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leeha225 · 2 years

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Hyunjin×Fem reader

⚠genre⚠: fluff, college scenario, teacher student relationship, maybe forbidden love, red strings attached, very very veryyyy sugar sweet, yet smut says Hi😈

Synopsis: Final year of art school and you still don't know what to do in life. Everything takes a turn when he stepped in, for better or worst. Worst is interesting sometimes. Make my rules sounds nice but feelings never lie.

(a/n: it's all fiction people no hate!!!!)

Warm cup of tea for the day, wrapping her hands around it for heat radiate through her skin, she looked out her apartment window. Evening sun set painting the sky with an array of colors. Wind blew fluttering her art material set for her now due assignment. Since it was the last year attending class everyday wasn't necessary and y/n being the best student never needed so.

Taking a sip of her tea, y/n sat over at her table and took a sheet of paper out. To warm up her hands, she quickly did a rough sketch of anything she thought of. Her pencil like it were possessed drew her pulsing emotions... A boy... No a man.... No... Hwang Hyunjin.

Y/n drew the very view she admired, his gentle smile with the cute crescent curve of his eyes. Looking at it made her flush up again, putting away the drawing quickly, y/n went over to start yer assignment.

Half way through her assignment with the base sketch, her phone vibrated on the table with a low buzz. It was Chungha.

C:Heeyyyyyyyy🤩

Y/n: ola amigo~✋

C: The university is hosting an Art exhibition and Mr K asked if you want to donate any of your paintings!!!

Y/n: I don't have anything exhibition-able

C: Then make one... You have time till next month. He asked you to come tomorrow.

Y/n: okay 😪

C: Seeeeya😎 Good luck 🤗

Y/n had to know the details about the exhibition, rushing up to the office, she couldn't help but feel excited. This was an amazing opportunity for her chance to Paris. Maybe she could even earn money if anyone bought her piece.

"Mr K?" Y/n knocked softly at his cabin door.

"Come in" Inside were decorated with old and new paintings, several paintings stacked in boxes at the side, well yes the place was rubbish but... Colorful.

"Ahhh Y/n, I was expecting you... Come with me" Y/n followed Mr K out to another cabin, to find a junior staff going through few sketches.

"Ms U this is y/n one of my best students" Brief greetings. "She wants to participate in the art exhibition donating some of her artworks"

"Do have anything that you would like to present?" The young woman maybe in her 20s spoke softly with a smile.

"Um... I was thinking since I have one month time, could paint a new one?" Fiddling with the hem of her blouse, y/n felt a sudden break of cold sweat.

"Well the thing is that we have to put up the artworks on the brochure and that has to be sent everywhere"

"O-oh... But I don't have any-"

"Let it be a mystery piece" Y/n jolted at the voice from behind, it was Mr Hwang right behind her that she could feel his presence towering over her.

"A mystery piece is only done with recognized artists to attract visitors" Mr K said while Y/n couldn't think straight. Too close was all she could think holding her breathe.

"It's fine I'll try next-"

"Use my name, I'll be her mentor and I'll produce a piece too with her" All three eyes went wide. Y/n finally turned to look at him, he looked straight at her with a smile. His hair was tied this time, and his usual casual hoodie was replaced with a white cardigan button that hung loose over his body, exposing ample of his collarbone. Paired with formal pants... Classic. Y/n quickly turned away to hide her naughty gaze.

"Great then, you both can use the art room as much as you want. I need to see the progress every week. Two paintings soon"

"Yes Mr K. Thank you Ms U" Y/n still blank slowly processing. Hyunjin walked away with a low chuckle to himself... Is he enjoying this?!

"Y/n a word" Mr K called for her to his cabin. To his dusty cabin again, how does he even survive here without a wheeze. "Sit down, I really need you to take this opportunity seriously, because your paired with one of the best renowned artist. I'm genuinely thankful because he denied my offer in presenting a piece, but now because of you he reconsidered. So, just go with the flow, any problems you can approach me. Okay?"

"He's famous?"

