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simonstamenovic · 16 days

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what a disgusting and immature response. do you actually have concrete evidence of him being contacted by your stalker? do you have concrete evidence that that was the reason he blocked you? you don’t, but you keep alluding to that being the situation even though you admitted that you don’t actually know if it was because of your stalker. then you were threatening to send him a vile message that got sent to you and threatening to @ him and harass him over why he blocked you. you keep posting about how you sent money to him as if you’re trying to paint him as some manipulative thief who ran off with your money. you put your own personal drama with him on blast and told people to block him (which lessens the amount of exposure he would get if he needed donations again; great job, you’re making it harder for a black person to raise money for necessities/emergencies while your white ass is financially comfortable enough to send money to other people). people do not owe you anything. you are not owed an explanation for why you got blocked. you already said the money isn’t that big of a deal. move the fuck on and stop threatening to harass, twist people’s perception of, and try to socially isolate and endanger a black user because you’re mad you got blocked. you could not possibly be this stupid and ignorant.

can you break your responses up next time if you want me to actually respond. genuinely. cant read this chunk. if I ignore shit its bc we are blurred. but okay god. since you want to keep at it too

long post incoming bc you wanted to send so much in one ask and clearly want to be absolved

but I need you to give concrete evidence that ive been a bigot

we know what our stalker sounds like. you don't have to believe me but I know that he's been contacted by them and baselessly believed accusations of us being racist*

*which again. if they aren't baseless I really want to know.

but believing something an anon sends you without proof on this website seems so weird atp.

i didn't threaten anything. you misread my posts. let me be clearer

he is being messaged by someone who has sent us the**

(in our words, but to quote you too to make it perfectly transparent bc you seem to have trouble reading, as do we. no judgement)

**"vile messages", the post was made to say that we could show how awful this stalker has been to us. the fact that he is listening to them is worrying

(not for us. I don't believe this person could do worse than they have. i am genuinely so genuinely worried about nao. and I am not a sincere person but I mean this. please dm me if you need.

worried that if they become friends and he somehow does something "wrong" theyll behave similarly toward him)

is the money a big deal? no. not to us personally. luckily.

how many times do i have to say that I dont think he's evil. im not blaming him for intentionally doing anything.

but that on principle abandoning someone w no word in general but esp w these circumstances is. odd? uncalled for. etc

we are in a very uniquely fortunate position to be able to donate to people. and have the urge to show affection through purchases.

and he was a part of that!

will not deny that 95% of the money given was offered, and even then the other 5% was likely going to be given anyway.

the only thing he ever sort of asked for was a game, and we were considering buying that for him anyway

i need to reiterate the actual money isn't the point at all, but it is the principle of us doing that and getting dropped with zero communication

but is it rude at best that after genuinely giving someone that, with no expectations, we were not given a chance to talk before he decided to make assumptions (during a heavily blurry and hectic time) about us

(I've said before and I'll say again, because you're conveniently ignoring it

if he needed I would give him more money. the fact that he's been a dick to me doesnt negate his humanity or need to live.

you need to absorb that. he could come to me now asking for money and id give it. so could anyone.)

him being black does not negate the fact that hes being shitty to us, but again use your own judgement and dm if you want

heres his cshapp, this is genuine. hes still human and can use dns, but until i get paid esp i cant justify spending more money

again, if he ever needs I'll send more money. and I'm not in the business of making this a callout, honestly this ask is 10x longer than I wanted but you def want the attention

anyway yeah heres his c$ w the proof of money we (voluntarily again, just sucks to be blocked after this) sent to him

but fr if he makes a dn post dnt let this stop you

and if ur reading this n ever need money or ever wanna fact check the racism allegations we will be here. nothing to hide

despite the vitriol of this post fr if he makes a dn post do contribute and again always send me ur dn posts

not in the business of letting personal shit get in the way of mutual aid

again c$ is $moonvampyre he deserves to live as a person no matter whats going on

I mean this genuinely not as a taunt or a gotcha.

nobody deserves to suffer bc of decisions or lack of able to make decisions or personality or anything.

justice and housing and livable wage for all god fucking bless

#bloodletting #anyone can dm for 5-15 bucks #even ppl we hate. cant be clear enough this is not ab money but principle #also told people to block or unfollow several times just don't want to be in the circle #also clearly stated if he or anyone needs money we will send it #but show me proof of us being racist please.

