you” or something along that line 🤷‍♀️
Lately I've been writing more "softer" yanderes on Tumblr so I'll just clarify that first. Anon, it's a bit contradictory how you say "they wouldn't hurt a fly" then proceed to describe them harming their s/o or another person.
Hm, well, I wouldn't say Kalim is manipulative. I would say he's more... guilty tripy. Of course, without really meaning to or most of the time not even know he's guilt tripping someone. But I have to say, (considering what I wrote at the top) I cannot see the whole handcuff thing, especially to the extent where it's physically hurting the other. Emotional/mental chains can be just as damaging through, without directly being physically harmful. Every time his s/o would consider going somewhere, they immediately think of how Kalim will react without their company, preventing them from going anywhere or doing anything without him. As for Deuce, I'm not sure. I find it kind of strange that his mother's approval would be the beginning of his fixation on his s/o–– or at least the beginning of it becoming visible. I can see his mother's approval possibly increasing or somehow worsening his behavior, but that's about it.
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transmandrake · 1 year
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Feel like being a hater today. Want to complain. Todays target is guilt tripping you to reblog or complaining about the like to reblog ratio, especially 'if youre not gonna reblog dont interact'.
*siren noises* Hating below *siren noises*
First off I am not reblogging if you say that
second off woooaaah whaaaat more people pressed a button to save your post for easier looking back on rather than sharing it with the 1 person and 20 bots that follow them, wow, shocking.
Third off, what an awful perspective. 'Don't indicate you enjoyed what I said if you aren't going to give me more attention.' Like. People reblog. To share something. When things get shared. More people look at it. When more people look at it. You get more indications people saw it. For real you need a break from the internet if you think people showing they read your post rather than, yknow, nothing, is angering you.
Like... if you want people to support your art don't... tell everyone that interacting with you pisses you off??? 'I only want to see you if youre showing my stuff to other people' goddamn. It is fucking sad this attitude developing.
Like to be clear I hate the behaviour not the people, of course people are angry no ones giving them the attention they DESERVE but this is not it. Seeing people as only potential customers or marketers is a miserable perspective. A like is not an indicator of someone not sharing your post. Its someone saying 'I saw this, and I wanted to see it again' not that tumblr has bookmarks but unless I'm wierd, likes are basically shit bookmarks to people right. I do feel like likes should do *something* but getting mad at them is not cool. Be nicer to people.
Fourth off, whaaat your meme post is 100x more popular than your art? Fucking groundbreaking. To what ratio do you tell jokes versus show someone something you made in real life. People are goofing every day and so are you! People share stuff they think the people around them will like or they want them to see! Shockingly, more people will like to see jokes and interesting facts than like to see art of your oc with no context! It sucks but its not wierd and its not people purposely being mean! Its not even people saying they like your funnies more than your art!
If your not-art takes off I guarantee its like a handful of people who followed you who shared it and hundreds of people who werent following you who almost certainly haven't even read your username on the post. Please stop thinking about people as potential customers. You made hundreds of people laugh probably. I know its not a substitute for human interaction and its hard to imagine text in a screen as people who saw what you said, but you'll be miserable if you see 1000s of likes or notes or whatever and see that as 1000 people who could have been looking at your stuff instead. Like yeah some of those people probably would like your stuff, its kinda sad the structure of the internet now funnels people to shareable stuff rather than art and such. But the people enjoying your not art, or other peoples not art, are not like... sucking away your potential commissions or whatever bizarre way people talk about this.
Okay, hating over (the hating is never over) (well not until it is. give me like a day tops tbh)
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kimtaegis · 1 year
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Vibe will totally be a sex song omg it's funny 'cause even though that's normal I never imagined one of the members finally releasing/being part of a song that is so ~~~~~~ you know what I mean? I know that they always have had sexy songs and sexy performances but right now we are in a point that we always knew would come but at the same time it never did? sjdsjkhd and now is the time... like they only started to show their bodies more recently and that's crazy because I feel like we'll never get used to it and we'll always be surprised, even we and them are much older
I'm not complaining though, it's good to see their confidence and it's mostly in those times when we realise that they indeed are grown men, you know? It's easy to forget that when they are all so cute and intimate with ARMY
ahdhfjjfagkl I had to chuckle reading your ask 😭 from the teaser alone I’m actually not too sure if it’s gonna be that on the nose? tbh I’m not really caring about this at all; jimin’s a grown ass man and yes I totally agree it’s so amazing to see them be comfortable and confident in their own bodies. I’d rather see them doing something mature and sensual than them getting dressed like infants for concepts, I don’t know, I think it’s important for fans to remember their actual age, some take the “tiny baby” endearment a little too seriously for my taste. But same the other way around, the sexualisation of them reaches disgusting extremes sometimes. so yeah, I think that’s quite a problematic topic actually! but I do understand what you wanted to convey. anyways, I’m very much looking forward to their collab, I’m most excited about a possible choreo!