"That's a secret but yeah it's a golden opportunity, not to worry. Also don't ask him personal questions because he doesn't like being...talked about. Good luck then" Something felt off, because y/n felt like she was getting ready to babysit a grumpy kid.

"Thank you Mr K" Y/n walked out of the dust and opened the staff room door to find Mr Hwang leaning against the wall waiting for her.

"Mr H-Hwang" Y/n softly greeted and he came over to her.

"Ms y/n, Let's talk" Instantly he turned away and walked to the nearest empty classroom. Screeching two chairs to the middle face to face for them. Y/n sat down awkwardly adjusting herself as the man sat down casually legs crossed. "What is your art style?" He asked taking out his phone.

"Um...Minimalism? both impressionism and post-impressionism, aesthetics pastel colors and emotions" He peeked from his phone at her, inhaling sharply.

"You know what is my style?" He leaned forward, exposing his chest a bit. Y/n shook her head flushed every moment with the man "Realism, Baroque, expressionism, and emotions. What do you think we have in common?" She looked up at him and wondered, how their thoughts were completely different, he was more of beige guy while hers a more pink. But one thing sure did coincide.

"Emotions" His face lit up.

"Exactly. We are going portray our emotions...Romanticism" The last word was soft as a whisper. Hyunjin stood up to walk towards the board. Playing with the marker lid he leaned back against the board with his gaze fixed at the student up front. "What do you think is romanticism y/n?"

"Expression of emotions of an individual towards anything, like nature, music, art forms and-"

"People yes, very good. But I think it's felony. It isn't real romanticism" Hyunjin tried pushing y/n to the edge to get it out of her.

"Why do you think so Mr Hwang?" Y/n feigned innocence to bring him to the edge too.

"Because if you could love it then why should we learn to let it go" Hyunjin came over and bent to align his gaze with hers.

"W-well they say when person losses someone or something, they are given the most powerful strength of endurance. Love and loss are proportional to one another. Cannot be balanced because everyone will come across feelings of grief once in a while" Y/n bit make a tear as Hyunjin sharp gaze wavered as he was of loss of words.

"Well said" He clapped. "That will be our theme then" Brushing back his hair, Hyunjin went over to write that one the board. 'Love and Loss'. "We are supposed to produce two works, so one is Love and other Loss. Which do you choose?"

"Um, I don't know... Loss?"

"You do Love" Y/n nibbled on her lip because she wasn't familiar with it... Much... Maybe but maybe not. "Have you not witnessed love y/n?"

"No, just a crush but got over it" Hyunjin narrowed his gaze, inhaling deeply as he sat across from her again and whispered.

"Don't worry. I'll help you with that" He smirked to himself toying with her like he was with the marker in Hand.

"Y-yes?" Her questioning gaze was cut off by the bell. Y/n jumped up at the sudden siren, adjusting herself. "I have to get home. Thank you for the insight"

"Right, Thank you too. Tomorrow bring a normal scribble pad, pencil and eraser" Hyunjin stood up and followed her out.

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On her way home Y/n thought of... Love. Foreign as it sounds but she did get a taste of the feeling. Kai, a dance major, senior from school and friend who once helped through embarrassing times. Both first met when Y/n clumsy almost pushed all the bicycles, But Kai caught her in time. Since then she would always find him. Slowly they both started with Hi's, small sentences, exchange of numbers. But after a while, she found that her classmate Jenny made her move on him. Chungha guessed maybe he got close to y/n to just get to see Jenny. Trash, Chungha once exclaimed for them to hear and hid while Y/n was caught. Kai called her over and asked how she was doing and boasted about her girlfriend. Y/n herself said trash bluntly and left. Chungha felt super proud of her friend.

Dark and crushing it is... Love.. Scoff*

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A scribble pad, stationary, water, purse, snacks... All set. Rummaging through her bag one last time before walking to class... No one. Hyunjin isn't here yet, y/n sat down continuing her playlist for a while. Slowly she turned to the nearby window and leaned on the sil. One hand pillowed for her face, while the other dangled outside trying to catch the falling leaves and petals off the nearby tree. In a distance people were playing and cheering for a basketball match. The crowd mingling with the breeze made y/n sleepy. Slowly her eyes fluttered shut as she drifted off to dreamland.

