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inkskinned · 8 months

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they want to talk about mental illness and acceptance and how everyone is a little ocd it's cute and quirky and their "intrusive thoughts" are about cutting their hair off and you say yours are about taking a razorblade to your eye and they say ew can you not and everyone is a little adhd sometimes! except if you're late it's a personality flaw and it's because you are careless and cruel (and someone else with adhd mentions they can be on time, so why can't you?) and it's not an eating disorder if it's girl dinner! it's not mania if it's girl math! what do you mean you blew all of your savings on nonrefundable plane tickets for a plane you didn't even end up taking. what do you mean that you are afraid of eating. get over it. they roll their little lips up into a sneer. can you not, like, trauma dump?

they love it on them they like to wear pieces of your suffering like jewels so that it hangs off their tongue in rapiers. they are allowed to arm-chair diagnose and cherrypick their poisons but you can't ever miss too many showers because that's, like, "fuckken gross?" so anyone mean is a narcissist. so anyone with visual tics is clearly faking it and is so cringe. but they get to scream and hit customer service employees because well, i got overwhelmed.

you keep seeing these posts about how people pleasers are "inherently manipulative" and how it's totally unfair behavior. but you are a people pleaser, you have an ingrained fawn response. in the comments, you have typed and deleted the words just because it is technically true does not make it an empathetic or kind reading of the reaction about one million times. it is technically accurate, after all. you think of catholic guilt, how sometimes you feel bad when doing a good deed because the sense of pride you get from acting kind - that pride is a sin. the word "manipulation" is not without bias or stigma attached to it. many people with the fawn response are direct victims of someone who was malignantly manipulative. calling the victims manipulative too is an unfair and unkind reading of the situation. it would be better and more empathetic to say it is safety-seeking or connection-seeking behavior. yes, it can be toxic. no, in general it is not intended to be toxic. there is no reason to make mentally ill people feel worse for what we undergo.

you type why is everyone so quick to turn on someone showing clear signs of trauma but you already know the fucking answer, so what's the point of bothering. you kind of hate those this is what anxiety looks like! infographics because at this point you're so good at white-knuckling through a severe panic attack that people just think you're stoic. even people who know the situation sometimes comment you just don't seem depressed. and you're not a 9 year old white kid so there's no way you're on the spectrum, you're not obsessed with trains and you were never a good mathematician. okay then.

mental illness is trending. in 2012 tumblr said don't romanticize our symptoms but to be fair tiktok didn't exist yet. there's these series of videos where someone pretends to be "the most boring person on earth" and is just being a normal fucking person, which makes your skin crawl, because that probably means you are boring. your friend reads aloud a profile from tinder - no depressed bitches i fucking hate that mental illness crap. your father says that medication never actually works.

you still haven't told your grandmother that you're in therapy. despite everything (and the fact it's helping): you just don't want her to see you differently.

#writeblr #warm up #to be clear let me state again: i think you should id however you fucking want if it helps you seek peace #but there is a HUGE difference between being like '.... im undiagnosed but i think i might be X'#and a person who is like ''omg my intrusive thoughts made me buy a birkin!!!''#babe mine made me throw up bc they disgusted me so much <3 #mine made me hurt myself evenly. even when i wanted to stop. i have had to put my hand on the stove MULTIPLE TIMES #and again i'd rather have 10000 people get help for something they don't need help for #than have 1 kid NOT get help #but there has GOTTTTT to be a middle ground here #bc at this point it isn't ''raising awareness''#it's . fucking misinformation. and ''what this picture says about you!!!!!''#& yes! im mostly talkin about ppl who are actually disgusted and offended by signs of mental illness #but use it to defend THEIR actions #like babe you hate when kids start yelling in the walmart? but you YOuRSELF can yell?#you are depressed so it's fine you were cruel to your spouse?#but if your spouse spends too much time in bed she's a lazy fuck?#your partner needs to do everything for you bc of your history in trauma? but when SHE has needs she's being clingy and gross?#HUGE difference here between whom i think most of my followers are btw. like #all it takes is fucking anyyyy empathy or kindness . like.#anyway it's hard to explain im hoping we all know the person im talking about lol

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courtmartialme · 8 months

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woag .. otp

#fma #royai #riza hawkeye #roy mustang #talking to user chrysopoeias reminded me of this doodle i posted on twitter ages ago #im too dumb to make analysis textposts with my opinions so you get (checks notes) royai experiencing post nut clarity #about how funny i think it is that riza bases all her self value into how useful she is or isn't being #while roy is like wow.. i love riza can't believe she still by my side after all i've done ..#in the hospital scene after the lust fight where roy is scolding her there's a part he says he's going to keep trusting her with his back #and she looks genuinely surprised as if she really expected him to just throw her out because she failed and lost her utility #when he's mostly angry because riza gave up on life so easily and he doesn't want her to die. he can't live in a world without her #riza babe ur so mentally ill <3

