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#and we’re all besties now
robntunney · 1 year
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just know if you’re someone who interacts with my robin posts frequently, I’m giving you a lil kiss on the forehead 😘
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mickeym4ndy · 1 month
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One of my favourite things about Fiona and Debbie’s relationship is how it’s such an accurate portrayal of sisterhood when the older sister has always played the role of a mom.
It’s fine when Debbie’s little because she wants a motherly figure. But when she becomes a teenager, she just wants Fiona to be a sister and not a mom. You can see the roles start to shift. Up until then Debbie was the daughter and Fiona was essentially the mother. But at the beginning of the middle seasons as Debbie gets older, they become each other’s sisters. Debbie wants to be Fiona’s equal and to be able to talk to her about things the way sisters can without Fiona lecturing or mothering her.
But Fiona desperately wants to stop Debbie from making the same mistakes she did and to make her see things the way she does, because at the end of the day teenagers still do need guidance from adults. And there were no other adult female figures to do that for her. She can’t just turn off parent mode and be the sister Debbie desperately wants.
One sister having to play the parent role is often unavoidable but it can drive such a wedge between sisters, especially during the younger sisters teenage years.
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Uhhhhhhhhh…. *drops another poll and cries*
This includes analyses, fanfictions, friendship/ship dynamics, etc.
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hella1975 · 1 year
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kaeyaphile · 1 month
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operation do not cry at my irl bestie’s wedding: FAILED
#kayleigh.txt#if the pets didn’t need to be watched i would’ve been one of the bridesmaids#she gave me the same giftbag she gave them and so we’re wearing the same jewelry but alas#but yeah uh. i cried. a lot. struggled hiding it lmao#my bestie looks so fucking beautiful and perfect and her now husband immediately started crying when he saw her#honestly same lmfaooo#she made direct eye contact with me when the officiant mentioned that this wouldn’t have been possible without their loving friends and fam#which. didn’t help stop my crying lmfaooo#i’m fine this is fine; the only other wedding i’ve been to was my sister’s and i was one of the bridesmaids so 🤷🏼‍♀️#i was not emotional at all during that because idgaf about my sister tbqh#she and i stay civil and tolerate each other for the sake of our father but that is it 🤷🏼‍♀️#good thing i didn’t wear any fucking makeup because it would be ruined 😂#i am going to hang out eat dinner drink wine socialize and dance a bit#hug my bestie and her husband and cry some more probably#and thej hopefully head home before 10pm 😬🤞🏻#the pets need their pm medications and also just like. attention and all that lmao#because i am their petsitter until tomorrow afternoon/evening#also i am chronically ill and mentally ill and tired and in pain from helping set up the venue yesterday#also also i desperately wanna just. vc with friends and play genshin impact/honkai: star rail/fallout 4 🥲👍🏻#my social battery had been drained dry meeting everyone yesterday so today is. difficult
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marbleheavy · 6 months
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my dog percy is my best friend for realsies
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justaboot · 7 months
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Also AOAB (assigned oldest at birth) lmao
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wavesoutbeingtossed · 21 days
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#warning: rant about parent ahead#I’m so so so so so empathetic to mental health struggles#like exceedingly so#but it’s just so exhausting being on the receiving end of someone’s self-loathing#and to be clear I AM NOT TALKING ABOUT ANYONE HERE#you are all my phone besties and I have so much empathy for your struggles and know that i love you all#and wish i could say the right thing to support you all always and you are always welcome to share whatever is going on#and to quote the bard herself i wish i could take the bombs in your head and disarm them#but when my mother gets into these moods she just seems to use it as a way to get a rise out of us#she’s pulling the ‘well maybe you don’t want to do x with me because it’s not fun because I’m a terrible person and you’re scared of me#and i ruin everything so maybe you would just rather i do everything alone’#and i don’t doubt she feels horrible and i know she has intrusive thoughts etc#but that is so manipulative!!!! she then puts the onus on us to reassure her that she is not!!!! But that is not what she wants!!!!