Soft weather continues, but it was night, the moon shone bright illuminating her path. Y/n was walking through her hometown streets, an unfamiliar tree stood in the distance, swaying to the wind and shining under the moonlight. A single petal from a flower on the tree brushed past her cheek warm. The warmth made her smile in peace.

Slowly she got up rubbing her cheek as though the dream were real she realised. Hyunjin! Looking around she found the man right next to her leaning against the wall. His hair all messy but cute, a simple smile looking down at her. Y/n stood up to greet the man, stumbling a little clumsy from the sleep.

"G-good morning"

"Good afternoon" He emphasised for her to check the time and yes it was 1:07pm. "Have you eaten?"

"No I haven't" Correcting herself averting her gaze to her back for her makeup. One side of her cheek had a soft pink touch to it, was it because of the rubbing?

"Me too, so let's go out for lunch, we can start our discussions their" Y/n eyes widened did he just ask her out for lunch. But who would deny the man.

"O-okay" Grabbing her stuff real quick both left out to have lunch at a local restaurant, quickly finding seats, Hyunjin the gentleman he his helped her to be seated. Y/n flushed distracting every brain cell to the menu card. Quickly ordering anything she thought was interesting and took out her scribble pad. Looking up to see the man was staring directly into her soul, running his finger on his lips softly. Gulp*

This is going to take a while...

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A rough sketch on what to be done was complete and so was lunch, both just about to leave.

"I'll pay" Y/n offered but Hyunjin chuckled walking to the counter.

"Another time. Let me be a gentleman today" Fishing out his wallet.

"And tomorrow?" Y/n blurted without thought. He thought for a while and smirked.

"You tell me" Y/n couldn't think straight and went out to find kids playing, giggles and care free vibe. Quickly capturing the moment when one kid came over to her.

"Unnie (elder sister) your pretty like a flower" She said tugging her dress, y/n in awe quickly picked her up and started laughing and asked her name. The little girl answered with her pinching Y/n cheek with a tiny fingers, to see if she were real. Just how contagious kids were with their happiness, quickly turning around to see Hyunjin smiling at his phone.

"I have to go now bye" Putting her down softly and adjusting her dress the little kid ran away waving shy. " Isn't she cute?" Y/n asked to the man who now stood closer. His hair brushing over his face effortlessly.

"Yeah. You like kids?"

"Yeah, How can one not?" Completely in love with the little one.

"Okay" Hyunjin said and walked away, eh...

"Um... Why don't you like kids? " Y/n catching on.

"Yeah I very much do" He said looking at her sideways to observe her reaction.

"Er... Thank you for the lunch" Y/n stammered

"Anything for my student"

Rest of the way they discussed on the later specifics like size, type of paint etc, to place the order.

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The discussion went on for thre days, Mr K confirming and placing order for the materials, Y/n spent the rest of her time with her own assignments. Music, painting, Tea, cake... Regular routine.

Following week the materials arrived. Checking and setting things up, sometimes Hyunjin and Y/n would have that tension moment but eased out as the first priority was the exhibition. The site was set and going around to a get gist was mandatory. Y/n suggested painting a little on the wall to show a connection between the paintings. Hyunjin was pleased and so was Mr K seeing how they got along just fine.

Weeks went by as both sometimes both continued at home and got back to show progress. Yet both didn't dare to make a mistake. Finally as 80% of the art now finished Y/n stretched out, pulling out her headphones to look outside. It was raining and that dimmed out the room. Looking over her board to see Hyunjin full focused painting, studying his features to see his forehead scrunched cutely showing he's concentrating hard. His long slender fingers holding the brush and strokes all elegant. Wow he was an Art himself. Y/n stood up to get a closer look and my God it was amazing. How defined each stroke was representing loss. What made him portray it perfectly?

