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Nooooooo 😭😭😭😭

I fear the sun/saturn dynamic is true. Even tho I don’t want it to be 😓 (Krittika)

😬😬it be like that bestie

the thing that ive noticed is that most men who initially take interest in women who "challenge" them is that very soon it spirals into hatred because ultimately you cannot stay in a relationship with someone who's always "challenging" you (this could be subconscious and not actual challenges)

I am the dog yoni gal. Ashlesha moon here (I was here during that drama and had a good laugh because of that stupid anon😂) and he’s a Swati moon. Yes he IS dominant both in bed and in general.

On daily basis — He’s again dominant can go a little overboard with it sometimes and VERY controlling. Stubborn as hell (we both are). Always looks for a way to make me feel bad or ashamed of myself. Would blow up on me for the smallest things and if I do something good he’d never be happy for me always dismiss them as irrelevant. Anger issues at peak. Severe trust issues but he’s the player as well over here. Would fuck anything that has a vagina. I used to let him do all of this and be the mouse but that’s no longer the case I don’t like to be controlled and value my freedom way too much so I just give him a piece of my mind whenever he starts acting like an ass. I don’t hold back on my words and just say all the things I want to cause I can’t stand being disrespected like that at all. It’s as if I was blindfolded and only now it has been removed. I know he can never stand a chance against me cause I’ve never done something shitty to him. So yeah he’s TOXIC. I’d say delusional as well cause he’d just spew sone of the most absurd shit I’ve ever came across when he’s jealous. Tries to manipulate me but I see through his bullshit and let him believe his fantasy.

In bed (TMI ahead) — He’s dominant and a top. Not as kinky as I thought he would be but we have done sone great shit together. One time we literally did it on a street. He’s fearless and doesn’t shy away from touching me in public. He’s actually the one who initiates a lot of times cause I’m just way too shy. He’s a sucker for curvy women. Doesn’t last long and gets tired too easily. Even tho he says he wants to make me squirt (or atleast cum) infront of him he can’t and he’s never done that. The most we’ve done is 2 rounds and that’s it. It’s kinda frustrating cause I never get to cum and my libido is very high. I don’t really get tired easily. The way to my cat is through my mind and he’s never understood that. You need to stimulate me mentally and only then I can get turned on.

omg 😲😲pls tell me you're not still with him??? none of my business but this does not sound healthy?? 😶

one thing im grateful for with astrology is that it helps me filter out creepy men (and even then i suffer but i blame that on my delulu nature)

I’m a dog yoni and he’s a buffalo. What do you think?

Dog yoni means you're a Nodal gal and Buffalo yoni means he's either Hasta or Swati. i guess get ready to be manipulated and gaslit lol 🤪IM KIDDING I don't think anyone can narrow down someone's vibes to just their moon nak but on paper dog yoni and buffalo yoni does not sound good to me. they'll probably make your feel really small and insignificant. he's too dominant?? kind of impatient?? every Hasta ik is an asshole and most Swatis are liars so 😳😬

Hi! To both the anons who talked about the sun-satun couple thanks for your info ❤. Although I'm Anuradha moon (pushya asc.) I was interested in knowing more about Krittika men because I saw that it could be a yoni match+ what anon was saying about Sun men liking women who are mean to them. Well i don't think I'm mean to anyone but yeah I tend to stick with what I feel is right and wrong and I won't bend over backwards when it comes to my belief system. Esp. with men I feel like it's important to make it clear beforehand about your boundaries. Anyhow thanks guys ✨💕

Interesting 🤔 thanks for sharing!!

I’m a Pushya sun and my ex was Uttara Phalguni sun and rising. When things were good they were GREAT, however when things were bad it was an absolute nightmare.

He was extremely judgemental towards my body count and sexual history. I told him if it’s a problem let’s just break up bc I literally cannot change it. He told me that I “wasn’t just some girl”, so he’ll have to overcome it. Proceeded to spend the majority of the relationship berating me for it, calling me a slut and a prostitute. He said the cruelest things a person has ever said to me. He said 99% of men would never love me and he was the 1% of idiots that did. When I finally cracked and went crazy and shouted at him, he held that over my head and i felt terrible for it. At that point we were smoking a lot of weed, and I could barely even process my emotions, it was terrible. I explained all the terrible symptoms I was experiencing and told him I would stop. All the symptoms I said, he told me is what he feels like all the time for years (because he had been smoking like this long before he met me). He told me he would stop as well. That was a lie.

