Professors and Mental Health Response
TLDR on the bottom. TW for ablelist peers and mentions of mental health issues.
So, this semester I have a group project. It's my final class before I graduate in May this year. My group leader started to act ablelist towards me- calling my mental health issues and emergency surgery and PTSD and post-op depression "personal problems" even though I had letters from my Psychiatrist written to my professor to explain that I am struggling with day-to-day life so to excuse late assignments. My group leader criticized me for doing a "bad job" on a report I was expected to turn in Monday and said I was "sassing" her when I tried to explain that I literally just had surgery on Thursday before and came home Friday night.
I put up with it, trying to get my part of the work done alone, because when I tried to reach out for help in the group chat, I was ignored. And then after class one day, she insisted I get all my late work done in two days, which I tried to tell her it was my soft deadline and that four days was my hard deadline, since I needed to be kinder to myself due to my health becoming worse. She said no, two days and that was final. "We all have our personal problems."
I came up to a fellow student I know fairly well to ask what I should do in this kind of situation, knowing he also had disabilities. He immediately convinced me to talk to my professor. He helped me through that, and the professor promised to talk to my group leader the next day.
Cue a week later. I get an email from my professor, telling me he wanted a one-on-one meeting. My anxiety surged. Oh no...am I in trouble? Did my group leader lie and tell him I was being ridiculous?
But I was wrong. He told me he was so worried when he had heard how horrible I was referring to myself during our conversation the week before. That without mentioning my name, he talked to the university counselors for advice. I reassured him I have a therapist and psychiatrist working with me, and that my negative self-talk is a work in progress.
The point is guys, this is how all professors should react to alarming symptoms of mental health. My professor did everything right. He contacted professionals of the university without saying my name at first, immediately had a private meeting with me, and now is helping me by working with me on due dates and making sure my group members treat me fairly.
Once again guys, it's important to fight for the right to be treated fairly. You have a right to be treated like a human being and get the accommodations you need.
TLDR; My professor saw alarming mental health symptoms, and acted respectfully with professionals and is working with me to make sure I succeed. He is a great example of what should be expected.
I now have more hope in humanity.
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Learning about gender equality and gender roles in my sociology class and it’s so cool! I’m the only non-binary and non cis person that I know of in the class and the professor knows and he DIDN’T single me out and it was so nice! I got to participate in the discussion without feeling like I was going to be confronted as an expert on all non cis people and it was so nice! The professor asked the whole class if there were 2 genders and a kid who sits next to me and has been looking at all my non binary pride and they/them stickers said that he thought there were infinite genders and it was fucking awesome!! Also a section in this weeks chapter is about the socialization of gender roles and it’s extremely refreshing bcz it’s not lumping gender roles and gender identity together. It’s explaining societal gender roles and how they impact and affect people and it ACKNOWLEDGED intersex people, which I have NEVER seen before in a textbook. Especially coming from a conservative area and high school this was just so relieving and calmly discussed it was shocking.
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Seeing how 'Wish' is supposed to be a celebration of a century of Disney that's chock full of homages and nods to their past films, no matter what happens in the film, there's really only one suitable end for King Magnifico:
(source Buzzfeed)
I'm just saying....
It's a tradition!
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Today I went to work in one of the computer labs for my portfolio class. The guy next to me found a flash drive left in the computer, obviously a busy student forgot it. When he told me I looked over to see if there was file names indicating who owned it. All our naming conventions have our first and last names, so it was good odds there'd be an assignment on there we could get their name from.
INSTEAD! The first name we found on it was mine.
My name, on a movie file. When he clicked it it was an old freshman animation I did of Harley Quinn. We both stared at the computer in confusion. "Is this your flash drive?" he asked hesitantly.
"It's absolutely not mine... what else is on it?"
After digging we found another name and I contacted the student. It turns out the animation professor had recommended she reference my old animation since she was doing Harley Quinn too, so there was a reasonable explanation but there has been fewer instances more surreal than seeing my name pop up on a strangers flash drive from the lab seat next to mine.
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DAMN YOU @bajingoarts DAMN YOU
Y’all their stuff is so amazing I can’t even- and CRIPES THEIR WRITING-
Pic below is a spoiler for their A03 fic, Year of The Rat, that you should definitely if you love The Great Mouse Detective but don’t think it was gay enough. (Because let’s face it, basil and Ratigan were FRUITY AF) (also the fic has warnings as well but it is for a mature audience) :)
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What if Basil became the villain and Ratigan the hero? One good day...one bad day...could have turned either of them into something else entirely.
AKA Ratigan becomes sad and repressed and Basil become the evil manic twink he's always been.
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THEY LOOK SO ADORABLE!!! ITS AMAZING SEEING THEM AGAIN! Also Lucifer possibly wanting to eat Ratigan and Ratigan looking at him like "Oh HEEELL No!" Is just hilarious XD
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