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#discount movie theatre FOR REAL and i just could NOT for the life of me find her (turns out she was VAing the ferret) so in a way linda mad
broke-on-books · 10 months
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The live action Scooby-Doo movies?
I did not see this ask until RIGHT now (first time on desktop since crab day, second time since Nov 5 2020 [which was DOUBLY experience since I got my phone taken the same day]) so I'm going to assume this ask got eaten on mobile because tumblr, HOWEVER you poked a bear with this ask anon (as I'm sure you knew when asking) SO without further ado: my Scooby Doo live action opinions
So when you say 'live action Scooby-Doo movies' I'm assuming you're talking about the James Gunn films, starting with Scooby-Doo (2002) followed by Scooby-Doo 2: Monsters Unleashed, just due to like, generally popularity and also the fact that I have actually seen those films. However shoot another ask if you wanted me to include Curse of the Lake Monster in this (because I will if anyone cares and turn this into a live-action scooby dissertation, i'd just need to like. watch the movie first) But anyways where I'm going with this is that this post is about the Gunn movies aka the ones with SMG, Freddie Prinze Jr., Linda Cardellini, and ofc our #1 man, Matthew Lilliard.
Okay so my take on these movies is... complicated. I wouldn't say it's as complicated as my feelings towards SDMI, because I watched the live actions way less as a kid and generally care less about them, but still no matter how much shit I throw at these two movies there are parts that I generally like (even love) that stops me from totally condemning them wholesale. Like the fact that these movies are FUNNY! There's so many moments from this duology that are just beyond iconic "like, that's one of my favorite names!" the whole thing with Scooby in the dress at the airport, ET. CETERA (like I can go on!)
The Gunn movies are genuinely SO fun and I can 100% see and understand how they've stood so well in the public view as a representation of Scooby. HOWEVER, this is where you start to see my problems with them. For the general American, (because that is the audience I'm familiar with) ESPECIALLY millennials and younger, who happen to make up the majority of both people on this site AND people I talk about Scooby with in real life, these movies, and the elements they introduced as "quintessential scooby tropes" are the base of their understanding of the Scooby franchise, along with likely some miscellaneous WAY episodes and maybe SDMI.
Which is where I get pissed off. In the pushing of the narrative of "breaking away" from the Scooby norm, Gunn basically invents (aka totally makes up) an idea of what classic era Scooby was like, cementing an idea of classic Scooby into the public mind that is totally disingenuous and just straight up false. For example, in attempting to portray Daphne as having taken strides to be seen more seriously in solving mysteries and defending herself, it pushes the narrative that in the classic era she WASN'T taken seriously, and only existed as a damsel-in-distress prop of a character, which is just not true??? Like yes, Daphne is clumsy, that's a part of her character, and her friends (because, fun fact, the gang ARE friends) joke about it sometimes because that's what friends DO. Framing that in some kind of sexist "that's all she does" lens is just total bull, especially as gang members fall into secret passageways/get lost etc. in WAY ALL THE DAMN TIME because that's how the plot functions! Like are we calling Velma ditzy for losing her glasses every other episode? Of course not, and Fred falls into passageways all the time, not to MENTION Shaggy and Scooby and all they get up to. Also one last thing on the topic of Daphne, like this idea of her mystery solving skills not being respected by the gang is just so supremely bullshit it amazes me sometimes, especially when she was the LEADER (or leader adjacent) through pretty much all of her appearances in the 1980s [Not that James Gunn could look at '80s era Scooby without spitting on it, but I digress]
AND THIS IS JUST DAPHNE! Like the perceptions pushed towards Fred (and Velma, but mostly Fred) through these movies are just as bad! Like okay, with Fred---In these movies Fred is just an asshole. I hate Gunn Movies!Fred. I mean yeah he can be funny but it's almost always so mean! Almost nothing makes me madder than a mean Fred by the way. If he's putting other gang members down (even halfway, like with his whole "dorky chicks like you turn me on too" line, which... ew) then to me something has gone very, very, VERY, wrong in your basic understanding of Frederick Herman Jones as a character. Like he's the cheerleader! He puts himself in between his friends and danger! He loves nets, and traps, and Elvis impressions, and wrestling, and the trapeze, and cars, and most of all he LOVES sharing the things he loves with his friends! (Sometimes to a bit of an extreme. No one wants to hear about your net facts, Fred) And the live action movies just don't understand that at all. And I know there's maybe something to say I suppose in that some of those aspects of his characterization hadn't been "established yet" by the time "Scooby-Doo" came out in 2002. But it's there if you look. For Fred Jones, being the leader means being the caretaker, (he's the Mom friend what can I say) and any version where he's cruel and arrogant and just DOESN'T CARE about his friends in the way he's shown to in the Gunn movies is just so far from Fred to me it's not even funny. And what makes it even worse for me is that this (or at least something similar) is the idea of Fred that has really spread to the popular culture. Just the "leader", the jock that makes the rules, the one that [insert X adaptation here] finally gave a personality and made interesting (something that has been said more times than I can count for pretty much every gang member, save Shaggy and Scooby).
And I haven't even touched on Velma, and how they gave her a bit of a early 2000s smart superiority girl complex against Daphne, plus the whole makeover thing and etc. etc. The Gunn Movies are pretty much what would happen if you took someone who hadn't seen Scooby since they were 7 years old (and honestly had a pretty negative outlook against it then) and tried to "fix" it, only his memory was so bad he just made up problems (and threw in a good helping of early 2000s style sexism with it) convincing pretty much the entirety of the popular culture that said problems exist and that Gunn was absolutely brilliant for fixing them (and then bringing up said "problems" whenever anyone wants to talk about Scooby) and this entire rant has been without even fucking MENTIONING what is probably the reason you, anonymous tumblr user sent this ask in the first place, to I, Swishy "Scrappy Doo Redemption Arc" Broke-on-books (dot tumblr dot com), which is his HIGHLY SUCESSFUL and utterly sadistic character assassination of my number one man, Scrappy Doo.
And I am going to try my damnedest here not to get totally into my highly passionate opinions over what James Gunn did to Scrappy in the first of his Scooby movies and how thoroughly it has pissed me the fuck off because I have been writing this post for over an hour now and if we start to really get into my feelings on this topic it will certainly be a couple of hours more but like. That Fucking Bitch. I give James Gunn personally a solid eighty-five percent of the blame for making my life as a Scrappy Doo fan UTTERLY unbearable with this stupid fucking movie alone, and just his Scrappy crimes would honestly be enough for me to say that I hate this movie, not even considering the numerous Scooby crimes I've been talking about here for the past million paragraphs, but the part about this movie that makes me the MOST mad the most pissed off is that it's actually a good fucking movie. James Gunn wrote two hilarious and entertaining movies that have become beloved in the popular culture for their successes in that arena, while at the same time pissing all over the core themes and messages of the franchise of which it was based, that of friendship.
TLDR; The Live Action Scooby Doo movies (written by James Gunn) are highly entertaining and fun pieces of media to watch, and are widely loved by the general public and looked at with fondness and nostalgia because of that. However, as a hardcore Scooby Doo fan (writing that phrase sounds so ridiculous but oh well) the existence of these movies and their impact on the popular culture can be extremely frustrating (despite any personal nostalgia said fan may have) due to their spreading of a misinformed picture of what "typical Scooby Doo" looks like. This picture is especially frustrating due to the fabrication or exaggeration of problems present in classic Scooby (such as sexism in regards to the girls), as well as giving more ammunition to other problems in Scooby fandom (such as oversexualization, and sexualization in general, which no one wants to see in regards to their children's cartoons, like HONESTLY.) Discussions of sexism and sexualization in Scooby (both of which ARE present and are issues, although not at their worst in WAY) can often lead to an overlooking of the issues that are very present and clear in WAY and have continued since then with far too little resistance (I'm 100% talking about the racism here) HOWEVER that topic deserves at least a dozen posts of its own that I am no way informed or qualified enough to even begin to think about writing. The Gunn Movies are frustrating to many longtime Scooby fans because of these reasons, but for me, and fellow Scrappy Doo fans there is also the added aspect of the demonization of Scrappy Doo in the live action movies and the affects that has had on the popular culture as well, making it uniquely inhospitable to like or enjoy the character of Scrappy. End post.
#that last sentence is such a weird tone jump btw but its because the topic flowed one way and i had to jump it back to a summary to actually#finish this monster of a post#SO anon i hope you're happy with this and this makes my opinion make some more sense. and you or anyone else is more than welcome to ask me#questions about anything i said here or my opinion on any and everything scooby related (and not) so if theres a specific aspect of this yo#would like expanded on i can definitely 100% do that for you or anyone who cares#also there are many complexities towards my feelings on these movies that i didnt get to hit on despite the monstrous size of this rant (il#check word count later but im not gonna fuck with it now because im terrified of deleting this post by accident) one of which is my lasting#fondness towards all of the actors in this movie. YES including freddie prinze jr. i may have major issues with his fred but hes also playe#characters i really really like. for example hes the va in this tv show i LOVE and havent watched in like 10 months despite the fact im on#the last season because freddie's character dies in like 7 episodes and i am NOT AT ALL emotionally prepared for that on any level because#that is my fictional father goddamnit!!!!!#also every buffy the vampire slayer gifset that crosses my dash gets me closer and closer to watching it because oh my god daphne!!!!! that#sarah michelle gellar thats daphne oh my god!!!! also i went and saw guardians of the galaxy 3 with my friend (despite not having seen a#marvel movie in 2+ years AND holding a grudge over james gunn's scooby doo crimes)[the things you do for {platonic} love amirite?]#and the title sequence SAID linda cardellini was in it and i got SO excited i was looking everywhere for her it was like wheres waldo in th#discount movie theatre FOR REAL and i just could NOT for the life of me find her (turns out she was VAing the ferret) so in a way linda mad#me cry with that role. whatever. istg i get so off topic i forget what i was even talking about but ANYWAYS <<<1 of my fave english words b#dubs (my favorite spanish word is el amanacer btw. it means sunrise. also burbujas because its bubbles and saying it sounds like bubbles#popping) BUT. AS I WAS SAYING. SEND ME ASKS IF YOU WANT SCOOBY DOO OPINIONS. DEAR GOD I GET SCATTERBRAINED SOMETIMES.#scooby doo#answered#anonymous#blah
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jamdoughnutmagician · 4 months
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Cherry on Top (Robin Buckley x Fem!Reader) Fluff
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When the pining between Robin and the cute customer who comes into Scoops Ahoy becomes too much for Steve to bear, he hatches as plan to give them then gentle push they both so desperately need.
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Masterlist // Robin Buckley Masterlist
It was just a summer job Robin thought to herself. It's not forever.
Even so, working at Scoops Ahoy wasn't all that bad, sure the uniforms were silly, and slightly scratchy against her skin, the pay wasn't all that much, and sometimes customers were straight up rude. However, despite its ever-stacking list of cons, there were a few pros; such as staff discounts on ice cream, and working alongside Steve Harrington, who had surprisingly grown up a lot since high-school. Proving that he actually wasn't all that bad like she had been led to believe.
However Robin found herself unable to tear her eyes away from the cute customer who came in every Saturday, just to order the same thing she orders every time. One single scoop of chocolate, rainbow sprinkles with a cherry on top. 
Robin watched on from behind the crack in the serving window as the girl's eyes sparkled, and her smile beamed. No doubt laughing at Steve's attempt at flirtatious banter. 
Not that she’d ever tell him, but Robin was jealous of Steve. Jealous of the way the girl's eyes lit up when she looked at him, jealous of the way she laughed at every single one of his stupid jokes. How Steve seemed so effortlessly cool and calm, almost suave, around the girl that made Robin’s heart race annoyed her to no end.
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“Hey Steve!” you cheer as you skip into Scoops ahoy on a hot Saturday afternoon. It was oddly quiet in the parlour today, save for a few people sitting in the booths
“Hey y/n! Same as usual?” he chirps back with his boyish smile.
“You know it!”
“Alright then, one scoop of chocolate, rainbow sprinkles and a cherry coming right up.” he smiles as he twirls his ice-cream scooper around with his fingers.
“So..Uh.. Steve, i-is Robin here today?” you ask him, your voice stuttering slightly with nerves.
“When are you just going to bite the bullet and ask her out already?” 
