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salswisteria · 1 month

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We're getting FUCKING HOME WRECKED.

#malevolent podcast #WHO IS THIS BITCH #YES TELL THEM TO SHUT UP #BOTH OF EM #Arthur Lester #john malevolent doe #noooooooo #THE RELATIONSHIP DEVELOPMENT #PLEASE #YOU TWO JUST BONDED #WHO IS THIS CUNT???

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inkskinned · 7 months

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no, but really, we need to talk about the casual objectification that has become the fallback discourse of the internet: if you're pretty and dressed nicely, you're a slut. and if you're even vaguely outside of their body standard, you're fucking disgusting.

too-frequently, people position sex workers as being "the problem". they sneer you're addicted to pornography, you don't know what a real woman looks like. but real women are in pornography. the real bodies on display are not the issue here: the issue is that other people feel extremely confident when commenting on someone's physique.

2000's super-thin is slowly worming its way back into the public ideal. recently i saw someone get told to "go for a run", despite the fact she was on the thinner side of average. not that it would ever be appropriate to say that: but it's kind of like sticker shock when you see it. people think that is fat? holy shit. do they just have no idea about things?

but what are you going to do about it? that's the problem, right. because chances are - you're a normal person. we can say normalize carrying fat on your body, but we are not the billion-dollar diet industry. we are not the billion-dollar fashion industry. we are just, like. people. who are trying to make content on the internet, without being treated shittily.

as someone who has been on both sides of things: you are treated better when you are thin and pretty. this is statistically correct. i am not saying that you cannot be bullied for being thin; i'm saying there are objective institutional biases against certain bodytypes. there are videos of men and women who lost weight all saying: i now know for a fact exactly how much worse you're treated. in the comments, some asshole inevitably says something akin to you deserved to be dehumanized when you were fat.

which means that ... the easiest thing to do is be pretty and thin. it is the path of least resistance, because of course it is, because any time you post a picture of yourself without a thigh gap, someone immediately comments something like you need to try a diet.

the other half is also dehumanizing though, huh, just in a different way. when i put on makeup and nice clothes, i am told i slept my way to the top as a professional. do you know how many women in STEM have told me they purposefully dress to "unimpress" because they already struggle to be taken seriously and if they're ever considered pretty - it for some reason takes away from their authority.

so they make it seem like it's your fault. you, existing in a body - it's your fault! if you didn't want shitty comments, don't have a body. they position us against each other like chess pieces; vying for male attention we don't even need.

and i can be an authority on this unless you think i'm fat and unattractive. when i am pretty and thin, i'm an activist. when i am just a normal person who makes a good point: i am immediately dismissed. nobody fucking believes you if you're not seen as attractive. you literally lose value. you cease to exist.

but the whole time, it feels like - is anyone actually grounded the fuck in reality? the line of "pretty and thin" keeps shifting. nobody seems to understand what "a normal weight" even looks like, because it's not something that exists - you cannot tell a person's health by looking at their body. even if you think you could tell that, even if you're sure a person is dangerously overweight - people are not your dolls. they do not need to be dressed up or displayed properly to soothe your aesthetics. you aren't concerned for them, you're stealing their agency. you don't get to say if they're "allowed" to take pictures and post them on the internet - you don't get to tell them how to exist.

people hide behind "the obesity epidemic" without any actual qualifications. they crow things about "normalizing unhealthiness".

but it's bullshit. i have visible abs. there is a pair of parallel lines on my body, even when i'm relaxed; where my obliques meet my abdominal wall. i am proud of this because it means i'm strong, because i overcame an eating disorder only to be ripped as fuck. it is genetic and physical luck that i even get any definition, i'm pleased as punch.

but it does mean that my abdominal wall sticks out a little bit. the other day i posted a video of myself dancing, and, for a moment, my shirt slipped. you could see a little bit of my stomach. i was cartwheeling to the floor. moments before this, i'd had my foot over my head.

a guy slid into my DMs. a row of vomiting emojis prefaced: you should really lose some weight before you think about dancing.

i stared at it for a long time. there was a time when i would have been triggered by this, where it would have encouraged me to starve myself. i would have ignored the fact i'm flexible, agile, good at jumping: i would have lost the weight for a stranger's passing comment. i would have found myself and my body fucking disgusting.

and for what? to please what? because why? so that he can exist in this world without an unchallenged eyeball? what would my self-hatred even accomplish? usually i write paragraphs. obviously. on this particular occasion, in this body i've been at war with for ages: i just felt exhausted.

it shouldn't be even worth saying. it shouldn't be hard to explain. all of this emotional turmoil when he cannot even comprehend the most basic truth: i am not an object on display for him.