"It's amazing?" She mumbled, Hyunjin turned and oops he wasn't wearing headphones in one ear. "It looks amazing, love the blend and definition" She said bending over to get a closer look. "How do you bring to color blend without disturbing the base?" Y/n shot a few questions as a student.

"Here sit" She sat next to him as Hyunjin explained his tricks in a very detailed way and yes her intention to learn were genuine.

"How can you portray loss so well?" She whispered but the man again heard her. Leaning back, he loosened his hair tie and looked at the painting.

"What do you mean by that?"

"I-I mean it's perfect like you have really gone through that emotion-"

"Yes I have, I did lose someone dear to me" Y/n wanted to ask more but Mr K words echoed.

"I'm sorry to have asked"

"No it's alright, you were right though, one who experiences loss are given the most powerful strength of endurance" He looked at her, both were close leaned in. Just an effort and the space between could just disappear. He looked down at her lips then back at her but turned away. Silence as Y/n very well understood his emotion. Suddenly a romantic OST played out loud complementing the rain and the atmosphere. Y/n quickly got to her feet to see that her headphones went off and phone started playing out loud. Shoot

"Y/n" A low call as her name seemed to echo through her. Hyunjin was now on his feet too, one hand extended out. The room now super dark because it was after university hours, not many people in the building, is that why everything seemed to be heard like an echo? The pattering loud and clear. She went over and stood in front like she were possessed by the man, he softly pulled her close. Shiver ran down her spine like the room had got 5 times cooler. But the warmth from him eased. One hand on her hip lightly and other held her hand warm and firm. Both hands covered in paint looked beautiful to them. (Artists you see) Slowly both swayed to the music, starting with simple steps and slowly they twirled causing them to giggle. The sad atmosphere now better, Hyunjin looked beautiful smiling like a kid. His crescent eyes curved to complement his beauty mark. Like a moon and star. The tempo increased and steps became fast too, twirling about when both finally laughed out their hearts looking at each other and...

Peck~

Hyunjin softly brushed his soft lips over Y/n's making both flushed with a mild pink tint.

a/n: Just finished my exams, super sorry for delays people😘Love you guys for the support. ❤it 🔁it... ~

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mindpoisonhoworiginal · 2 years

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Ok, I didn't expect so many people to see my previous post, thank you all very much😎👍

So like can I complain? ( Ok, why do I even ask, it literally my page). I am working as a teacher of English in state school. And, well, I pretty much like my job, I like working with kids and I like my subject, but, god, how fucking hard it's now to work in school.

Tons of useless paper work, sometimes I even feel like all I'm doing in school is just paper work.

Thank gods I have good supervisors, so I don't feel constant pressure, but with all new changes in educational programm of my country, I'm kinda scared for future generations.

Now it'a very difficult to keep kids attention and every year it's would be just more and more difficult to do. The children now have a non-stop access to Internet, which is not a completely bad thing of course, but let be honest, not everyone use Internet for educational purposes and quite low number of parents are ready to check what their children are watching in it.

And as a result, we have many kids who are struggling to focus on what teachers are saying, and I don't blame kids, hell, I don't even blame parents, I just don't know how to work with them. Teaching methology, that I studied at college just doesn't work with those kids, I guess it'll work with generation of kids from 1970-1980s😂

And my country's goverment not helping, like, at all, not only it's makes my job harder, but it doesn't help younger generations either.

Wow. What a relief it is to be able to speak about it.

Anyway, like I was saying I like to draw sketches more, and here he is - Dream - my second favourite character. This boy gave me such a roller-coster of emotions through out the whole comics series. I loved him, I hated him, felt sorry for him and etc.

But in the end I glad that he started to change and grow as a person) But I'm still planning to draw full coloured page for him, like with Death.

(Okay, his face from the first comicbook is fucking hularious)

#the sandman #dream of endless

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creatorj-meow · 2 years

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I'm posting this cuz I'm PROUD AS HELL OF THIS DRAWING I MADE

JUST LOOK AT THESE MAN 😎✨

Tell me these aren't AMAZING??? Here are the close-ups:

Shelia Daisy Stephanie

The the ghost thingys are possessed by the gems. They are the first ones ever to use them and have been passed down for many generations. It didn't matter if they were human, werewolf, meif'wa, dragon, witches, or warlocks, anyone could use them. For good or for bad.