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confessionsofa-roleplayer · 4 months

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I need some advice, please.

How should I handle this situation? I have an rp partner who I've been rping with for over a year now. Things were great for a while. They were responsive and we talked a lot ooc, plotted, rped together a lot. We were having a great time.

And then it feels like out of nowhere they backed away from me a lot. They started heavily investing in one muse who I don't rp with and have tried to rp with, but it didn't work out. Now all they do is focus on that one muse, essentially excluding me. Our threads and plots between all our muses get ignored, or it takes weeks to months to get a single response, where they are responding to everyone else without days or even hours. I have talked with them about this multiple times, only to be shrugged off or told they're busy or don't have time, but they always have time for everyone else except for me.

It hurts a lot. I don't know what to do. I feel like they are lying to me and telling me they enjoy my muse and our threads just to placate me, when their actions clearly show otherwise. I can't even tell you how many times I've cried over this, as silly as that might sound. I don't know what I did wrong; the only thing I can guess is that because my muse don't worship this one muse of theirs, I no longer matter.

How would you handle this situation? Do I just unfollow and block and move on? I thought we were friends. I'm very hurt by this.

Thank you.

First - do you mind if I offer you a hug, Anon? I'm so sorry you're hurting. I've been where you are and I know how much it hurts - especially the first time it happens. I want to start with this - while I don't know your partner, I can almost guarantee that they really do still care about your muse and the threads you share. I know it doesn't feel that way because they've moved on to something new. But speaking as someone who's had this happen before, it's not that your partner is lying to you, it's just that something else has grabbed their full attention.

Some people - for various reasons - don't have the capacity to focus on more than one or two things at a time and/or they hyper-focus on one very specific thing. They really can't help themselves. But that doesn't mean they don't still enjoy the stuff they're not currently focused on. Your partner just has another focus right now. They might go back to their old focus at some point, or they might not. In my personal experience, however, they usually don't. And if that's the case with your partner, then I'm very sorry.

I've had several partners like this, and I really just had to learn to 'go with the flow.' I mean - I also could've dropped them, but they were friends in addition to being my writing partners, so I tried my best to follow along with whatever their New Interest™ was, and if it was something I was able to write with them, then I did that to the best of my ability. Once or twice I even made new muses that better fit into my partner's new interests. And I had fun. Was it the same as writing the old RPs? No, not at all. But we created all new things together. I still miss the old things, but I also love the new things, too.

I know that's probably not exactly the answer you were looking for, Anon. But I really think this just depends on you. Is this partner a friend beyond RP? If so, blocking and moving on probably isn't the way to go. If you need to take a break from them, but don't want to burn bridges, you could ask for a hiatus from all of your threads together for awhile, and maybe blacklist them in the meantime? It never hurts to give your brain (and your emotions) a breather when you feel like you need them.

The TLDR version of my advice, I guess, is this - if you value this person as a friend, then don't do anything rash while your emotions are high. Don't do anything you might decide you want to undo later because some things can't be undone.

Do our followers have anything they'd like to add/suggest?

~ Mod MJ ~

#advice #anonymous #answered

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notasimpleslater · 10 months

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(Reddit anon) Hey, thanks for answering. My theory towards the deleted/non-deleted posts, is that, if the rumors are to be believed, they've been together for several months and like I said wanted to start taking stuff down (probably something they came up with together) so that removing their S-O's from their pages would just be seen as part of the 'cleaning-up' process lots of celebs go through with their social media right before a big release (like Wicked is supposed to be). (1/2)

