#I'm ace and the ace flag is nice but I fucking LOVE the trans flag
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#I'm ace and the ace flag is nice but I fucking LOVE the trans flag#it's my ✨aesthetic✨#lgbtq+#pride flag#lgbtq community#lgbtq#queer#poll#my polls#tumblr polls
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My trip to figuring out my sexuality and gender went like:
I GET IT you're gay but we don't have to see it EVERYWHERE
Wtf is trans?? Anyway moving on with my day do whatever you want I don't care
Yeah I only fantasize about girls but meh I'm pretty sure it's nothing
Oh wait this girl that I've known for years is kinda cute
What is even romantic attraction
Lesbian? Hm. No. I still like men.
Bisexual? What's that? (time to learn TOO MANY flags and identities)
Why is every woman suddenly attractive
Oh wait I also like this guy
Hey how do I know im in love with someone
Oh wait I also like this other girl
Hey what the hell is going on
Oh wait I don't like this first girl anymore lol
Wait trans? I can be that?... Uh.. what is a girl again?... How did I get here
Oh wait asexual? I guess, I don't see myself doing that honestly but i think not really ace? I think I can still be uh horny I think?
Oh. Aego... Oh hey that's me. That's cool.
What if boy
Hm. No, not boy
Kinda girl
Nah, not girl
What if sometimes girl
Yeah, nah
What if mostly not girl
Hmm. Nope.
What if mostly girl
You are so fucking far from the answer. No again. You don't even know what a girl is, man
What if all of them
Nope
What if sometimes this or other or other or other or-
Nah
What if none
Meh
What if a third one
Huh. Hmmm... Yeah fuck it no girl and no boy, I'm a non-binary now.
Oh. I don't like my chest anymore. I'm gonna try to bind with multiple bras
My dad is definitely transphobic. He's never shown it or said it but I can feel it
Oh wait I don't like the other girl I just think she's really cool and awesome can you be my older sister please?
The guy is handsome but meh not enough honestly
Oh wait the best friend I had for years and that broke up with me and then we made up is actually really cute
Oh hey look at that confirmation my dad might not love me if I dare suggest I'm not a girl (+already had had a bad day that day. Ended in me holding back tears. Probably cried when he wasn't looking)
Nevermind I don't like her anymore.
Oh wait I do like her
Meh, not so much
Yeah no romance for me yet. I'm gonna meet someone eventually because I do want it
Wait fuck I think I'm a boy
Wait fuck this driver man called me "son" and it felt happy what
Yeah boy
Hm. What if actually tomboy
But kinda boy
Oh hey this new girl in my class is kinda cute too
Not a lesbian but I'd date her
Hmmm. I still think I like guys tho
Oh fuck that dream about the girl was weird what am I even supposed to do about it
You know, if I had the chance to know her better I would
I wanna be a pretty boy
Oop she's beautiful and nice actually
What in the goddamn fuck is going on
When people talked about teen hormones acting weird I DID NOT expect this
Fuck it just give me a lucky wheel and I'll spin it to get my identity and save myself some time
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8, 10, 11, and 15 for the pride asks meme pls 😘
8. describe your gender without using any words traditional related to gender:
the rocketman soundtrack; hobbitcore; foxes; decorative daggers; sunsets; blanket nest; galaxies;
10. something that gives me gender euphoria:
t-shirts with the sleeves cut off
11. favorite piece of LGBT media?
I am 3/3 on just wanting to say Rocketman omg; but also...
books: Winter's Orbit (Everina Maxwell); The Tarot Squence (KD Edwards); White Trash Warlock (David R Slayton); One Last Stop & Red, White, and Royal Blue (Casey McQuiston); Hell Followed With Us (AJ White); everything by Michael G Williams
TV Shows: In the Flesh (BBC); Our Flag Means Death (HBO)
Then Movies: Rocketman (obv), Hearts Beat Loud
15. How has my identity changed over time?
I love looking back on smol me and being like "oh that's a nonbinary kiddo right there" but genuinely would NOT have conceived that for myself back then. Hindsight y'know? Where I grew up, I barely knew homosexual relationships were A Thing; trans people were A Joke (and not a nice one); anything else was like.... not even on the radar. Everyone in my close circle knew I was bi before I admitted it to myself--and I spent about three years going "am I bi?" (to a resounding chorus of YES) before going "oh okay yeah I can't actually keep pretending, I'm definitely bi"
then at 18 was "am I ace because Trauma or am I just ace?" to which my ultimate answer was "who cares why, I'm definitely 1) gray ace, and 2) demisexual as fuck"
the next big one was the polyam one, actually, because it somehow shook everyone more than me being bisexual / pansexual and coudln't be ignored the way me being ace was. (I did settle on pan becuase it's more accurate for the way I experience attraction, but I use them somewhat interchangably)
then you get "I can't be nonbinary bc my best friend is nonbinary and everyone will think I'm copying them" to "okay but I am definitely Not a Girl but I'm Not a Boy except sometimes I am a girl or a boy help" to "maybe I can just keep this buried deep inside myself and never have to acknowledge it" to "i stayed up all night reading destiel trans-designation omegaverse fic and i can't hide who I am anymore"
and now I'm just out here vibing my best queer life as some kind of fluid-af queer mess who wants to shove my neopronouns agenda down everyone's throats and wears a rainbow daddy crop jersey to pride!!