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shootingstarrfish · 5 months

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do u think beel does the evil hands before he eats

#my friend said he'd eat his food too fast to even think about doing it but in my world he totally does #she doesnt get it insert rolling eyes emoji #obey me #obey me nightbringer #obey me beelzebub #beelzebub #obey me belphegor #belphegor #om! beelzebub #om! belphegor #shitpost #ill get back to proper art soon ive just been extra tired lately and i want a refund >:(#my constantly tired ass: man i wonder why i like the tired ones so much #ok sleep time now gn babes and besties <3 #my art #obey me art

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jeeaark · 18 days

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final showdown pt2.

This was one of those battles where I survived it without a single reload. So. This entire scene? Accurate. Embarrassingly Accurate. (except the healy dealy. that's Greygold flair)

Wanted to get to the crown as fast as possible, but had to fly by Emps. Literally stopped next to bud to personally yell/reassure the fool I was gonna save their ass and then risked the opportunity attack.

(which. I forgot to bring my dex 18 gloves and discovered illithidism had shit dex, so....IS FINE. GG IS ALL FOR STARTING A NEW COLLECTION OF FRIENDSHIP SCARS)

BUT SQUID BUDDY MISSED. so. I like to think Enthralled Emps had put some effort into jumping through some rather large logic hoops to miss. Unlike Greygold who put JACK effort into dodging.

I originally intended to leave Emps completely alone, risk the attacks. But. Brain tentacle surprise happened. Right next to the squid. Emps rolled high in initiative.... But not as high as Lae'zel. Game-wise, ✨I panicked✨. Story-wise? I don't think this could have been any more in-character. Albeit, I found myself quadruple checking to make sure knockout mode was ABSOLUTELY on

#bg3 spoilers #bg3 #baldur's gate 3 #the emperor bg3 #lae'zel #illithid tav #greygold #squid greygold #Man there's so many past comic refs I don't feel like linking hope you all are keeping up hUAR #If GG had known emps would be there they would not have worn that guardian armor but they are too stubborn to admit they whoopsied #I don't remember jack in the other timeline final battle (sadly) but this fight? forever burned into my soul. good drama yo.#I will never get over how Greygold use to have the AC of an Ancient Red Dragon and now they're AC is Squid Chum SQUID CHUM #GREYGOLD'S AIM IS SQUID CHUM TOO AUGH #As much as I keep ragging on Emps I love Lae'zel to death as well. knocked that squid out in one go to protect her squid-Joy ehuehuehueh #I can only imagine that she never thought she'd have to resist killing not one but -two- mindflayers for the sake of love....Love you babe~#CHARACTER GROWTH INDEED

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temeyes · 9 months

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drew more flirty, no-trauma Simon for twt!!

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utilitycaster · 6 months

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I don't begrudge anyone their campaign preferences, and I think there's plenty of valid reasons to like Campaign 3 the best and this is not directed at people who are genuinely having a great time with it, but it feels like virtually all the nostalgia and wishful thinking I see surrounding Campaign 3 is screaming "you guys want Campaign 2." You want more slow travel and downtime and interparty conversations and slow-burn romance? You wish their main focus was fighting governmental corruption? You want a party that only semi-settles down at the end and keeps adventuring and remains very close? You're frustrated by how everpresent and overarching the moon plot is? You miss when they were just fucking around in a city? I genuinely believe you want Campaign 2, or at best you love a specific ship or a character from Campaign 3 but aren't happy about basically anything else, and would vastly prefer the tone and events and plot of Campaign 2. And I don't really care if you watch Campaign 2, or if you think I'm being annoying here; I simply genuinely believe you'd be happier watching Campaign 2 than Campaign 3 and are so deep in a sunk cost fallacy well you can't see it.

#the number of people who SCREAM if you imply campaign 3 is not the greatest campaign but also openly resent the moon focus is. high.#i've had my complaints about the people from c1 who would shit on c2 but i'll give them this: they actually do love c1.#it feels a lot of people just want bells hells at a chuck e cheese birthday party and like. that's not campaign 3 babe.#i actually have grown to really like the moon plot once it finally took off #and c3 has had some satisfying lore resolutions and new places #but it feels like the people who showed up to ship kind of hate the core plot of the campaign which. is the core plot of the campaign.#cr tag #this is intended to be read in conversation with the post from earlier about things not being deep too #like it's ok if your blorbo or otp is in c3...but if that's the only thing you love do you love the campaign or do you just love them #also. i also don't begrudge anyone their reasons for watching a show #but I've seen like three people i follow try to watch wot solely bc Lanfear is hot and give up bc there's so much lore #and people get mad candela didn't give them a happy ending for their ship #it really is like did you show up for c3 or did you show up for a blorbo delivery system #not realizing this is prix fixe instead if made to order

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angelnumber27 · 1 month

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Hi baby angels 😇 it’s about to be that time where I need help with getting a couple of my medications soon! It’s within a few days that I will be running out and I didn’t want to wait until the very last day/moment to try to scramble for a way to pay for them.