(1/2) Ethan for one was famously relatively private with his relationship, especially because some of the more rabid fans liked to attack his wife, so I think he might have thought he'd get away with it on the premise of 'protecting her and their son' and keeping them out of the spotlight. Like I said, I don't want to spread rumors but I can't help believing that this has been months in the works, they got caught or photographed together, and had to come up with something before it got out. (2.5) Also, I'm getting the sense that Ethan, like many of us, woke up to the story being splashed all over the front of every website imaginable, quickly privated his Instagram (whether he did that on his own or Ariana/one of his/her reps told him to do that is neither here nor there), and just hasn't opened the app since, hence why other pictures are still up. If the tabloids are to be believed and his wife truly was blindsided, I think he'd have more pressing concerns than opening Instagram. (Sorry this ended up being 4 messages, Tumblr asks are short) At first I thought that their comments being off had something to do with Wicked or something, but none of the other cast had that. Someone on Reddit also said that back in April Ethan and Ariana briefly unfollowed/blocked one another, so the theory is that they had a fight or something then and were playing up their KNOWN relationships (Ari with her anniversary, Ethan with mother's day) around that time to make everything seem A-OK.

Hey again 👋🏻

Yeah, that makes sense. Like, if it's true, I starting to wonder how long this has really been going on. I've seen some people mention how in the Mother's Day post Ethan called Lilly "the most wonderful mom/person" and that it seemed distant. So if anything that's probably when they separated, and the tabloids are just pushing the "she was blindsided!" thing for clicks. And on good terms since he still admires her as a person. (Page Six is not a reliable source, so I don't trust those articles)

Another question I have is if they have ever been seen in public together? A lot of articles are citing those pics from Michelle Yeoh’s party as proof of their relationship, but I don’t think so. Ethan publicly shared some of those pics to his stories, and he was wearing his wedding ring so I think they were just at that party as castmates. Then there was that pic posted by a fan in March. I remember the block/unblock thing back in April, but I assumed it was just a glitch and wasn’t purposeful. We haven’t seen any pics of them since then. I think we’ve seen more pics of Ariana with Bowen and Cynthia than we have with her with Ethan.

Another thing worth mentioning is that Ethan has been chronically off-line this whole year, and I’m starting to wonder if this has something to do with it.

#answered asks #anonynous #long post #sorry this got so long folks dkfjdjd #ive been doing a lot of dective work #e rumors

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hxllishrebuke · 12 days

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I've tried to stay out of this whole mess for a long time, but everything's kind of come to a head, and I think it's come time for me to say something.

Concerning Loke, as of about 5 minutes ago, we are no longer friends. I'm not on speaking terms with them. I took this long because I wasn't directly involved, but that went out the window because of Legend, and i noticed that another couple of friends of mine said something. I don't usually pay attention much to this blog, I really only checked it when Loke said something. And im coming here and putting myself out there because I got sick of questioning where my safe spaces were and who I could trust.

Concerning Legend and the whole situation, the fault for that isn't solely on me. Our interactions were MUTUALLY toxic, our muses didn't click well, and despite consistent attempts to try clearing things up out of character, it never worked out. My biggest issue that I had was that it seemed that all of his muses held grudges against other muns, and he used his characters to take it out on other people in character and try to hide behind them and use it as an excuse to be a bully. There were multiple cases of his muses vagueposting about other muns' muses, cases of his muses repetetively jabbing at other muses, and it wasn't fun to rp with him in the slightest. I get it. Not everything is all sunshine and rainbows. I never asked for it to be. It wasn't about "I can't tell the difference between ic and ooc." it was the fact that he didn't just bully me in and out of character. He also bullied several others. Which had been brought to Toastie. And in response we were all told not to interact in the server. Several attempts had been made to apologize and try to work it out, but he wasn't at all interested, and for the sake of us both, I blocked him, and I left the server. I have no intentions of contacting Legend again because I doubt we'd get along. But the abuse was not one-sided. He wasn't nice to me either. I regret handling it as poorly as I did, but being painted as the sole abuser in this situation is false, and I wanted my side to be heard.

As for the mentioning of my vagueposting, I don't know where that came from. The only post I made on my blog was the new rule of unfollowing people who post about drama, and that wasn't at all aimed at anyone. I had unfollowed five or six people prior to making that post, and I wanted to make it known to my other mutuals that I don't really partake in drama. Anything else involving vaguing was me asking around Discord to try and figure out what was going on.

I'm no longer friends with Toastie, or Loke, or Legend.

That's my side of everything. And thats all I really have to say about it. I just want to be done with this and left alone.