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My school held a small event where they read passages from books aloud and performed a very short play; they also sold hot drinks and baked goods at cheap prices. It was lovely.
My favourite bits were the short play (it was so creative; I wish I had recorded it) and the two people who read Artaud and Proust respectively, plus a novel by an author whose name I can't fucking remember.
One of my favourite parts was also getting to see so many openly queer people: multiple pride bracelets and anklets (I counted an ace one, a nonbinary one, a trans one, and two or three rainbow ones, as well as a mate [as in the little cup where you serve it] painted with the colours of the trans flag), two students being openly sapphic, and a trans woman with a pride tattoo. It felt so nice. It was also kind of shocking because all of my classmates are seemingly cishet, which leads me to conclude studying theatre for more than a year makes you LGBT+. It's nice to have a headstart.
I liked the experience a lot. I'd like to participate in the next one; I've been told I'm good at reading things aloud.
#l33chsp34k#Note to my followers: Support local independent theatre.#Also every day I contemplate purchasing or crafting a stealth accessory with the bi colours. Just for that sense of quiet recognition.
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Happy Late Ace Visibility Day!
Now then...
I had to read one to many comments from people with pride flags for logos yesterday telling Ace and Aro people that they hated them on ACE VISIBILITY DAY despite almost all of them identifying as members of the LGBTQ themselves, so I made this because I'm fucking done being nice about it.
Just let us have her pride day. You know exactly how this shit feels. STOP attacking us. You're not the only ones, but it hurts extra when you do it because we're all supposed to be allies and supporting one another, but some of the worst hate we get is from members of our own connected communities and that sucks because we know you know how it feels and you do it anyway. No one gets a free pass on hate, the lot of people seem to think that they should.
Not to mention the fact that many Ace people aren't even straight, so that "You're just unattractive straight people invading our space" bullshit isn't good cut it. Or that "You're not oppressed like we are" bullshit, either. You are the ones impressing us, assholes. Not to mention all of the therapy and dehumanizing bullshit we've gone through, too. You're not the only ones that's ever happened to. Maybe if you looked into it for 5 seconds instead of constantly hating us you'd know that.
I know this probably stirs the pot, but I don't care. I'm tired of people acting like I don't exist, and only hating me when they do acknowledge that I'm a living person. Stop the hate. I'm sorry if this upsets any other Ace or Aro people (or people like me who are both) but we have just as much of a right to exist and enjoy our pride as anybody else, and I've literally never been able to make a post in my entire life celebrating it without getting some kind of hate and I'm so tired of it.
It's morbidly hilarious that the most hate I've experienced in my entire life has been from other members of the LGBTQ and members of my own nationality in regards to cultural issues that I'm not talking about in this post. I don't think people talk about this enough.
I know I'm a day late, but happy Ace pride. To everybody who is on the spectrum in any way shape or form, and everyone who isn't, I love all of you. Unlike some people apparently. And anyone in need of education about us, here's a recent video from Jaden Animations on the topic (that unsurprisingly was bombarded with hata as well. Who could have guessed that would happen...) Don't go add more hate to it. She's had more than enough of that in the last few days. I've heard she's even had death threats over it.
Also leave trans people alone while you're at it. Leave everybody alone, huh? Don't talk about being mistreated and then mistreat others. It's that simple.
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Hi! I usually go by Jeremy, Berry or Bee on the internet, and I'm trying out she/they pronouns right now so I'd appreciate if you'd respect that! I'm mixed black, hispanic, and white (:
I'm a dirty American, but I spent two years texting almost exclusively British people so I've started using Non-American spelling
I'm neurodivergent, so feel free tell me if something I say offends you. I'll apologize and be on my way. Please be nice about it though )):
I love musical theater and anime, my current obsessions being Danganronpa, Dear Evan Hansen, Be More Chill, and South Park 😛
Danganronpa spoilers on this page!