Here's the entire drawing. Now i did this in markers and with a left over paper that i had for a school project. Which was for high school 10th grade, i think???? Not sure.

Have a great day everyone! 😁

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cookiescr · 1 year

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Thanks I’m literally harassing all my friends about this stupid visa and when i finally get it, it’ll become a national holiday jsjsjsjs rn I can’t sleep bc I’m nervous about tomorrow

Yeah I started with it and visit some courses, so it’ll be a long road until I actually finish. Brain already gave up tho

You just need to visit your gf and bet you’ll see snow, it’s fun but pls don’t touch the yellow one. Or who knows, maybe climate change will make it snow someday over there too 💀

Yeah kinda it’s the same process as painting digitally but at the same time it’s completely different. But nothing goes over doodles on paper during school, best treasured memories

Yes ok im a Flight attendant mainly, but I’m also working in the on board kitchen as a flying chef because I got extra wine sommelier and business class service training which makes me basically a bootlicker but at least I don’t have to interact that much with ppl as the others due to my assigned position. Ngl idk if I regret doing this or not cause I’m missing out on juicy gossip from the expnomy crew 💀

Yeah pilots are obsessed with fitness they spend most of their layovers in gym. Except for the old married ones they either drink and eat or hide in their rooms. Either way most of them are so boring and they don’t even earn good anymore to see past the dull personality

hslakdjsa i think as you sent this I'd just fallen asleep but hell yee celebration when ur visa gets processed

how lond does it usually take to finish masters is it like 4-6 years as well :0 or is it like a take your own pace thing?

I'm thinking of like uhh starting patreon properly after the trip and try to see if it can be like a proper income thing that i can pay taxes for so i can finally travel around askdla like i wanna make a snowman with my gf hhhhh or snowball fight. Also that would be kinda scary asdkjla

oh damn ye the back of my notebook was always full of doodles like I still kinda remember my teacher writing a little note at the back of my notebook complimenting a shitty drawing but it stuck with me

job mystery solved 😎 also that's dope like for some reason I never thought there would be like a chef on a plane like it never crossed my mind lkajsdal

dang i thought pilots like earn a lot or something

#also ive never been on a plane kasldjlak #what gossips have u heard 👀#at one point as a child i was curious about becoming a pilot #but i am scared of heights now laksjdlka #thanks for the ask #anon #osa

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xiaophobic · 3 years

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HI ATLAS I DIDNT RESPOND TO YOUR ASK YET BUT I WILL IN A BIT ALSO PLS TELL ME MORE ABT CARY HE SOUNDS SO COOL OMGKWK3ODKWJF 😳😋‼️ BRAINROT NOWWWWWW PLS <3 AHDJSJJFJF ILY BTW

STOP oKAY AHHHH I LIKE HAVE BEEN WAITING TO TALK ABOUT HIM FOR FUCKJNG EVER !!! ILY TOO QUILL <333

for anyone curious, this is about my genshin oc! his name is cary, he’s a hydro bow user from sumeru ^^

i did a tiny redraw of him over one of kaeya’s chibis :DD i’d make a picrew of him but i’ve yet to find one i really like for his character so !!!

he got his vision the night he’d told his parents about his dropping out. they were incredibly unsupportive of his dream and so he left!

he had no plan, though he��d never really had one to begin with. he’d worked his way into the most prosperous school in teyvat and then left as quickly as he’d enrolled.

he had no plan, though he’d never really had one to begin with. he’d worked his way into the most prosperous school in teyvat and then left as quickly as he’d enrolled.

but he believed in himself and he believed in his art. he’d taken almost nothing with him except for the clothes on his back, a few mora, and a few small canvases and paints.