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ofmermaidstories · 1 year
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hello merms! i've recently been on an animal crossing binge, just for some relaxing and time away from everything else, because its just a very fun and easy game <3 (also combatting the cold and dark days by playing a game where i can see the sun) i am currently designing my island (trying to get to 5*'s!! i just unlocked terraforming and such) and went to yours because i wanted some ideas (i've been to your island once, in 2021 for your birthday! it's changed so much — everything changes when things go on for long enough) but i am here to say that i loved your island tremendously !!! your house is so cute and its full of personality, and tbh exactly what i imagined your house (irl or otherwise) would look like!! i loved all the music you had playing and ur lil bkg poster <3 i saw you in the dream and all you said to me was 'don't talk about it' LMAO kinda creepy, kinda on brand? i'm also very jealous that you have shino!! she's next on my list for villagers (i am lucky enough to have sasha [my favorite], and raymond, along with a few others i enjoy)
but thank you for opening your island and sharing it! i had a blast exploring and looking at everything and it was very beautiful <3
Scout! Hello!! Happy Gaming! 🌷🌿
The animal crossing party in 2021! That was held on Cat’s island—Gratitude. 🌻 Fun fact, I drew Gratitude’s flag. 😌✨ But i’m so excited you came to Hettisland!!! 🥺 Good luck on the five stars!!! I believe in you!!! I hit three stars and then just accepted I’d never hit five, LOL (i have too many trees! Isabelle tells you the islanders are complaining about getting lost among them, if you over do it!). Cat gave me some of the Lily-of-the-Valley that grows on Gratitude, so I use them to dot around Hettisland instead of worrying about growing my own. 🥺🌷
But lmaooo, I’m glad you liked my resident home. 🥹 The current version has taken a lot of fussing and random midnight trades through AC groups—dream home woes. 😩 And of course, on top of that, we had to represent our boy. 😌💥✨ His code actually replaced a space filler i had before, so for ages after downloading it, i was finding random Bakugous dotted all around my island lmaooo.
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when you mentioned Henrietta (my island rep) was saying creepy shit i was like, ????? but then i remembered i’d entered it as my passport comment. 😭 humiliating, LOL. i got on and changed it today, though, so it’s less… ominous (“I’m gonna catch bugs!” which might be still ominous but is hopefully better suited to the vibes of Hettisland lmaooo). 🥹 speaking of horror islands though, have you ever visited Purgatory? Evil Imp makes like, little movies with New Horizons and their island is like a haunted film set, LOL, it’s so intricate! Creepy too, although sometimes that’s dispelled when you’re walking past some whistling islander, LOL. But apparently Evil had poured like, 1600+ hours into the island by the time the dream address was available to people. 🥺 It’s really fun to explore!! Every house tells a story!!!
Shino!!! Yeah, she’s a cutie—she was a camper, and at the time I had a rooster I really hated (he was a snobby, and I already had one—plus he was lowkey kinda mean LMAO i couldn’t tolerate it), so I asked her to stay. Mostly though I just take what I’m given, in terms of who shows up on the island—i think the variety is fun (unless it’s that hateful rooster!!!)
But anyways—thank-you for visiting!!! 🥺 I hope it gave you some fun ideas, for your island!
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rodolfoparras · 13 days
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I'm gonna make it where the outfit I drew Talia in is what he wears on more lazy days as it's not as difficult to get on. The lace shirts and such are for days he wants to look extra fancy (most days, he loves theater ofc he likes being dramatic)
He is very protective of Will even though William like doesn't care when people yell at him, he's legit too bitchy to care😭 Virgil could call him 50 different slurs (he would never, Virgil is an asshole but he's not that mean) and William would just be like🙄 "are you done throwing a tantrum now? You made us fall behind on reaping and I do not want to do overtime"
Virgil is probably one of my more toxic characters tbh, I love spoiling myself every so often by writing a pretty boy that's a piece of shit. Virgil will never accept any real help, he says he wants to get better but sabotages any attempts. The only person who can "help" him is Grell, she'll help him clean himself up, do his hair and makeup but it's not any real help. Virgil won't let her do more than repair his mask so he can go back to being his dramatic self, extravagant and joking all the time. :( as such, I'm not giving him a relationship because it'll only end in a dumpster fire
I'm honestly debating making a second demon oc :3 pretty deer demon that is loyal to Sebastian!! powerful demons can have some type of authority over less powerful demons. Deer boy doesn't really care about Sebastians power, he's just like ooh the pretty demon wants my help? :3
Than they find out he has to work for a little rich brat and regrets it. Deer boy also isn't allowed to interact with guests because he has no patience for stupidity. Someone complained that the tea he made wasn't good enough and he screamed at them to suck it up😭 I made him mostly for cool antler demon horns and the fun :3
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Oh I absolutely love that concept and it’s very practically too!!!! I mean I can’t imagine having to wear fancy smancy tight clothing with intricate details 24/7
I’m imaging William spacing out looking bored as ever or glancing at his non existent watch while he’s being cussed out😭
But I absolutely love that he has at least someone to patch him up at the end of the day or else his arc would be a little too sad 😭 like I don’t need a character to be changed just please give them a hug or something every once a while 😞
Oh I absolutely love lovestruck characters who cant find it in themselves to be terrified of a person bc they’re crushing on them 😭 it’s like a little kitty being endeared by a big dog
Well hello at least he can stand up for himself also why do I feel like he’d say that if someone were to call him out😭
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