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Blacklist:
- Trans Chihiro. Don't use she/her (they/them is fine) on my posts and don't, like, actively tag me in trans chihiro stuff, but interacting with my shit is fine (:
- Sanders Sides
- Thomas Sanders (nothing personal against him, he just reminds me of my ex)
- Kitten gender
DNI:
- Prolife
- Proshipper. When I say proshippers I mean shipping inc*st, pedophilia, ect and thinking it's fine because it's fiction. I don't have a strong opinion on aging characters up as long as they were originally around my age.
- LGBT-phobe (including pan, ace, and everything else)
- Racist hoes 💕
- Trump supporters
- People that think you can't be racist to white people/black people can't be racist (I'm literally like a quarter white and have been verbally attacked for it by a 100% black woman, white people do experience racism and I have experienced it lol.)
- Non-poc that use the "inclusive" pride flag (I have a video for you on the topic if you're asking "why")
- Trumpies, full offense (just realized I put this twice, extra DNI babies)
- People that hate men for literally existing or derail male positivity posts to be a hoe
- kitten/cat gender people. No offense, just a bad experience that the pronouns remind me of. Neopronouns welcome here <3
- "I don't let my partner have friends of the opposite sex" fuck you
- People that come to my pinned post to find stuff to shit on me about when they're losing an argument. At least reblog some posts <3
- Headcanons Connor Murphy as gay after reading the DEH novel
- NSFW South Park accounts (they're between eight and ten dude, come on)
- Trans chihiro headcanoner. I'm fucking done with you.
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Before you scroll!!
I see him as a boy. Don't try to change my mind, I'm not going to. I would would appreciate if you didn't use she/her for him on my page, but other pronouns are perfectly fine.
If you call me transphobic for believing he's a cis male, as he is in canon, I'm going to block you. You can't force me to respect your opinion and then refuse to respect mine. I won't try to change your opinion, don't try to change mine.
A lot of my Chihiro posts are months old. I'm much more chill than I was before lol
Banner credit
Pfp and header by @/lalalvlove on Instagram
#use he/him for Chihiro#he's so cool#pretty bitch 🦋#i'm in love#he's a good bean#he's adorable#he's perfect#he's just#he's so precious#love chuhuro 😔#about me ((:#most of my tags are about chi because this post started as a post#i really don't feel like changing them#my tags keep spitting up idk why tumblr is doing that#but the tag at rhe top is what's supposed to be in that blank space
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okay here's the big old pride post with my hcs for all of my active f/os and a couple of others i've got on the brain. under a cut because this is extremely long and it's essentially just me pointing at characters and going "lesbian" and then writing an entire paragraph about why.
dash: trans lesbian <3 you all know this one by now. one of the first characters i just couldn't read as anything Other than a lesbian to the point where i sometimes forget that it's not canon. (i mean there is the thing with applejack but i don't love to read that as canon for. like. jealousy based reasons. i get possessive sometimes it's sucky.) anyway. yeah. wuhluhwuh icon this rainbow horse
della: trans/nb lesbian :) in a reversal of what i'm pretty sure was the deal with most people, it doesn't take della long to figure out what's up with her gender but it takes her a lot longer to realize she likes girls and exclusively girls. after one particularly bad fling she asks me if there's a reason why she just doesn't feel anything for any of the guys she's been with, like is there something wrong with her, and i just go. you know you can...not date guys. and somehow that's when it clicks for her (the bad fling is the bio father of the kids. he's a dick and he sucks and everything i imagine about him is just a fuck you to the people who never shut up about hdl's biological dad. donald's doing great thank you very much)
mera: her aesthetic is the most nonbinary lesbian thing i've ever seen in my life HELLO. she makes one comment insinuating she's physically attracted to indus in ep 1 but that could just be admiration of his buff bod. mera's comphet attraction is overly buff muscleguys who are nice to her and my comphet attraction is tiny gremlin things who are the worst.
glados: say it with me now!! this robot is a lesbian!