He got super violent, would beat me up so badly during sex, would also pressure me into having sex with him - he would ask over and over and over again until I said yes. He also knew he was doing this cos one time he asked me if I felt pressured by him to have sex and I said yes and he got so angry AT ME for him pressuring me. There was an instance where he hit me across the head and it hurt so bad I had trouble hearing for days and I told him that he hit me too hard, my ears are ringing and he just giggled and said “I know”.

A month before our relationship ended I found out he had a tik tok account where he would post alpha male podcast clips (keep in mind we’re grown adults) - had no idea about this the entire relationship. Also, he pretty much lied to me about everything (granted he has a Rahu moon) even the most stupid things like liking anime for example. I just thought it was cringe and I didn’t watch it at all, and he lied and said he felt the same - come to find he had like anime pfp for a bunch of his online accounts. Lied to me about his family, where he came from, friends, romantic and sexual history, his interests, likes and dislikes, so many things. I had also found a message from a dating app on his phone.

The relationship ended after I found out he relapsed again and completely lied to me about it and was cancelling plans with me just to smoke and play video games with his friends. When I broke up with him, he begged me stay, said no one had ever loved and cared for him this much except for his mother, all of these things. Made me even more confused as to why he treated me like I was the devil then?? I was past the point of conversation so it was just a bad ending. He punched my mattress and told me I would regret leaving him. That was the last I ever saw him.

Goes without saying I learnt a bunch from that relationship! I’m pretty sure he hated my guts but I took care of him and met a lot of his basic needs (Maslow’s hierarchy) so he kept me around to fulfil them. I think he was also just possessive; he didn’t want me but more than that he didn’t want to see me with anyone else. Some of the worst days of my life were in this relationship but in a weird way I feel like this was Saturn teaching me a lesson - I was an idiot who literally forgot who I was for this relationship, made it my number one priority, and had zero self-esteem or self-advocacy. So many points where I should’ve walked away but I learnt the hard way. Never again!!

I am so glad you got out of that relationship!!! Please stay safe!!! Thank you so much for sharing your experience because in my own experiences my yoni consort has been toxic and abusive as well (it does not compare to yours at all tho). I wish you so much peace and healing. You're so strong 🫶

Side note: have you guys ever noticed how a Nodal person seems to be proud of/brag about their interests if at all they have any?? 8/10 they'll be lying about the depth of their involvement in it too lol?? Is it bc Nodal people find it hard to connect to things so when they do, they're just like 😤imma make this my whole personality 😤my ex spoke about how obsessed he was with Greek mythology and how much money he spent on Greek mythology books but he could never talk about it at length?? (he also had substance issues so i attributed it to that tbh)

this is kind of changing my life as we speak

“In order to be free you simply have to be so, without asking permission of anybody. You have to have your own hypothesis about what you are called to do, and follow it, not giving in to circumstances or complying with them. But that sort of freedom demands powerful inner resources, a high degree of self-awareness, a consciousness of your responsibility to yourself and therefore to other people.”

Andrei Tarkovsky, from “The artist’s responsibility,” Sculpting in Time, trans. Kitty Hunter-Blair (University of Texas Press, 1987)

Ari Aster wants to be Yorgos Lanthimos and Yorgos Lanthimos wants to be Terry Gilliam and Terry Gilliam wants to tumble down some stairs like a slinky

I think that anon that talked about krittika and pushya couple , that dynamic is not the result of their yoni but more of a sun/saturn dynamic. Sun people men especially tend to be attracted to women who are mean to them or bully them and I think Saturn women tend to be more like that. Sun Saturn dynamic are the OG enemies to lovers. They can’t stand each other but they end up in a relationship anyway. They’re the type that can’t stop bickering and nagging each other but deep down they love each other

i just realized that Sun + Saturn naks are yoni consorts (Krittika + Pushya, UBP + Uttaraphalguni and Uttarashada that does not have a consort)

are the rumours true Sun/Saturn folks?? do ya'll have an enemies to lovers type bond 👀

ill be going about my day, ill be fine and then ill remember how he had my name saved and 🤧😩😭😔🥹

What should I consider to be my yoni? Like my big 3?

typically only the moon nak's yoni animal is considered to be one's yoni animal. the word yoni means vagina in sanskrit and in my personal experience, ive found that the moon yoni animal describes the sexual nature of a person the most (even in a very literal way) but i do think the other big 3 yoni animals can influence the overall energy/perception of a person

this website describes the sexual nature of all yoni animals

I have elephant and cat yoni, and all of my friends have cat yoni (punarvasu more commonly than ashlesha, but we’ve gone through the whole ashlesha discourse recently lol), monkey yoni and serpent yoni.

