Let’s be honest, showing up for yourself doesn’t come naturally. It requires a high level of self love and discipline that is incredibly challenging. If you can’t root for yourself to that extent, how can you expect others to do so?

stop checking your phone every minute, nobody loves you

Blake is not the misunderstood villain you think he is I'm begging you to reconsider your love options

When the girls say to treat yourself, they mean treat yourself.

stop having a crush on people who doesn't reciprocate your feelings stop having a crush on people who doesn't reciprocate your feelings stop having a crush on people who doesn't reciprocate your feelings stop having a crush on people who doesn't reciprocate your feelings stop-

little treat from me to me as my leaving present 🤗🖤✨

I am officially 32 at this moment in time ☺️ I got my first tattoo ❤️‍🔥

Moon Taeil is a Frank Ocean enthusiast never forget it

school is done for the year for me AND I just bought Sabrina Carpenter tickets to see her in concert in May!!

The sky is the self.

Imagine oneself as the sky, holding space for ever-changing weather patterns. While the weather changes constantly, the sky remains the same. While life constantly ebbs and flows, remain yourself

Allow yourself to accept all changes just as the sky accepts all weather patterns: without struggle.

The storms, the dark clouds, the rain, the sunshine, the drought, the hurricanes….they will all pass. The negative thoughts, the ‘void’, the apathy….they will all pass.

Acceptance.

Damn I complain about not having enough material for my demo reel but there I have many unfinished animation files

Oh c'mon 🤡🤡🤡

(bestie @femme--de--lettres tagged me in a fandom celebration tag, and like them, i too have been absent and busy so here....are some things i can muster:

fandom related:

-i wrote my thing for candyhearts! i was honestly concerned i wasn't going to start it or finish it or even think of an idea but here we are

-forever celebrating new milestones for my fics. NMTW is almost at 30,000 hits??? ten reasons is almost at 40k, and the kudos keep coming. also my fic that shall not be named is past 700 kudos which is BAFFLING to me. so i celebrate that. forever so so grateful for everyone.

-ive actually gotten to read some spectacular fic this month and that deserves to be celebrated. though I'm not a rec blog, i might go around and do that

not fandom related:

-IVE STARTED FORMING MY COMMITTEE FOR MY BIG FUCKIN PAPER! I have an idea for what I'm doing!! and its going to be GREAT.

-my lorge babe is currently part of tech theatre and is designing sets for his schools spring musical and that deserves to be celebrated

-i made really good brownies this month

-i also have been trying to branch out of exclusively like latinx cuisine and latinx-american food and have been making a lot more curry and like...middle eastern inspired dishes? i made butter chickpeas the other day. and shawarma. going to try dolma sometime soon?? and idk that's exciting to me.)

Dear future me,

I actually don't want to know how things are going for us, I just want to tell you that is okay to take a break sometimes, you've been working REALLY hard for a long time, don't feel too pressured to do all the things in your "to do" list. You are exactly where you need to be, don't rush what you want to last for a long time. We still got time to make life wonderful. You are loved, you are protected, you are abundant, you are magical, you are the main character, you decide how you want to live your life. You are doing great, I admire you! Please don't ever give up on yourself. I love you a lot.