Tan lines?:)

100% RANT

Please don't take this personal @builtincalifornia, I'm not directing these comments towards you. i get the ask, I went on vacation and I have posted pics of my tan before & bikini pics. I did take some tan line pics and a few full body bikini pics on vacation, I was going to post them, but one super disrespectful guy ruined that request, so no, no tan lines will be posted ... I feel mentally abused after that guy. I also know I post some provocative pics and it can attract the mega pervs (who I end up blocking), I get it, I accept that will happen occasionally, and I can handle most comments. I've gotten good at sidestepping them but now I need to be clear, my pictures give NO ONE the right to message me sexually, make demands, say nasty things and then get pissed when I say no and proceed to call me every name in the book. He's blocked and I will block anyone that displays childish behavior like that in DM or in my comments. If you agree with Him, block me and good riddance. If you think my pics are hot or sexy ...hey then I accomplished what I set out to do! I enjoy getting the aesthetics right on my pics, and that's awesome and I'm flattered when people think I took a great pic. Glad you like them! I also enjoy interacting on comments too, again, nothing wrong with that, that still isn't an open invitation to sexual comments or give anyone the right to have expectations towards me and I'll say most of you guys have been PRETTY AWESOME and I've cleaned out the really degrading ppl that used to make all the crude remarks. My blog IS a NSFW site after all, and I AM allowed to post whatever my little heart desires and let my exhibitionist side out in a safe environment if I chose to, there is NOTHING wrong with that. Don't get it twisted. I'm not here for a hook up, and I'm certainly not here to get you off. No one has the right to demand pictures of me. After 1 1/2 yrs. on this blog, the people I am friends with and do talk to in DM, you're there for a reason .... thank you for knowing my boundaries and respecting them and thank you for your friendship. Yes, women are allowed to have male friends on here, that doesn't mean we are sexting or have a sexual relationship with all of them. I do appreciate and value you. You're the best :)

To the people that want to judge me based off my posting sexy personal pictures. KISS MY ASS, you don't know me. You haven't even tried to know the woman behind the pictures & I don't have to agree with any Dom on his opinion. I'm sure there are many women who post pics that feel the same way as I do. Am I a sexual person? Absolutely, but I'm also not all about sex, so stop with the assumptions. I'm also a one-on-one relationship kind of women who isn't poly and isn't into multiple guys. So many like to lump all us women who post pics together like we're all sexting everyone in this place, but for me personally, you're wrong. I'm sure there are some men in here that the same assumptions are made too. I am not sexting any man in here and I say that publicly because I know it's the truth. I'm not a whore, a slut, or easy because I post pictures of myself. I'm pretty damn selective and there are many in here that know that and have said perhaps my expectations are even too high. AGAIN, No one owns me in here, I'm not a punching bag for you to hurl derogatory words at if you don't get your way and no one has the right to demand anything of me, nor send dick pics, and I don't even have to respond to DMs if I choose not to. I'm always nice and polite to people who message, until it's time not to be. Me being polite is also not an invitation to say sexual comments. If I wanted to go down that path I would, and you would know it. I'm not looking. Also, when men post their own pics, I support them 100%, that does not mean I want to get with them, or I'm perving on them. It takes guts to put yourself out there, for men and women. Men and women support me so why wouldn't I support them?! You guys all rock too! While I'm on a rant, do not, I repeat do NOT ask for more pictures of me if you do message me. READ PROFILES DAMMIT mines pretty clear.

Continuing on for whatever the fuck happened with that poll™ yesterday, OP claiming that it was made as a "joke poll" doesn't matter because they were still being arophobic and not at all curbing any aphobia in their replies. It's also apparent that the joke here is the absurdity of the existence of aro men who are also cishet which shows how little OP and other aphobes really know about the aro and ace spectrums and the nuance within them.

Besides, the fact that so many people aren't really taking to it as a "joke" as OP claims, and is just spewing out such rancid hatred for ace and aro people, even wishing for our deaths, is still something to be called out. It still shows how uncaring OP and those other people are.

They really don't give a shit about us.