“Keep your voice down will ‘ya, Harrington, jeez” you whisper-shout as you shush him, looking around to see if anyone heard him.
“What? So you don’t want to take her out on a date and make out with her then?” he teases, as he hands you your ice-cream.
“I didn’t say that…” you drawl out, as you hand Steve over your money.
“Look, you think she’s cute, she thinks you’re cute, I don’t know what more you’re waiting for?” He softly laughs with a shake of his head.
“Wait…Robin thinks I’m cute? Did she say something to you?” you splutter at this revelation.
“Just leave it with me, alright? Think of me as your wing-man.” Steve says all too confidently. 
You eye him slightly, but ultimately decide that trusting him would be in your best interest, especially if it scored you a date with his best friend.
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“I’ve got two tickets to see Footloose, c’mon Rob, don’t you wanna go with me..” Steve pleads down the phone.
Robin rolled her eyes at her friend. She could just see his floppy hair and dumb puppy-dog face in her mind, begging her to go with him.
“You’re actually asking me to go with you to see a musical? Steve, I thought you hated musicals? You told me you hated how unrealistic it was, and that ‘nobody bursts into song like that in real life’.” Robin teases with her impression of Steve. 
“Yeah, I know but you love ‘em, besides I’ve heard good things about this one.”
Robin rolled her eyes at her friend, but she’d already made her mind up that she was going to go, Steve was her best friend, and she’d do anything to make him happy. 
“Alright, what time is the movie?”
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Robin Strolled up to the movie theatre, where Steve was already waiting for her outside.
“Hey! Robin!” Steve waves. “Over here!”
But as Robin got closer she could see the cute girl from the ice cream parlour.
“Hey look who I bumped into.” Steve smirked.
“Hi, Robin!” you wave cheerfully.
“Hey, yourself!” Robin replies, trying her best to play it cool. “So, what are you here to see?” 
“Oh I was just about to buy myself some tickets to see Footloose. Truth be told I have a soft spot for musicals.” you explain.
“Hey, why don’t you just take my ticket?” Steve offers, raising his eyebrows at you. This was his plan all along. He’d told you as much, explaining what was going to happen before he even phoned Robin. He was going to bail at the last minute to give you two some time alone together. It’s not that he didn’t love spending time with Robin, but the way she pined over you was beginning to become unbearable, so Steve took it upon himself, as your wing-man and Robin’s best friend to give you both the push you needed.
Robin looked at her friend like he had two heads. What was he doing leaving her alone with the girl she had been crushing on so badly that she’d barely spoken two whole sentences to her? 
“Oh Steve, you don’t have to do that!” you worry, before he assures that it’s no worries at all. 
“No, honestly, I insist. Dustin called me up earlier, said he needs me to pick him and the rest of the boys up from their little nerd club.”
“Well if you're absolutely sure” you say as you take the ticket Steve offers you.
“You girls go ahead and have fun without me!” He smiles triumphantly. 
Steve goes up to give Robin a hug before leaving, pulling her close enough to whisper in her ear.
“Enjoy your date, Dingus.” Steve whispers, pulling away from the hug with an affectionate smile.
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You and Robin both sit through the movie, a shared bag of hot buttery popcorn sits between you both. Your hands grazing against each other a few times as you both reach for the bag at the same time, with a couple of mumbled apologies whispered to each other in between the music coming from the big screen.
The film draws to a close and you both exit the theatre with match smiles on your faces.
“I-I had a great time hanging out with you today.” Robin mumbles, her eyes looking down at the floor, because if she dared to look you in the eyes she would not be able to speak to you without fumbling over her words.
You tilt her chin up under your fingers, wanting to look at her properly.
You lean in close to her before pressing a soft kiss to her cheek, your lips brushing against her flushed features.
“I had a great time too!” you smile. “Perhaps we can do this again sometime, like a proper date?”
Robin beams at your suggestion, elated that this had gone well enough that you were willing to go on another date with her.
“Yeah, I’d like that. I’d like that a lot, actually.”
Robin was going to have to give Steve the biggest thank you hug ever when she saw him next. 
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professionallydorkish · 11 months
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OK (lots of) thoughts about tf Rise of the Beasts (spoilers below)
I'm just gonna put these thoughts as bullet points bc there's no real rhyme or reason to the flow of these thoughts . THAT SAID I watched the movie Friday night and have been stewing on some things, and reading some other people's thoughts, so thought I'd throw my own together here
OVERALL I thought it was a fun movie, and mostly good - like, I'd go back to watch it maybe 1-2 more times at the theatre. On discount ticket days or smth. That said, unpopular opinion, I don't think it was AS GOOD as people have been hyping it up to be (but I really WANTED it to be that good)
And like, I can probably tell y'all now that the things bugging me are probably nitpicky, but were bothering all the same. For instance,
Mirage - I *adored* him as a character. He was SO SWEET and fun and has SUCH FUN RELATIONS with the humans, and it's extremely enjoyable to see other Autobots forming those human relations outside of Bumblebee. BUT. Why... Mirage? There are DOZENS of other characters that could have fit this bill without having to give a total personality change to an existing character (thinking of Smokescreen, Jazz, Tracks, Hot Rod, either of the Lambo twins, even Blurr ... all of these characters can fit a youthful / pranking / kind of reckless speedster profile that cares about their appearance and is slightly anti-authority but heart of gold enough to go against Prime's wishes in a charming way). It's not *bad* to see Mirage like this, but again .... it just threw me a little bit. It also makes me curious as to what this means for characterization in the future. Again, I really liked him, thought he was super sweet, and obviously his abilities were super cool to see on screen!
I'm also extremely conflicted on having Unicron & co as the big bads for this movie. I've seen some mixed opinions on this as well, and generally agree that having Unicron as a looming presence and not actually destroyed at the end of the film was handled well. HOWEVER - and this is probably coming form my own wishes, seeing as it was called Rise of the Beasts, and REALLY just wanting to see more Beast Wars characters - I think they could've gone a different route with the antagonists that wouldn't have felt so grand life and death
Actually, tangent here, I think that was one of the things that actually had me feeling disappointed with the movie. I think I went in with expectations and standards close to what I felt after watching the Bumblebee movie for the first time. And the conflict in Bumblebee isn't some grand end-of-world threat (as seen on the screen - sure it's a looming possibility etc etc but), it's a small cast and a very personal conflict in that sense. ROTB returns to having huge stakes, larger cast of characters that can't ALL get a chance to shine, but imo not a large enough cast to take on a threat like UNICRON
So like. I'm glad that it wasn't directly Unicron, and instead got to see his power play out through Scourge and his team.
But still, I think it would've been cool to have our antagonists be those from Beast Wars as well (although I admit that I'm not super familiar with the series both tv & comics but STILL. I think it would've been cool to see Dinobot and Inferno and shit). I think this would've been SUPER COOL to see the Maximals shine even more!!
They all had such cool designs, and I really loved Primal & Air Razor. I wish we could've had more of Cheetor and Rhinox ;-;
I was actually annoyed with the resolution of the warp bridge explosion to send Unicron back 😭 particularly since it was ESTABLISHED that an explosion would have the FORCE OF A SUPERNOVA -- a fucking SUPERNOVA MY FRIENDS Earth should be PERISHED in an explosion like that!! The opening of the bridge portal to Unicron could explain SOME of the force being applied back through the opening but for the Earth to not really experience any of the damage, AND FURTHERMORE FOR NO GRAVE INJURIES TO COME TO PRIME, PRIMAL, OR NOAH/MIRAGE IN SUCH CLOSE PROXIMITY....
Just. If you're GOING to prop up something as a danger, and have an action posed as a non-viable solution to the problem (and have a good alternative ie. the passcode!), but then ultimately have to go back to explosion -- it should be held up as impactful as stated!! Like listen I KNOW we go into movies with the expectation that our friends on screen will be okay BUT OPTIMUS SHOULD NOT HAVE BEEN ABLE TO GET OUT OF THAT THAT EASILY. It also, imo, feels like it weakens Primal's oath to him in his sacrifice.
Also side note I actually did quite like the humans & the interpersonal relations happening - between Noah, his brother, Elena, and with the bots - I wish there was a bit more of it even! In concept, ex-military man who values family over the country & archeologist intern, BOTH POC, are FASCINATING CHARACTERS TO HAVE AND PLAY WITH. I think there's a lot of potential.
ALL OF THIS ASIDE. I thought it was a fun movie, I'm hopeful for what the franchise will bring. I'd REALLY LIKE for Travis Knight & Studio & Bee movie writers to come back on future movies (getting to the credits of this film and realizing it was Bay, Spielberg, and NOT writers from the Bee movie actually felt like that explained a LOT for where my disappointment and story inconsistencies were coming from)
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mariacallous · 4 years
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what lesser-known musical would you recommend to people who've basically seen les mis and a high school production of auntie mame? better yet, how can a beginner get into musical theatre without buying tickets to live shows or buying studio albums that have no visual feedback?
Oh god.
Call Me Madam is the first one that comes to mind, and it’s just because it’s one of my favorites - rich widow is friends with the President who she helped get elected with her donations and gets appointed US Ambassador to a small European country, where she’s so very American and also not what you would call a foreign policy expert. There’s romance and election rigging (well-intentioned but there you go) and it has one of my favorite patter songs, “You’re Just in Love”. Ethel Merman originated it, and starred in the movie version. Tyne Daly and Carmen Cusack also notably and excellently performed the main role. Many of the songs are available on youtube or spotify, and I think the movie is available somewhere as well.
Apart from the fact that I enjoy it so much, it’s a light, funny/charming, kinda period piece that doesn’t really ask a whole lot of you but 
I wasn’t sure how to use “lesser-known” to figure out recommendations, because “lesser-known compared to what?” but the rest of it helped. Keeping in mind those people.
I would also say Anything Goes, because it’s also easy to get into, the songs are great and get built up as the production goes on (so that you’re not just walloped in the face with a massive number right off), and the story is fun and also moving, with some interesting and fleshed out characters.
I think Company by Sondheim would be another one - there it’s just people, interacting and exploring what Elaine Stritch called “life, liberty and the musical marital pursuit of happiness”. There’s no real plot - it’s just a series of scenes with the main character and their friends and current romantic interests. 
My advice to a beginner wanting to get into musical theatre but concerned about access or resources is similar to my advice about people looking to get into cooking for the first time, or non-musical theatre - figure out what you like (are you someone who likes romcoms? or do you prefer the dramas and the traumas? Do you like stuff with a specific location or time period, or are you preferring stuff that could be whenever and wherever?) and try to have that guide you and look stuff up. Sometimes full musical performances are available on Youtube, either as official or as bootlegs, plus Netflix and Hulu have the movie versions (generally speaking) available for a lot of musicals.
I think, at some point though, you would have to go see a performance - live theatre can be/is amazing and is one way to keep ensuring that there are productions and opportunities.
But that doesn’t inherently/only mean Broadway - lots of the off-Broadway productions in NYC are amazing too and each state usually has some theaters and performance venues, plus university productions are sometimes the most different kind when compared to more professional. Lots of places offer discounts, and even jobs as ushers or ticket takers where you are also able to see the performances there. I know that a lot of movie theaters were also promoting showing opera and other performances on specified weekends or calendar dates.
Another way to get into musical theater that I’m a fan of is finding books or articles about the performers or productions that interest me - and using that as a jumping off point.
I can give more recommendations for specific musicals/plays - i feel like I’ve gone on and on a lot already and didn’t want to cram this. 