#spilled ink #writeblr #warm up #like if im getting fatshamed. babe......... wake up #is there fat on my body? yes :)#btw this behavior wouldn't be okay even if I WAS overweight!!! that is my point!!!#it is both that people have no idea what weight is supposed to look like #and even if they DID... they do not seem to understand that PEOPLE ARE NOT DOLLS #YOU DO NOT GET TO TELL THEM HOW TO EXIST #if you respond anything akin to ''but raquel there IS an obesity epidemic''#you're blocked and reported.#go fucking DONATE TO A FOOD BANK THEN. volunteer in a food desert. start a free fitness program #GO GET A DEGREE AS A MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL AND PRACTICE IN NUTRITION IN UNDERPRIVILEDGED LOCATIONS #FIGURE OUT HOW TO LOWER FOOD COSTS. FIGURE OUT HOW TO NORMALIZE AND STANDARDIZE #ACCESS TO FARM-FRESH FOOD. PROVIDE ACTUAL FREE ACCESS TO OUTSIDE ACTIVITIES #FIGURE OUT HOW TO TEACH PEOPLE HEALTHY CHOICE MAKING WHILE ALSO LOWERING THE COST OF MEALS.#THE AVERAGE GROCERY BILL OF THE AMERICAN CITIZEN HAS QUADRUPILED IN THE LAST YEAR.#SHUT. THE FUCK. UP!!!!!!!!!#you don't want to help these people!!!!!#you want to bully them but still feel like a good person!#you want to be justified in your hatred of an entire CLASS of people!!!#you don't give a fuck about how it makes them feel!!!!#you care ONLY about whether or not YOU get to VIRTUE SIGNAL that YOURE so thin and pretty!!!!#it is BECAUSE of people like you #and the fact you tolerate fatphobia - BECAUSE of that normalization. that men like the one who called me fat #feel like they can get away with it.#bc there's a line for you where you WOULD be okay with it. where if i WASNT thin you'd be okay with it.#which means the line can always be pushed in a certain direction. and it's always going to appeal to male aesthetics.#''well you didn't deserve it'' maybe fucking NOBODY does babe. maybe we should just all agree not to comment on ppls bodies!!

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j-liz · 4 months

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Comic + update!

Beckers shame…

Here’s a gender swap comic for all of you!

So a little update, I’m going to be taking some classes this spring for learning purposes, so I’m gonna be spending a lot of time working on them! I will try to post as often as I can, but it will not be as frequent for now. I will try posting regularly on ko fi so my monthly supporters can really get their moneys worth, but I totally understand if some of you would like to withdraw for now! Remember, you are way more important! A full color version of this comic will be purchasable in my store, discounts will be applicable for all monthly supporters! Not all pages are painted exactly the same, as I’m experimenting with coloring styles but I hope it’s ok for y’all! Thanks for reading!

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ratcandy · 4 months

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nobody look at me for a minute

#this is aryl he is my yellow cat . he had exactly two braincells but leshy ate one of them so now there's only one left.#will he survive the winter with nothing happening in that head of his? only time will tell.#also yes arylide is just a shade of yellow SHUT up #i accidentally made him look like a cat i had growing up I cannot handle this. Sighs.#this is just an oc right like that's all that's happening here. this character existed for exactly one (1) official 30 second short #and we're all just collectively making ocs out of him. that's all that's happening here.#anyway.#clamart #cult of the lamb #cotl leshy #cotl yellow cat #<- like this tag is full of different guys. so many different guys.#and i think that's beautiful #leshycat

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likeabxrdinflight · 1 month

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tired of early 20-somethings acting like harry potter was never good or had no value in its day like shut the fuck up half of you weren't even there when it peaked