Noting this and hoping you find your safe spaces. I was only told you were vaguing in places about the situation. Perhaps it was somewhere on discord? But any vague can be taken any way so it just happens like that.

Wishing you well on your recovery and will be posting as is.

Thank you for coming forward. Have a hopefully better day/night/tomorrow.

#loke

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fatylovesart · 2 years

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Hello to all the people who have known me for a while. I honestly didn't want to say anything about this, but I will because I think it's the right thing to do.

First I want to tell you that I am not completely fluent in English, but I will do my best to make myself understood.

The Mimato and Taiora community came together and made an alliance to create content a year ago. We had a problem that escalated and that alliance was broken. There were word attacks from both fandoms, people who kept fighting in posts. I was never part of it, I always stayed out of it.

But some people from the Mimato fandom involved third parties who had nothing to do with our problem. The proof is a user here on Tumblr who simply forbade me to share his content, a person who had nothing to do with our conflict.

So I just kept creating Taiora content, but it's always with all the love and respect. The proof is in all my posts, on any of my networks. I kept it up.

Suddenly, a user appeared on Instagram who started uploading Mimato fanarts, but as a joke, because he edited them. A friend alerted me to this, but since I no longer had any relationship with the Mimato fandom, I didn't do anything, I just ignored the account.

One day a friend Taiora told me about something else. The Mimato account accused me for sure that the person behind "Lore Glamit" who was uploading these fanarts, was me. They even used my fanarts to make their "evidence". Same evidence that anyone can see that reaches the point of being absurd.

They not only published that accusation, they also published my phone number. And I had several comments from other people in that fandom, where they said too nasty things to me.

I had been spending a lot of time working, writing, trying to improve myself, and suddenly they were doing that to me.

I preferred not to tell about our initial problem with the Mimato fandom, since it was something between them and us. I didn't post hints either, I didn't post anything that could harm them, because I'm not that kind of person.

I have no idea who Lore Glamit is. I don't know who did it. But what I can assure you is that I did not do any of this.

What the Lore Glamit account did is absurd, completely immature. I would never waste my time on something like that.

And that is why I decided to write this now. For the people I love and care about, those great friends I've met thanks to Taiora.

The attacks continue, and the Mimato fandom is now trying to ruin Taiora Week. I am not going to say that it is the whole fandom, because it is only a small group that is doing this.

This group from the Mimato fandom decided to tell the story without thinking about everything they could cause, so now I tell my version. And it is.

The accusations were serious, and they affected me greatly. But I have decided to defend myself. I have not done any of these things of which they accused me. And I will never do something like that. This is all I will say. I've decided to leave Tumblr, it makes me feel trapped, and it reminds me of all the bad times I had when it all happened. But I didn't want to leave without being able to talk first. Not all people in the Mimato fandom acted badly. And I don't think there are only good people in the other fandom either. There are Mimatas who have been supporting me.

I will not say names. I will not do that.

I just want to clear all this up. I have not done anything to affect or harm someone. My mind and heart are calm because I know that what I say is true.

I also want to ask you to stop. Let all those who are acting with bad intentions stop. Hopefully we can carry our love for our shipps in peace. I am team Taiora, Mimato and Takari. And nothing is going to change this love I have for Digimon.

There are people with bad intentions in every fandom, I think we all know that. But I have decided to ignore and block, and continue drawing and writing. I'm not going to ask you to unfollow the Mimato, nor will I, I love the Mimato, and a few immature people aren't going to screw it up.

Keep creating content with love.

Faty.

#Taiora #Mimato #digimon

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happysadyoyo · 2 years

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I don't agree with you about morg but I also really really don't agree with whate he's encouraging

and to be honest I don't think I even have the full story from both sides from morg has said it does sound like you are in the wrong but he should not be encouraging harassment and I just don't know

I'm really sorry that you are being harassed and I really hope that you aren't being worn down from this

Here's my side/version of events as simply as I can put them. It's not to will you to my side or anything, just a way to show how I've seen things devolve:

Morg has always been a bit controversial, drawing negative and positive attention from how he acts. I'd been following him for a bit, through one suicide attempt, but I stopped following him as he turned his anger against neurodivergent individuals derailing his posts and sending him harmful messages and towards nd and mentally ill people in general.

