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BG3 just reminded me of how good Dragon Age: Origins is honestly
it might be an older game but I swear it's superior
it's been like over 10 yrs since I first played it and I still consider it to be the best narrative RPG that's ever been made
romances on point
story on point
world actually changes with your choices
who your character is actually impacts your experience in a big way and isn't just there for background flavour
a bunch of different endings and they're all narratively satisfying
the villains/grey morality characters you can side with actually have complicated motivations to the point that people still debate about them to this day
the only reason I'm not jumping into a nostalgia playthrough rn is because I know the other DA sequels are mid in comparison
sometimes I replay DAI for the romances tho
the entire time I was playing BG3 I just kept thinking, wow they really want to be da:o
#the gauntlet of shart is literally just th trial of sacred ashes#but the trial of sacred ashes is actually fucking fun#they even copied the self same trial from it#also it's an ACTUAL open world sandbox that you're encouraged to explore#you can do anything in any order you want#BG3 is so railroady and the game doesn't encourage you to explore or backtrack#it's the most on-rails RPG experience I've ever had
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also my position is extremely clear cut. if you have to write an essay about it when I barely said a word, that just shows how unjustifiable your position is fr
me: we should respect boundaries in every situation. I don't believe in making up excuses to disrespect a boundary. that's toxic
these idiots: LISTEN TO ALL MY EXCUSES FOR WHEN AND WHY I SHOULD BE ALLOWED TO DISRESPECT BOUNDARIES
the lack of self awareness is amazing
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also lol "unpopularfanopinion" and all their opinions are the most popular and least compassionate fan opinions that everyone else has in this blue hell
the fact "hey we should just respect boundaries and move on with our lives even when it's hard" is a controversial stance here :|
#also I stg the majority of these people are also pro cp ''as long as it's ficiton''#and then they go around policing the way kids and mentally ill people express themselves#it's just rancid vibes all around#I wouldn'ttrust these people alone in a room even with my fucking cat for real
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sorry I legit don't have patience for people trying to force me into a debate about behaviour I've made clear is extremely uncomfortable and weird for me lol. I genuinely believe there's something deeply wrong with the people fighting so hard for the position of "I should be able to disrespect boundaries if my feefees are hurt". I don't want to talk to those kinds of people. I don't want them around me. I see no need to explain myself to them because I understand their warped minds will never understand what I'm telling them
all people like that see is "well *I* was slighted and *I* want this and *I* feel this way and *I* *I* *I* *I*"
it doesn't even occur to those people that I'm not defending myself in this argument. I have no kink or fic related boundaries. I don't feel the need for them. Evrytime I talk on this subject people assume I'm speaking from a personal place. I'm not. I'm worried about teenagers/kids, mentally ill people, and people with social difficulties who are basically bullied by fandom for stupid shit like having an angry DNI that pissed some no-life off because their whole life revolves around fucking shipping discourse on tumblr
I've dealt with a lot of people like that in fandom and they were always incredibly toxic in their personal lives too. I'm not exposing myself to that insanity again thanks
#it's literally just about control#like look at all those fucking words hat person typed trying to act like their position is reasonable lol#like wtf does any of this even matter go the fuck outside#but it matters because toxic af people like that need ultimate control in their environment#and that's how they end up living their entire lives through fandom#as a dude in my 30s who has been in fandom since I was a teenager this is the observation I've been left with over the years#people just unhinged and exerting power in the only space they have
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man shut the fuck up. all you're doing is repeating yourself. I've made my position clear. people like you make fandom unsafe. gtfo my blog and go back to reblogging posts about how we should be sympathetic to pedophiles
I try to stay out of fandom discourse but it's really not great how some of you are offended by a request of boundaries, and try to act like it's an attack or threat on yourself
someone politely asking certain people to DNI with their stuff, whether it's on social media or AO3 or whatever, is perfectly normal
it's called setting a boundary. there's no way that boundary can always be enforced, obviously, but that's not the point of requesting a boundary? if anything, if someone requests a boundary and you ignore it, and tell them that's not allowed, and tell them that just the request in itself is disrespectful towards YOU because you feel more entitled to the platform than them...
that's uh...very toxic, guys...please reconsider this behaviour...