#sit with the cognitive dissonance like the rest of us or shut up honestly #was it a product of its time yes #was it's author a very basic neoliberal white lady from a country with a long and unchecked imperialist history yes #was the story influenced by said neoliberal worldviews and unexamined biases obviously #does any of that make it a bad story or an unimaginative world no #you can pick apart any fantasy world if you try hard enough #harry potter was a good telling of the hero's journey written in the format of seven mystery novels set against a fantasy backdrop #we can certainly talk about its flaws or how the author's biases leaked onto the page #but stop acting like it was never good and there was never a reason those books resonated with people #it's condescending for one thing and again- if you're younger than like...24-25 you didn't actually experience the heyday of the books #if you're 25 now you'd have been like 8 or 9 when the last book came out and probably weren't reading them yet #you might remember the latter half of the movie era but you have no idea how much it was the BOOKS that drove its popularity #never before and never since has any book series had the fanfare that harry potter did and that didn't happen for no reason #so find a way to make peace with that instead of acting intellectually superior because you grew up with percy jackson instead #this 'well MY generation's preferred childhood book series is morally superior to YOURS so I'm better than you' shit drives me up a wall #like get over yourself honestly #...sorry had to get that off my chest there was this youtube video and it was irritating me

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krash-and-co · 4 months

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tss lockwood I love you so much btw

#hes so fucking funny idc #“did i ever tell you about Harry crisp?”#“yes a MILLION TIMES SHUT THE FUCK UP”#and OFC we can't forget the irish dockworkers and instinctive accents #“lucy i found a death glow. rat sized”#“so perhaps a rat”#“ah probably”#“so. unrelated then?”#“probably”#(after lucy screamed his name like 5 times) did you call? :)#“Lockwood wont notice we broke his gourd.....”#Lockwood‚ immediately after entering his house‚ five seconds before passing out: hey wheres the gourd (still manages to forget chains)#i say tss mainly bc the hope house scenes were so funny to me yeah ik he's like this later in the series too its just #i love them so much #Lockwood and co #tss #the screaming staircase #Anthony Lockwood

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p4nishers · 10 months

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ok but the fact that "aziraphale is softening. they haven't spoken in a hundred years: he's realizing they're still friends" and "there's no need to thank me that's what...friends...are for" was in the same night is making me go INSANE

#we NEED to talk more abt the 1941 ep im so serious im not normal about it like i had such high expectations and it suppressed them all.#am i disappointed there wasn't a rejection scene like i predicted?? yes ofc but also aziraphale said he did the apology dance that year so #i wonder what else could've fucking happened #but anyway. let's focus on what DID happen: aziraphale literally GLOWING with love in the car. crowley telling him to shut up cause of a #compliment. aziraphale helping crowley out and crowley looking at him like 'you'd do that for me?'. crowley not only letting aziraphale #practice magic with him but ACTIVELY playing a character to help him and i mean that scene was literally just crowley flirting with him #crowley indulging aziraphale by going to the magic shop with him and agreeing to participate in his show despite the fact that he NEVER EVEN #SHOT A GUN BEFORE. him just leafing thru the guidebook till he realizes there's a miracle blocker than starting to frantically flip thru it #her hands SHAKING on the gun and them being so afraid of hurting az. 'no paperwork :))' sure my guy that's what u r so happy about ofc #'but do u really think it went well' 'absolutely' with such sincerity. the book description saying smth abt ifa demon were to happen across #aziraphale they should report it immediately to the demon crowley. 'you could've just walked away' 'well you said 'trust me'' 'and you did'#its just. its one of my favorite eps it's so nice #good omens #azicrow #good omens s2 #aziracrow #go s2 spoilers #go s2 #good omens script book #good omens s2 spoilers #aziraphale x crowley

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sophsun1 · 7 months

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#britin #queer as folk #cinematv #filmtvcentral #userthing #smallscreensource #userrlaura #noalook #lgbtedit #mlmsource #usergay #electric chair for michael pls #this kind of thing infuriates me when they invalidate his feelings & throw them back in his face #they spend the entirety of the show telling him what he is & isn't what he should & shouldn't be #when he who is so emotionally repressed actually opens up to them and is vulnerable they're like shut up you don't even mean it!!!!#hello? he has an intense fear of abandonment thanks for feeding into it i guess :/#also god yes pls can the brian/mikey show end #5x09

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crowleys-bentley-and-plants · 24 days

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How it feels everytime i talk about something im passionate about:

I should not have said that time to punish myself for rambling nonsense

#ah what fun it is to want to throw up after you dared to be excited about smt because your whole life you've been told to shut up #im so tired #i have so many things to say you have no idea #but even the thought of telling someone just takes me back to when i wasn't allowed to say these things because no one cared about them #and i just wanna scream ugh #yes i will apologise a thousand times for talking about myself what about it #anyway :)#sorry : )#ramble gamble

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villainsidestep · 26 days

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I am once again begging u to tell us abt ur ocs

#gideon shut the hell up challenge #chewing at the bars of my enclosure bc I just !!! want to talk games and ocs !!!!#yes this is our fhr blog but that’s where u all can see it. they don’t have to be fhr ocs they don’t even have to for ifs just !!! tell us #but also if they Are from ifs 👀 def tell us abt them 👀#in this post in our ask box in our dms idcccc just . we r going insane from lack of socialization (<- our own fault)

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pussymasterdooku · 3 months

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have about 60% of a single functioning hand these days and got tired of humiliating myself trying to open pill bottles when eva’s in the office so she fixed me up good with Easy Open Mini Ricotta Container Filled With Ritalin And Ibuprofen. accessibility win!