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maiaphaelsource · 4 years
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Kinda of a dumb idea but: Before dating Maia and Raphael are both aware of the feelings of the other thanks to superior senses but they both want the other to make the "first move" and it's just a mini competition, even though they are already lowkey dating ? Like Maia just happens to have an extra ticket for a movie and oh look at that, it's one of Raphael's favorite! (Raphael knows she's lying) and Raphael just casually has a discount in Maia's favorite restaurante, he just knows the owner (Maia know he doesn't) and Idk after awhile they're just really in love. Idk I just want soft content of them, they both extra deserve all the softness
NOT dumb!! in fact, id say it's incredible. and no idea is dumb, we are here for all kinds of maiaphael content, from crack to angst (except for smut because raphael ain't about that life)
but also like YES. i just really love the idea of slow burn, drama-free getting together for maiaphael. like it just builds so slowly and naturally there's no doubting their feelings for the other, you know? so i'm gonna hop off that headcanon for this like
they could ask each other out but they're just.... having fun? almost a game of "how long can we keep this bafoonery going". cuz it's already been years and they hadn't even noticed they were highkey dating, so now they just keep doing it, like, on purpose, and see how far it'll gonot that they're playing with the other's feelings or anything like that, it's just... what they have is already so clearly love it feels like all that's missing is the formality of the title, and they know that the other realized, too, so they're just keeping it up and turning it into almost a game. also, raphael had never had the chance to “court” someone like this before, and neither had maia, so they’re having fun with that
so raphael is all charming, like, "would you like to go to the movies with me, bella?" and kissing her hand and she laughs and mock curtsies, making him break out into a grin. he takes her to the fanciest restaurant he could possibly think of and they spend the whole date alternating between judging slash evaluating the restaurant’s choices, and being mock-fancy about it all. the waitress asks them about their wine choice and raphael is all like “oh, i’ll leave that to the lady” and maia laughs and it keeps going back and forth. and it just keeps going, going to the movies, to the theatre, stargazing (god i really need to talk about maiaphael and stargazing, like… the fact that raphael canonically loves the stars so much he used that to try to console rosa when she was homesick is rarely ever talked about and i for one think we should change that asap), all sorts of romantic stuff that… they have done before, really, and it’s kind of crazy that they hadn’t noticed how date-y it was
but when they actually end up confessing/asking each other out… they’re just at maia’s place, cuddled up watching some nerdy movie that raphael hadn’t gotten the chance to see when it came out, under a generous amount of blankets and raphael had put his icy feet on her because he is an asshole like that when he wants to, and maia just screams and throws a pillow at him and she’s laughing, and he grins, and he’s just looking at her, and he goes, slowly, but not really hesitantly, more like he’s savoring the words, “bella… i know that this is long overdue, but would you be my girlfriend? for real?” and she softens too and is all like “yes, you dumbass” and throws herself on his chest and he smiles and hugs her for a second and she’s like “also, you caved in first” but he doesn’t even have the energy to be competitive, he just smiles at her like… “yeah. i did” and it’s the sweetEST THIGING
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hitodama89 · 5 years
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A meme stolen from @niuniente! I have always loved this meme format a lot:
Answer 11 Questions, Invent 11 Questions and tag people!
1. Your favorite vacation memory?
That’s a tricky one to start this with! Most of my vacations have been uhh more or less disastrous because my family just is Like That, but there have still been some great moments. One very cool was visiting Kolmården, a zoo in Sweden. There was this safari tour where you could basically drive through some animal enclosures and it was really incredible! Ostriches came to eat insects from the car windows, giraffes forced the cars to stop because they just felt like standing in the middle of the road aaaand there were some bears mating. =‘‘’D
2. Your favorite character and why?
Vegeta from DBZ. =D Obviously I have many faves, but this idiot has stuck with me for so long and I never seem to get tired of him. He is just a perfect combination of every major trope I love in characters: proud to a fault, can’t easily be classified as a good or bad guy (and goes back and froth both roles over and over again), gets beaten to ground every two seconds... All the good stuff!
3. What is the most precious item you own?
Hmm, I’m not sure! I really love one of my oldest plushies, a bird-like creature I named Vennu as a child. I got it from my mother’s mother who died when I was six years old. Other than that I really adore everything that was hand made for me by someone, be it an art piece or something practical, like these comically big potholders my mom has made.
4. In what kind of a house you’d want to live?
I honestly pretty much live in my dream house already: in a decent sized apartment close to the center of the city, top floor and in the corner of the apartment complex. I rent the place, but honestly I’ve never wanted to own an apartment unless something really extreme happened and I won in a lottery or something. I don’t want to be forever tied to a certain place, not physically nor financially! Like yeah, right now I’d never want to move away from here, but I want to be free to do so if the situation some day changes.
5. Compliment someone! Who do you compliment and why?
Well the potholders already made me think about my mom, and she is certainly someone who deserves every compliment in the world. No one is obviously perfect, but she has such an infinite amount of kindness to share that it’s really incredible. She is as close to being irl Moominmamma as any real person can! <3
6. Repeating this question, as it was really good; If you could be a fairy tale character, who would you be and what would you do differently to change the story?
A good and difficult question indeed! I would definitely be some pretty minor character haha - I’m not a protagonist type the slightest bit. Maybe someone who would face a situation where they had to choose between sticking to the status quo and doing something unconventional but undeniably right. Which one would I choose, then? I feel like my life hasn’t answered that question yet.
7. Do you support any charities or organizations doing good? If you can’t support, what would you like to support if you had resources for it?
My finances are extremely limited, so I only donate to two: Suomen luonnonsuojeluliitto and APOPO. The first one is dedicated to protecting Finnish nature and the latter one is about training rats to be landmine sniffers in Africa. (I’m... Not actually sure where the name APOPO comes from though.)
8. The last trip you had?
I don’t even remember. =0 I don’t really do much traveling at all. But I’m planning on going to visit Ähtäri Zoo this summer! Now I’ve just gotta hope it actually happens hahah.
9. What is the song you most often listen in repeat?
I don’t really have songs I would often return to: I tend to listen something on repeat 24/7 for some time and then move on, only very occasionally returning to that same song (or album, or any sort of set of songs). Currently I’m having JJBA openings on repeat hahah.
10. What is a movie you never get bored with?
My favorite movie, Pan’s Labyrinth. It’s such a beautiful, bittersweet story directed by Guillermo del Toro. I basically never watch any random movies in movie theatre, but I don’t remember if this one was on some sort of discount or why I went to see it without knowing anything about it beforehand, but I fell in love instantly.
11. You’ll get 1000 euro / 1000 USD / a sum equivalent to 1000 euro in your currency. You can’t give it to anyone else, you can’t donate it, you can’t save it and you can’t use it on anyone else but yourself. What will you get for yourself with that money?
Wacon Cintiq. I’m in a desperate need of new drawing tablet and I’ve been thinking how cool it would be if I had one with an actual screen. But because 1) I have no idea how I would hadle the technical aspects of using one (I am the queen of tech problems) 2) I don’t know how durable it would be, as I would prefer it to last closer to 10 years with me and 3) it is expensive as all hell, I will more than likely just get a traditonal screenless one in the end. But if I had a situation like described in the question, I would definitely go for Cintiq!
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Vans Warped Tour 2018: My Amazing First & Unfortunate Last
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When I discovered my love for the emo subculture during the summer after 7th grade, I began expanding and refining my taste in both fashion and music. Spending countless hours on Tumblr - discovering new artists and designers - I eventually came across the epitome of emo/punk celebrations: Vans Warped Tour. As a nationally-touring, all-day rock & roll/punk/metal festival, Warped Tour became the unofficial holiday for all those who identified as “alternative,” almost like a family reunion. Each date of Warped Tour across the United States was a unique opportunity for all the surrounding scene queens, metalheads, and pop punk kids to come together, an event that truly seems like the only one of its kind. Here, dozens of bands/artists come together, perform sets on various stages scattered around the arena, sell their merchandise at (sometimes discounted) prices, and host meet & greets/signings for their fans to attend. Additionally, in the midst of all the music, alternative clothing brands, charity organizations, and local food trucks offer all kinds of products, some you buy and others you can win! Warped Tour is an opportunity for devoted fans to see many of their favorite artists take the stage, as well as discover new ones.
Ever since I discovered Warped Tour, I’ve wanted to attend; every summer, they make a stop in my state, in a city that is barely 20 minutes from my house, yet I’ve never been able to go because the festival always seemed to fall on my mother’s birthday or a vacation outside of the country. Finally, as I’ve graduated high school, Vans announces that 2018 will be the final year for a cross-country Warped Tour. Seeing the heightened stakes, I knew that this was the year I had to go, no matter what; fortunately enough, my local date fell three days after my mom’s birthday, and with a couple of friends, we bought a 4-ticket pack and planned our attendance!
Although it has become less prevalent in my day-to-day demeanor and appearance, my love for alternative music and edgier style hasn’t faltered. Sure, I’ve given away many of my Hot Topic graphic tees and lessened the black makeup, but if anything, I’m listening to post-hardcore, newcore, hard rock, and pop punk even more. Warped Tour encouraged me to step outside of my usual and to finally listen to iconic groups that I’ve neglected to give a chance in the past. Their names were very familiar in my head, but when it came to their actual music, I was clueless.
Two weeks before my mid-July date, I decided to create a collaborative Spotify playlist, where my friends and I (mostly me haha) added our favorite bops from artists that we knew we HAD to try and see. Through personal exploration, I finally listened to Tonight Alive’s latest album, Underworld, and absolutely fell in love. I wish I had given them a chance earlier! Although I didn’t end up sticking around until their set, I know now that I have a new band to keep up with and to hopefully get to see live in the future.
In addition to ‘studying’ for Warped, I spent a couple of weeks coming up with the ultimate outfit. Because I don’t get decked out in checkered patterns, fishnets, and band tees on a regular basis, I wanted to go all out for this festival, even more so because I’d be surrounded by people who were going to do the exact same!
When we finally arrived, July 15th, 2018, at Xfinity Theatre, I felt almost euphoric. I don’t think my friends or I could describe to you how smiley I was. Because of crazy traffic, we walked a little over half a mile to the actual entrance. As much as I’m super proud of being an emo, I didn’t hold back from laughing with my friends at how stereotypical or cringey some of our fellow concertgoers were - I mean, come on, alternative kids are usually outcasts for a reason and I’m not going to deny that we’re usually freaks LOL, I know I am! It was so so so hot outside, but there were many opportunities to affordably stay hydrated, since Vans Warped Tour hosted a large, FREE hydration station right by the Journey Stage and the entrance. At most concerts, any beverages - alcoholic or not - are never complimentary, and so I think this anomaly only shows the care and consideration the creators of Warped Tour have for its fans and attendees.
I felt so in my element. For years, I had only ever had a handful of friends who only moderately shared an interest in this subculture, but it was never to the same extent as I did. Being at Warped Tour finally gave me a chance to feel free, an opportunity for me to not have to tone down or hide this actual part of my identity. Looking back, I’m happy with how it went. We ended up splitting up in pairs for parts of the day, but I was able to watch or listen as I walked around to the sets of almost a dozen bands: Doll Skin, Issues, Real Friends, Unearth, Wage War, The Amity Affliction, The Story Untold, Northlane, Ice Nine Kills, Crown the Empire. Although I didn’t watch all of them fully, and there were various others I had wanted to see, it was so much fun to get a taste of different styles of music, ranging from pop-punk to metalcore, and to also see the vibes of the crowds. Never in my life, have I seen so much dust in the air from crowd-surfing, headbanging, and mosh-pitting. It was amazing, and with concerts already being such a euphoric and almost spiritual experience for me, I loved it even more.
Out of all four of us, I’m definitely the one in the group who is more extroverted, aggressive, eccentric, and just overall “out there.” I almost ran away from the group at times, as I would walk ahead of the group, looking around, and was the only one who seemed to be able to beeline through the crowds. 
Rather than spending ridiculous amounts on junk food, I was able to bring in half a dozen, packaged mini cucumbers, and surprisingly didn’t get them confiscated. Although it was a strange snack to bring, it worked out pretty well as an addition hydration boost!
Instead of droning on about the minute-to-minute occurrences of the day, I’ll summarize some highlights.
One of the funnier moments of the day was unexpectedly walking by a faculty member from high school, decked out in all black with his swoopy, punk-styled ginger hair. I had no idea he was into this kind of scene, but seconds after we walked by, a set ended and he quickly left. While I don’t know if he walked away because he saw that we had seen him, it was such a surprise that the one familiar person we’d see that day, wasn’t a student but someone who had worked in the IT department at our high school.