After I unfollowed him, I made a post that was untagged and not directed to anything or anyone in particular about how the mental/physical disability divide feels a lot like the transandrophobia discourse recycled. That got noticed, drawing Morg into an argument with me. I blocked him for my own sanity as I tend to constantly dig if I get obsessive.

I do not know if he blocked me. After I blocked him, I ignored his blog entirely because I know he also has a tendency to beat an idea to death and how he likes to talk. I continue the discourse, giving my own opinions.

Spider receives an ask from Morg stating that they have "won". Spider points out that this is manipulative behavior and I personally recognize the wording for exactly what it is. I was following him during a previous suicide attempt, and I click over to check and yes, he is talking about being suicidal. Alternating between everyone hating him and how he won't kill himself because of people disliking him.

At no point did I ever encourage, insinuate, or say that he is unjustified in his anger about the derailments or that his pain isn't real or even that he's doing this manipulation on purpose. There was poor wording where I said "apparent suicide" meaning obvious, but I know it can be and was taken poorly. I have only wished him to get help, at most stating he needs to go offline for awhile to get away from the hate and to protect his followers.

I write up a post about how this is manipulative behavior and isn't healthy for him or his followers. Someone must've told him because he later posts a screenshot of the post and reblogs it with a photo of him holding a bottle of pills. I had been checking his blog a couple of times to see what he was doing and that affected me. I stopped checking his blog.

During this time I was starting to receive an uptick in hatemail myself. Something that only has happened before when my baeddel video got picked up and spread around or sometimes if a TERF decides they want to scratch an itch. The hatemail was pretty obviously tied to my statements on Morg's behavior.

I also lost a mutual (Kirin) who cares about Morg, and at some point they heard from an anon that I had apparently called them white. This was not true, as I'd started talking with Kirin through a DM discussion on if the pink triangle can be reclaimed by gentiles. Through the conversation, they explained that they have access to older Jewish communities that don't share their opinions online, and I picked up that they are not from the US and not white. After that conversation, I stopped discussing the pink triangle altogether out of respect for this new information.

This mistake was pointed out and they unblocked me long enough to apologize, deleted the angry posts they had made regarding the situation, then blocked me again.

I'm only mentioning this because this week Kirin has made a post alleging that we had an anti-semitic argument and that I called them white several times. It's not true, and if I had access to our old DMs I could prove it.

An anonymous person, presumably one of the people who regularly send him hatemail, started messaging me. I turned anon off for about four days after I told this individual that they're a hateful person and are going against everything I believe.

I checked his blog periodically until a mutual friend took over and let everyone know that he was all right and focusing on his mental health. Relieved, I left it alone, assuming he would be offline and glad he has a support system irl.

After all this happened, I waited a couple days and made a video discussing the situation and how it affected me. How it reminded me of my previous behavior and how seeing it play out, I can understand better how badly I hurt people in my past. I also talk about how liveblogging your suicide is harmful by talking about 13 Reasons Why and how not all people can "just unfollow" a person they care about. I published this to my youtube channel and then linked it here as a sort of summation and concluding thoughts of the events.

Earlier this week, Spider received a series of asks with scat fetish porn. They assumed it was linked to their public donation of any profit they've made off cripplepunk merch and tied to Morg in some way. I made a post groaning that Morg was still doing this before checking his blog and continuing to complain at seeing that he was indeed back and still doing the same shit.

Someone asked me if they wanted to know who Morg is. I linked the video since it sorta broke down everything that happened before. Here again, I'd like to tell you that the video had 39 views. This post I made got picked up by Morg, drawing us into this current drama. I chose to unblock him since he had screenshotted me in the past and that had affected me a lot more than I was letting on here on tumblr.

There is an argument, and he reblogs the post with the video link. He starts a series of block, unblock, reblog, block in a petty way to get to my posts directly without fear of reprisal. I block him in turn and laugh at his antics publicly. Meanwhile, the post with the video link is being spread around (when logged in I can only see half of the notes so it's not even by people 'on my side'), filling my notifications. I'm starting to get harassed by anons again -- tying neatly into the theory that these people are coming from his blog as the level of harassment I get becomes a thing when he talks about me. And at least the TERFs make it obvious they're TERFs. A lot of this is either about the video or insults about my appearance, age, and intelligence.