#one week until i can finally get another mri and someone can tell me next steps #(six days til the one year anniversary of my initial injury UGH)#my psych fully was like yeah lol so this is dredging up trauma from your uterus huh??? and i’m like. SHUT UPPPPPP #yes. yes it is. the pain never stops i hate being limited and the limbo of ‘yeah lol who KNOWS what’s happening in there’ is. Familiar #have to use a stylus to use my phone now because righty’s so fucked up too #but…soon maybe i will. have an answer lol #it has been so hard guys :( it ok but i loved my five years without chronic pain so much. would love more of them someday #wrist saga tag

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thegreatestheaver · 21 days

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I hate when people ask you something about an interest you have and when you answer they’re like “how do you know?” I’m going to murder you

#not in the curious way I mean the condescending way.#this is specifically about tarantula mating. no my tarantulas cannot mate. no they cant make a hybrid.#do i need to sit you down and tell you about mechanical isolation. they are two different genus'. yes theyre closely related.#no they cannot mate. tehy dont have compatable reproductive organs. do i need to sit you down and explain that or can you shut up when i sa #no they cant breed #like. again i love when ppl ask me stuff about bugs i love to infodump but like.#ok eyah this post is abt someone who keeps asking me this (nbh) and like. hes like why dont you breed your spiders #and im like oh well first of all theyre not mature seconf of all they cant even breed #and hes like oh just have them make a hybrid and im like no they cant breed they cant make a hybrid #AND HES LIKE. oh why dont you try tho like how do you know like what if they make a new species.#im going to kill youand hang you on a fucking meat hook ok ?#like. lIKE. HE DOENST LISTNEN TO ME WHEN I TELL HIM THINGS.'#do ineed to sit you down and tell you that the brachypelma genus' copulatory organs are too small compared to the tliltocatl's #do i need to tell you that the brachypelma genus' spermathica baseplate is much stronger and harder than the tliltocatl's. and therefore-#-the male tliltocatyl could not penetrate it. do i need to explain bug sex to you or are you gonna trust me bro #IKNOW WTA IM TALKIGN ABOUT PELALSSEE #not a big deal just. a major pet peeve of mine\#hollowspeak

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justaz · 28 days

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im TIRED of reading fics with period typical homophobia 😭😭 i caint do it 😭😭😭 just let them be gay in peace 😭

#i swear we need warnings for that shit #im so tired of reading about the prejudice and scorn of two people being happy and in love just bc theyre the same sex #i find really amazing fics and then BOOM #‘[parent] would never allow it’#‘we cant marry’#SHUT UPPPP #SHUT UP #PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF EVERYTHING HOLY #SHUT #UP #whew ok sorry i got a little carried away #this is about merthur btw #but it also applies to everything else #i HATE getting into a really good merthur fic only to see #'oh no :( arthur needs to marry a woman and have heirs :( we can't marry :('#or 'arthur needs to marry a woman to bear children which means merlin will be his consort'#like BOOOOOOOOO #TOMATO TOMATO TOMATO #theres a few ways you can take it #ignore the historical accurate detail of needing to pass on royal blood and have them adopt #genderfluid merlin (my love) who can shift form can BE the woman arthur needs to bear children #or just have a woman be the surrogate #or if you have good/redeemed morgana...give the title of heir to morgana #she's a lesbian but her gf (freya) is trans so boom problem solved #yes i am once again pushing my freygana agenda #you cant do anything about it #also look me in the eye and tell me freya's entire arc wasn't trans coded #thats right. you cant.#bc im right

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rosicheeks · 1 month

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To anyone who messages me - I’m sorry. Im sorry I suck at replying 99% of the time. I’m sorry I don’t have the mental capacity to hold a conversation. I’m sorry if you see me active on here reblogging and answering asks but I still haven’t replied to your message. I’m sorry I want to talk to you but I get overwhelmed by the smallest things.