he’d arrived at this beautiful grassy plain after traveling for so long. his mind began soaring with ideas to recreate the display on a canvas. so many colors and textures clouded his eyes, he was almost brought to tears.

he reaches inside his bag to pull out some paints and boom! vision!

his character…

HE’S A DORK

he makes those little paper stars for people when they’re sad :(

his least favorite foods are coffee and tea. he doesn’t actually dislike either, he’s just mistook his paint water for said drinks too many times to count

the primary use of his vision is watercolor paint

he’s in love with kazuha, do not ask me how they know each other i haven’t figured it out yet but kazuha opens his mouth and cary loses it

he was isolated a lot as a child so there’s some generally basic things that make him go :O

ex: if he ever saw a crystalfly he’d go berserk

“IS THAT SPARKLE FLYING?? DO YOU SEE, TRAVELER? THE SPARKLE HAS WINGS! WAIT WE HAVE TO STOP I’VE GOTTA SKETCH THAT—”

he’s a very good cook and like nobody believes him when he says it

one of the lines of his specialty dish would definitely be something like “can we really be sure cary made this?”

the type to say something out of pocket and not realize that it was out of pocket until hours later

like he’ll tell someone how beautiful they are because he’s sketched them (he has to draw anything he finds even mildly attractive/interesting)

and then go “oh” while he thinks about how red their face got right before he goes to sleep

voicelines, gameplay, etc…

four star physical dmg dps 😎

one of his idle animations is a butterfly fluttering around him while he scrambles for his sketchpad, only to have the butterfly fly away when he successfully pulls it out </3

he gets excited cut him some slack

“is it my turn? oh, i’m cary! ‘so great to finally meet — oh wow. you’re breathtaking! ah, i’m so sorry! my mouth moves faster than my mind sometimes, would a self-portrait make it up to you? free of charge!”

that’d be his hello voiceline :D

his burst would be called something like “reservoir of illustration”

DOESNT THAT JUST SOUND SO COOL

that’s all i have so far!!! i could keep going but he’s still a work in progress himself so ^^ I RLLY RLLY LIKE HIM :))

#IT KEEPS DOING THIS THING WHERE THE BULLET POINTS REPEAT STOP THAT TUMBLR #THIS IS ATLASPHOBIA #DO I MAKE A TAG FOR OCS?? I DONT HAVE THAT MANY OF THEM AND I THINK THIS JUST ME RANTING LIKE USUAL #i’ll just tag it as an ask for now ;;#atlas.moots #atlas.asks

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parcai · 3 years

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(i now remember why i've never done traditional timelapses: i MUST hover over the art at all times 😩)

making art accessible: a thread 💌

it already IS accessible!! it's one of the most accessible hobbies out there! 😭 this isn't a thread i just wanna talk abt this + you've been bamboozled!! now excuse me while i get on my soap box 😈

no but real talk i was briefly discussing this on insta the other day. i'm sick of companies and even big artists trying to push all these useless supplies onto new artists and claiming they're "essential" or grabbing endorsements from popular artists to run young or impoverished people out of money. so i was talking abt how i got a drawing tablet maybe 1.5 years ago, and before i used to just use a pencil eraser, a toilet paper square as a blender (or my finger), and a stubby free holiday pencil from school and make do. if u really want to get snazzy, u can grab a black colored pencil (😎 i stole this one in 2nd grade), a kneaded eraser, and a knife just for Fun <3

sometimes this makes ur drawings streaky or not as hyperrealistic or stylistic (depending on what ur going for) as you'd like but all u really need is patience (this is extra streaky bc i had to go somewhere after and was in a hurry to finish and was not patient enough 💀 be more patient than me <3) no u don't need those monthly art boxes, no u don't need prismacolors, no u don't need to spend 50 dollars on quality fine grain paper, no u don't need to pay for photoshop every year (krita is free and great and i used it for a full year before getting csp during its 50% off sale), no u do NOT to keep feeling discouraged bc u don't even have a mechanical pencil (and actually i hate mechanical more than just normal for drawing--u can’t press as hard to get the darker values)

more people need to know that regardless of access to resources or money or WHATEVER else could possibly hinder u, please do not feel hopeless or less talented. u go ahead and make all the art, traditional or on ur phone or anything else, that u want and be super cool and snazzier w ur 50 cent markers than anyone else will ever be 🤬 and don't let the man crush ur dreams 😤😤😤💞