Another moment was when I was buying an Official Vans Warped Tour T-Shirt, and a girl came up to me, in order to compliment me on my outfit. To be honest, she wasn’t the only one to praise me for my checkered overalls, blue barlot crop top, fishnets, and dark gray Doc Martens. I even received a free sticker from a vendor for my overalls! I felt so warm inside, seeing others appreciate these stylistic choices that I had very much been excited about displaying! What stood out to me about this moment with this girl, in particular, was that she had actually tried complimenting me from her car, as my friends and I were walking to the venue, but I hadn’t heard her! The fact she came across me and went up to me, just to tell me, was so sweet <3
To continue on this train of highlights, although I had went into Warped Tour, not planning on getting anything signed or waiting in line for a meet & greet, I ended up meeting The Story Untold and getting all of their signatures on my phone case! Before Warped Tour, I had definitely seen their name around the internet, knowing they were a pop-punk band. Nonetheless, I had never listened to them before and didn’t get a chance to before the festival. When we were walking around the different stands, partly to see what’s there, partly to kill time until Ice Nine Kills was set to take the stage at 4:00pm, we decided to take refuge by the Fueled by Ramen stand and reapply sunscreen in the shade of the tent. While standing there, we had overheard a really good set by this pop-punk band that turned out to be The Story Untold. Hearing how good they had sounded, we decided to get closer and become more a part of the crowd. After jamming out to their songs, “History” and “Delete,” they had announced that they were going to their nearby stand for a meet & greet shortly after. Seeing as we had loved their set and weren’t planning on going elsewhere for the next hour, we quickly ran to their stand and managed to be within a dozen people from the very front of the line. When watching their set, their lead singer vaguely reminded me of All Time Low’s Alex Gaskarth, in both appearance and sound. In between songs, he mentioned something about the group being French-Canadian, with the drummer, Johnathan Landry, having horrible English, as a part of a bit that continued on. While waiting in line, I kept thinking about why these two thoughts felt familiar, until I realized that the lead singer was Janick Thibault. Back in 2016, I remember watching a few of his All Time Low/Green Day covers on Youtube, at a time when I don’t think he was in the band. The world truly works in mysterious ways. I hadn’t thought about him since, and so it was crazy that we happened to be chilling by the Owly.fm stage, right when they were in the middle of their performance.
Aside from The Story Untold, my favorite set was by Ice Nine Kills, a band that was in my Top Three to see for the day. Besides being basically in love with Spencer Charnas, I absolutely loved their performance. In addition to sounding great, they really took their theatrical sound to the next level by having everyone in the band dress up as iconic and classic horror movie serial killers, such as Jason Voorhees (Friday the 13th) and Freddie Krueger (Nightmare on Elm Street). Having probably something to do with their two latest singles, “The American Nightmare” and “Thank God It’s Friday,” it was really fun to watch, and their music completely encouraged an awesome moshpit (that I watched from afar) and a ton of head-banging.
The one downside of the day was having to leave 3 hours or so earlier than I had planned. Of course, it was mildly expected, but that’s part of going in a group, you make compromises, and with some friends not feeling well periodically throughout the day, it was my turn to sacrifice, especially since out of everyone, I was able to see the most artists on my list. Although it was advertised as the last cross-country tour, I know my friends and I - as well as many others - hope that that simply means that Vans Warped Tour might be a regional event, with separate tours on the East and West Coast. Warped Tour was a true moment of liberation for me and I will forever remember July 18th, 2018 as a peak of not only my 2018 summer, but my 2018 year as well.
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New Technology is kind of destroying this generations ability to be social..
Technology is such a huge part of our lives as humans. Is it doing us more bad then good? With the new iPhone release I started to think about these new technological advances and how it may be negatively affecting our generation. 
In this case Im going to be talking about social interaction. Technology is pretty much ruining our generations ability to communicate. 
Lets start with food. 
There are plenty of ways to get your food. Whats the simplest way? Ordering it off your phone (at least in my opinion) Almost every food chain has their own app where you can order food and have it given to you within 5 minutes. You open your phone, click on what you want, pay with your credit card and the workers come to your window and you drive off with your food. A few years ago if you wanted fast food you had to either drive up to that window or go inside and actually talk to someone to order. This isn’t a thing of the past but most people would prefer using their phone for this action because its easier and sometimes you can even get a free side order or a 20% discount if you use the app enough! This all sounds great but wheres the human interaction…?!? 
Do you remember the last time you saw a movie? I say see a movie in the sense of getting up from your couch, getting in your car and going to your local AMC Theater. Or like myself do you just say forget going to the movies and wait until it becomes available to stream on Netflix or HBO? In the past couple of years there hasn’t been too may 18-24 year olds going to the movie theatre. https://kav.london/watching-films-in-the-cinema-vs-the-comfort-of-your-own-home-cinema/ As of recent most movies that come out in the theatre will be on premium streaming services within a matter of months. Personally Id much rather wait for the movie to come on Netflix instead paying 10 dollars to see a movie and another 15 dollars for the movie theaters overpriced snacks. No thanks! 
You’ve heard of Tinder and Christian Mingle and other dating websites. They even have a Tinder for people in college! I haven’t heard of a lot of people actually going out and meeting people. In a few years it might just become 2nd nature to use a dating site instead of actually attempting to meet people through regular conversation. Not only is this method of meeting people stunting humans social interaction it also is pretty dangerous and you could meet some real weirdos on these dating sites, if you don’t believe me just watch one episode of MTV’s Catfish show. Im almost sure people don’t even know how to meet people in real life anymore! I know I’d probably have a hard time with it. Which is a real shame. It is somewhat easier to talk behind a screen and text people. Why? Because todays society has become so accustomed to using dating websites and things of that nature its simply hard for some people to break out of that cycle. Look at this Washington Post article about how to meet people in real life like real humans actually would. https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/soloish/wp/2017/09/11/put-down-that-phone-heres-how-to-meet-potential-dates-without-apps/?noredirect=on&utm_term=.3a2c27a1ff85 
Social awkwardness has become trendy and funny but is that okay for our future?! 
https://www.buzzfeed.com/jasminnahar/utterly-mortifying-moments-all-socially-awkward-people-ha. Buzzfeed has plenty of articles and jokes about being super socially awkward which I think can all be led back to not having to communicate with people at all in their adolescent lives. 
In theory I could possibly live with barely communicating with humans at all and living isolated in my life. Im an 18 year old girl. Im also in college. I don’t need too much honestly. In my life currently if I wanted to live the most hidden isolated minimal life I could… 
Go to school.. but online. Zero human interaction
Clothes? Lets go online shopping! (and I wouldn’t even have to say anything to the mailman because they just drop the package at the door! 
Food and water..? Don’t worry about that because you can even order your groceries online! And they drop them right off at the front door! 
Of course you’re going to need money for this living and probably the extreme delivery charges…. 
Don’t worry because you can even get a JOB online!!! And there are plenty of them! https://www.thepennyhoarder.com/wfh/guides-resources/online-jobs-for-college-students/  
Could I possibly live this life? Personally.. No but isn’t it crazy how its actually 100% possible to live your life completely undercover and not having to have a normal conversation ever with a human? Its pretty creepy to think that some people actually live like this… 
In the past people actually had to go out and get groceries and pick up toys for their children for Christmas. Can you believe that back in the day people actually used to get milk delivered to their doorstep and people were cordial with their mailman. I mean how odd would it feel if some guy came up to your door with a gallon of milk asking you how your mom is doing. Of course that would be weird because milk hasn’t been delivered to people doorsteps since the 50’s. But you and probably a lot more people would prefer their Peapod delivered groceries right to their door. 
In Conclusion, People don’t know how to communicate with people. While some people are just bad at talking with people. Our newest additions to everyday technology is to blame. Not having to call in an order for your food, Going to school online, dating online, buying clothes online… 
I literally could live my entire life through my phone and computer screen. Thats not okay. While technology is pretty amazing, I don’t think anyone should lose the ability to communicate with regular people in person! All I can say is pray for our social awkwardness.                        
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pairing: wen junhui x fem!reader synopsis: you encounter him at the bakery and start seeing him every tuesday at the movie theatre where you work since then, until you feel that he wants more than just free movies and snacks.  genre(s): fluff, slice of life, strangers to lovers word count: 1,720
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If you take the 07.56 train to Seongdong-gu, scurry past its sliding doors and cease before the sun-drenched, spread out streets, you would catch a glimpse of an Aporia hippia with kaleidoscopic wings fluttering no more than a little over your eyelashes. The thick furred German Shepherd now tethered to a post would flash its canines at you before softening its growl. If you turn left after the first green public bin ahead of the entrance, you would come across the hotdog stall where people would both patiently and peevishly line up in front of.
And for the past few years, Junhui had already been taking this route to college.
There is an alternative, though. If he lingers in the bakery and waits until the owner approaches him with a smile, he could ask for one pepperoni pizza bread and please a girl. She would kiss him on the cheek and fly into the doors of the movie theatre she works at. He’d have to agree to forsake the morning butterfly and the sizzling hotdogs prior to taking this route, though. 
Junhui had only discovered this a few months ago, but it had become an established route of his every Tuesday.
You were standing on your toes, pleading for a reduction on your customary breakfast as you’d left your wallet somewhere under the soft quilt at home. Your attempt would’ve been futile if it hadn’t been for that one stranger sticking around.
“I have some money left,” he handed his money in exchange for your favourite bread. He tossed it upwards and passed it to you with a heart fluttering smile. “Here you go.”
The redness on your pallid cheeks started to show, your jaw twitching as you tried to free the words scrambled on the tip of your tongue. “Y-you really didn’t have to!” 
He shrugged, “Breakfast’s the most vital meal of the day.”
You used to think people like him only existed in films. The kind souled and genuine people who greet each other and offer a hand - would it not sound very peculiar if it were to happen in real life? You were so accustomed to studying every particular in a two-hour movie that witnessing the same event materialise before you formed a horripilation on your skin. You swallowed. “C-come by the movie theatre sometime, I’ll give you free snacks. I work there.” 
“A popcorn and a drink?” He lightened up. Considering how he sounded, people near him would’ve guessed he resented diets and would prefer snacking off and on. In all honesty, the pink tinge outspread across your cheeks and the shimmer that flickered within your amber orbs had been the only ones bringing about this behaviour. 
“Sure,” you bobbed your head. After what he had done, you weren’t letting him go in possession of nothing. “Your name..?”
“Ah,” he snapped his fingers, “it’s Junhui.”
After seven suns have drowned in the horizon and the sound of hurrying trains continued to resonate in your ears, Junhui has yet to drop by the movie theatre. Did he not want something in return? But he sounded so excited the other day! Although you finally surmised he most likely failed to recall your promise, a part of you agonised over the fact that he might not want to see you again.
But when the doors to the movie theatre opened with an abrupt whirl of wind on an inclement Tuesday afternoon, you knew you shouldn’t have had anything to worry about.
“Woah,” Junhui took in his surroundings - including the uniform you bore. He took giddy steps toward the counter, eyes dilating with incredulity at the variegated refreshments available to purchase. 
“Don’t tell me you’ve never been to a cinema before,” you descried the quick glitter somewhere within his eyes. Junhui glanced at you before quietly deciding on a popcorn flavour. 
“I’ve been to several, but that’s a couple of years ago. Oh, caramel, please.” 
You grinned to yourself, stunned for a second at how surprisingly pure this boy was. You began filling the empty popcorn bucket before realising you weren’t aware of his desired size. “Large, medium, or small?”
Junhui returned his gaze at you. “I’ll take small.”
And then you offered him a drink, but he refused, saying he thought about it the other day and he didn’t pay you this much. But you insisted that he accepted your offer, telling him “breakfast’s the most vital meal of the day”, and if you had missed it, it would feel worse than losing a couple of dollars. 
The amount of people in the cinema was too little to be considered a crowd, each room being occupied by roughly ten, if not, less. You told Junhui he could watch something if he wanted to - and that he still had to pay - which he agreed to. The movie would only start an hour later though, so Junhui had enough time to keep himself busy - which he finally determined to get to know you better.
The movie - horror, he previously picked - began, and while Jun relished his two hours inside theatre four, you had theatre three free of mess. Once in a while, you would sit down on one of the seats in the back row and think about Jun and his irresistible appeals, your heart thumping an unnecessary amount of times. You were being ridiculous; you had only met Junhui twice.
As time is extended, you were so sure you had developed feelings for Jun. You realised first you had fallen in love with his eyes. Every time he scanned the menu for something more than a popcorn and a drink, you would sneakily search within them.
