I think it’s really funny the way ppl will say that ppl who confront you about your poor behavior or an issue take it as an attack or it’s immediately ‘noisy’ or ‘aggressive’
There was a post saying that a lot of people conflate discomfort with confrontation and confrontation with abuse.
Someone being rightfully upset about something, and confronting you about it is not an attack. Being dismissive and acting like they are making a big deal out of it is abusive and manipulative.
People have a right to feel and express their emotions. No it shouldn’t be in toxic or abusive ways but them expressing them to you is not either of those things.
Grow up and learn to take accountability. You’re not perfect and you will make mistakes. Own them. Cuz I hate all the fake ass bitches on here that act all mighty and superior like they don’t like drama and yet are the ones who flock to it. Because it’s just code for ‘don’t come to me if you have an issue with me’
That’s really what that means. When ppl on here say I don’t like drama. Ppl walk around eggshells with each other, too scared to tell ppl what they really think and feel because they will be perceived as being too much or making a big deal out of it.
Problems do not go away by ignoring them. They will make themselves one way or another.
Instead of talking we block and give no other explanation and think ‘well I don’t owe anyone anything’ bitch yes the fuck you do.
Cuz you wouldn’t want someone doing that shit to you. Being your friend for weeks and then one thing and then suddenly radio silence and you’re left wondering what the fuck you did cuz ppl on here suck ass at being direct and communicating because uwu my anxiety
Ya’ll do more harm than good even when some are trying to mean well by it.
For the love god for 2024 please do better on the rpc
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