My cshapp is $juliagw :)

I have Venmo as well as PayPal, please DM me if you want my usernames to either of those and are interested in helping me 🙂

I am also selling content right now because I need my medications and I am hot. DM me if interested. You can see what I look like here

I need $80 total for the medications I need please help if you can.

I can make art for you if you want please just lmk what y’all are interested in <3

Thank you everyone so so so much 🖤 I’m so lucky and grateful to have and be surrounded by such a wonderful community on here.

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scuopsie · 3 months

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hiiii friends!!!!!☺️❣️ it's me!!! the blog formerly known as Hyunubear!

I thought I should re-introduce myself (and pretend im normal sldjfld) since im getting into a new fandom! 🙄👉🏻👈🏻

I'm Niki, you local kpop hag (28), sometimes I make gifs but mostly i shitpost. I think I really only know 6 groups in totall but I mainly post about vixx, monsta x, and now ✨️seventeen✨️ (who stole my heart on a random friday).

I really wanna make carat friends and moots ;;;;;; my ask box is always open and i love chatting abt anything and everything!!!

#interact if u see babes!!!!#why did this lowkey feel like filling up a dating app profile sijdfij #im too old to figure out how to make a... card? is that what its called?#i don't even have a propper desktop theme or whatever #anyway #im pinning this so my old moots dont get confused with the new look and for (hopefully) new carat friends to get to know me a bit uwu #i feel like getting into carat fandom should be relatively easy since carats and monbebe always had a really good relationship...#aren't they called 'sister fandoms' or something?#it was so easy to get into seventeen bc i already knew half of them thru monsta x being friends with them (and theyre also pretty popular)#i hope my monbebe followers arent too annoyed :( im still a monbebe and will be screaming abt monek!!!#but with 5 of them in the military there isn't as much monek content...#i will stop rambling now <3

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tabithatwo · 11 months

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hi special broadcast: simone kessell’s hot rich new age spiritual cult leader milf lottie matthews can honestly do whatever the fuck she wants as long as I get to look at her while she does it <3 <3 I’m soooo good at critical thinking normally I SWEAR but when she’s on screen my brain goes OffLine (tbh true of all the milfs but she triggers such specific issues in me)

like she said phenobarbital don’t ask questions and I said hmmmm I love her concerned face, rewind, she said don’t worry about if what I’m saying makes sense, and I said ohhhh she’s so deep in thought she’s so serious right now, rewind, she said kys <3, and I said OH NO?

#this is how they get you. they put hot milfs on your television screen #they put hot milfs in your local community cult #2021 lottie matthews call me I have authority issues <3 2021 shauna shipman call me I have mommy issues <3 #did this get too personal for the blog MAYBE but I’ve had a DAY so let me live #babe we’re trending #lottie matthews #shauna shipman #yellowjackets

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kaidanalenkosprmanager · 23 days

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THE BEST OF EARTH: VANCOUVER

Featuring: Cmdr. Sophie Shepard, Maj. Kaidan Alenko, and Lt. James Vega With: Adm. David Anderson, Adm. Steven Hackett, & Flight Lt. Jeff "Joker" Moreau I don't like Anderson's orders either, but we don't have a choice. Without help, this war is already over. Mass Effect 3: Legendary Edition (2021)

#mira makes gifs ✨#shenko #james vega #kaidan alenko #sophie shepard #steven hackett #jeff joker moreau #david anderson #mass effect #mass effect 3 #me3 #mass effect legendary edition #dailygaming #i’m back on my me3 bullshit and i’m so excited ✨#no one question why soph looks different from the car lot set #her tattoos are different bc i finally managed to fix them somewhat lmao and i figured out how i wanted the scars on her face to look too #(AKA i finally managed to nail down her me3 look until i sculpt her head morph in blender)#these were lowkey a little bit of a bitch to color correct bc of that blue filter on me3 that makes everyone look super washed out #i’m gonna have to re-gif car lot in the future when i get back there too now that i think about it #was this just an excuse to gif kaidan now that i’m playing ME3 again? yes. will there be more gifs when i get him and ash back? absolutely.#james and EDI are gonna be my babes until i him and ash back tho #it’s a good opportunity for james and EDI content bc my god they deserve more love #also this shit isn't anywhere CLOSE to canon for soph when it comes to how things actually went down in vancouver with kaidan #but the VS’s treatment is poo in bioware canon so i say i do not see it and write my own :)#anywhoooo if you read all my rambling in the tags of my gif sets i hope you have a good day ✨🥹