This is where I start tagging posts with his name "morg". I avoided cockdealer or cock-dealer because I've had to abandon believed blog names due to my bullshit and idk if morg is a nickname or w/e. It's the name he goes by online. I wanted to make sure people could block the drama if they wanted.

One anon suggests I unlist the video since I use his name and mention is blog. I agree because these were mistakes I made, and it is still currently unlisted. I disagree with deleting it because I stand by the points I've made in it. I have since limited my talk about this to publishing asks I get as well as asking for screenshots of certain actions.

Idk everything Morg is doing, but I know he's stated an intent to sue me, has openly told his followers to send me hatemail, stated I doxxed him by using information he has publicly published, constantly made fun of me for being 29, encouraged people to send me porn, and believes that people leaked his posts to me prior to all of this happening. I know he's openly lied about things I've said and he's erased Spider's physical disability to fit his narrative, so I wouldn't be surprised if he's erased mine as well, especially as I'm a small blog (300 followers) who does not care to disclose in a pinned post his medical history.

So that's everything that I can think of. I'm sure someone will let me know if I've forgotten anything. I hope even this biased summary kinda helps clarify the drama going down.

#morg

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deathbars · 4 years

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I don't really understand why you kept arguing with snake owners after all that...you claim that this discussion triggers you and you don't want to talk about it but you take every chance to jump down someone's throat about it even though you're clearly biased against them?? I don't get it aren't you tired of arguing?

You see one thing that like really really messes me up is the idea that people don't actually know what I know and that they're unknowingly hurting things so it's usually an attempt to give them the full picture so they don't judge surface level. (What I know about rats isn't just personal experience, I've agressively studied them and their behavior to come to this conclusion)

Also I've only ever one time gone after a snake blog that was talking about how live feeding is "humane" and "more painless than gassing" which is one of the few things that really really fucked me up (and also that they bred their own feeders to be as compassionate as possible so they don't hurt the snake which basically = breeding pet perfect rats specifically to betray their trust and kill them painfully).

Ever since then though I've had every single snake tag blocked and I've tried to avoid it a lot. I've been doing good for quite a few months but recently someone came to my blog and accused me of "directly harassing them" even though I have made many posts on my blog that literally say "please unfollow if you support live feeding in any way seriously I cannot handle having you around my blog or associated with me it gives me insane levels of anxiety" so after they attacked me on MY OWN POSTS THREE SEPERATE TIMES. I blocked them and then made the post you're referring to, to vent off some steam you know because I've been freaking the literal fuck out over it because they literally won't listen to anything I've said and they've twisted my words out of my mouth. Well, a different popular discourse blog who's only been following for about a month I think? Reblogged it and since they're connected to a completely different crowd, several people have been commenting their own opinions on it and since it's my post I get a notification for every single one and I can't leave them alone because the idea of letting someone exist uninformed makes me physically want to throw up because they'll spread that misinformation to other people who might have or eventually own snakes and then they won't know any better.

There haven't been very many notes on it today so that's been a relief and I really really wish it would blow over and I could live my life in peace but this shithole of a site really is just a journal with pvp.

Also on the sensitivity bit, nobody here knows what goes on behind this screen, you have not seen how many times I've broken down, or skipped school, or literally cried my eyes out over this stuff. I keep a stoic exterior because if I go "I'm literally crying right now please stop" that makes them feel like they've won when they absoultely haven't. It's also a traumatized tendency which as you can see above ^ I'm really really trying to break but having people attack me out of the blue makes me relapse really hard. I also do have a decent amount of experience with discourse in general and I've been told to kms a number of times for various reasons so it's toughened my skin a little. There's only a few very specific strings of words that will get under it and really set me off.

Hopefully this made sense and isn't just word barf but if you need an elaboration on anything I can probably give it.