Junhui stopped by more than you expected him to.  He had once come with a friend, who insisted they watch the latest comedy film. He came with more friends after - four or five, you couldn’t remember - in which you had given Jun a little price cut instead of a hundred percent discount, so his friends wouldn’t be too envious. They would finish two and a half hours later, your eyes already groggy as you tried to resist the urge to shut them. You didn’t know this, but Jun would look back at you refilling drink dispensers or scrubbing the bar before catching up with his friends who are already outside. On some days your head would be tilted over your crossed arms on the far corner of the counter, as your co-workers did their portion of the job. He would fret over your weary figure, hesitating in his tracks before stepping out of the theatre. With this, Junhui had become aware that he might also be developing feelings for you.
Jun would habitually come on Tuesday afternoons, around two or three. But today, he didn’t show up until the sun had set. He’d asked you earlier if you worked the night shift. You don’t, but your co-worker had a dental appointment so you covered up for her.
He looked a little enervated. His head was hung low, his hair a tad dishevelled, and his smile didn’t stretch until the crinkle beneath his eyes emerged. You asked him why he had come this late, he replied with a quick “I had something to do”. Jun declined your treat of popcorn and a drink - which was weird - although he did pick to watch a movie.
If it hadn’t been for Jun, the theatre would’ve been completely vacant. Still, he chose to sit in the back row with nothing in hand - not a meal, not a phone, not a friend, nothing. Jun looked strange and uneasy today. He picked romance, a genre you knew he wasn’t interested in. You shrugged it off though, Jun was full of surprises.
You didn’t have much cleaning to do, as the movie theatre had been almost empty the entire day. Maybe it was finals week, you thought. 
You glanced at the doors of theatre four - the room Jun was in - and came up with a very risky idea. You pulled off the hairband that fastened your ponytail and let your hair down. You switched into a white pussy bow, paired with a leather look legging. You peeked through the doors of theatre four and made sure no one but Jun was inside before entering.
He squinted his eyes at you climbing up the aisle, trying to figure out if they were functioning well because it couldn’t be you - it shouldn’t be you. 
When you asked Jun if you could sit next to him, he nodded, feeling a lump rising in his throat. His hands were fidgety, you noticed. You stared at the widespread screen in front of you, trying to fight the urge to stop his hands from moving too restlessly. 
You weren’t into romance either, so the movie didn’t do much in piquing your interest. Your eyelids grew heavier every passing second, the view in front of you starting to blur. You were about shut your eyes for good when a hand slipped into yours, your fingers intertwined perfectly with Jun’s.
You stared at your hands impassively, still not believing your fingers were coiled around his soft and slender ones. Now you could really feel the moistness in his hand, the same one that was unsure and fidgety awhile ago. You uttered a giggle, causing Jun to nervously face you and lick his chapped lips. 
“I have a, uh,” he coughed, “a confession to make.”
You chuckled, “I like you too, Junhui.”
He grinned. He grinned with patent bliss. In fact, very widely you swore you heard his cheekbones crack. His ebony eyes returned to glistening again, the radiant joy that he used to bear now visible. 
Junhui was back to Jun, and all it took was a confession from you.
You would be waiting in front of the theatre every Tuesday, he’d be panting, droplets of sweat evident on his shirt by the time he arrived with your favourite pepperoni pizza bread in his grip. He would come back in the afternoon, hair slicked back, his espadrilles intermittently dripping with rainwater, and breath always a little minty. You would kiss him on the lips and head out on a date with your Tuesday boy.
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One Summer, three best friends, a fortune teller and a mysterious new arrival in town.
I Can See Clearly Now
“I can see clearly now the rain is gone, I can see all obstacles in my way.”
June 19 - Virginia
Looking back, Caroline blamed her unexpected discovery on boredom that summer. The temperature had hit a stifling 103 degrees mainly due to low cloud cover containing the heat and the girls piled into the car headed for the cool sanctuary of the movie theatre to catch the latest Nicholas Sparks adaption. 
Well, that’s what Bonnie and Caroline wanted to see. Katherine on the other hand preferred a lot less mush, as she liked to put it, and a lot more violence. Knowing her dogged determination, Caroline knew this was going to be a difficult argument to win.
They’d been best friends since they were six. Class bully Jimmy Johnson had been teasing Bonnie mercilessly and one day went too far, earning himself a smack from both Caroline and Katherine. The girls still maintained that their ‘time out’ punishment was more than worth it to see him return to school with two very attractive, black eyes. After that he’d never messed with Bonnie again.
Now here they were about to embark on their Senior Year of High School. All Caroline had ever wanted was to leave Mystic Falls but even now she was beginning to feel nostalgic for the only place she’d ever called home. Not to mention her best friends. They’d chosen not to discuss their plans for the following year, too scared to contemplate separating.
“Um, last time I checked the cinema is in that direction, Katherine,” Bonnie gestured behind them.
“Who needs GPS when I have Bonnie Bennett barking directions at me from the backseat.”
“Well, she does have a point, Kat,” Caroline chimed into the conversation. “Surely the prospect of Nicholas Sparks isn’t bad enough to make you drive in the complete opposite direction.”
“Ah yeah he is, that Notebook movie you guys made me watch has scarred me for life.”
“It’s okay, we promised not to tell anyone you cried,” Bonnie mused.
“There was something in my eye, I told you that,” she shot back. “Anyway, I just thought we could do something a little different today. You know given it will be our last high school summer and all.” The dread lingered between them for a while, each girl feeling the overwhelming sadness that came with that very fact.
“I’m almost afraid to ask,” Bonnie murmured, finally breaking the silence.
“You’ll love it, trust me.”
“The last time she said that I ended up dancing on the bar at the Mystic Grill in a tequila fuelled haze,” Caroline recalled.
“And look how much fun you had. Well, you know after the hangover subsided.”
“And the subsequent grounding from the Sheriff. Katherine, she was this close to pressing charges against her own daughter for public drunkenness.”
“Yeah those were good times,” Caroline drawled, raising her eyebrows. “Please tell me this little surprise doesn’t involve illegal activity of any kind?”
“You two really are boring,” she muttered, checking out her appearance in the rearview mirror. “But no this isn’t illegal, well not that I know of anyway. If I’m being honest, I’m not completely across the laws in Maryland.” The girls were rendered speechless just as the 'Thank you for visiting Mystic Falls’ sign rushed past their windows.
3 and half hours later - Maryland
“You brought us all the way to Maryland for this?” Caroline scoffed, throwing open the car door and stepping out before slamming it shut with a bang. “Some fortune teller called Madame Ophelia? I mean as if that’s even her real name.”
“More like Madame needs a new marketing image,” Bonnie murmured, taking in the run down, brick house with the makeshift wooden sign outside that looked as if it was going to topple over at any moment.
“Mock all you like but Madame Ophelia is considered one of the best mediums in North America. According to Psychic Weekly her predictions have proven to be eerily correct time and time again. Her services are highly sought after but I managed to get us appointments. You can thank me later, ladies.”
“Well, you’d think with all that talent she could afford to fix that rickety, front path and tame that unruly wilderness over there that kind of resembles a garden.”
“Come on, live a little,” Katherine pleaded, making her way up the path.
“I am not going in there,” Bonnie baulked. “I’d rather not live out a real life rendition of Hansel and Gretel.”
“Yeah especially without the enticing gingerbread house for added inducement,” Caroline joked just as a loud crack of thunder sounded out and fat drops of water began to fall from the sky. Usually the rain would provide some relief but given the temperature was still so high it only made the conditions more humid. “Just great.”
“If this isn’t a sign, I don’t know what is, Katherine,” Bonnie squealed, just as the rain began to fall in sheets. “Let’s just get the hell out of here.”
“You can but I’m going in and last time I checked I was the one holding the keys to the locked car, so it’s your choice to either get extremely soaked or come with me,” she teased, dangling the keys in front of them teasingly. Bonnie and Caroline regarded each other seriously knowing they didn’t have much choice and followed her inside out of the pouring rain.
“You like to be in control,” Madame Ophelia said to Caroline a half hour later.
It was more like a statement than a question and Caroline was entirely too dubious to properly reply. The inside of her house had been just as run down as the outside and there seemed to be a severe shortage of lighting except for the unmistakable glow emanating from her crystal ball as she peered at Caroline. Her dark grey hair was piled on top of her head in a bun, a coloured scarf wrapped over the top.
“I didn’t think crystal balls were real,” she scoffed, by way of response. “Much like this whole facade you’ve created here.”
“They aren’t, same as this ridiculous outfit. I just use these elements to add a little bit of theatre, people apparently like that sort of thing. I’m guessing you’re not one of them.”
“No offence but I just don’t believe in this whole thing.”
“I’m getting that vibe from you.” Her heavy set wrinkles even more so pronounced as she said it. “Katherine is very much a believer although I’m not entirely sure she agreed with my assessment of her future.”
“Don’t take it personally, she’s high maintenance,” Caroline snorted.
“Bonnie is very closed off although I think that had more to do with the fact she was so scared.”
“Well, you might want to look at improving your customer service then. Redecorating this place might be a good start, Madame Ophelia. You know, if that’s your real name.”
“It’s Gertrude but I didn’t think it had the same ring to it,” she smirked, playfully. “You could never be frightened, Caroline,” she smiled, knowingly. “In fact, your inner energy is extremely powerful. You’re very different to your friends.”
“Different how?” Now Madame Ophelia had her attention.
“You know what you want and aren’t afraid to follow your dreams,” she added. “I have no doubt you will be a successful journalist, in fact Brown University will be very lucky to have you in their class next year.”
She felt the breath hitch in her throat. Her lifelong dream had been journalism and Brown was at the top of the list. How did she know that? Maybe this psychic thing wasn’t so bad, as long as she was telling the truth of course. Before Caroline could ask about future job possibilities she continued. “But that’s not the most pressing future event I can see.”
“Excuse me?” What could be more important than her future career?
“I can see him.”
“Him?” She squeaked. Was she referring to a possible love interest? Caroline had always placed romance at the very bottom of her cluttered list of life goals.
“He’s foreign. Dark, blonde curls, blue eyes and lips the colour of deep crimson.” Caroline couldn’t respond mainly because she didn’t know what to say or what this all meant. “You’ve both been looking for each other without really knowing it.”
“Who is he?”
“Your soulmate.”
“I don’t believe in soulmates,” she uttered.
“You will,” she smiled, knowingly. “Now, I believe our time is up.”
“But,” before she could argue further, Madame Ophelia was gone. Caroline wasn’t sure whether it was an optical illusion she’d employed to add to the theatrics or whether she’d been wrong about her. The skeptic in her wanted to believe the former but something was telling Caroline not to discount her abilities.
Three hours later - Maryland/Virginia border
“Obviously Madame Ophelia knows nothing about me,” Katherine ranted. Caroline rolled her eyes from the backseat wondering when she was going to finally stop whining. This thing was her whole idea in the first place after all. “And when the hell is this damn rain going to stop!” The summer storm had been relenting and the water was beating heavily against the windshield as the sun was beginning to set lazily on the horizon.
“She said you were highly ambitious and were going to be an extremely successful Harvard trained lawyer. I’d say she knows you pretty well,” Bonnie offered.
“Harvard has been your dream ever since I’ve known you, Kat,” Caroline added, trying to ignore Madame Ophelia’s prediction about her mystery soulmate. She figured no one could get everything right. Brown was what she wanted not some unnamed blonde.
“That I can handle,” she growled, looking into the mirror at her friend briefly. “But she obviously doesn’t know my taste in men. Apparently I’m going to meet some serious, thoughtful and protective brunette who is going to change my perception of things.”
“How is that a bad thing?”
“Well Bonnie, serious isn’t really my type. You realise serious is just another word for boring, right?”
“Last time I checked it isn’t,” Caroline shot back.
“Only you would have memorised the thesaurus,” she groaned. “Whatever the case, Katherine Pierce is not interested in someone like that.”
“Woah, she’s referring to herself in the third person, this must be serious,” Bonnie joked from the passenger seat. “Oh sorry, pardon the pun.”
“It’s so easy to joke when you find out that not only architecture at Stanford is a sure thing but so too a cheeky, brunette that challenges everything you’ve ever believed. Maybe we should swap future, mystery men?”
“I don’t think our destinies are interchangeable.”
“Come on you guys,” Caroline interrupted. “Do you really believe in all of this stuff?”