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lollytea · 6 months

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Willow calls Hunter honeybird it's important to me that you consider this

#willow calls him so many things. i have a list of my favourites #if hes gonna have the audacity to be named Hunter hes getting called Hun regularly #and that evolves into honey #and then honeybird #she likes to use honeysuckle too #she calls him after a bunch of flowers #''my rose'' is her fave flower themed nickname tho #also ''mushroom <3'' because it is so dumb #some more she likes are babe #prettyboy #hottie #hottstuff #brown eyes #gorgeous #lovebug #princess <333 #the reason she uses them so frequently?? he likes them. so she goes a little overboard #hunter doesnt really have as many names for her at all. but listen to me. its the WAY he says it #he says the name Willow with the same tone of voice of somebody using a cutesy nickname #she LOVES it #he calls her captain sometimes when hes flirting with her #the ONLY actual petname he has for her is ''my love''#just cuz i think it sounds SO old fashioned and traditional. he picked it up from an old romance movie and he was like #''thats it. thats the one.''#its honest. its to the point. it makes his feelings perfectly clear. he likes it #oh i forgot. Willow also calls him O'Bailey sometimes. he goes crazy for that

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phasebun · 7 days

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| Bhaalist Anais & Sol Nath | Seldarine Drow | Wild Magic Barbarian

A self-indulgent addition due to way too many amazing drow charas that surround me with a mix of small details picked from a few I couldn't help but think of lol. I usually stuck to Lolth and Drizzt, so now I'm even more obsessed after diving even more into hc's as well as Jarlaxle (tempted to add another drow) lol... ( ˶ˆᗜˆ˵ ) ♡♡♡ ofc, I hc the DB cultist with humanized forms to be granted that skill due to the power of Father Bhaal's Chosen-

Anais abandoned her former goddess a few months after Sol introduced herself one night in the black market and she got a taste of contract work...gold talks. Sol's master whisperer as well as her dearest friend and cultist, they also enjoy experimenting with new recipes for poisons >:3 Nothing like duo missions with your favorite girlie, sharing a laugh watching a victim's body shut down or even tag teaming a few stabbings...Bhaalist. Friendly bets amongst the two would occur as well, a test of speed when it comes to a kill. ( ⸝⸝´꒳`⸝⸝) Anais' hammer is her prized possession, she landed it after successfully taking out a half-orc by herself who was known for smuggling illegal items into the city. (ofc....Sol and her cult took those items ♡ )

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pixlerelish · 6 months

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Requested by @justshahrukhkhan 💖

#Pathaan #Zinda hai #hope this is somewhat what you were thinking babe #I still dislike giffing action scenes just fyi in case anyone wondered #and also there was actually WAY more dialogue in this scene than I remember #so #this is what we got #I probably should have cut it into two sets but I couldn't figure out howwww...#Also not me finding some of these scenes far too “woof” for comfort #I'm fine...#Are we gonna actually get bruised and bloodied Shah Rukh 3 times in one year? I can't handle it #Also why does he give me Don vibes here? It's the hair right... it's the hair... oh Don 2 opening scene how I love you #Pix's pics

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foursaints · 1 month

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WE MISS GRIMSAINTS 😞

would you guys still love me if we weren't together anymore....

#a #i miss him too what the fuck 😭😭😭😭 LMFAO #anyway i love being parasocial with you guys (<3) but i don't have anything else to say about this one.. i get a lot of messages like this #and im just letting the rest of them fade into the ether...#babe you must have hit ur head really hard.... 'grimsaints'.... what's that?.. ive never heard of such a thing...#um please don't send him weird invasive messages asking what happened. i feel like i shouldn't have to specify that. i trust you guys #but just in case

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bombuni · 5 days

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I think the teezers most willing to accept an so who’s a crazy cat lady would be: yunho, seonghwa, yeosang, and san. mingi would get too jealous and wooyoung, jongho, and hongjoong would think you’re ridiculous

#inspired by my 3 cats and my general life surrounding them and their needs #jongho is the dad who says he doesn’t care about pets but then makes an unbreakable bond with them #you: my cats r my biological kids #yunho: ok babe☺️let’s get u to bed #san is delulu right alonsgside u he genuinely believes he gave birth to ur cats #idk if joong had pets but he gives me grew up with no pets vibes?? he would prob be like 🕴️ if a cat sat on his lap #yeosang too but i think he’d try to learn about them for u #bom text

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bright-cloud · 25 days

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✨You put the stars to shame✨

Posting some screenshots of my Tav: Anders. My sweet, kindhearted paladin of selune whom is heart eyes for a certain wizard.

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