I also have other elephant yoni friends but I find it harder to connect with them unless they also have the other yoni animals I mentioned. But idk if I would go as far as to say that yoni consorts aren’t compatible.

I think it’s important to remember that if you are a punarvasu (for example) and you struggle to get along with ashlesha natives, it may be more indicative that they’re just an insufferable person expressing their insufferable-ness in an ashlesha way, rather than being incompatible with the nak itself. Also house overlays and other yoni animals in the chart make a huge difference.

I know people with my yoni consort who I find absolutely intolerable on every level, but I also know some who I get along with very well. You can either be similar in the right ways or all the wrong ways, depending on who you’re lucky enough to come across.

So imo yoni consorts are often a “twin flame” kind of situation rather than being compatible or incompatible. Your negative experience is still valid though and I am no way trying to take away from that🩷🩷

interesting 👀

tbh i've found it hard to get along with the yoni consort of all naks in my big 3, ive found them all intolerable lol but maybe i just havent met a positive manifestation of that yoni animal yet idk

absolutely!! i think synastry matters a lottt and compatibility is more than just yoni consort stuff

What placements can cause issues with friendships and building a social network/lack of social network?

Tbh any of the water houses esp 8h/12h

having outcaste naks, having a lot of concentrated energy (stelliums, repetitive placements etc) bc you need to have a more diverse range of energy to draw from in order to make many friends??

Moon + Mercury = loner vibezzz

Many Rohinis ik are loners

Having retrograde Mercury or personal planets as well bc they affect your ability to connect to others

Tbh an afflicted mercury + venus is what affects someone's ability to connect to others the MOST

what are your thoughts on Mrigashira men? 👀

Mars men in general are not my type tbh ,, they're too dry and flat for me?? if that makes sense?? ive never met an interesting Mars ruled guy, they're all so withdrawn and boring but they could be conservative with their energy and perhaps don't open up easily idk

Tell me what y'all think of Mars men

hey! a few weeks ago maybe, i asked you about yoni animal compatibility and you said something about yoni consorts not being good for eachother. can you explain why you think that? i met a couple few days ago. she is a pushya moon and he is a krittika moon. they've been together for like 3 years and know eachother for more and when i see them it's like they kinda hate eachother a little? they obviously don't and they have chemistry and they are kinda goals but i see that she is always mocking him or getting mad at him, even insulting him lol. a week ago i saw her choking him and slapping him (he was laughing) and for them its natural to treat eachother like that? it reminded me of what you said and i wonder if thats the reason? like the relationship gets too intense? thank you sm!

i think yoni consorts usually never get along. i absolutely detest my yoni consort nak. I don't actually have a reason as to why this is the case except that perhaps the yoni consort sort of projects the shadow of your yoni animal. every relationship needs balance and that's achieved when you're with someone who shares a yoni animal that's compatible with yours. if two people have the same yoni animal, then neither of their needs are being met tbh, they don't satisfy each other emotionally or otherwise. I think this can lead to resentment and frustration. also if two people are too similar then neither of them will feel seen. there has to be enough differences to even things out. someone I had an extremely difficult relationship with was my yoni consort and she & i were super similar in terms of what we liked, were drawn to, wanted from others etc but obviously this meant that when one person got this, the other would feel personally challenged. also if you've noticed yoni consorts are usually naks that are extremely different from each other as well. take elephant yoni, Revati is the final mercury ruled nak, shudra caste and Deva gana whereas Bharani is the first Venus nak, outcaste and manushya gana. they're so different, I'd be surprised if they had anything in common with each other at all.

ive heard some astrologers say that if the man has a rakshasa gana nak, the woman must have Deva gana nak to balance things out.