“And what exactly was your reading, Care?” Katherine asked, slowing down as they entered the main street of one of the smaller towns on their route. “You’ve been reluctant to share so far.”
“It’s not important,” she murmured, eyes downcast all of a sudden. For some reason she’d been too afraid to relay the details given it would make it all the more real and Caroline wasn’t ready to entertain some guy who may or may not be her soulmate.
“Oh come on, that’s not fair,” Katherine argued, turning around briefly to send her a dirty look.
“Katherine, look out!” Bonnie cried, just as her car ran straight into the back of a black SUV. The jolt from the impact was immediate and Caroline felt herself repelled forward into the back of the driver’s seat.
“Ouch,” she moaned, finally coming to from the initial shock. “This is why I don’t like driving with you, Pierce.” The girls emerged from the car slowly to inspect the damage. Funnily enough the rain had all but stopped as they did. 
“It’s not my fault that driver was going like ten miles an hour which is like thirty-five below the speed limit in this area,” Katherine growled, rubbing her forehead. “I bet snails could drive faster than this grandpa.”
“Grandpa?” A stern voice exclaimed. “Not only do you run into me but you have the audacity to insult me too?" 
Although shaken, Caroline had to admit the stranger was extremely good looking with his English accent and in that fitted, dark suit. She was slightly relieved he was a brunette given Madame Ophelia’s earlier prediction about her supposed, blonde foreigner.
"Well,” she began. Bonnie and Caroline knew she was about to erupt in true Katherine Pierce fashion if they didn’t intervene and given the accident was clearly her fault they didn’t want to exacerbate the situation any further.
“How about we all talk about this calmly,” Bonnie interrupted, before jumping in fright. Another attractive brunette had approached flashing a cheeky smile in their direction.
“Grandpa is extremely appropriate, trust me,” he smirked, raising his eyebrows at Bonnie. “I have to drive with the guy.”
“Really, Kol?” He drawled. “Your immaturity never fails to amaze me. Could you maybe wait in the car while I organise the insurance details?”
“I was bored,” he pouted. “Anyone like to get a drink? I know this town is tiny but I’m sure we could find a beer somewhere.”
“There’s been an accident little brother,” another accented voice chimed into the conversation. “This isn’t an excuse to blatantly and desperately pick up women.”
Caroline’s blue eyes immediately flickered to its source. 
Dark, blonde curls, blue eyes and deep crimson lips curved into a knowing grin. Madame Ophelia certainly had impeccable timing and Caroline knew she could possibly be in trouble. His eyes searched hers before glancing at his brother lazily. “Can we move this along and just get to Mystery Falls already.”
“It’s called Mystic Falls,” Caroline corrected him tersely, trying to ignore the way those dark jeans and navy henley fitted him way too snugly
She’d only just met the guy but he was already wearing on her last nerve. She wasn’t sure if it was because he couldn’t get the name of her hometown right or whether it was the fact he could be her soulmate. Either way it looked like she wasn’t going to be rid of him anytime soon.
TBC?
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I hear that Unplanned, the movie that recounts Abby Johnson‘s conversion from Planned Parenthood clinic director of the year to pro-life activist, is under a media blackout, but you’d never know it from my newsfeed.  I’d been hearing about it from all my Catholic pro-life friends for weeks before it premiered, and I had no interest in seeing it.
But my next door neighbor and dear friend talked me into going with her and I’m glad I did.  I can’t really say I enjoyed it because of the subject matter, but the movie held my attention.  I was impressed and I wasn’t really expecting to be.
The irony that it’s legal for a 17-year-old to have an abortion without a parent’s consent but not to watch one simulated on screen is not lost on me, but even so I wouldn’t take my own teenagers to this movie.  I believe the R rating is justified and I had to avert my eyes more than once.
That’s not to suggest that Unplanned‘s gore is gratuitous.  As Abby herself says to her husband when she arrives home in blood-spattered sneakers, “Nobody ever said that abortion is pretty.”  The scenes were appropriate and effective within the context of the story, although the aftermath of Abby’s at-home chemical abortion probably could have been cut shorter.
Reading the above, you might assume that Unplanned is just a moving-picture version of those awful graphic photos with which over-the-top activists like to assault unsuspecting bystanders.  On the contrary, the film is surprisingly nuanced.  Even as an unapologetic pro-choice clinic director, Abby is a sympathetic character, and so are the other women who work with her (the obvious exception is her villainous, money-grubbing boss: “Non-profit is a tax status, not a business model.”).  They truly believe the work they do helps women, and Abby sees the real mission of her clinic as providing healthcare and resources to prevent unplanned pregnancies and, by extension, abortions.
I was shocked and then thrilled to see some pro-life protesters who were decidedly unsympathetic, screaming at women, calling them murderers, waving aborted baby pictures at them.  It was honest of the movie to confront this abusive behavior head on, and to use the prayerful, kind protesters to rebut it and to demonstrate throughout the movie the importance of dialogue and respect and finding common ground.
While Unplanned left me with a mostly positive impression, I do have two criticisms.  And while that may not seem like much, I fear that they are quite damaging to the film’s potential to change the minds and hearts of abortion rights supporters.
At the very beginning of the movie, we get a disclaimer: Based on a true story.  I know lots of movies begin that way.  I know translating events from a book to film requires a certain amount of dramatic licenses.  Still, this immediately called every event into question for me.  I had to wonder what exactly was changed? What exactly was not strictly true? And while there is Truth to be found even in completely fictional stories, if I were a skeptical pro-choice Planned Parenthood fan watching this movie, I would take the disclaimer as license to question–even discount–everything I saw.
Even worse was the confrontation between Abby and her former boss, Cheryl, just after Abby makes her debut into the world of sidewalk counseling outside the fence of the very clinic she once ran.  As a way of intimidating Abby with the power and influence of Planned Parenthood, Cheryl brags, “We’ve got Soros, Gates, Buffet . . . ”
Maybe Cheryl really said those exact words in real life, although it didn’t sound to me like anything a real person would say, but I was immediately pulled right out of the movie, cringing inwardly as I imagined how a pro-choice viewer would react to the name-dropping of George Soros in particular.  Don’t comment and tell me how much money Soros donates to Planned Parenthood.  I am sure he does and you don’t have to convince me, but he’s also constantly accused of being involved in various “liberal conspiracies” by far right wing types, and including this here will make some viewers dismiss the entirety of the movie.
Which leads me to the big question I was left with after watching Unplanned:  Who is the movie for?  I can see it as a vehicle for energizing those who are already against abortion, or perhaps as a recruitment tool for 40 Days for Life.  I can see it providing topics for discussion among pro-lifers.  But even if we can get pro-choice people into the theatre to watch, because of the foregoing I am not sure I can see it changing their minds about abortion or Planned Parenthood; and it’s a shame that reservations about the truth of events in a movie might obscure the Truth about abortion.
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Forget Netflix – The real joy of movies is still in theatres
NEW YORK — Sure, it’s easy to Netflix and chill these days. Or Prime and recline. Or Hulu and … well, whatever. But if you really want to savour a film, there’s still no substitute for a movie theatre.
Turns out that there are few better ways to rediscover the joy of heading to the theatre than a year of free movie tickets, courtesy of MoviePass. Among the greatest attractions: no distractions from Facebook, online chats, household chores and what not.
I was a regular moviegoer until ticket prices rocketed past $10 several years ago. In New York, $15 is now common; some theatres can charge $18 or $19, even before 3D and other surcharges. Streaming at home became far more affordable — and convenient. Who has time to go to the movies when you’re already behind on Netflix, Hulu, Amazon and everything else?
But then came a too-good-to-be-true subscription deal from MoviePass, offering a daily movie for a year for just $94. With ticket prices no longer an issue, I ended up seeing 181 movies that would have cost me $2,747 without MoviePass. That’s 52 cents per film, a 97 per cent discount from $15. The deal was so good that MoviePass no longer offers it.
That MoviePass subscription has expired, but I’ve already seen 42 movies on other subscriptions this year — a mix of Sinemia, AMC A-List and memberships with individual theatres. It’s costing about $60 a month in all, far more than the $8 a month with MoviePass — but all worth it.
I confess I have it easier than many people. Having no kids means no worries about babysitters and bedtime. I can squeeze in a 10 p.m. showing after a night out with friends.
Once the lights dim, it’s just the movie and me.
When watching Netflix, you need discipline to put your phone or laptop away. I’ve sometimes had to consult Wikipedia for a plot point I missed because I was responding to a text or reading about the next movie to watch. Even folding laundry takes your eyes off the screen.
And while it’s convenient to be able to stream movies in bits and pieces, as time permits, that detracts from their rhythm and pacing. Some movies, such as the Netflix drama “Roma,” are meant to feel slow and deliberate, but you lose that feeling if you multitask on Facebook. The Netflix thriller “Bird Box” just doesn’t feel right without the proper buildup of suspense.
Costumes and landscapes come to life on the theatre’s big screen. Rock climber Alex Honnold’s nerve-wracking, rope-free ascent of the gigantic Yosemite rock formation El Capitan in “Free Solo” wouldn’t have been the same on a phone. This documentary was even worth watching a second time, in the mega-size Imax format.
Then there was “Cold War,” a Polish drama on romance in the Eastern Bloc. It was filmed in black and white in the boxy, 4-by-3 frame used by TV screens of that era. That gives the movie a nostalgic feel, even though it just came out. With streaming, video sometimes gets squeezed or stretched to match the dimensions of the TV or phone.
Sound quality at many theatres far exceeds what I could get at home. That became clear watching — and hearing — “Bohemian Rhapsody,” about the rock band Queen, and “A Star is Born,” a Lady Gaga-led drama on a singer’s rise to fame.
True, theatres can still be a hassle. You have to be there at showtime — and then big theatre chains show nearly a half-hour of trailers. (I typically read an e-book at low brightness or catch up on podcasts.) Coordinating schedules with friends can also be complicated, though if you’re OK watching movies alone, that doesn’t have to be a problem.
Spending all that time at the multiplex has changed how I watch movies and shows at home. I try harder to pay attention; my phone’s screen-time controls, which block message notifications and the like, help me focus. But it still takes willpower, like avoiding the chocolate cake that’s right in front of you.
For that reason, I choose theatres when I can, even when streaming is available right away. Some movies never make it to theatres outside big cities. I don’t have that problem in New York, where several theatres show more than just the latest mega-blockbuster sequels.
So instead of asking, “Who has time to go the movies?,” I ask myself, “Who has time for streaming?” And Netflix just raised its prices yet again. Hmmm.
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Gettin’ the Band Together, now playing on Broadway at the Belasco Theatre, is an original musical about a down-and-out stockbroker who gets his high school band back together in time to face off against his old rival in his New Jersey hometown’s Battle of the Bands.
That’s it. That’s the whole show. On paper, it sounds pretty boring: a stockbroker? An all-dude rock band? From Jersey? Is this really what the world needs in 2018?
But I suspected there must have been some reason that in this age of high-glitz adaptations of movies and other blockbusters, this unassuming original rock musical had struggled its way from a small-town Jersey stage to Broadway, and so I set out for the Belasco hoping to find magic and wisdom and a reflection of the self, or at the very least a fun evening.
The onstage story of Gettin’ the Band Back Together is a basic battle of good and evil — of following dreams versus settling for mundanity — playing out in song and dance. As a fellow theatergoer who’d already seen the show described it, it’s basically the movie Dodgeball but with rock music. And that’s not a bad thing, unless you hate fun.
Gettin’ the Band Back Together is a warm, infectious delight. Yes, it’s true that the show has been prominently panned because its shamelessly tropey plot is packed with dorky, improv-style humor that constantly pelts you with silly jokes, visual gags, cheesy puns, physical comedy, and references to other rock musicals. But it works anyway, because it’s performed with deep joy, it’s extremely well-sung, and it’s delivered with charm by an ensemble having the time of their lives. If you let all of these things speak to you, as you should, then at some point during the performance, you will inevitably reach that wonderful moment where you are laughing purely because you are laughing.
It’s this feeling that illustrates what ultimately made a lasting impression on me as I alternately laughed and cringed my way through the show: not the onstage battle between bands, but an offstage one. The musical that Gettin’ the Band Back Together is trying to be is distinctly at odds with the current Broadway culture — embodied by an unmoved audience at the performance I attended — that unfairly expects it to be something more.