imagine a scenario where you're having lunch with a friend and you ask them not to do something (touch your phone, touch you, touch your food, talk about something triggering- whatever)
and they respond by beginning to scream at you that you're in a public place having lunch so you're not allowed to have boundaries, and that if you want boundaries you have to go sit alone in your room with no contact with other people, because being in a public place means you can do or say whatever you want
you would probably call that person toxic and leave the situation. but it's unironically the state of AO3 DNI discourse
#idk how you think I am going to be civil or give a single shit about your tl;drs#when your whole position is ''I should be allowed to disrespect the boundaries of others''#I'm sorry you are in a tumblr echo chamber where this shit is normal#please go outside#I am never going to agree with that position no matter how much you verbally jerk yourself off about how it's right#now I'm going to teach you a practical lesson in boudaries by blocking you#because that's what normal people do when they have to deal with a fucking weirdo online#you also ignored literally my whole point#and just went on a rant about AO3 history#this is so pathetic please get other hobbies
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I'm so bored and irritated I'm kind of tempted to go outside in the dark and play with the Spirit Box I bought
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begging fandom people to be normal about literally anything
#stunned that I made a post just saying a character isn't for me and I want to focus on the less developed characters#and someone came at me like#''why do you want to develop the less developed charactrs hrmmm??? why don't you just treat them all equally???''#girl fucking Hwat#they're not treated equally in the narrative so I have to get rid of the character who is hogging all the screentime#that was the whole point
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the Astarion fans have appeared to assure me that he isn't prioritised by the devs and game when he has 12 hrs of content which is still 1 more (rounded up) hour than Shadowheart does and 4 hours more than the least developed origin character does. (Wyll has 8 hrs :| )
#you cannot claim he isn't prioritised lol#try to play a file where you attempt to ignore Astarion and see how much you still get exclamations#I got his first camp scene without ever talking to him or earning approval from him
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This is all irrelevant because the block button fucking exists. What do you think you're accomplishing by ignoring someone's boundary because they were rude about it? You're literally making fandom worse and adding to the drama. Stop trying to intellectually justify being a prick and just leave people who dislike you anyway, alone.
This is shit that CHILDREN learn in pre-school but grown ass people in fandom can't understand. You really think you're entitled to something just because it exists in a fandom space lol.
on a side note, "you can have boundaries but you have to be super nicies to me about it" is creepy as fuck. get over yourself.
I try to stay out of fandom discourse but it's really not great how some of you are offended by a request of boundaries, and try to act like it's an attack or threat on yourself
someone politely asking certain people to DNI with their stuff, whether it's on social media or AO3 or whatever, is perfectly normal
it's called setting a boundary. there's no way that boundary can always be enforced, obviously, but that's not the point of requesting a boundary? if anything, if someone requests a boundary and you ignore it, and tell them that's not allowed, and tell them that just the request in itself is disrespectful towards YOU because you feel more entitled to the platform than them...
that's uh...very toxic, guys...please reconsider this behaviour...
imagine a scenario where you're having lunch with a friend and you ask them not to do something (touch your phone, touch you, touch your food, talk about something triggering- whatever)
and they respond by beginning to scream at you that you're in a public place having lunch so you're not allowed to have boundaries, and that if you want boundaries you have to go sit alone in your room with no contact with other people, because being in a public place means you can do or say whatever you want
you would probably call that person toxic and leave the situation. but it's unironically the state of AO3 DNI discourse
#imagine if somoene tried to touch me and I reacted on instinct and told thm to get their dirty hands the fuck off me#and they reacted by shoving their hands under my shirt because ''well you were rude about it''#it doesn't make sense#you people are actually deranged#like “I am worried for those in your personal life if this is how you think” level of deranged#not to mention the fact that most people with these big dramatic DNIs are CHILDREN#looking through your blog you're a pedo/MAP sympathiser anyway#so wtf was I expecting
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I was bored and going through old posts and the fact there is a non-insignificant amount of people in fandom who feel the need to write essays about how they should be allowed to disrespect boundaries because they feel entitled to everything and anyone in a fandom space, is insanely toxic
if you're one of those people please fuck off from my blog lol
I genuinely consider it to be a red flag and that you are deeply unwell
#I am literally just saying “hey this is toxic why don't we just leave each other alone”#and people are writing essays to me in response explaining how in this particular situation they're allowed to ignore boundaries lol#like ok but don't be surprised when a bunch of people in fandom block you and you end up only interacting with a tiny echo chamber#because you're honestly giving off rancid vibes
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Some of you have never climbed the 7,000 steps to get to High Hrothgar and it shows.
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It would have made more sense if whenever Stede and Ed stayed on land, Izzy became the new captain of the Revenge. As a parallel to season 1, except this time he has the crew's trust and is ready to take on the position without Blackbeard. THAT is what they could have done with his character development instead of throwing it away for a cheap emotional scene. Like he could have still been gravely injured so he and Ed could have that heart to heart but actually killing him was just unnecessary
#that's legit what I thought was gonna happen#it was a no-brainer#stunned by how DJnks managed to mess it up so badly
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no offense but I'm not even attracted to Astarion like that so it gets really annoying how the devs basically force him onto you lol
edit: I'm not gonna just not recruit Astarion I am actively going to kill him now because people are mad about this post
#idk if I'll even bother to finish my current save or if I'll just reroll soI can not recruit him#I wnt to make room for the other companions to actually have their scenes and dialogue#the game legit prioritises Astarion and it gets so annoying#I've taken him into my party like twice but the game still revolves around him#he's not even that hot man he looks sick to me X_XX#whic yeah he's a vampire so that checks out#but I am not into rude skinny dudes who look like they've been skipping their insulin shots#it is just not for me
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This is what that baldurs gate vampire looks like to me
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Stardew Valley modding: drag the mod into the mod folder :)
Skyrim Modding: install these 7 base mods, make sure to use the out-of-date versions so your game doesn't break, run 2 different programs before your play with the mod on, make a blood sacrifice just to make sure it works, but it might not work anyway lol
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