this is genuinely my self care

When other characters suffer in the mirror and/or dramatically change their appearance because they look like their parent(s): good shit good shit we love the angst

When /I/ look in the mirror and realize that I'm only ever going to be a mutt of my parents: I should just ***

"ahaha i'm not depressed i don't even fit the DSM criteria" - guy who hasnt been to work or college in 2 weeks, got laid off, hasn't showered in 1 week, and lays in bed 70% of the day doing nothing.

my mom wants to throw a party with all my friends but idk man 😭

deleted last post I think i'm going to keep this blog strictly fandom

I just love this picture I got of Bamse a few days ago

i am so glad i have the ability to keep my thoughts to myself occasionally ill see a post that irks me or rubs me the wrong way and i get the urge to comment "x doesnt belong with this or "this looks nothing like x" and i get to the typing phase and just. take a deep breath. remind myself that all it is is a (harmless) opinion that does not affect me, and that saying something like that is only going to result in negative ineteractions. i wish more people, both on this website, and irl, could learn to live and healthily deal with things that they disagree with instead of immediately reacting with hostility

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so THIS is the cause of diggs's beef with allen.... WE HAVE FOUND THE ANSWER !

diggs after refusing his gemini moonness then inputting his dob, time, and location into the zodiac finder analyzer website thing: omg JOSH can you BELIEVE we both share a GEMINI 🤯⁉️⁉️ that is CRAZY!!!! but i CANT be.. it HAS to be wrong!!!.. right? right? you're a gemini, you should know all about gemininess! it's crazy, right! right!! YOU KNOW GEMINIS, JOSH! YOU ARE GEMINI MAN!!!!

Josh, trying to deal with yet another miserable, heartwrenching playoff loss: idc

diggs:

Diggs:

hOW CAN YOU NOT CARE ABOUT zODIACS, i HATE you you STUPID FUCKING GEMINI!!!!!!!!!1!1!11!1!!1!!!!

listen folks, i feel like a lot of people need to hear this.

if someone misgenders you, thats not okay.

but whats also not okay is refusing to move on even after they have apologized profusely and tried their best for it not to happen again.

i have misgendered one of my best friends and it felt awful because i accidentally said she instead of they.

they were cool about it after i apologized, but im not saying that its okay, because it isn't.

but what im trying to say is, if someone is actively trying to say sorry and try harder not to misgender you, let them try.

dont spend time that you could be using to be kind and participate in fandoms hating on someone who slipped and said the wrong pronouns

Coming to the awful, horrifying realization that my job is very much not what I was promised, and not what I expected it to be. Realizing that I work 8 hour days, without a lunch break and get chastised by my boss for leaving early. Working 10-12 hour days without any sort of break and it's still not enough. Worked 16 hour days during spring break and did not receive any sort of gratitude for it. Doing the work of 3 people and it's still not enough bc I should be doing the work of 5. Being severely undervalued and unappreciated, and under payed. My boss being so paranoid that he spies on me through our security cameras and when he thinks I'm doing something that isn't my work, he calls and asks me what I'm doing. My boss now making offhand, self depreciating jokes that we might not last through the summer and that if we don't get enough kids signed up for summer camp, they might not be able to pay me. Coming to the horrible realization that if I quit this job, the school would definitely go under and I'd probably never be able to practice taekwondo in our organization ever again. Realizing that because of the amount of hours my job demands of me, it's giving my cats severe separation anxiety that is causing lots of problems at home.

Sometimes I think about the song Two Birds and how it fits so good for ???!Taka and MM!Celestia in the talent swap.

Because it can go both ways in their relationship, both are tied to what they feel is and isn't their responsibility, in the end it costs them greatly because deep down neither wants to let each other go

Enjoy some very horrible doodles in a sort of storyboard style of the ending of the last trial because I can't animate for shit and my attention span is so short I wouldn't finish it

SO... help me connect the dots here...

Eragon's mom was Selena. She came home to Garrow's in Carvahall, with Eragon. Gave birth to the kid and just left*

Now to be fair...

Murtagh MENTIONED when he finally revealed his story... he said *for a while his mom disappeared* he never mentioned the name. But, she came back and then shortly after died but that's not the point.

Do you see what I'm trying to say here?

Are Eragon and Murtagh bros? Half bros? SELENA!!!!?

And right now, in my head, those two dorks are dancing being scar buddies* —

I'm lil taken aback that I could think that... cuz do I really want to ruin that?

(PS: my stupid brain couldn't resist so I Googled it... turns out... I was right 😭... they are half bros! but I've only read book one how!? But even worse... brom died and Eragon did not know he was his real dad *sobs in booklover*)

I wanna go on T so i can look femme in the masculine way. I wanna have longer hair again and wear a dangly earring in one ear but not get misgendered.

I am gonna do 4 days a week at my current job for awhile now. And it honestly sounds so much better to me than uni work. I'm definitely burnt out with uni. Its just so big. Work is so much smaller.

I go, I do the job, and I care about the job and doing it well. But then I come home and its over. I don't think about how I should be doing more of my work at home. Or have to spend my weekends doing more of my work.

And with my bestie in their situation, I hate that I can't spend as much time with them as I want to. We are lucky to get together once a week for the last few months. And that sucks. And sometimes all I can manage is meeting up for dinner after work, which is great, I love that. But I don't want that to be the only time we spend together for the whole week. Its such a bummer. I want to do fun things with them! And have time to watch shows with them. And have time to spend whole days just doing whatever we feel like.