The truth is that Gettin’ the Band Back Together is a delightful show. But even if it weren’t, I would be writing this review with my heart on my sleeve to tell you all to go see it, because it’s one of those musicals that earnestly strives to be exactly what it is: a good-hearted, shamelessly self-indulgent trope factory built on fun and silliness. And in this age of problematic faves and anxiety-laden media consumption, this show, practically wholesome in its throwback juvenilia, is the rare offering that isn’t going to make you feel bad for liking it — even though it’s inane.
In that spirit, it’s reminiscent of another recent tropey, heartwarming cultural offering: Netflix’s To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before. On some level, Gettin’ the Band Back Together is the movie’s Broadway equivalent — a sort of To All the Bands (or Least Rock Musicals) I’ve Loved Before. So what if its storyline is familiar? So what if it openly embraces every clichéd tale of down-and-out has-beens getting their groove back? Just like To All the Boys, its execution is solid, and its cast is charismatic. In essence, it’s a “cheesy cover band” equivalent of a rock musical. And that’s perfectly fine; after all, there’s a reason people love cheesy cover bands.
Put another way, Gettin’ the Band Back Together is one giant dad joke, if your dad were still a kid at heart, and that kid was a giant Nickelodeon fan who never got over Ren and Stimpy going downhill after season two, who secretly cried when My So-Called Life ended before Angela and Brian got together, who definitely got drunk at Bonnaroo and wrote “fuck Nickelback” on a fence while stoned; someone who, in adulthood, probably owns a Blu-ray of Drumline because he wants to be close to that movie in a physical way; someone who just wants his kid to be happy and kind and motivated by love rather than by a capitalist reading of the American dream.
The show sports a decently catchy, fun score by Mark Allen, making his Broadway debut. The cast — led by the charmingly winsome Mitchell Jarvis as Mitch, our stockbroker-cum-band reuniter, lover, dreamer, and Alex Brightman impersonator — performs it with loud conviction. But the real star of Gettin’ the Band Back Together is the book, which comes to us via veteran producer Ken Davenport and the improv comedy troupe Grundleshotz, in a literal “Hey, gang! Let’s put on a show!” process. (Among the Grundleshotz improv performers is Jay Klaitz, who doubles as Mitch’s MILF-obsessed, stoner best friend Bart.)
Grundleshotz, Davenport, and Allen have infused Gettin’ the Band Back Together with so much energy that it leaks out of the stage at random moments, punctuating an endless stream of jokes that succeed due to the sheer enthusiasm and dedication of the show’s cast, and to their own shameless silliness.
Writing down the jokes can’t translate their onstage effectiveness as a litany of Dadaist dork humor, but here are a few: There’s a dead cat. There’s a “nuns and roses” quip. There’s an R&B singer who turns love songs into domestic disputes. There’s a character whose only purpose in life is to take selfies. There’s a spray-tanned villain who drives a Pontiac Solstice and just wants to be loved. There’s a love ballad composed entirely of bad puns about police. There’s a running “your mom” gag. There’s every kind of New Jersey in-joke you can wedge into a two-hour running time. There’s a one-liner that’s such a cute, absurdist mix of juvenile humor and randomness that it literally stops the show.
I should repeat that: The songs are solid and fun, but it’s the jokes, not the songs, that you’ll remember.
Taken on their own, the jokes in Gettin’ the Band Back Together are nothing unique or exhilarating, but they work because the cast is so committed to selling them. In fact, I have rarely seen a more committed, joyous ensemble work so hard to win over a dead audience than I did during my Thursday night show. I’ve never seen a cast sing their hearts out with more glee and vibrance in the face of a crowd that clearly rejected the kind of show they were attending. Thank god for my seatmates Tyler and Bradley, who were there to see the show for the second time in a week, and who were living for Gettin’ the Band Back Together the way only we queer Broadway fans living through the homophobic cake years can.
“This is the kind of show I can take my Trump-voting brother to and we’ll bond over it,” Tyler told me before the show started.
“I cried,” Bradley added.
“It’s so dumb,” Tyler gushed to me at intermission. “It’s so dumb, isn’t it amazing?”
This show is so dumb, and it is amazing. It is so funny, so soft and joyous, that during intermission, I texted a friend who refused to come see it with me solely to upbraid her for her mistake. Meanwhile, my betrayer audience sat unmoved by the endless adorkable hilarity playing out in front of them. And every second that the sea of unenthused faces around me refused to be swept along by the ebullient hopes and dreams of a bunch of New Jersey ’90s kids who just wanted to have fun again, I resented not only them but the modern theater industry itself.
After all, only Broadway could build an American musical legacy out of exploiting camp for its cultural mileage, and yet somehow wind up increasingly abandoning ironic forms of entertainment — including “so bad it’s good” enjoyment.
In recent years, Broadway has conditioned audiences to expect either high-budget remakes with canned messages and blatant crowd-pandering (last season’s Spongebob comes to mind) or high-budget sophistication à la Dear Evan Hansen. Hell, even Gettin’ the Band Back Together, with its crop of references to aging rock artists, was designed to appeal to a certain crowd of baby boomers, to its detriment and their apathy.
But at heart, this isn’t a musical for boomers; instead, it represents and caters to the kind of media-savvy fan who fully embraces absurdity and silliness in their pop culture (the sillier, the better). As such, Gettin’ the Band Back Together desperately needs a younger audience, or at least a better older one.
Who were these people sitting around me who refused to show any enthusiasm for a stellar ensemble that served up some of the strongest group vocals I’ve heard since Evan Hansen? Who were these people who sat largely unmoved while our band of heroes rocked a bar mitzvah, reminisced about the roller coasters at Six Flags Great Adventure, and overcame numerous trials and obstacles to not only find love and happiness but receive a deus ex machina from none other than a fictional version of Aerosmith’s Joe Perry?
As it happened, a good portion of my fellow audience members had apparently come to see Gettin’ the Band Back Together because they’d received comped or discounted tickets as part of Broadway deal websites like Show Score. Through these kinds of watch-and-rate deals, some theatergoers — thanks to retirement, or sheer determination — are able to see upward of five shows a week.
That’s great for them, and ostensibly it should be good for shows that open in the summer, like this one. Late-summer Broadway openings tend to be rare for New York, because the tourist crowd doesn’t gravitate toward new releases that don’t already have strong buzz; you need New Yorkers to see those shows, and in August, they’re often away.
So these websites help fill seats during the offseason, which is a win. But it’s easy to see how they can hurt shows like this one, which wind up being viewed by an assembly line of people looking for deals first and feels second. It struck me that while teenage audiences were being encouraged, off-Broadway, to Be More Chill, on 44th Street, the cast of Gettin’ the Band Back Together was pleading with their older, middle-class audience to be less chill. And, miracle of miracles, eventually the audience at my show thawed out; gradually, more and more of them seemed to open their hearts to the silliness and sincerity of this show, its complete lack of irony and pretense, its sheer eagerness to make you laugh.
But they couldn’t have done it without my dudes Bradley and Tyler, whose constant laughter kept the orchestra section on life support all night. Late in the third act, veteran Marilu Henner, who plays Mitch’s mom with brassy warmth, came halfway up the aisle just to film the two of them — cast members breaking the fourth wall to film the audience is not an infrequent practice on Broadway these days, but rarely is it done with such specificity — as they lost their minds over the big finale number, when Mitch and the band finally play the Battle of the Bands. It’s exciting!
I was happy for them both, these pure-hearted theater lovers receiving a pure-hearted musical blessing, and feeding all their love and energy back to this hard-working, earnest cast. That is what we come to the theater for. That is Broadway at its core, stripped of size and massive budgets and pretension, until all that remains is love and communion.
At intermission, I’d overheard one of the comped five-show-a-week people say, with a shrug, “Maybe it’ll run for a few weeks.”
Fuck that.
Go see Gettin’ the Band Back Together. Enter with love and leave with laughter. May it, and all the other plucky, misunderstood musicals of its ilk, run forever.
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"Finding Health Insurance is impossible?
Trying to find health insurance for myself and my daughter is impossible. We arrived into the country in December 2011. I am now a permanent resident, my daughter (2) is a a US Citizen. We live in California. Have tried applying but I get declined due to the non-resident clause that most insurance companies have. And then because I get declined I can't get my daughter covered, as well. Have also been reading that most companies don't do child only policies. Just can't win. Anyone here, got any advice or been through this. Would like to get some coverage, we are both healthy without existing conditions, but its the what if's, and as she is 2, I would like to know that I can go to the doctor
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Is there a way I can get out of a speeding/failure to meet at a stop sign ticket? I really don't care about paying the ticket or court costs at all, but I just can not, really, really, can not pay the extra insurance money. I am paying out of state tuition AND I am in Architecture. Architecture is SUCH an expensive major. The police officer (whose name I can't even read on the ticket because it is just a scribble) gave me a ticket for speeding and failure to stop at a stop sign. I have always been a great driver, I never speed, I always stop at stop signs, I don't drink/text/talk over the phone and drive, I always have my seatbelt on. This one time I absolutely needed to get home at 2am I decide to go a little faster and yup, of course I get a ticket. I don't want to lie, I was doing 36 on a 20 zone at the time, I admit it even though I honestly did not realize I was going at 36 I didn't' do it on purpose. I didn't think hey I'm just gonna go faster because no one is around , I really honestly did not notice I was going at 36. But I am not sure about the stop sign thing. Honestly I was not paying much attention because I drive through this stop sign everyday but I distinctly remember there was a car already at the stop sign coming from the left so I HAD to stop. There was absolutely no one else coming from any of the four sides, so I might have not stopped completely but I did slow down almost to a stop and then kept going. Then like I said I was going at 36 on a 20 zone. This was at 2 a clock in the morning when there was literally not a soul around. The police officer was practically hiding in a dark, empty parking lot and came out of no where. I really don't want to make excuses for myself. I know what I did was wrong and I'll admit it. But this is my first ticket, and I really don't want t have to pay so much more money on my insurance for a slip as small as this one. My boyfriend was with mi in the car if that means anything. I really don't know, I've never had a ticket before. I've been reading up on how to get out of a ticket, and a lot of people say it is good to talk to the officer, and I thought about doing it but the officer's name is not readable at all. He also completely misspelled my name. In Puerto Rico we use both my father's and mother's last names so I have two last names. Let's say my name is X, my father's last name is Y and my mother's is Z. In Puerto Rico it goes like X Y Z and since my license is from Puerto Rico that is how it is written in my license. But the police officer wrote X Z. So my name is wrong in the ticket. I don't know if that counts for anything, someone told me that if they misspell my name or the officer's it means the ticket is dropped. This seems unlikely but hey, like I said I really have no clue. Again, I don't want to make excuses for myself, but I just can't afford extra insurance costs. I just cant...""
""SWINE FLU, BUT NOOOO INSURANCE! SOS!?""
my sister is REALLY sick. she has a really bad cold and cough and not getting better! she doesn't have insurance or money to pay for a dr.'s visit. would anyone be able to help me help her find somewhere she can go to get checked? i live in orange county, california.""
Where can I find affordable dental insurance?
I am 24 years old, full time student with no job. I am need of dental work ASAP. They are trying to charge me over $2,000 for extracting 4 wisdom teeth and i cannot afford it.""
Cheapest Car Insurance Companies For A 17 Year Old Boy?
I've done a lot of research and can't find anything less than around 2500 a year, any good companies that can can give me a better quote? I'm thinking about getiing a Renault Clio or a VW Fox if that helps. Any tips or suggestions for good insurance companies would be much appreciated!""
Whats the cheapest Car insurance?
Im 19 about to turn 20. I have a drivers liscence but no car. i need the cheapest insurance that will allow me to legally drive any normal car. I live in long beach, ca.""
""On a family plan (Car Insurance), Must all members covered live under the same address?""
My boyfriends dad is a penny pincher and has my boyfriend under the families car insurance to save money. I don't know if it is legal or not, but my boyfriend does not live with his parents (and the address on the insurance is his parents house). He is also is not insured on the car he is driving (his dad is, because he has points)... Will someone please say if this is allowed...so we can put this argument to rest!""
Insurance Coverage?
HI I was in accident about 5 Month ago..I was seen by a doctors but I stopped going becuase I didn't have that much pain. Now I started having all this pain on my legs..so My question is, if I go see a doctor now, does my insurance covers it. Thank you for your advice..""