#ask #anon #blacklist #discourse #snake tw #live feeding #negative #actually traumatized #cptsd #suicide mention

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justholdinghandsok · 7 years

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Hi jhh! Do you know what happened to Bird3000? Seems like she lost her mind a little? Her answers are weird and she's attacking you and all the Gillovny blog. It's so sudden, I don't get it :'(

I’ve been laughing at that for the past hour. Not at her, not at you, but at myself! I’ve been such a fool, I can’t believe it. Let me tell you a little story. (I promise this is going the first and last post about her, because really, I know no one cares, and it’s not worth spending time on it, but I swear, it’s a funny story!)

In the last 2 months, I’ve been receiving a daily trolling anon, several messages a day, everyday, all the time. They were calling me names and obsessing over a chatroom that everyone had forgotten about already. It escalated a little when they wished for me to die in a terrorist attack, but it was mostly name calling and attention seeking. I blocked them everyday, but they came back, over and over, obviously using a VPN. It had bothered me for a time and I talked about it to a few close friends sending them screenshots and all. I reported the anons of course, but Tumblr policy in terms of bullying is so lame... So I eventually shrugged it off, because I figured out it might have been someone mentally ill, and somehow, I guess it wasn’t their fault. I thought it would go away at some point, when they would find something / someone else to obsess about. Ten days ago, more or less, it had suddenly stopped. That was kind of a relief, to be honest. I had a few names in my head, I don’t need to tell you that there are vile and sick people in this fandom, but I somehow thought that none of the people I could have pissed off would be sick enough to send those anons to me.

Yesterday, I had a conversation with Bird. We used to be friendly, not friends, but friendly. We talked to each other on rare but pleasant occasions :) I explained to her that I was going to unfollow her. Because we were friendly, I thought I, at least, had to explain her why, and that there was no angriness on my side, just that I didn’t want to see her posts on my dash anymore. I told her that I wish she would realize the damages she was causing to the Gillovny fandom by spreading false rumors and letting trolls controlling her blogs. That I wished she would fact-check before posting her anons, and that my conception of Tumblr was that everyone was responsible for what they publish on their blog and that I wish she would be more responsible and realize that her followers believe what she says, takes it at heart, and were being sad for actually no reason at all. I was far from expecting her reaction, that you all can see on her blog now. She indeed, lost her mind.

The fun thing and what I’m laughing about now, is that what she’s saying now on her blog is the exact same thing I’ve been receiving on anon in the last few months. Word for word. And of course, I’m receiving them again. So I know I should be angry right now, but i’m honestly just amused and I also feel really stupid for having being so blind and fooled.To end this crazy story and for those who remember her, I have many reasons to believe that she’s actually Tiffany. Which explains a lot about what happened.

The end.

Back to regular blogging now :D

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peeblesprotectionpatrol · 7 years

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That wasn't anon hate, just me trying to get you to apologise for how shitty you've made us all feel, and get your followers to see you're not some perfect angel who's never done anything wrong. I could go on further, but I really don't want to since this blog has become real toxic towards anyone who doesn't like you now. Also, as Rainbow has said, our new server is fuckin lit and has a way more positive environment, so I hope you know you're really missing out. Anyway, peace out ✌️

holy shit, we’re still talking about this !!!!!! this unnecessary issue that literally stemmed from me deleting a fucking chat room !!!!!!! im not gonna apologize bc hey, if the new rules (i was asked by several people to make btw) made you feel shitty, i said to leave the chat and i would be 110% okay with it!!! do you know why i barely ever talked on the discord chat? because it felt like a toxic environment! because every time i said or did anything i was ignored or shot down! because i wanted to delete the chat for ages but i kept it because you guys had fun on it, and who would i be to delete it and ruin everyone elses fun! there was only a few people on that chat who actually talked to me, and they were the ones who told me it was getting toxic as fuck and that i needed to change the rules or they were gonna leave. so i did! and that caused a shitstorm! because i did something i was asked to do! this whole situation is so fucking stupid!

also, my followers dont think im some perfect angel, but at least im not the person sending asks attacking anybody related to this issue? at least im not trying to get others to attack someone? from an outside perspective, it really doesnt put you guys on the good guys side. I’m in a much better chat now, thats full of truly kind people who wouldnt go into someones ask box and attack them, and who made the old discord chat bright and a kind environment. but no, have fun in your other discord chat. if you dont like me, unfollow me. block me, even. i dont care. just keep your hate off of my blog bc, honestly, im done with this shit! ive given my answer on the situation! any more asks about this situation sent this way will be deleted instantly, because im done! if you dont like me, i dont care! just dont send fucking hate to someone because you dont agree with how they handled a situation? thanks!

