A list to recognise that you are a mature person:

⭐ instead of sending anonymous hate to creators you don't like, you send messages full of love to creators you admire

⭐ you don't comment on the private life and appearance of others in a malicious and unpleasant way, because you know it's childish

⭐ you are able to celebrate someone else's successes instead of being a jealous, petty gnome

⭐ people you know you'll never get along with and who you consider toxic, you block and leave far behind, not stalk nad harass

Regarding the latest TWP controversy. A Rant.

A lot of ppl from the kitty fandom showed their true colors when the latest newsletter from Cassie Clare was released. It was all ‘Queen Dru’ or ‘Go Dru’ until Dru was worded before kitty in the newsletter and suddenly many resorted to body shaming Dru and hating on her when Cassie Clare made it clear that there is no such thing as main couple in TWP. Seriously just like many ppl are happy and excited about Kitty so is many ppl excited to see Dru and her adventures and love life. Cassie mentioned time and time again that Dru will be a significant character so why is so many ppl in the Kitty fandom so upset???? Dru barely has any content you guys had multiple povs through out TDA, tons of content in Gotsh, Sobh, artworks that wasn’t enough??? You all like Dru as long as she doesn’t overshadow your faves. I’m not a big fan of Kitty but I’m not going to throw a huge tantrum and cry if they become the focus of the author in newsletters or discussions. So many ppl in the fandom are in their 20s and even 30s act like middle schoolers who throw fits because things don’t go the way they want it to. Dru is central to the plot as much as Kitty if you don’t like that, you can keep crying and seething about it. And shout out to the TSC fans who were mature about this whole situation. They’ve my heart 💕

MINATO SHOUJI COIN LAUNDRY SEASON 2 (2023, JAPAN)

Episode 2

We ended with Shin (NISHIGAKI SHO) requesting to stay with his boyfriend Minato (KUSAKAWA TAKUYA) and the reason for the ask complete with a note from mom.

Minato still has a discomfort being with Shin. However Shin had two wishes: For Minato to give him a spare key & For Minato to say the words I LIKE YOU SHIN. Neither is a big ask but (spoiler alert) Minato gives into one of those request and Shin looked like a kid that cleaned up (gift wise) on Christmas.

@pose4photoml @bengiyo @lutawolf @absolutebl

@thewayofsubtext

If you’re too immature to know… you can agree with a persons opinion on one topic and not agree with other opinions of theirs especially if their other opinions are toxic. You can be normal and respectful when interacting with a toxic person as to not start anything with them without liking and agreeing with everything the toxic person does and says. You can even be friends with someone who has some things about them that are toxic especially if the toxic trait is new and you hadn’t seen it in the years before you were friends with them and still hold them accountable without agreeing with everything the person does. If not, and it’s not some small toxic trait maybe it’s worse, then cut that friend out and if people attack you for having been friends with them, they’re immature and toxic. You can be kind and friendly to people because YOU’RE a good person not because they’re a good person.

Kindly don’t fucking violate me by messaging me your genitalia. I promise you it won’t turn me on & is so uncalled for.

I blurred it out to protect them and their privacy obviously but kindly use this example to see why it isn’t cool to do this to people.

I'M SO MAD AT TK LIKE SON DON'T TELL ME THIS IS WHY YOU BROKE UP WITH YOUR PARTNER???!!

People really need to take a chill pill and learn to see things through another POV. Acting like dumb and illiterate for a fictional ship/characters, and acting like one personally know the show runners coz of the little favrotism on Twitter, is really stupid.

I am saying this because I don't support people fighting over ships of a fictional series. Learn that each person has different POV. different opinions, and diff way seeing things or thinking. If you can't do that, than don't get involved in public discussions. Go get some life outside and learn to be mature, and importantly learn to respect others; coz not everything in the real world will happen how you think, nor everyone's minds are alike. (If that happened wouldn't it be wonderful?🥹) but Yeah, sadly it's not. So learn that others share different opinions. And remember that what you argue here, by trying to force your point on others, Won't change what writers/ show runners have already decided.

The way of trying to maintain "no toxicity in the fandom", is actually spread by the fans who says they are die hard fans. They first begin the argument that what they say like it is the only truth, and it will happen (funny part is, it actually never does 😂). So learn to see what others might wanna say, don't act like you know everything and the writers might have shared script with you.

Fun fact: no writers, actors, show runners have any right to give 100% authentic updates of any show they are working on. If hey do, the channel sues them. So don't think what you'll know is what you'll actually know. Coz you don't. None of the fans do. Only time will tell as the show concludes.

Fighting back with others who have diffrent opinion that you is a very cowardy way. It's okay to disagree, but arguing back to agree with your point is toxic. Some people/fans are older and understand things better, with life experience. So let's all make a habit of listening to others and seeing a different point from a different angle. Maybe it will make you think a inch bigger too, and maybe you'll even come up with a better theory yourself. ;)

Yikes. You know those people are only being nice right.? Your shit sucks.

Yikes. Yall still in my inbox? LMFAO.

But seriously, like you need help if yall still trying to send me this stuff. I am thriving, Im almost 30. and guess what? My Rich Man's World series is zooming. So please. Go get some self esteem help. I'm sure deep down....like in your dirty socks, you could be a good person.

normalize blocking someone bc you don't like their content, rather than harassing the creator <3

when i was a kid i wanted to be a famous youtuber like dan and phil so that people would gay ship me with my irl best friend and we would be sooo weirded out by it and laugh and make videos joking about it but secretly it would make her realize her repressed gay crush on me and i'd help her through her gay crisis and then we would have a sickeningly sweet sappy romance and read fanfiction about ourselves together... anyways just found out she's married to a guy in the mafia now so i probably don't have a chance

btw if a trans man decides that they want to get pregnant and you're not normal about this and start spewing a bunch of transphobic shit i show up at your house and beat you to death with a baseball bat

studio trigger understood the assignment. i would let her wreck me.

It’s so rare to find Kpop Fans that will give their opinion respectfully. I’ve had one interaction with a STAY that sorta started off… spotty but we actually got along in the end.

That’s so rare these days. Honestly it’s just the ability to accept, “Hey, I can’t change your opinion and you can’t change mine. Let’s just agree to disagree and move on.”

She was on my neck at first. Which made me annoyed too. Then we just somehow mixed? Like idk how we just casually turned friendly with each other :)

She was sweet tho. And honestly I was the one out of hand bc of my comment. The worst thing to do is leave a comment when you’re in a bad mood. ‘Cause when I looked back at what I said, I felt so bad.

No wonder she was like oh hell no!

Someone saw that we just agreed to disagree then picked the argument back up with her. She was so over it. Anyway, shout out to her and Skz

Someone today told me that I am rude, just because I told him not to send me inappropriate content in my inbox. Please grow up from inside & mind not just by your age & body.