Thinking abt how so many characters in media who canonically state that they don't like people touching them constantly have their boundaries broken and are forced into hugs by other characters and every single time they are shown to be upset it's supposed to be a flaw that they need to overcome until they just are forced to accept/like it.

I kind of expect some people to get mad at me for this but I do find it deeply ironic how I've recently seen fanfic writers of all people turn into staunch supporters of intellectual property.

I try to stay out of fandom discourse but it's really not great how some of you are offended by a request of boundaries, and try to act like it's an attack or threat on yourself

someone politely asking certain people to DNI with their stuff, whether it's on social media or AO3 or whatever, is perfectly normal

it's called setting a boundary. there's no way that boundary can always be enforced, obviously, but that's not the point of requesting a boundary? if anything, if someone requests a boundary and you ignore it, and tell them that's not allowed, and tell them that just the request in itself is disrespectful towards YOU because you feel more entitled to the platform than them...

that's uh...very toxic, guys...please reconsider this behaviour...

imagine a scenario where you're having lunch with a friend and you ask them not to do something (touch your phone, touch you, touch your food, talk about something triggering- whatever)

and they respond by beginning to scream at you that you're in a public place having lunch so you're not allowed to have boundaries, and that if you want boundaries you have to go sit alone in your room with no contact with other people, because being in a public place means you can do or say whatever you want

you would probably call that person toxic and leave the situation. but it's unironically the state of AO3 DNI discourse

being 21 is one of the most humbling ages ever like it’s always SOMETHING! literally always fucking SOMETHING!!! 🤩🤭

Aro culture is not understanding many parts of romantic relationships, like why people hate cheating so much, why people consider different things cheating, or why people so often seem to hate the exes.

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i wonder which part of "if you don't like the content then don't interact with it" is so difficult to understand 🙃🫡

God damn can people learn to use their words already

@c4garuda sent: biting your lover’s lip amidst a kiss . ( to hidan, modern au?)

He's still not entirely sure how it happened, but he isn't complaining. He supposed it was inevitable, really. He's actually surprised it hasn't reached this point sooner.

The blond is pushed unceremoniously against the bare brick wall, Hidan's hand braced beside his head. The crackle of nearby flames mirrors the heat between them, the flickering glow the only source of light in the otherwise abandoned warehouse. It's just them and this vast space, truly alone amidst the silent city limits.

Somewhere in the back of his mind, he reminds himself to watch his enthusiasm. He knows he can get carried away, that he gets too caught up in a moment. He's pumped up from the carnage they've just inflicted upon their surroundings and the thrill is influencing his actions. He needs to watch for signs that he's overstepped.

Just as he's worrying about getting too rough, he feels a sharp nip on his bottom lip, a quick stab of pain that only serves to excite him further. He draws back, a breathless laugh upon his lips, pale violet eyes darkening with far from subtle desire.

"Oh, you wanna play rough, blondie?" His tongue teases at the reddened mark Deidara's teeth have left. "I can play rough."

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u kno what. the inclination is bc seokmin would hug me and listen and tht would probs b pretty healing on its own. maybe ill do reactions or something

I just figured out what the bbeg of the daggerheart campaign I'm gonna run will be :D

Wishing harm on people for likely just FORGETTING to check your dni? So normal and not toxic at all

Follow me here for a second.

If you care about other people's boundaries, you don't forget shit and you check their dni. If you don't care about someone's DNI, you don't care about their boundaries. If you don't care about their boundaries, you don't fundamentally see them as a person who deserves respect. If you don't see someone as worthy of the small amount of respect nessesary to just look at a tiny list of shit, you're disrespecting them. I don't care how people who actively disrespect me and my boundaries feels about my word choice.

If you took it to heart, you probably didn't read my dni which means you don't respect me and my boundaries so why should I care what language offends you or feels toxic or "feels too harsh"? It's pretty damn simple.

Respect my boundaries or face the consequences of breaking them. Over every fence with a billion posted warnings and signs, there's a mean ass dog. Not my fault you got bit, you weren't supposed to be there.

when i got my dream job and moved back in with my parents for it i DID NOT think it would mean that I would also have to live with my grandparents

*hangs up a call with parents* did everyone have fun at the horrors