#which we then do profusely and remind her that we do love her and we do do things together and whatever the fuck is the problem of the day#but of course she won’t hear it#so yes it makes us scared of her because we are always worried we’re going to say the wrong thing in a given moment!!!!#i just shut the fuck up at all times now#but my dad tries to use reason with her and of course it just ends in her lashing out and projecting all this shit on him#’oh you maybe you actually hate me maybe you want to leave me’ etc#THEY’VE BEEN MARRIED DECADES HE’S THE MOST LOYAL AND KINDEST PERSON IN THE WORLD HE NEVER ONCE HAS#i honestly don’t know how he lets this roll off his back because i am so fed up with it#It’s just so so so so hard because one minute she’s ‘herself’ and the other she’s this inferno#and we just have to ride whatever wave she’s on and it sucks all the air out of the room#it’s like the one and only time i tried to very gently bring up that something she said was hurtful *after she’d brought it up herself*#she went on a ‘oh I’m a terrible person/terrible parent’ rant and it then turned into me reassuring her that she isn’t#i was just trying to show her how the language/behaviour she uses was hurtful to me#so anyway that was lesson learned that even if she invites it i will never speak of it and luckily she hasn’t since and that was years ago#But it’s just… i know bad thoughts can’t be helped and again i feel so much pain on her behalf for what she struggles with#and i wish i could help but there’s absolutely nothing i can do#AND SHE’S GONE OFF ALL HER MEDS SO THE ONE SOURCE SHE DID HAVE ISN’T THERE ANYMORE EITHER
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todayisafridaynight · 21 days
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Shadow the hedgehog cartoon announcement sorry everyone im gonna hermit away four months in advanced so i can be optimally annoying when they talk about it
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nesisamess · 24 days
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i’m bored and that should be illegal
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sallytwo · 9 months
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lower decks did not release an episode about all of them gettinf promoted and not being the lowest shortest rank anymore THE WEEK that my friends and i all got our offical promotions and are no longer stupid little youngies ARE UOU KIDDING MEEEE 🥹
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laracrofted · 9 months
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being mean on here unprompted is such a party foul, like why are you killing the vibe lol
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sochilll · 4 months
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*gritting my teeth while forcing myself to be slightly inconvenienced for the sake of being included in future activities instead of isolating myself as always*: I love to be social and hanging out and even talking
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lyriumlullaby-ao3 · 6 months
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hate it when someone else doesn’t get The Character like you do, you feel?
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florbelles · 8 months
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obsessed w them still not fixing the artifact glitch. btw.
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dudefromtheooze · 1 year
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Hope u do not mind but I am about to ramble about how ppl treat 2012 Raph and Mikey. Everyone's so weird about it because on one hand people go ooh Raph is SO abusive towards the Baby Mikey 🥺 and on the other hand people go no Mikey was actually annoying as fuck and deserved to get bullied like NO. Raph is autistic with anger issues Mikey is ADHD with attention issues they both have poor impulse control and yeah they act shit towards each other at times but that's because 1 siblings and 2 the 2012 writers had literally no idea how to treat these characters & their neurodivergency so instead they had One episode where Raph was just told "hey don't listen to these guys lol" and every other episode there's another joke about how Mikey is an irresponsible attention deficit baby who could NEVER lead because he's so immature (<- downplaying the heightened emotions caused by autism and infantilizing people with ADHD) and it pisses me off SO BAD when everyone chooses one side or another cus like. SHAKING YOU. NO. THEY'RE NOT SHIT THEY'RE NOT BABIES THEY ARE NEURODIVERGENT TEENAGERS WRITTEN BY NEUROTYPICAL ADULTS. REALIZE YOUR COMMON ENEMY. RISE RISE RISE
it’s simple. mikey and raph are just the adhd vs autism meme
also Yeah. some of why they act like that is bc they’re siblings who are around each other 24/7. cannot tell u just how many fights i used to get into w my sibling when we were younger and lived in the same house
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