#;; personal #// discord discourse

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lemonyandbeatrice · 7 years

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Did your 'ex' abuse you? Because from your story she rejected you, and ghosted on you. And because of that, you hate her with every fibre of your being and think she's a bitch, and you get triggered when you hear her name or even see someone who looks like her? I don't get this. Did she abuse you in anyway? emotional, physical, mental? Because if not, you're sounding more and more like a stalker. I'll just unfollow you because you remind me of mine, who played the victim after i rejected him.

me: [has ptsd & a history of experiencing multiple forms of abuse ever since I was a child, has friendship issues linked with said ptsd because of an abusive relationship that ended three months after my rape, has several mental illnesses and has to actively work on not being dependent on people bc of said mental illnesses, only sent three messages to my ex between the time she ghosted on me and when I blocked her (and I worked on writing one of said messages with my therapist during a session to make sure I was being reasonable and honest but not angry or mean)]

my ex: [knew all about this, reciprocated my feelings and wanted to date me and did the “we’re kind of dating but not” thing with me for several months until I did the responsible thing and stepped back from the romantic aspect of our friendship several months before she stopped talking to me, knew that my birthday was a traumatic day and knew what day my birthday was, had a completely normal conversation with me the day before my birthday, had the clear opportunity to just tell me to fuck off/say she didn’t want to talk to me ever again and didn’t, didn’t respond to the last message I sent her three weeks after she ghosted and hasn’t heard a single word from me since, didn’t unfollow my blog during the time she was ghosting on me and was still following me until I blocked her, is old enough that she should have known better esp since she’d been fucked up by a close friend ghosting on her once]

you: [assumed that I should care about your opinion, assumed that you knew what had happened between me and my ex just from reading my blog even though you don’t even know who my ex is and therefore can’t make a true judgement call as to whether or not I’m overreacting, assumed that you can decide what I should and should not be triggered by even though you don’t actually know me as a person, assumed that the only reason I could respond this way is if she abused me and ignored the fact that relationships are often more complex than that, could have just unfollowed me instead of sending me this trash message]

also

I told the tutor who shares the name what happened and she was sympathetic but also was amused by what a weird coincidence it was. which it is!

I’m friends with a girl who looks exactly like my ex and still interact with her normally whenever I see her on campus.

I’m triggered by a lot of things because I have several layers of trauma that I’ve accumulated over the last twelve years of my life and therefore lots of things set me off, including things that shouldn’t be traumatic on their own. like are you gonna yell at me for being triggered by reading certain books of the Bible too? or for being triggered by like… Hey Arnold? which I am?

I don’t think you know what “stalker” means if you’re calling me a stalker because??? I don’t check her blog and I don’t ask people to tell me if she’s been talking about me and I hid her on facebook and I haven’t called or texted or messaged her since I made my last effort to save our friendship. I do everything in my power to not see her, which is classic avoidance (heyyyyyy ptsd what up?)

I make every effort to not tell people who my ex is because I don’t want to start drama and I don’t want them to feel like they can’t be friends with her (and the only people who know are people who asked me directly and people who follow my secret twitter. at least one of those people is still her friend and I’ve made it very clear that I don’t want people to feel like they have to choose between me and my ex bc in all honesty? her being an awful friend to me doesn’t mean she can’t be a great friend to other people.

I tag every single post I make about this situation with either the tag I’ve used since I fell for her or with the tag I’ve made since I’ve been trying to deal with being ghosted on by one of the closest friends I’ve ever had. in this way, people who don’t want to see me being a mess over all of this can just… not. unless, of course, they’re on mobile, and that’s why I can’t use mobile right now bc I keep having a panic response!!!

unfollow me and block me and don’t ever think you know shit about a situation you’re not at all involved in ever again.

#asks #anonymous #x: let’s call it what it is not what we were #tw: ptsd #tw: abuse /#why do people keep doing this

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