""If I report a cracked windshield and make a claim for a replacement, will my insurance rate go up?""
I'd like to get the windshield fixed, but I'm concerned the amount I save by having the insurance company pay for it will be less than the extra amount I might end up paying in increased fees. Should I just pay to replace it myself, avoid reporting it and not risk increased insurance payments?""
What would be the average income of a part time insurance agent?
I was recently offered a job for when I get out of high school as an insurance agent. The lady said it would be a good job for me to have during college. I have other job offers and am considering this one. I know that in a sales field like this one there are many possibilities on how high or low your income could be, but I was just wondering if anyone had a rough estimate of what I could expect to make as an insurance agent while going to college.""
We are looking at buyin a house what insurances will we need and around how much should we budget for this?
We are first time buyers ans are looking to buy a house and we were wondering what are the insurances we need to take out and how much should we be looking at budgeting for this a month any help would be brill thanks x
My girlfriends car insurance has been cancelled by the insurer!?
my girlriends insurer has sent a letter to my girlfriend saying that they have made a mistake with her insurance after she has been driving for about 3 weeks. they say that she now has to pay 12000 or cancel her insurance. the issue is that they have already taken 780 of her. and also if she cancels her insurance she will not be able to getanother reasonable quote again! My question is is it illegal for them to do this!? and how do we go about getting it back without her next quoting flying through the roof?
What is the cheapest and most affordable auto insurance?
i live in illinois
Car Rental Insurance?
What happens if you rent a car and decline any coverage? I was told that if you were involed in an accident you would have to make a claim with your own insurance company. What if you don't own a car and thus don't have an insurance company? Are there limits to the amount of responsibility of the renter? I mean if the car is totaled does the renter really have to replace the entire cost of the car out of his pocket as well as damage to the other car and injury to it's occupants? I know i'm not alone in declining insurance. But if I got into an accident I always assumed I would just be responsible for a deductable and not the total amout of damage to the cars and injuries. Serious answers only. I really don't need to hear yes, you need insurance or you're screwed That tells me nothing.""
Full coverage insurance for peregnant women?
I live under visa here in the u.s,,, I've heard there is a very good health insurance for peregnant women in Oklahama state coveraging all the health problem for free its website is: www.mysoonercare.org I dont live in Oklahama and I need to know if there is anything like that in other state in the U.S ????""
Dad wont pay for insurance?
I went to school today to get my parking permit and I needed a couple of things including a copy of my insurance and my registration. The problem was that my name wasn't written on the insurance card but Im still insured under my dads name. I told him about it and he called the school, after that he called me and told me not to talk to the people that were in charge of giving out the permits because my name wasn't under the policy it was just that car that was under it and who ever drove it was covered. He also said that he doesn't want to pay 1400 to add me on the insurance even though he makes 6000 a mont, and the last thing i want to do is park my car in the neighborhood next to the school if i did that there would be no point in getting a car. I need help what should i do this is stressing me out!""
I got my 1998 hyandai elantra tataled how much should i get from the insurance company?
it has 119000 miles on it but is still in good condition and has no recorded crashes or anything on it well until now that is. and the totaling was not my fault
Car insurance on a used car?
I am going to buy a used car from someone, and obviously I need to be insured to drive it home. Is there a way I can get insured for just that day or drive home, so that I can have the car before I do everything I need to with it?""
If i lease a car do I pay insurance?
I am thinking about leasing a car, do I have to pay insurance?""
Finding Health Insurance is impossible?
Trying to find health insurance for myself and my daughter is impossible. We arrived into the country in December 2011. I am now a permanent resident, my daughter (2) is a a US Citizen. We live in California. Have tried applying but I get declined due to the non-resident clause that most insurance companies have. And then because I get declined I can't get my daughter covered, as well. Have also been reading that most companies don't do child only policies. Just can't win. Anyone here, got any advice or been through this. Would like to get some coverage, we are both healthy without existing conditions, but its the what if's, and as she is 2, I would like to know that I can go to the doctor
https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/my-roommate-trouble-auto-insurance-fraud-eulah-rosenda-1"
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Money at 30: When it Pays to Be Organized
My wife may be the most organized person I know. On the off chance that I need to know how many miles were on our car when we took it in for an oil change three years ago, I guarantee she’ll have an answer for me in less than 10 minutes. This might seem kind of silly but the truth is that organization actually plays a huge role in personal finance.
Here are a few examples that prove it pays to be organized:
Managing due dates
I have a terrible memory. Back when I was a manager at the movie theatre, I used to tell my bosses that, if I wasn’t writing down what they said, there was almost no chance I’d remember to do what they asked. Naturally I’d then forget to look at what I wrote down, but I digress  — the point is that billing due dates can sometimes slip your mind and cause you financial pain.
There are few different ways to make sure you’re on top of your due dates, starting with the setting up autopay. The vast majority of creditors now allow you to pay your bill automatically and may even offer you a discount for doing so. Of course there are downsides to this tactic (as you’ll see below) and there are some holdouts for such a service. For those cases, I’d recommend checking out a personal finance app like Mint or Clarity Money that can help you add your billing due dates to your phone’s calendar. If you have a real life, physical calendar as well, it can’t hurt writing some of your major bills like credit card due dates on there as well.
Knowing what you’re spending
As I mentioned there are some downsides to automation. Topping that list is the fact that you can often overlook expenses like unneeded memberships or overlarge utility bills that actually require your attention. This is where the aforementioned apps can also come to the rescue. In fact Clarity Money even has a feature to help you cancel memberships on the spot!
Beyond fancy apps, it’s imperative that you perform regular audits on your finances as well. Every three months are so, take another look at all of your bills and total up your spending. Not only will this will give you an opportunity to trim any fat in your budget but, considering all the recent cyber attack news, will also give you the perfect opportunity to ensure your charges are on the up and up.
Collecting tax write-offs
Being self-employed, my personal finances are also my business finances. Because of this it’s important that I keep track of the spending I do for my career as these purchases can often lead to tax write-offs and credits (as I learned from my tax experience last year). However it’s not just freelancers who can get tax write-offs — there are plenty of deductions from medical costs to moving expenses that may apply to you, but you’ll need to be organized in order to get them. I’d recommend maintaining a file with all potentially relevant paperwork, receipts, and other documentation so you can revisit these purchases at tax time and see if you’re entitled to a deduction. Also be sure to hold onto that documentation after submitting your return just in case you end up facing a dreaded audit.
Claiming insurance money
Finally another area of personal finance where it pays to be organized is when it comes to filing a claim on your insurance. For example, for homeowners or renters insurance policies, it can be extremely helpful to take photos of all of your home and possessions ahead of time so you can better show what was lost, damaged, or stolen. These before and after photos could make a big difference in proving your claim and getting all of the money you’re entitled to.
In many aspects of personal finance, being organized is a must. Your organization could even save or make you money if you play your cards right. By staying on top of your bills and spending, while also being prepared for tax time and any insurance claims you may need to make, you’ll be a step ahead of your finances.
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Today, I faced my finances.
[CURRENT LOAN BALANCE: $23,077.15]
My quest to pay off my debt started last month when I was out of work three weeks early.
Until recently, I used to live and work in Disney World. It wasn’t a good fit. I quit my job before I was originally scheduled to leave. I knew I would be out of a paycheck for about 5 weeks before my next job began in June, but the psychological and physical benefits far outweighed the financial hit.
With mostly nothing to do all day at home but keep myself fed, clean, and entertained – even Hulu all day gets boring after a while, and the kittens slept more than they played with me – I turned to financial education. I had to offset the losses of that month without work, and with plenty of time to do it, I researched every safe, legal, and non-sketchy method I could to bring in income. I tallied up every single one of my unclaimed assets – everything from freelance checks I was still holding onto to unused gift cards. I cashed out my life insurance (not by choice.) I read up on the details of my student loan debt, which I had previously not paid much attention to, as well as the concepts of debt independence, the debt avalanche vs. debt snowball methods, whether it was better to pay off a loan early or wait, the horror stories of defaulted loans, the success stories of those who had put their noses to the grindstone and paid off their debts in a year by working 80-hour weeks, etc. I familiarized myself deeply with my Roth account. I invested in the stock market. 
While I’ll explore the pros and cons of those methods individually in future posts, I thought I’d start with this one not only because it’s the most recent, but also because it had the biggest (non-literal) payoff. 
Today, I faced my finances.
When I moved to Orlando, I was, for the first time, living on my own -- although I was living in AirBNBs -- in the real adult sense, rather than with the built-in safety net of a school or study abroad program. I had to pay for my own housing, schedule my own work hours, drive myself everywhere (despite my driving phobia), and buy my own groceries and gas, but on the other hand, I had no limits to how I wanted to spend my money. 
Although I have always considered myself a thrifty person, the new and combined effects of seeing a decent paycheck each week and being solely responsible for my own spending meant that I wasn’t as particular about my finances as I had been before. I knew I wasn’t spending a lot of money, and certainly not on anything superfluous, and I figured that my paychecks roughly offset my expenses. Not to mention, I spent a lot of free time – 24 days in all – in the parks, and, because I was in Disney World, c’mon, of course I spent a good amount of money there, too. Disney food is pretty good, what can I say! 
Coming to terms with the possibility that my spending and income might break even, or, worse, that my spending might be significantly greater than my income, was tricky. Yes, that kind of lifestyle could be problematic financially, but having the freedom to buy what I want without caring about the price is the lifestyle I’ve always wanted, and one that many people strive for. On that note: it’s too often a cliche that college students only eat ramen and toast because they don’t have the money to pay for anything else, but that is a hard limit for me. No matter my financial situation, I will cut my spending anywhere else, but I will not limit my grocery budget.
So, today, after I finished my errands, I sat down and went through each and every single one of my year-to-date earnings and expenditures and organized them into one clear document. I needed to see where my money was going and how badly I had chipped into my budget. I was thoroughly expecting that I’d be at least several hundred dollars in the red and would have to do some serious financial abstinence to make up the deficit.
But what I saw was pleasantly surprising:
All told, I had a surplus of $2223.68!
I stared at my computer like:
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So what did I learn from this?
Lessons Learned:
1. Although I really haven’t done a lot of leisure spending, what I do spend money on is much broader than just the basics. When I started, I was expecting to maybe divide my sheet into something like Gas, Groceries, Hulu, Paychecks, and Other Income, but it was nothing like that.
I ended up with 17 categories of spending -- so far.
Earnings: Paychecks, Positive transfers and deposits (cash and money where my parents had to pay me back), Interest.
Expenditures: Gas, Groceries, Dining Out, Food at Disney World, Hulu, Google Storage, Photography Equipment, food at work (vending machines, Subway, etc.), Pixieset, Uber, Negative transfers, Photoshop, Student Loan, Miscellaneous.
You could argue that there were more categories within “Miscellaneous,” as I have multiple charges from my local movie theatre (Beauty and the Beast? Excellent. The Lego Batman Movie? Not so much) and Robinhood (which will be its own post in the near future.)
Granted, most of the Miscellaneous expenditures were necessities: the Amtrak ticket to take me to my next job in a few weeks, an overdue oil change, a money order to pay for a missed toll booth, etc.
2. How much I spent on certain things was shocking. 
Guess how much I spent on Disney World food alone, even with a cast member discount?
$401.31.
Yeah, I’m ashamed too.
Charges like that make certain other charges look paltry in comparison. $31.96 for Hulu for four months? Excellent. I’ll take two.
3. My method of organizing my accounts ended up making things more difficult to read.
Lately, I’ve gotten into the habit of putting every dollar and cent over $1000 into my savings account and leaving the remaining $1000 in my checking account. This creates a nice pleasing round number and gives me an idea of how much I’ve spent or earned. It’s easier to know if I have, say, $9261 total in my accounts by seeing $1000 and $8261, rather than $5548 and $3713.
But the downside is that it’s left me with a ton of transactions that I have to go through and individually figure out the purpose of. It makes it more difficult to read the document and makes it seem like I’ve had to spot myself through financial difficulties in the past when that’s not the case at all.
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All in all, doing this was worth the two hours. I have a better understanding of my finances, and it’s reassuring to know that even in my wildest period of spending (...relatively), I was still able to keep my finances decently under control.
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