#i cut off the timelapse bc u couldn't even see anything but my messy hair 💀😭💔 but i also think that's funny so here's the 1st 27 secs. 😚#kit art #realism #videos #jingna zhang #timelapse #process video #art #hyperrealism #k #anyway did i really just do traditional art for the first time since like january of 2020? yes yes i did 🥰 the roots y'all 🥺 the NOSTALGIA #😈#chopin #audio #draft dump #q

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bebrilliants · 2 years

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Ironically, it happened to air on the last day of London Weekend Television's broadcasting under that brand on 27 October 2002; the next day LWT was subsumed into ITV London. Upstairs, Downstairs ran for five series from 10 December 1971 to 21 December 1975. The first four series had thirteen episodes each, while the final series had sixteen. Two endings were made, which could be shown depending on whether the black and white episodes were broadcast by the channel. The original untransmitted black-and-white version of the first episode is believed to have been wiped.

Caregiver Issues

A conversation about preventative measures and a plan for how to reach medical professionals todeal with depression if it arises is an effective way to reduce the severity and impact of depression. Your mother or father’s caregiver maybe your parent’s spouse, a sibling or another relative. While it may provide you with a degree of relief if a trusted person is caring for your parent, it is also important to consider the caregiver's burden. If you live far away, you can arrange for a friend to visit your parent to deliver healthy groceries. Assael Romanelli, Ph.D., is a clinical social worker and a licensed couple and family therapist based in Israel. He offers online individual, couple, and family therapy. Assael trains and lectures internationally about therapy, relationships and improvisation. As the upstairs parent explores the ground floor, be patient. It was first offered to Granada Television in Manchester, but they declined as they already had a period drama, called A Family at War, about to start. However, Stella Richman, the Controller of Programmes at London Weekend Television, saw potential, and in April 1970, the first series was commissioned. Great events feature prominently in each episode but minor or gradual changes are also noted. It was a ratings success for ITV and received outstanding acclaim worldwide, winning multiple awards. What boundaries did you set for caretaking/money.etc. Was there another solution that worked better? I'd love to hear some ideas on creative solutions as bay area living has become so damn expensive. My heart aches for more and I need to move on. Tell me about how you creatively uncoupled.

This Is What Happened When My Parents Moved In

Make sure that you are close to the wall to avoid loud creaks. It's a good idea to practice moving silently in your house during the day. The bottom line, Gallagher says, is that any extreme with regard to parenting is inappropriate. I wil definitely be sharing this with colleagues and the familes I support. They often giggle, and giggling is good because it means it’s still playful, so they are still engaged and learning. It does take practice and I remind children that their brains are still building and learning from experience.

The upstairs portion of the brain–responsible for higher-thinking and impulse control–takes much longer to construct.

Rose becomes children's maid and later lady's maid to Virginia.

From roommates who share a house and do some things together to boarders who spend little to no time together.

Elizabeth halfhill I’m actually just really pissed and upset because I know this isn’t going to work all year.

This capacity becomes part of our moral compass and allows us to develop meaningful and loving relationships.

A fantastic way of helping children understand how their minds work. Carole C February 26th, 2020 I have been doing research on this for the last 8 years. I adopted a self regulation curriculum for my school district from keri counselor. I have also adopted the Zones Regulation Curriculum that I am using with K-2 grades. I am retiring at the end of the 2020 school year. Another idea, called You Live or You Die, was to have Frederick Norton seeking his fortune in the US. The only spin-off to make it onscreen was Thomas & Sarah, which broadcast in 1979, and this followed the adventures of Thomas and Sarah after they left Eaton Place. According to Jean Marsh and Simon Williams, at the end of the fourth series they, along with other cast members, were eager to move on to other projects.

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