pal: we know the drill babey (she's no gender because gendering ai makes you lame)
helen: pre-spiral helen is a cis lesbian. in the spiral she's a l̵̩̹̫̘͉̫̥͂̓̏̅̃͑̃̏̒̏͌̑̽̉̇͜o̷͓͍͓̤͓͚̠̙͠u̶̢͕̠̓̈́͌̓̉͐̋̂̅̃͘͝d̸̡̬̦͎̠͎̪̀̊̓͑̉͠ͅ ̸̨̧͚͋̊̃̂̓̀̕͠ş̷̨͓̲̪̭͙̮̙͉̤͗̈̉̃̿̎̽̅͋͜͝ͅͅt̵̳͉̞͇̺̖̬̪̏̌̽͆̋̑a̴̡̠̭̘̲̬͖͖̤̒͑̏̂̈́̀̏̽̚t̶͖͈͙̼̼̝̮̤̖̂̇͋͐i̴̳̘̙̙̳͔̓̽́̍͌͑̒̿͘̕͝c̸̛̻̫̲̹͔̝͚̹̱͉̦͍̩͍͆̌͋́́̊̏̂̆͜͠͠ ̸̧͇̮͚̲̳̙̹̲̦̱̣̤̬̾ṇ̴̡̫͐̀́̈̒ò̴̳̫̜͑͘i̶̡̛̹̹̖̥͍̦͎͈̬̲̊͒́̈́̊̾̅̚ͅs̷̛͙̞͙̥̗͇̄̇̄͛̏̚͜͠ë̶̢̬̱̬̰͈͖̬̩̱̀͂̒͜͝ lesbian. post-spiral helen can mess around with her gender a little bit because it's all fake anyway. and she still likes women <3
bernie: both bi and lesbian bernie hcs my beloved but here's my in-depth thoughts
trexel: i keep meaning to steal the url "bitrexual" to go with my podcast blog's url which is gayvid7. anyway yeah canon mspec doofus my beloved.
egoist: canon trans babey!!! his sexuality is whatever he feels like at the moment. he'll usually get a big crush on one specific person and agonize about it until either he or they do something about it. or he loses interest. i'm also trying to decide which flags go best with his color scheme because more of these than you'd think have something to do with what color they look best in.
thetis: lesbian lesbian lesbian lesbian lesbian lesbian. idk what thetis' thoughts about marriage in the original greek were but considering madeline miller makes a point of emphasizing her disinterest in it as a character in soa and her disinterest in men as a whole, even when someone as high-level as zeus shows interest in her, i mean. come on, man. in a modern au achilles and thetis go to pride together and he's in a shirt that says "i love my lesbian mom" and she's in a shirt that says "i love my gay son." homophobic thetis truthers have literally not read tsoa correctly and that's not me being petty. that's genuinely not the interpretation you are supposed to take away from the text. i won't start my rant but if you WOULD like to hear me discuss thetis as an antagonist and exactly why she does what she does hit me up anytime, i have literally analyzed this for a grade. this is an area in which am quite knowledgeable.
rudyard: semi-canonically ace and sex-repulsed. absolute king shit of an asexual autistic goth, i love him dearly. he's probably trans. i've read one or two absolute banger wooden overcoats fics where one or both twins are trans and they always come up with the best stuff. you love to see it. his attraction is -terrified hiss-. he doesn't know what a crush is for his first 30 years of life and when he experiences one for the first time he thinks he's dying.
beidou: pingponging between pan and lesbian hcs for her. might settle on her sexuality simply being "be gay, do crime." her gender is pirate.
#can you tell i overthink these?#the distorted bit in helen's blurb says 'loud static noise.'#it doesn't add anything to the post but in case you couldn't read it and wanted to know.#nyx making a post about their female f/os but every time they say lesbian it gets faster.#nyx on comms#hey watch this#dash tag#della tag#mera tag#glados tag#pal tag#helen tag#bernie tag#trex tag#egoist tag#thetis tag#rudy tag#beidou tag
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sorry but I think it's really gross how you think if a woman doesn't wanna have sex with a trans woman she's either ace, a transphobe, or dealing with trauma. fun fact I'm a lesbian and I'm not attracted to dicks if you're a woman with a dick good on you but I don't wanna fuck you because I'm not attracted to you and if you have to convince your partner to have sex with you that's already a giant red flag and is not at all okay like ever
That’s a real nice vulva obsession fetish you have there.
No one said that you have to have sex with a trans woman. No one said that you have to convince your partner to have sex with you. Trust me, we don’t want to have sex with you personally, and find you personally unattractive as a person. We find people like you gross and would rather make memes about your poor hairstyle choices.
Now the lady in question doesn’t want her girlfriend, whom we’ve established she loves and is attracted to (hello they’re dating), to so much as perform cunnilingus. That does not involve a penis and would be objectively the same whether the asker had one or not. You might as well argue that since one is not attracted to pancreases that it’s reasonable to not want to have sex with someone solely because they have one.
Therefore, since no penises are involved and there is mutual attraction, the lack of desire for sex of any kind at all ever is indicative of Ace feelings, transmisogyny, and/or a history of trauma. If she doesn’t want to have sex involving a penis she doesn’t have to. If she doesn’t want to have sex with someone who has a penis, solely because of their penis’ existence, she still doesn’t have to, but is being an asshole.
tl;dr: Literally no one at all thinks that except you and others who parrot terf rhetoric. You think everyone wants to have sex with you and are obsessed with genitals. You should probably seek out therapy.
-*Mod Star*
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