I really really really hope you never think I’m purposely ignoring you or trying to hurt you in any way. I hope you can understand that I’m truly trying my best.

#there’s a lot going on behind this screen that I haven’t been telling you guys #I’m exhausted and overwhelmed #I’ve been trying SO hard to keep my friendships and reply to people #but when I have a billion other things going on that’s taking all of my time and energy I just can’t #I don’t understand how adults can juggle everything #well wasn’t expecting that anon to hit me like it did but okay #I hope that anon and all of you take care of yourselves #just remember you can only know a small portion of the blogger #yes I’ve been super duper open about a lot of shit #but you guys still don’t *know* me #I don’t even fucking know me if I’m gonna be honest #so how can anyone else know me if I only choose to show a little part of myself on here #idk if any of this is making sense #but I just needed to get it out #I feel like I might know who the anon was and I’m really sad if I hurt them in any way #shut up rosie

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morvantmortuary · 4 months

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my brain as I work on this chapter excerpt of the mortuary to submit for the writing fellowship: they're going to think this is silly and sentimental and overindulgent and unserious and they're going to hate it

me, gritting my teeth and writing anyway: I didn't write this for them, I wrote it for me because I needed it and I'm fucking allowed, and if they don't think queer people imagining how it would feel to be loved and seen as their full, actualized selves is serious enough for their little fellowship, then who gives an entire fuck what they think actually

#'the worst they can do is tell you no' I repeat under my breath whenever my stomach twists in on itself #yes it's kind of scary! yes I'm doing it anyway!!#do I look like a person with anything to lose!! no!!!#fuck respectability I'm throwing this earnest horror-love story at them with my entire chest!!#anyway sorry I just needed to tell that to shut up #and then rarae says

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todayisafridaynight · 2 months

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would it be okay if u told me why u like aoki😭/gen😭😭😭😭BEEN TRYNA LIKE HIM FOR SO LONG I JUST CANTT but i love ur art so much so i still consume it otherwise lol

i liked tohru adachi in high school and tbh i think that alone is enough of an explanation for why i ended up liking aoki

#snap chats #haha see i told you last post's tags were relevant #anyway vLKVJEVLKAEJVLKJ IM CRYING ANON youre so funny. this is the funniest ask i coulda got thank you so much #i dont know why i like him either <- yes i do #fine lets get Real Talk about it #well first off all i thought he looked hot rolling out the elevator and i was playing the eng dub and i think his voice sounds hot there #and thats like. not athing that happens to me ever <- literally thought sawashiro was hot two frames into the game but anyway #i like politician characters. or characters that are in a position of power ESPECIALLY if they have to act like they dont suck balls #like i very much love the idea of the power of charisma and that type of thing not to mention the 'strategizing' as aoki puts it #that comes with politics. LIKE HE SUCKS DONT GET IT TWISTED HE SUCKS BUT //shrug emoji//#like its why i love the mine rggo stories i like seeing mine's thought process and how he uses his intelligence #smart's sexy to me idk what to tell you but moving on #its fun watching him lose his cool too ESP IN HIS FIGHT LMAO HE STOMPIN HIS FOOT LIKE A TODDLER SHUT UP #i also really love the arakawa family in general and thinking of aoki's relationship with each of them makes my brain explode #especially him and sawashiro that shit is painful to watch and i love it so much #i also thought him going from goth to republican was the funniest shit in the world like i howled at that AND i was distraught #aokis so interesting to me from the notion that he IS loved by his family but he has so much hatred for himself it eats him up #and as a result he cant be happy no matter what he does- how hes constantly seeking validation even if it's nothing meaningful #his lil. Dog-Eat-Dog world world belief to ichi also appealed to my edgy depressed high schooler brain. sorry.#his speech at the lockers also got to me. unfortunately. sorry everyone i empathized too hard it got too real it wasnt funny anymore #like as much as i complain bout the very end the ending is what solidified me liking aoki if not also cause of ichi's impact in those scene #plus... analyzing him and the environment around him is so much fun too....#idk reasons for why i like aoki also boil down to personal reasons. he still sucks tho so i cant be upset when people hate him LOL #i probably have more reasons or could elaborate more i love rambling but i mean. who really wants to read all that 💀💀#maybe for a character that WASNT the worst but. aoki is so LMAO #thank you for loving my art regardless :) im sorry i have to be attached to the worst guys ever

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