I want to murder the love I feel for the man that cheated on me twice and beat the fuck out of me every day while claiming he loved me more than anything

holy shit, this post just made something click for me.

both will and mike’s arcs have revolved around being separated from each other again and again and again.

every season they’re torn apart in some way, and one of them is desperately trying to get the other back—s1 physically, s2 spiritually, s3 emotionally, and again in s4 by physical distance…

yeah, their arcs are woven together and it went totally over my head. their happy ending is each other. it’s written this way.

cursed genshin au from a month ago! enjoy.

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also regis swearing at stygga is so meaningful to me because he swore over milva’s dead body and also in front of angoulême (and assumedly cahir too)!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

E is all sad bc I didn’t wake her up last night to get stitches when I cut my thumb, I figured showing her “oh it isn’t that bad” and she got more upset, I did decently gash myself lmao

trying to explain I grew up in a “if you wanna complain we can superglue it or cut it off” type house bc of my dad & oh that wasn’t the right answer either lool

i’m not like other girls, my “Rest” stats are a heart rate of 110bpm and a HRV of 14 fucking milliseconds. :)

I wish I had friends near meeeeeee to distract me from my brainnnnnnnnnn

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don’t you just hate it when there’s a post you almost entirely agree with BUT op added a fucking Holocaust comparison and now you’re ignoring the whole post out of Jewish spite for this callous asshole who tried to drive home their point using the attempted genocide of a people for whom the wound keeps getting reopened

Gonna say that I really don’t think shame is actually a very effective activism tool. Which isn’t to say you have to be nice to shitty people or w/e, bc anger has a very very important role in activism and you have a right to be angry. But I don’t think shaming people itself is really “activism.” I don’t think it’s effective and I don’t think it actually helps anyone basically ever. Communicating, calling someone out, those are very important. But shame on its own is just. Not a good emotion to make use of. Shame is so self-focused. When people are ashamed they’re only going to act to alleviate their own discomfort and humiliation. And a lot of the time they just shut down instead. It doesn’t actually push anyone to make long lasting changes in themselves and their communities. It just makes people feel like shit and makes for some really shitty “activists” who don’t have like, any idea of what constructive, restorative, healing activism could look like and only know to tear other people down

i guess like. i mean it’s not even an i guess thing it’s like i know because it’s been studied and talked about including in my own life. but someone close to you experiencing trauma (even if it was like before you were born or if you never witnessed it / weren’t close to it or whatever) is also… hm… traumatic!

Finks abt. Dari violence. As a treat <3

The one day I need silence and relaxation and her dumbass brother has to come home early and start gassing the house with fucking onions

going to admit to bad things

I obviously don't know your communications typically work between you, but possibly let the "daddy" slip out. Maybe in a softer situation, a "thank you daddy" instead of "sir", etc. The reaction should tell you everything you need to know.

hahah you’re kinda onto what my thought has been - doing it in a playful/joking way, so it could be brushed off if needed. but yeah just some form of testing it out like that in a nonpivotal moment would be good. i just always chicken out when the moment arises